成长中的痛苦英语作文20篇

Ive been grown up

When I helped my mom clean the room last night,she smiled and said,"youve grown up."

Ive been grown up,havent I?Its true that I can help my mom.On the one hand,I can get experience for doing housework.On the other hand,my mom can relax.So far,there has been white hair on her head.

Its true that I have become such a person that I do as many as possible to help my mom.

在我成长中，最喜爱的一件事就是唱歌啦！

One of my favorite things about growing up is singing!

从我在妈妈肚子里的时候，我的脑子就发生了变化。事情是这样的：我非常喜欢唱歌，因为我在妈妈肚子里的时候，妈妈天天给我放好听的音乐，这就是我为什么喜爱音乐的原因。就连我奶奶唱歌的时候我也在旁边听，啊！我好喜爱唱歌呀！有一次我非常想报个唱歌班，妈妈答应我了，但是她说：“如果报了唱歌班，你就不能放弃，不然你的理想就永远的毁掉了。”我听了妈妈的话后，我开始努力的学唱歌，现在已经考到8级了，每次下课了以后，我都会跑出去给妈妈唱新学的歌。我的唱歌水平越来越好，我的理想就要实现了，就是长大当个音乐家。

My brain has changed since I was in my mothers belly. The thing is this: I like singing very much, because when I am in my mothers belly, my mother gives me good music every day. Thats why I love music. Even when my grandmother sang, I was listening, too! I love singing! On one occasion, I wanted to report a singing class. My mother promised me, but she said, "if you report a singing class, you cant give up, otherwise your ideal will be ruined forever."." I listened to my mothers words, I began to work hard to learn to sing, and now has been tested to 8, and every time after class, I will run out to mother singing the new song. My singing level is getting better and better, my dream will be realized, that is, when I grow up to be a musician.

我想：人干什么事情都不能放弃，一旦你放弃了，那你想做的事情就彻底毁掉了。如果你永远坚持，就会像我一样美梦成真！

I think: people can do nothing to give up, once you give up, then you want to do things completely ruined. If you persist forever, you will dream like me!

In our growth path, cant be smooth sailing, there will always be some troubles, as if the sky is dark clouds covered, I became enveloped in trouble

Remember when I was 6 years old, I was a carefree kid. Will only eat sleep and sleep after eat, is in addition to eat and sleep. But after I in the primary school, I have never had no trouble, but trouble is getting more

In school, the worry is to test and composition. Every time when I didnt get good grades, I will be unhappy. In the home, the worry is endorsed and assignments. With age growing up, back in the more and more, every time back, the language of words in the book is like moving elf, hovering around me, let me dizzy, homework is needless to say, have no more, more homework is like a mountain, pressed my breath, as if in the books, I cant escape out. But thats not all, every time I test is bad, because this home can I get the mother comfort, can backfire, mother was furious, also give me the sixth grade problem. Oh my god! In that way, I can quickly become a nerd!

In life growing up, there are a lot of joy, nor without trouble, with the passage of time, gradually also let me understand: but you have had a trouble of "attacks" that you are one step closer to success!

在我们成长的道路上，不可能一帆风顺，总会有一些烦恼，就好像天空被乌云罩住，我也被烦恼笼罩住了

记得在我6岁时，我还是一个无忧无虑的小屁孩。只会吃完睡，睡完吃，除了吃就是睡。可是我上了小学之后，我再也没有小时候那样没有烦恼，反而烦恼渐渐变多

在学校，烦恼就是考试和作文。每当我没有得到好成绩时，我就会闷闷不乐。在家里，烦恼就是背书和作业。随着年龄的长大，背的也越来越多，每当背的时候，语文书里的字就像会动的小精灵，在我四周转来转去，让我头晕眼花，作业就不用说了，已经多的不能再多了，作业就像一座山，把我压得喘不过气，好像在书堆里，使我逃不出去。可这还没完，每当我靠试考不好时，我本因为回家可以得到妈妈的安慰，可事与愿违，妈妈却大发雷霆，还把六年级的题给我做。天哪!在这样下去，我简直快变成书呆子了!

在人生成长的过程中，有许多欢乐，但也少不了烦恼，随着时光的流逝，渐渐也让我明白了：但你经历了一次烦恼的“袭击”那你离成功也更近一步!

人生路上，有很多痛苦，很多欢乐，也有很多挫折，是你成长中的最大挫折。路途中，有人被成长打败，有人战胜了成长，有人选择逃避，有人选择勇敢面对。跨过了这条路，你也许会懂的很多，也许什么也不懂。成长是靠你自己去悟的。成长到底多困难呢?

