我的自我介绍英文作文【优秀20篇】

One Sunday, while I was still in my sweet sleep, I was awakened by my mothers cry.

I stretched out and said, "its still early. Let me sleep a little longer.". "Mother said," there is a big dog outside. Its owner is feeding him. "I looked out of the window." Wow! A big dog ah, there are many children around watching, I came down into it, to see white hair, a long mouth, is almost as tall as me, my heart was curious and scared, it was just to buy a pet dog, get up in the morning and make it a breath of fresh air in the call outside.

Now many families have pet dogs. They listen to people very much, and I like them very much.

Beautiful, kind and tasteful sister _X:

With incomparable excitement and excitement, I bring up my pen to tell you

my hearts gratitude to you: it is your smile that has infected my love for life

and made me firmly determined to choose the beauty industry; it is your words

that awaken my understanding of life and make me understand the love of work,

dedication and hard work; It is your help that makes me feel that I am a person

worthy of trust Thank you so much, I dont know where to start. I think of a

good metaphor. You are really the "light bulb in the dark, bread in hunger, ice

cream in summer and cotton padded jacket in winter" in my life. Although its

funny, I still think its very appropriate. If you dont have you, I wont have

my present life. I thank you from the bottom of my heart!

I sincerely thank you - my good sister _X, of course, I still have a lot

of shortcomings, but also need your care and help; If you are not satisfied with

my service, please tell me and my leaders to help me correct my mistakes in time

and help me move from green to mature! If you are satisfied with my service,

please tell your intimate friends to come and enjoy my most intimate and

professional service. I will use enthusiasm, wisdom and diligence to exchange

for the beauty and health of you and your friends in your life! Sincerely look

forward to your presence and your friends! Thank you again, my sister _X!

关于考试作弊的(About cheating in exams)－共三篇

第一篇：

It is known to us that some students cheat in the examinations at school.

Why do students cheat? For most of the time, students cheat because the exams are too hard for them. It’s easy to see that they haven’t studied hard enough to pass the exams. Others may want to get a higher mark by all means--frankly speaking, they want to be praised or even admired.

As a result, exams certainly become unfair for non-cheating students. And soon the majority of the students will learn and choose to cheat in exams so as to “follow the style.”

Therefore, we must take measures now. First, students need an honest study environment, and second, they should be told to pay more attention to the discipline and seriously obey it all the time.

In a word, students can not cheat on any account.

[关于考试作弊的作文英文

I have a round face egg, a pair of flexible eyes, long black hair, small mouth, long eyelashes. Height is not high, not short, this is also of medium height.

I am an optimistic child, the bad mood, through their own adjustment, will be much better, good mood will come to me, even if the parents criticized me, I am optimistic. I will seriously think about whether I have done something wrong, because my grades have fallen, so my parents criticized me. Then I must take every exam seriously. Did something wrong, criticized by family or teacher, said I have what is not good, to correct. Im going to accept it and do better. Know yourself, comfort yourself, and be optimistic about everything.

Sometimes, I got good grades in exams, and I would happily tell them to my parents. Sometimes, grades, test error more, I will face to happy, the next test on the line a little better. Once, after the three unit, the teacher said something easier, the teacher would say, "who is wrong, stand up."." I stood up with the other students, and at that time I felt that all eyes were focused on me. Although I am optimistic, but people always have unhappy time. I stood there, with my head down, not daring to lift. I was nervous, for fear that the teacher would criticize me. Standing for a moment, the teacher told us to sit down, so I couldnt lift my spirits in the whole class. I was in a terrible mood. Good mood soon came to my side, the bell rang, the eye exercises, exercises when I thought I was wrong, I was wrong, in fact, if I had been more careful if not wrong, next time I will correct the error, to prove to the teacher. Think, think, feel a lot better, after class, and I happily play with the students up.

I like to be friends with others, and I also make friends easily. If someone or I cant be a friend because of a little trifle, and destroy the friendship of a friend, then dont be a friend. In less than a day, we were reconciled for something. To be friends is to keep each other in trust, and that friendship will last forever.

I am very optimistic, not a teacher criticized a sentence, not happy all day. Even if Im unhappy, its mostly a class. Optimistic people are always happy.