成长路途中遇到的第一个困难就是“友情的背叛”在这个残忍的现实社会中，友情往往有时候会背叛你，在利益面前，在荣耀面前，在友情面前。你的朋友也许会因为一个利益，因为一次夸奖，或一次朋友与朋友之间的问题，与你吵架，拌嘴。所以，如果你被友情背叛了，你应该觉得开心，而不是伤心，痛苦。应为你跨越了人生的第一个阶梯。在友情背叛以后，你也许长大了一岁，成熟稳重了一岁，不会像以前那么幼稚的动不动就哭。

成长路途中第二个阶梯就是：“青春的叛逆，家人的不理解”青春期是每个孩子的叛逆期，几乎一个孩子都会在青春期叛逆一次，年少轻狂一次。青春期的特征就是，以前你因为爸爸妈妈不允许的事，不敢去做的事，不敢想的事，你都会有点想去尝试，尝试之后，你会觉得有一种新鲜的感觉，不理解父母为什么不让做，于是就会和父母疏远很多，与父母吵架。在每次叛逆之后，与父母吵架之后，大哭之后。你可能又会想很多，懂很多，明白自己这样做真的是错的，是叛逆的，因此你不会再去做。所以，在每次大哭之后，你可能又长大了一次，成熟了一岁，不会像叛逆时期的迷失方向，做错误的事。

成长路途上第三个阶梯就是“学习的压力，家人们的期待，同学之间的竞争”在跨入初三时，那你经历了两个阶梯，此时的你应该不会再为小事而伤心，初三了，你将经历人生的另一个阶段、那就是“中考”你最主要的任务就是学习，学习，还是学习。初三，你会感到巨大的学习压力，家人们的期待，同学之间的竞争、你不会想看到家人们对自己满满的期待变成无尽的失望，不会想看到同学嘲笑你成绩比他差的厌恶表情，所以你必须顶着这些压力迎难而上。这时你会因为这些压力的因素而遇到很多困难。这就是人生的第三个阶梯。

人生的三个阶梯，是成长路上必经之路，跨过了，你会有很大的感悟和收获，到以后回想以前的困难阶梯，你会感到很高兴，很欣慰。成长之路必定困难，我们要迎难而上，不要畏难而退，这样你人生才会有意义。

人长大就有痛苦。有一首歌，叫《小小少年》，歌中唱道“随着年龄由小变大，他的烦恼增加了”。不知何时起，我也有了自己的烦恼。有时无需理由，只因烦而烦、恼而恼。

每天放学回到家，迎接我的都是那个熟悉的询问：“作业做完了吗?赶快做作业!”每当听到这些问话，我就心烦意乱，做作业时也不安心了。我多么希望爸爸妈妈不在催我，让我按自己的计划来完成。其实，我知道他们是为我好，可是我不希望自己像大多数的孩子那样在父母的唠叨声中成长。所以，我通常的回答是“沉默是金”，而在我心里沉默不等于默认。

自从上中学那天起，我的成绩就成为家庭永恒的话题。我的成绩是时好时坏，成绩好的时候会得到妈妈的表扬和叮嘱：“不要骄傲，要不然下次肯定考不好。”成绩不好的时候，也会受到妈妈的严厉指责和叮嘱：“下次再考不好，就有你的好看。”成绩到底是什么?是分数还是自我提高?是对别人的超越，还是愈来愈重的压力?也许都是，也许都不是?我不明白，我感觉乏味也感觉困惑。

有时我自己常想，成长到底是什么?成长有时充满苦涩而又令人欣喜，成长有时也掺着几分遗憾，即使这样，成长的魅力依然是不可抗拒。人需要成熟，人也需要成长，这是人类繁衍生息的自然规律。烦恼使我变得善于思考，在烦恼中我一天天长大，我知道烦恼便是成长的催化剂。

其实成长很痛苦

终于听懂了SHE的那首《不想长大》，原来幸福，拥抱也可以是毒药。 ——题记 中考

随着岁月的流逝，当初坚信只要功夫深，铁棒磨成针的人们，也逐渐明白：铁棒能磨成针，而木头只能磨成牙签。材料不同，再努力也没有用。不是么……？

记得，刚入初中的时候，便知道努力不一定成功，但不努力一定不成功。就是因为这样，便用了别人两倍的时间去努力，可是分数却是别人的一半。然后偷偷躲到厕所里，看着眼睛红红的自己。原来，中考是会把人逼疯的……

友谊

郭敬明说，高二的友谊是变得很脆弱。友谊的玻璃瓶被放得很高且布满伤痕，一有风吹草动就遥遥欲坠。

其实我想说初三的友谊又何尝不是。我们也可以为了比别人多做一道题而熬夜苦战，早上看到一双熬红的眼睛时，××会说，昨晚的韩剧真好看。我们笑一笑，彼此心照不宣。我们似乎以为攀到了山顶就可以看透风景，可是看到的却是令一座更高的山峰，人类的欲望是不可小视的。所以，友谊成了绝对的牺牲品。

池塘边的榕树上没了知了，操场边的秋千上落满了灰尘。我们之间的友谊谁也没有质疑，却早已伤痕累累。

青春

青春就是成长的过程。可是青春是什幺？一段轻易许下，也轻易忘记的诺言？一个懒散无事，却澎拜如潮的午后？一杯热气尽散，却依旧令人回味的咖啡？打开记忆的箱子，除了那些模煳的面孔和时光之外，还剩下些什幺？一朵后来遗忘在雨中哭泣的蔷薇？一个故事，你屡次想提起，屡次想忘记。最后只能微笑，“天凉好个秋……”

如果可以

心灵的童真就像水晶球般脆弱，一旦破碎就再也难以恢复。

每每看到《安徒生童话》里故事的幸福结局，便会无限向往，可是长大了，就永远记得《格林童话》里的一段：“国王每天到王后的坟前哀悼、哭泣。冬天到了，坟上铺上了一层白毯子，到了春天，太阳把白毯子扯了下来。国王又娶了新王后”这就是披着童话外衣的生活真相了吧！

看吧，看吧！成长就是这幺残忍，总是让人向往童话再看到现实生活的面目。难怪小四会说现实是梦想的杀手。而对于我，成长便是快乐的葬歌。

如果可以，请让时光可以倒带……

[痛苦与成长作文

记得有一次，爸爸妈妈不在家。我见天色已晚，于是就做起饭来了。

Remember once, mom and dad are not at home. I saw it was getting late, so I started cooking.

可能是上天帮助我，冰箱里正好有我的拿手好戏：西红柿、冬瓜和排骨。我先拿出一把菜刀和几个西红柿。我把西红柿放在切板上，费了“九牛二虎之力”才把这几个西红柿切成大小不等的“西红柿片”。我把这些西红柿放在盘子里，摆成花形，再撒上糖，多像一个小孩子灿烂的笑脸呀！

May God help me, the refrigerator is my masterpiece: tomatoes, melon and pork ribs. First I took out a kitchen knife and some tomatoes. I put the tomato on the cutting board, had a "tremendous effort" to put a few tomatoes into tomato slices of different sizes "". I put these tomatoes on the plate, put them into flower shapes, and then sprinkle them with sugar, just like a little childs bright smile!

接下来是炖冬瓜排骨汤。我把冬瓜切成片，把排骨切成个，就放下锅去炖了，大约过了30分钟，汤炖好了。我尝了一口中，真好喝！真是太棒了！

Followed by stewed winter melon and spareribs soup. I cut the melon into pieces and cut the spareribs into pieces. Then I put the pot down and simmered. It took about 30 minutes for the soup to simmer. I tasted it, it was really good! That was a great.

我把这两道菜放在桌上，静静的等待他们回来。过了10分钟，爸爸妈妈回家了，见了桌上的饭菜，连忙夸我是个好孩子。

I put the two dishes on the table and waited for them to come back. After 10 minutes, my father and mother went home, saw the food on the table and hastened to praise me as a good boy.

这就是发生在我成长中的一件平凡的事，它让我们的自理能力增强了，为父母减轻了许多负担，让他们觉得我长大了。

This is a common thing that happened during my growing up. It strengthened our self-care ability and lightened many burdens for parents, so that they thought I grew up.

Each and every one has his own troubles in the process of growth of I, is no exception.

My troubles and almost everyone. For example: the examination didnt test good and work a lot more like the wuzhishan was too pressure to lift my head... Sometimes I wish I never grow up, just like the wayward Peter pan. In the stream of time, or quietly grew up... Every time I look at wutong leaves pieces, has filled the whole earth. I always think the leaves fell down in a flurry of is to hide a big secret, and I sweep leaves open, see always black asphalt road. Every time the clouds pass by overhead, I always silly looking at the sky, what want to see after the clouds passed. But I know that, behind the clouds is still the sky, the same sky. Interrogation, one of the two is the most profound, I remember the first time I didnt write a composition, I dont know whats going on I just dont like to write a composition, one to write a composition my brain will explode, but cant write, had to save words scraps, the written word. BUT the teacher had to write six hundred words, in my this is a big discount, so we have to start up words, words enough statements not smooth again is flawed. Finally with the help of dad finished, another boy one day to see the time in the past. So I dont want to write so disgusted composition.