Hong Kong is one of the two special administrative regions (SARs) of the Peoples Republic of China, along with Macau. Comprising more than 260 islands, the territory is located on the eastern side of the Pearl River Delta, bordering Guangdong province in the north and facing the South China Sea in the east, west and south.

Hong Kong was a Crown colony of the United Kingdom from 1842 until the transfer of sovereignty to the Peoples Republic of China in 1997. The Sino-British Joint Declaration and the Basic Law of Hong Kong stipulate that Hong Kong will operate with a high degree of autonomy until at least 2047, fifty years after the transfer. Under the policy of "one country, two systems", the Central Peoples Government is responsible for the territorys defence and foreign affairs, while Hong Kong maintains its own legal system, police force, monetary system, customs policy, immigration policy, and delegates to international organizations and events.

Hong Kong is frequently described as a city where East meets West, a meeting reflected in its economic infrastructure, education, legal system and street culture. On one street corner, there may be traditional Chinese shops selling Chinese herbal medicine, Buddhist paraphernalia or bowls of synthetic shark fin soup. But around the next, one may find theatres showing the latest Hollywood blockbuster, a British-style pub, a Catholic Church or Ronald McDonald inviting passer-bys to a Big Mac. The territorys official language is Chinese and English; signs in both languages are omnipresent throughout Hong Kong. The government, police and most workplaces and stores conduct business bilingually. British rule may have ended a decade ago but Western culture is deeply ingrained in Hong Kong and coexists seamlessly with traditional philosophy and practices of the Orient.

Hong Kong has an active nightlife centred on two major entertainment districts, Lan Kwai Fong (Central) and Wan Chai. Both areas are frequented by expatriates and locals alike. For a more quiet evening, a trip to Victoria Peak offers a spectacular view of the city. There is also a promenade along the Tsim Sha Tsui waterfront, which is popular among young Chinese couples. Shopping, a form of entertainment for the people of Hong Kong, is even done at nighttime as evident in the Temple Street Night Market where one can also catch free performances of Peking opera.

The citys cosmopolitan flavour can also be seen in the wide variety of cuisines available. While different varieties of Chinese selections, especially seafood, are most popular, there are also many European, American, Japanese, Korean, and other restaurants. Ethnic dishes served in cha chaan teng and dai pai dong are also popular. The people of Hong Kong take their food seriously and many top chefs make their way to the city to show off their talents to these discerning diners.

While Hong Kong is a global centre of trade, perhaps the citys most famous export is its entertainment industry, particularly in the martial arts genre. Several top-notch Hollywood performers originate from Hong Kong cinema -- Bruce Lee, Chow Yun-Fat, Jackie Chan, Michelle Yeoh, Jet Li and Leslie Cheung, to name a few. Behind the camera, Hong Kong filmmakers have also struck fortune in Hollywood such as John Woo, Wong Kar-wai, Tsui Hark and martial arts choreographers who have designed fight scenes in the Matrix trilogy, Kill Bill and Crouching Tiger, Hidden Dragon. Back in Hong Kong, several homegrown films have also gained international recognition such as Chungking Express, Infernal Affairs, Shaolin Soccer, Rumble in the Bronx and In the Mood for Love. Acclaimed filmmaker Quentin Tarantino has said hes strongly influenced by Hong Kong action cinema.

The Hong Kong government also supports cultural institutions such as the Hong Kong Heritage Museum, Hong Kong Museum of Art, the Hong Kong Academy for Performing Arts and the Hong Kong Philharmonic Orchestra. Furthermore, the governments Leisure and Cultural Services Department also subsidizes and sponsors the bringing of international performers to Hong Kong.

There has been a long time since I came back from Hainan―wowhainan is such a wonderful place that I will never forget it .It‘s really a good place where gave me a rather good impression. I feel so wonderful during the journey as I have experienced a lot of things for the first time.

In January 7th ---the first day of my journey the fluttering snowflakes diffused over Changzhou. I first took the train to shanghai then took the plane to Hainan in Pudong airport. Although it’s my second time to take plane I felt even more excited than the first time. When flying I found that I was flying over the cloud of different types and colors. The sky is also brighter and clearer than that I had ever seen. Soon we arrived in Meilan airport in Haikou the climate is totally different from that in Changzhou It was warm there and we could see coconut trees everywhere.