The second time I didnt write my homework at home because my parents in the east, "write better." West 1: "word and word alignment" is not willing to write to the school to write, but didnt finish writing by the teacher to the office again, this time I was fired, that is I never stopped writing homework this time.

In the process of growth of the trouble, just a small test of your life, after the small test you will growth step.

每一个人在成长的过程中都有自己的烦恼我也不例外。

我的烦恼和大家的差不多。比如说：考试没考好、作业一箩筐多得都像五指山把我压得抬不起头……有时候真希望自己永远也不要长大，就像那个任性的彼得潘一样。而在时光的洪流中，还是悄悄的渐渐长大……每次看着梧桐树叶一片片掉下来，一直掉满整个大地。我总觉得那些树叶慌慌张张的掉下来是为了遮住一个大秘密，而我扫开落叶，看到的总是黑色的柏油马路。每次云朵路过头顶，我总会傻傻望着天空，想看看云朵走过后露出的是什么。但我知道，云后面还是那个天空，一成不变的天空。审讯，其中有两次是我记得最深刻，第一次我没有写作文，不知道怎么回事我就是不喜欢写作文，一写作文我脑子就要爆炸，可又不能不写，只好搜肠刮肚攒词，词写好了。BUT老师让写六百字，在我这可就是大打折扣了，只好开始凑字，字数够了语句又不通顺了可谓是漏洞百出。最后还是在老爸的帮助下写完了，再一看时间好家伙一天过去了。因此我十分厌恶作文不愿意写。

我第二次不写作业是因为我在家里父母东一句：“字写好点。”西一句：“字和字要对齐”不愿意写就到学校写，可是没写完又被老师拎到办公室，这一次我差一点就被开除了，也就是这一回我再也不敢不写作业了。

在成长的过程中的那些烦恼，只是对你的一生的小考验，过了这些小考验你就会成长一步。

How times flies! Now I am a student in Grade Nine and facing the first turning point in my school life. This title “Growing pains and gains” reminds me of the meaningful school life. The colourful life is full of my happineand sorrows.

In school, I have to take a lot of lessons. Some are interesting while some are boring. But it’s the responsibility of the students to learn them all well. I have to try my best. During my growing time, a lot of trouble worried me. That’s awful and makes me blue.

Although I met with a lot of failure, I still have a lot of gains. I can make a pricelefriendship. I can learn a large number of useful things---to be kind, friendly to others, to be confident and independent and so on.

Whenwe are little, we are eager to grow up, so that we can break free of parentaldiscipline even leave them far. Since we were a little child, we have to begoverned by teachers in school and endure parent’s ramble at home. These are ourgrowing pains. Besides, study, friendship, sometimes campus romance maytrouble us. However, as we grow up, we gradually find that things mentionedabove are not pains at all. There are much more serious things brother us. Forexample, we may be less sensitive to the simple happiness and loss themgradually. It’s hard for us to laugh from our heart. Moreover, we are in theage that we are eager to grow up but afraid to grow up either. The ambivalence afflictsus a lot. However, no matter what happens in our growth, they are parts of ourlives. We must accept them actively and do not let the pains prevent us fromhappiness.

小的时候，我们都渴望长大，以便能脱离父母的管束，甚至离他们远远的。自从孩提起，在学校我们就被老师管着，在家又得忍受父母的絮絮叨叨。这就是我们成长中的烦恼。此外，学习、友情，有时候甚至校园恋情都会来叨扰我们。但是，随着慢慢长大，我们逐渐发现以上这些根本称不上是成长的烦恼，还有很多更烦恼的事让我们纠结不已。例如，我们慢慢地对一些简单的快乐麻木了，于是就失去这些快乐了，我们变得很难发自内心地微笑了。还有，我们正处在渴望长大但又害怕长大的阶段，这种矛盾情绪折磨着我们。但是，不管在成长的过程中遭遇到什么，它们都是我们生活中的一部分，我们要乐观地接受，不让烦恼挤走快乐。

In the process of growing up, we gain knowledge and experience, but seem to lose the innocence of the child, remember, really feel a lot of change, yeah! We grew up.

I remember when I was young, every night my father to tell the story, after listening to good sleep, dad always smile to us, Dads smile is very kind, always feel like father like a mountain, give people a feeling of ease; the hour I of all full of curiosity, always love to ask why, to get the answer after dont stop.

And now? Everything changed, we have a lot of, do not understand what the little girl became a teenage student, never speak about my father, I know after I finish my homework to rest, to meet tomorrows own learning, just getting rich, dont ask why, feel that time flies good quick, is like.

Sometimes I feel very lonely, not like a child without reservation to tell his mothers mind, have their own secrets, to share with the people, willing to secret deeply hidden in my heart; sometimes feel that they are not concerned, no one knows, sad when no one knows comfort.. maybe. Grow really very tired very hard.