After 3 days competition I went to BoAo where is famous for its forum. It was my first time to experience the sea and the beach in the sunshine. When sitting on the cruise I could clearly see the ocean waves pushing the windows of the cruise. It seemed that I was surrounded by the waves and the crystal water. I felt as if a fish which had been living in the sea happily. Then we land on the beach. The sand on the beach was so soft that it was cosy to lie on the beach. I tried searching for the shells on the beach but failed. The beach was totally different from what I heard before as there was nothing except footsteps on the beach. In the afternoon I played football on beach and scored a goal with my new friends from all around China. It was really interesting and challenging.

The next day I went to Haikou. I first visited the tomb of Hairui an officer in Qing dynasty who was famous for rectitude. I think he should be the role model of every person. In the afternoon I went to the geological park of volcano. A lot of stones of different shapes came into views. When arriving the top of the park it seemed that the while city was under my view. Also I had seen plenty of interesting and rare types of the plants. I also got into a small hole in the park it is said that the hold was exactly the original hole where maqma came from. But the volcano had stopped from erupting for thousands of years.

I can’t forget this trip not only does it give me a lot of joy knowledge and good memory but also it give me a chance to make friends with people from different fart in China. By enjoying the excellent scenery I think I have fallen in love with this beautiful city. I will cherish this experience.

I have a warm family. There are three people in our family, they are myparents and me My family name is Zhu, my first name is huajun , They love me very much,They . I am a Xing hua Middle school student, My academic record is average.

I have an attractive room, although it is very young, but I very much like it, My computer is on the dask, The skirt, shirt, jeans and coat is in the garderobe, The English book,math book, story book and chinese book is in the bookcase.

I love my family.

篇一：英语环保作文500字

With the improvement of our living standard, more and more people can afford a car. As a result, our roads are more often than not crammed with cars. However, with more and more waste gas being discharged by the cars, the problem of air pollution becomes even more serious. So nowadays we advocate to lead a low-carbon life. My suggestion is we should ride bikes more often instead of driving cars.By riding a bike, we can not only exercise our body but also protect our environment. Why not have a try, my dear friends?

Now, our side of the car constant more up, the environment also increasingly worse! That the air around us there are many harmful substances. Therefore, we want to Sue around things start to do. For example, we can go to school by bike or walk, it can exercise. If you have time can use less elevator, many climb stairs. We can not only physical exercise, but also to protect our environment.

篇二：英语环保作文500字

In order to support Beijing to hold the 2008 Olympic Games and protect our environment, an activity was organized by the Young League and Students Union of our school during the week from June 3rd to June 8th. All the students in the senior grades took active part in it. Some students cleaned the playground,  watered the young trees andflowers, and removed weeds. Some students collected waste paper, old books, empty cans and old toys. They had them sorted and sent them to the recycling center.The activity is really instructive. Now we all have realized how important protecting the environment is.

Dear Michael,

You want to know the changes about my hometown. You know, great changes

have taken place since 60 years ago.

In the past, the living conditions were very poor. There were not many

buses or cars, and the roads were narrow. Usually, a big family was crowded into

a small, dark house. Most families couldn’t get enough food. The communications

were simple and slow. People kept in touch with their friends and relatives far

away mainly by letter or telegram.

Thanks to the government, our hometown has developed rapidly in recent

years. The living conditions are much better and more comfortable. The roads are

wide. Some people have their own cars. Most of the people live in big new

houses. Quite a few adults have mobile phones. I think our lives will become

better and better because of many good policies.

Sincerely

Kang Min

见到你的那一瞬间，我就爱上你了。

I fell in love with you the moment I saw you.

伴着想你，醒来!

I woke up with you on my mind.

愿我俩的爱情永远不变!

May our love will last forever.

一如既往的我，愿情人节快乐!

As always ，I hope the sweetheart festival to be joyful!

无论发生了什么，我都会永远爱你。

Ill always love you, no matter what happens between us.

我想在情人节紧握你的手。亲爱的，情人节快乐。

I want to hold your hand on Valentine’s Day. Happy Valentine’s Day,  sweetie.

突然就爱上你，完全不知道为什么也不确定如何发生的。

I fell in love with you... not sure why or even how.

但愿在情人节，我俩的美梦成真。

May all of our wishes come true this Valentine’s Day.

我俩的爱，一年比一年更坚定。亲爱的，情人节快乐。

Our love grows stronger with every passing year. Happy Valentine’s Day,  sweetie.