On the way to grow up is often lonely, learn to cheer yourself when nobody cheers. Dont be afraid, dont worry, bravely and frankly face all the things that grow up, give yourself encouragement, give yourself faith, give yourself happiness. In the journey of growth, what we need is a calm experience, a calm perception, and a brave face.

Growth has also made us learn a lot, learned to shoulder responsibility with their own immature shoulders, learned how to behave, learned to face their own.

Growth records the pain, but also engraved joy, along the footsteps of growth, step by step, we go to maturity, into the future.

In the matter of courage we all have our limits. There never was a hero who did not have his bounds. I suppose it may be said of Nelson and all the others whose courage has been advertised that there came times in their lives when their bravery knew it had come to its limit.

I have found mine a good many times. Sometimes this was expected--often it was unexpected. I know a man who is not afraid to sleep with a rattle-snake, but you could not get him to sleep with a safety-razor.

I never had the courage to talk across a long, narrow room. I should be at the end of the room facing all the audience. If I attempt to talk across a room I find myself turning this way and that, and thus at alternate periods I have part of the audience behind me. You ought never to have any part of the audience behind you; you never can tell what they are going to do.

Every man, and he will meet many troubles in the process of growth. For example: there are some people in the rush you all day you feel he is too tired, sometimes what the heart is too stuffy feel tired, you wont do bad, i.e., but someone always ask and tell you... This is just like "the little boy" this song.

And my troubles clearly this is what I can do, but someone always ask me, tell me, I feel too tired, she is too nagging.

In this summer, my mother has been asking me, tell me, I think she nagging.

That day, mom and dad they have go out to work, I was the only one in the home, I eat breakfast, homework downstairs, the telephone suddenly rang "keeps keeps......" I ran to answer the phone, I didnt think from the mother, she asked, where you are, in the upstairs? The door is there; If in the down stairs, remember upstairs when closed the door, or the thief would come in... I only answered a hang your phone, my mother is very nagging! Noon, after I had finished eating, the mother again to phone asked: "are you eating dinner now? The gas has not related, if not will shut gas poisoning or fire explosion, do upstairs to open the window to let the air circulation!" "I understand!" I answered. And give hung up the phone. ......

Mother I know this is you care about me, afraid I was hurt, but I have grown up, it became my worries!

每一个人，他在成长的过程中都会遇到许多的烦恼。比如说：有一些人在整天催你你感到他实在是太烦了，有时候心里太闷了什么世都觉得很烦、明明是你不会做坏，却有人一直问你、告诉你……这个正好跟《小小少年》这一首歌唱的一样。

而我的烦恼明明这一事是我可以做好的，但是却有人一直问我、告诉我、我觉得太烦了，她太唠叨了。

就在这一个夏天里，我的妈妈就一直问我，告诉我，我觉得她号唠叨。

那一天，爸爸和妈妈他们已经出去上班了，家里只有我一个人，我吃完早饭，正在楼下写作业的时候，电话铃声突然响了“丁零零……丁零零……”我赶紧跑过去接电话，没想到世妈妈打来的，她问，你在哪里，在楼上吗?那门有没有关;如果在楼下的话，记住上楼时把门关了，不然小偷会进来的……我只回答了一声就把电话挂了，我的妈妈好唠叨啊!中午了，我吃完饭后，妈妈又来电话了问：“你现在吃完饭了吗?煤气有没有关，如果没关会煤气中毒或遇到火爆炸的，做楼上要打开窗户让空气流通!”“我明白了!”我回答。又把电话给挂了。……

妈妈我知道你这是关心我，怕我受伤，可是我已经长大了，这成了我的烦恼!

In the growth, there are always some lingering worries. As the ancients said: "people have sensitized, yuan, there are rain or shine." Why do peoples lifetime will not be smooth? I am no exception! Growth has given me endless happiness, but also bring many troubles to me from time to time: for growth, I with the feelings of a kind of desire, but somewhat bored.

The first: much homework. Though the teacher is decorated very little, but mother is three times of assignment, let me test the mountain every day. Go home at night, the first thing is to do my homework, then chew my everybody.

The second: less time. Can also play at school, at home, in addition to eat, when they dont have time to play the other time was spent on learning.

Third: friends less. Grow up, boys play with boys, girls like girls to play, if the boy and the girl talk, everyone else will be so good friends less, "enemy" had more.

Fourth: the demand is high. When I was a child, live carefree, free. Now, as the fifth grade students I have grown up, not as a child, do things to be careful, focused, after all, I have grown up. The carefree days are far...