送你一个吻，悄悄的说我很高兴你是我的。情人节快乐!

Sending you a kiss to say I’m glad that you are mine. Happy the day!

你是我生命的全部。请说你愿意。情人节快乐，我亲爱的。

You mean everything to me. Please say yes.Happy Valentine’s Day, Honey!

愿情人节带给我们丘比特之爱和暖融融的浪漫。情人节快乐!

May this Valentine bless us with the cupid of love and warmth of romance.  Happy Valentine’s Day Honey!

你走出了我的梦，投入我的怀里。我不能让你走。情人节快乐。

You stepped out of my dreams andsintosmy arms. I can’t let you go. Happy  Valentine’s Day.

我一直不相信有真正的“幸福”，直到不久以后，我邂逅了你。亲爱的，情人节快乐。

I didn’t think that I could ever trust happiness. Then I met you.Happy  Valenti ne’s Day, Dear.

真诚，不必隐藏，把所有的话语，都写在那小小的贺卡上。祝我新爱的人，情人节快乐。

Be genuine and conceal noting.I write every wiod I wand to say on this  small card.I wish my honey a happy Valentine’s day.

想你，是一种美丽的忧伤的甜蜜的惆怅，心里面，却是一种用任何语言也无法表达的温馨。

It is graceful grief and sweet sadness to think of you, but in my heart,  there is a kind of soft warmth that can’t be expressed with any choice of  words.

常常想起曾和你在一起的那些日子。开心、快乐、幸福、失落、伤心、痛苦的所有日子。很想你，很想你……

Those days when we were together appear in my mind time after time, because  they were so joyful, happy, blest, disappointing, sad and painful. I miss you  ,and miss you so much……

你知道么，有个人时时想念着你，惦记你，你含笑的眼睛，象星光闪闪，缀在我的心幕上，夜夜亮晶晶。

Do you know there is someone thinking of you and caring you all the time ?  Your smiling eyes are just like the sparkling stars hanging on the curtain of my  heart.

你知道思念一个人的滋味吗，就像喝了一大杯冰水，然后用很长很长的时间流成热泪。

Do you understand the feeling of missing someone? It is just like that you  will spend a long hard time to turn the ice-cold water you h**e drunk into  tears.

你在时你是一切，你不在时一切是你!

You are everything when you are with me, and everything is you when you are  not.

我不知道我是否真的爱，但是我知道我不能没有你，如果地球将要毁灭，那么我要告诉你“你是我唯一想见的人”。

I don’t know whether I really love you, but I know I cannot lose you. If  the earth is going to be destroyed I want to tell you that you are the only one  I want to see.

遇上一个人要一分钟的时间，喜欢一个人只需一小时的时间，爱上一个人要一天的时间，可要我忘记你却要用上一生的时间。

I can meet a person in a minute, like a person in an hour and love a person  in a day, but it will take me a whole life to forget you

Dear customers

Hello! The new year is coming, we are grateful to you with cordial

greetings and sincere thanks: Thank you for your support and love in this year,

so that our business has made continuous progress and development.

We know that every progress and success of _ can not be separated from

your attention, trust, support and participation. Your understanding and trust

are the powerful driving force for our progress. In the course of _s

development, you have given us incomparable strength. With your strong concern

and support, as well as the diligent efforts of all the staff of our company, we

have made outstanding achievements one after another by virtue of our

high-quality projects and good reputation. On the occasion of the new year and

Christmas, thank you for your support and love in the past days. I would like to

express my heartfelt thanks to you in this letter!

In the process of cooperation, if you have any questions, please dont

forget to call us. You are welcome to put forward any opinions and suggestions,

so that we can communicate and improve more smoothly, and provide you with

better projects.

In the future, all staff of _ will continue to work hard, explore and

innovate, and create sustainable value for new and old customers. At the same

time, I hope you can continue to support and help us, and also wish us to work

together to create brilliant!

Sincerely

Salute!

The other week I had a bitter quarrel with one of my roommates. Six of us live in small room about eight square meters, desperate for more space.