Growth, although gave me a lot of trouble, but also bring me much happiness. At the same time, also because of the growing pains, I know a lot of, also aware of the many, many... Happiness and troubles can be compared them into a piece of a piece of paving stone, they are connect the leak, the road to success!

在成长中，总有些挥之不去的烦恼。就如古人说的：“人有悲欢离合，月有阴晴圆缺。”人的一辈子为什么不会一帆风顺呢?我也不例外啊!成长给了我无穷的快乐，但也不时给我带来不少的烦恼：对于成长，我带着一种渴望的心情，但又有些厌烦。

第一：作业多了。虽然老师布置得很少，但妈妈却布置了3倍的作业，让我每天都啃书山。晚上回家，第一件事是做作业，接着就是啃我的书山了。

第二：时间少了。在学校里还可以玩，到了家，除了吃饭时就没时间玩了，其他时间都花在学习上。

第三：朋友少了。长大了，男生跟男生玩，女生就跟女生玩，要是男生跟女生玩就会被人议论，所以好朋友少了，“仇人”却多了。

第四：要求高了。当我还是小孩时，生活得无忧无虑，自由自在的。可现在，身为小学五年级学生的我已经长大了，不在是小孩了，做起事来要小心翼翼，思前想后，毕竟我已经长大了。无忧无虑的日子已经远了……

成长，虽然给了我不少烦恼，但也为我带来了不少快乐。同时，也因为这些成长的烦恼，令我懂得了许多，也意识到了许多许多……快乐与烦恼就可以把它们比喻成一块一块的铺路石，它们毫无漏缝的连接着，通向成功的路!

人的一生或苦，或甜，或幸福美满，或痛苦万分。

在我的记忆里，我的母亲不像别的母亲一样慈祥、关心子女，反之她是那样的狠心，那样不爱护儿女！我从小就在想是不是我拿了奖状，妈妈就可以回来了?于是我就加倍努力，终于在三年级时我拿到了一张金灿灿的奖状，我立刻飞奔回到家把奖状给爸爸看，爸爸看到奖状，激动地抢过去看了又看。我也不管奖状了，一下子冲了进去，在四处寻找着什么，可是她不在！爸爸也是一头雾水，便说:“儿子在找什么呢？爸爸帮你找”。我天真而又不假思索地说:“找妈妈，妈妈在哪？是不是在和我捉迷藏？快叫她出来吧。”爸爸先是一怔，之后眼睛里泛出了泪花，他哽咽着说:“你妈不会回来的，不要再想她了。”随后找出了一条信息和一张照片给我看，那是妈妈留下的话，她在短信里说明了将永不回来！我顿时失声痛哭。爸爸意味深长地说:“来吧，小男子汉从现在开始做！”说完把照片和信息全都删除了。

苦难有时也是人生的老师。虽然现在想起妈妈，我仍然觉得是痛苦，但是我相信冬天来了，春天就不远了！

Everyone has his own growth process, in the growth has its own happiness and worry, I also not an exception. I still cannot forget the thing that makes me feel wronged, and the confused one thing.

The day with my classmates play of happy, then can be described as a "she" my bosom friend coming to me, but before I speak, she pointed to the end of my nose, angrily asked: "Lv Ning, you true not enough friends, unexpectedly speak ill of me in front of classmates." I opened the mouth, out of surprise, asked: "when I said you ill? You dont framed guy." She saw someone looked up, then more say more powerfully, its like a crazy lion roared: "you dont justify again, this time I can see your face, Im through with you!" No matter how I explained at that time, she would not listen to. From then on, no matter what I do, she is pointing at the back, said somewhat ironic. And I will always be in silently endured, mind is always thinking, even dream in thinking about this question: why? Why......

Slowly I began to some overwhelming the gossip, worry and to reinforce, my heart has been asked her, did you remember I said that sentence: a friend not to send flowers when you successfully the one who is, but let you climb up. Friends should be frank, you can only make we hurt each other.

Friends, dont let trouble around us, we should be full of the growth of happiness!

每个人都有自己的成长过程，在成长中都有自己的快乐与烦恼，我也并不例外。我至今忘不了那件令我感到委屈和烦恼的一件事。

那天我正和同学玩的高兴呢，这时可以说是我的知心朋友的“她”向我走来，还没等我开口，她就指着我的鼻尖，气势汹汹地问道：“吕宁，你真不够朋友，竟在同学面前说我的坏话。”我张大了嘴巴，露出了惊诧的样子，问道：“我什么时候说过你的坏话了?你不要诬陷好人。”她见有人围观上来，便越说越起劲，简直像一头发疯的狮子吼道：“你不要再狡辩了，我这回可看清你的真面目了，我要跟你绝交!”当时无论我如何解释，她都不听。从此以后，不管我做什么，她都在背后指指点点，说风凉话。而我始终是在默默的忍受着，头脑始终在思考，就连做梦也在琢磨这个问题：为什么?为什么······

慢慢地我开始有些承受不住那些闲言碎语，烦恼接应而至，我的心里一直问她，你可曾记得我说过的那句话：朋友不是在你成功时送鲜花的那一位，而是让你不断攀登的基石。朋友应该开诚布公，可你这么做只能让我们彼此受到伤害。

朋友，不要让烦恼围绕在我们的身边，我们的成长应该充满着快乐!

Last week, our teacher gave us a task. We needed to interview some people

and collect different opinions. At first, I felt it a difficult task, because I

was such a shy person that I dared not to talk to strangers. In order to finish

the task, I cooperated with my classmates. They helped me to ask people for a

second, then I started to talk with them in a comfortable way. I felt much eased

soon and no longer felt shy. Now I get over my fear and become stronger. This is

the good sign of growing up. I am so thankful to my classmates. Without their

help, I wont go that far.

Now, because I grew up, is becoming an adult, so, in the eyes of parents, is no longer a kid, I have become conscious, have the courage, there is knowledge. Sometimes, they east 1 "you have grown up!" West 1 "you are no longer a child!" Listen to my head ache. Now I no matter what happens, I want to recognize good "compass", first is must have a principle, cannot careless, also cannot careless, if to juggle, provokes a blizzard at any time.

Recall myself when I was a child, life is so easy, carefree, free, side no trouble at all. But as the years went by, in front of the waves is bigger, the surface is more twists and turns, I became a pupil, former days that I have already gone. I am tall, to go to school after a long time, homework increases, the subjects of study, I the double shoulder heavier schoolbag, heart pressure is getting worse. If I was a child, no matter I do anything wrong, no one will blame me, plus there are parents for me when the "wizard". But now, I grow up, sensible, to adapt to the independent, all things to be careful, look before you leap. This compared with the laid-back days as a child also pulled open the distance gradually.

When I was a child, as a child I, although the life will be more comfortable, but I was all the elders and the constraints of others, when you walk, the parents have mixed; Fell and the parents have to hold the. But I know that, after their grow up, I became an adult, is different from when I was a child. Like now of I, is growing up gradually, I have been to all the mind of your own.

现在，因为我长大了，正在变成大人，所以在家长眼中，我已不再是小孩了，已变得有意识，有胆量，有知识了。有时，他们东一句“你已经长大了!”西一句“你不再是小孩了!” 听得我头都疼了。现在的我无论做什么事，自己都要先认好“罗盘针”，都必须要有原则在身，不能马虎完成，也不能粗心对待，如果稍有差池，随时都会招来暴风雪。

回想起自己小的时候，生活是多么轻松，无忧无虑，自由自在，身边根本就没什么烦恼。但是随着岁月的流逝，前方的海浪也更大了，海面也更波折了，我成为一个小学生了，往日那个我已经荡然无存了。我个子高了，上学时间长了，回家作业增了，学习科目多了，我的双肩背起了更重的书包，心中的压力也不断加重。如果是小时候，我无论做错什么事，没有人会来责怪我，再加上还有父母为我当“向导”。可现在的我，长大了，懂事了，要适应独立了，凡是做事都要小心翼翼，三思而后行。这与小时候那悠闲自在的日子相比也渐渐地拉开了距离。

小时候，身为小孩子的我，虽然生活地会自在些，可是我却处处受着长辈与他人的约束，走路时，有父母掺着;摔倒了，有父母扶着。但是我知道，在自己长大了后，我就变成大人了，与小时候不同了。就好比现在的我一样，正在渐渐地成长着，我对凡事都已经有了自己的主见。

从进入生命阶段的那一刻起，就理解了"痛苦"这两个汉字的意义。

小时候，在婴儿时期的我，那时我最痛苦的应该是小肚子饿了却没吃的，吃了也不能吃多少(听妈妈说，那时我的嘴很小，喂我东西都是用的小铁勺)，因此吃东西应该会很慢吧！

到了幼儿园，我最大的痛苦应该是每天中午要住在幼儿园里，不能回家吃饭，看动画片，不能回家对爸爸妈妈撒撒娇，似乎每天都会有些胆怯和不好意思的呆在幼儿园里。

到了上小学的时候，由于考虑到我的身体状况吧我带到了四川，因此我又和爸爸妈妈分隔两地，并且他们很少来看我，虽然我也知道他们工作很忙，但是那时我最大的痛苦就是不能和父母在一起，即使那时我们之间的感情有些生疏了，但我仍希望他们和我在一起。