Weeks ago, one of my roommates brought in a very large suitcase and placed it under her bed, but days later she (he) found something wrong with her (his) suitcase. As we live on the ground floor, her case soon got wet. She took it out and, after drying it up, she/he just put it on her desk because she had no other choices. I happened to be opposite her desk and her suitcase was so large that it not only occupied the whole of her desk but half of mine as well. I was very much annoyed, so I angrily pushed it forward without first talking to her about it. I pushed a bit too hard and the case fell off her desk, messing up everything it contained. On seeing this, she flew into a temper and angrily shouted at me. The quarrel started and lasted about two hours.

When I calmed down days later, I thought over the quarrel and began to see something. I should have talked to her about it first and then worked with her to find a solution to the problem. Living in a room with limited space, we should learn to get on well with one another.

Victor Hugo was good at combatting the characteristics and he did pay attention to the struggle between classes. In The Miserable World, the famous book in the world, he describes the changges of the main character, Jean Valjean, from a common human being to devil and then to a lovely angel. He expects that the human has good characters in the society. In the book, he also tells the readers the various aspects in the really world. He hopes that people have good manners and noble moral.

The Miserable World is a novel which reflects the miserable life and the misfortunate of the poor guys in France when it is the middle of nineteen century. The name of the book indicates the suffering from the great difficulities. The book put emphsis on the tradegy and the position of the low classes and this is the most exciting and important aspect, which makes the readers have deep thinking about the life.

In the details of the book, we know the men are upset because they were in the low class and were having a poor life, women’ behavior deviates from what is acceptable especially in sexual behavior because of starving and children are so weak that they can grow strong and keep healthy in the old days of the world. So the author, Victor Hugo, hoped that all the people could have a bright future and have a good life, and the the famous work came into being. We know that the autho, Victor Hugo, had a boarder sense. He thought because if the world continued to stay as it was, the world could come to an end. The great artist were very brave to fight against the old displines. This novel is of great value because it describes history and reality in the past. We, people in modern society, should learn something from it and try to make the world perfect and harmony.

Dear Mother,

Hello!

I now apologize to you, last Thursday, I test deduction of nearly 30

points, I think: oh, home will be hit by my mother! If you put it in the bag and

dont take it out, you will be sure to turn it out! Well, play it by ear! Back

home, When I eat bananas, my mother from my schoolbag out of the test roll, a

look, suddenly changed face. I saw that the situation was not good, so I fled to

my room, my mother pursued, also entered my room. Mother shouted: "Come here!!"

I had to obediently past, say that time, the dragon 18 first five has been

pulled out of my ass, suddenly a burst of pain through my whole body. When the

second palm came, My instinct with the hand to block, block, but my mother went

to take a coat hanger, I think: over, mother to hair biao!" Mother like the

arrow from the string rushed over, and then a burst of violence, while playing

cursing: "Play! Play! Play! You play in a day! ..." When my mother played, my

mother also cried, and then, my mother ignored me for a whole day.

Mom, Sorry, I will study hard in the future, no longer put all my mind to

play, no longer let you worry about. I look at the "mom and dad is not my

servant" and "never read for teachers and parents after understand your good

intention, I know, playing on my body, pain in your heart, the main character of

the two books, after come back to poor rural changed a lot, is treated as a

prince before, record is 25th, now he was a modest, sensible child, learning in

the top 11. I want to learn from him. Mom, I wont let you down! Surely not!

Listen to mom and dad said to go skiing, my mind appeared in such a picture: a ski master stood on the cliff and jumped up, turned two somersaults, "whiz", firmly on the ground, and draw a long scar in the snow the snow, like the endless snow in the world of the Milky Way...... WOW! Skiing must be very cool! My heart seems to have come to this world of ice and snow...

Ski finally came to the long-awaited, I can not wait to put on the ski, excitedly started to slip, OH, MYGOD shoes! Good heavy Oh! I found my feet dont listen to them, took tremendous effort also cant do anything.

While I was out on a limb when the distance from the world "a young female coach, wow! Her good light! Later, Ill ask her skiing.

We came to the top of the hillside by the escalator, and looked down from up and down. At this time, there was a man going straight down, very fast. I think he must be a "high hand". He smirked back to us, at this time, a small slope on the ground, he was thrown into the air, and fell down, really dizzy with success!

I began to be afraid. Skiing wasnt easy. The coach seemed to see my mind and said to me, "dont be afraid. Ill grab your ski and you go down slowly." The coach told me some of the action Essentials: squat, knee to buckle...... I suddenly feel that this action is very like a frog jumping movement. The frog is the original ski master! Was thinking when snickered, the coach began to pull my skis down. I hastened to keep the frog movement, and the coach said, "you are so rigid! Relax, relax!" my "dead frog" finally lived.