到了初中的时候，我又转学回来，由于之前上的小学学习质量加上老师讲课不认真，因此我又落下了不少课程。因而上初中时，初一、初二即最大痛苦莫不超过其二字"学习"，我不是不认真学习，也不是上课不认真听讲，只是"英语"从小基础没打好，因此学习起来也挺困难，有时候真的好累，我甚至曾幻想着一切从头来过，世界恢复为零吧！但是这个幻想几乎为零。每当考完一次试，老师总会说，不管这次考试成绩如何，进步了的继续努力，退步了的一切从头来过，可是我每次都会想，从头来过怎么可能，前面知识落掉一些后面内容就不一定跟上，难道不是吗？有时候我认为这只是简单的安慰或鼓励罢了。到了初三的时候，痛苦一个接着一个来，所给的痛苦不再是“学习”二字了，面对的还有作业多、学习累、压力大，有些当天听懂了，过几天又忘了，似乎大脑容量盘存储量不高，不知道是几G的，于是我把较难的题一听而过，其一是不一定考，其二是考了不一定全会，听个大概，把容量分点给基础拿分的，可是百天誓师大会过后，我觉得我的学习劲似乎没有什么增加的，只是觉得压力增加变大，包裹里的东西变重了，成了拖累。在家里，父母不是天天当面唠叨就是打电话唠叨，在学校，每节课总会有点政治、教育课的风味，终于，中考将至了，当知道考上时，忐忑的心渐渐平静了下来。

到了高中，面对着曾经路过这栋建筑物时对它的向往，面对着一切的陌生气息和背影又略微有些恐惧感，我不知道这究竟是个怎样的学校，却又带着一点好奇心。在这里待了几个月了，我觉得我在目前的班级还可以吧！周围的战友给我的感触都大大不同，并且我也结交了一些新朋友，我感到很开心，但在此时我最大的痛苦仍是学习，虽然学习是一种享受，学习是一种乐趣，但是我觉得快乐的学习才是真正的学习，痛苦的学习也许是因为一定的压力和一些压迫感而产生的，但是我认为这种痛苦却是必经之路。

每个人在成长时都会有着痛苦，但痛苦往往也是必经之路，如果世界上只有欢笑和喜悦，没有伤心和悲痛，那人生就不会丰富多彩，而会变成单一乏味的、毫无乐趣的人生。

在痛苦中成长过后的你会变得更加坚强，让暴风雨来得更猛烈些吧！暴风雨之后的你会如彩虹一般绚丽多彩......

Since I went to middle school, I grew up very fast. On the one hand, I live

in school from Monday to Friday, so I need to learn to get along with roommates.

We share the cleaning work to make sure a good environment. It is everybodys

duty to sweep the floor on turn. On the other hand, I need to solve the problems

from life by myself. Without parents by my side all the time, I learn to face

troubles and figure out all the ways to solve them. I become much independent

and stronger. Now I can deal with my stuff alone.

成长本来就是艰难的，每走一步都需要克服重重困难，痛苦始终伴随。但只有经历过痛苦的人，才能真正的成长、成熟起来。这包括了能力的成长、心理的成长。想想也是，如果没历经九九八十一难，唐僧是取不到真经的，即便能拿到真经，也是读不懂的。

人生本来就是快乐与痛苦交织的，痛苦让人成长。当我们认识到这点时，再面对很多问题与困难就会有更坦然的心态，而不是埋怨、逃避与指责。所以重要的不是问题、痛苦的有无是关键，而是我们如何来面对痛苦?

当我们面对痛苦和困难时，往往不同的人有不同的选择，有些人选择逃避，也有些人选择迎难而上。不同的选择往往有不同的人生结局，但成功永远属于那些迎难而上的人，正是他们在不断的面对问题，迎接挑战中真正的成长起来了。所有的痛苦都是打破我们，开启生命潜能的钥匙，是我们成长的推手。而哪些选择逃避的人，往往路子越走越窄，并且逐步嵌入了心理疾病的漩涡，不能自拔。因此，逃避问题与痛苦是一切心理疾病的根源。

同时，在面对问题与困难的时候，我们要学会区分，哪些责任是自己的，哪些不是。善于将责任推给他人的人，会更容易得人格失调症;另外一些人会将责任都揽在自己身上，那么他就会得神经官能症。这都是两个极端，其实如何利用痛苦，在痛苦中收获到自己成长的助力是我们最终要寻找的解决问题的方法。

当我们能够从容的接受人生本来就是艰难重重的实事，当我们认同痛苦让我们更成长的真理，当我们勇敢迎难而上，用智慧与力量去不断前进时，我们就能活出真正精彩、有意义而丰满的人生。