I found a sense of skiing. When I was happy, the coach released it secretly. I began to worry again, and my heart jumped and jumped up. A small slope appeared in front of me. Would I fall down? The coach encouraged me: "come on, come on! You must do it!" I plucked up the courage to brush across the slope and laughed happily. Then I slipped through a small slope, and my speed was getting faster and faster. There was a feeling of floating. The feeling of skiing was really cool.

I was glad to see a fallen man in front of me blocking my way. I fear, how to do? Yes, in need of emergency brake! But couldnt think brake method of coaching, it was going to hit the brakes, suddenly remembered the essentials: feet slowly turn in splayed out sideways, brake! Just a bit, I stopped the brake!!! It was Joseph, a red "tomato flesh" rushed down, heavily knocked me, my ass hurts oh!

The skiing was finished unwittingly, and I really looked forward to the next skiing!

The goal of my life is living a simple happy and healthy life.

What I want is a simple life not a complicated one.Because what my job or career offers me are difficult issues which I must handle them properly, and sometimes they are so boring and tedious,but I have to do.So after a days work, I want to have a break and do some things which would provide me happiness and a harmonious life. It is so simple like that, I have a supper with my families talking some funny and humourous topics, or I sit on grass with who I loved looking at the beautiful sky and counting the numbers of the stars. It is simple, but very harmonious and romantic.

I also want to spend sometime on my hobbies,such as playing table tennis,badminton,basketball and so forth.I like sports very much and I believe it will benefit me all my life.What I gained from sports are not only speed,strength and skill but also competitiveness,teamwork and so on.Sports could give me a strong and energetic body and a healthy life.

The goals of my life are just written as above,and they will be pursued by myself all my life.

I have a lovely bedroom. It is small but clean and beautiful. The wall is light green and the floor is white. There is a bed in my bedroom, it is really comfortable. I sleep with it every night. And there is a small sofa near my bed, I always read books on it. There is also a desk in my room, I do my homework on it every evening. Near the desk, there is a shelf. There are many books on the shelf. You can borrow books from me if you like reading.

My bedroom is so good that I like it very much.

Euston UK LTD

81?85 BARNLEY ROAD

DUNDEE

28th September, 1996

Ref: PVH/ltj

Jason & Son Ltd.

Parkside Manor

Burnside

Dumfries

Dear sir：

Thank you for your letter of 20 September, requesting a reference for Clairish Computers Ltd. The answers to your questions are as follows:

1. We have employed Clairish Computers Ltd. since January 1995.

2. Clairish Computers has helped our company rectify a new computer system that had been badly installed by another firm of consultants. It has drawn up a system specification for a replacement system and has chosen appropriate hardware.

3. We did not select Clairish Computers from several candidates.

4. We were not first time computer users.

5. Our first system is working satisfactorily. The replacement system is still too new to comment on.

6. We are satisfied with the work of Clairish Computers. The various stages were completed on time, and the charges agreed with the quotes.

7. There was continuity of staff at Clairish Computers. Ian Baird managed the work, which was carried out by Alex Johnston and James MacReady.

8. The staff training was effectively carried out.

Yours faithfully,

Peter Haddon, Director

The theme of the 101 class is idol show.

We did not compete today, just watching the movie "Lu Xun", the film was compiled by Pu Cunxi and Zhang Yu. This documentary is about three years before the death of Mr. Lu Xuns story, tells the story of Mr. Lu Xun pen and struggle for the revolution that ningsibuqu great patriotic spirit. After seeing this film, I feel very deep. I think we should all learn from him. Maybe we cant do his kind of big, but we should all be at least a patriotic young pioneers. We are the future of our motherland, and we should try our best to win glory for our motherland.

Diaoyu Island is Chinas inherent territory, and never allow other people to infringe upon it. We are the future of our motherland, and we will join hands to protect the world!

With the advent of mobile phone and computer , the phenomenon that people

always are phubbing are becoming more and more popular.So many students phubbed

in the coach ,train or restaurant even walked on the road.

As to this issue,different people has different ideas .Some take the view

that it is no use connecting but may cause the big events .Such as the accident

or fight.There is no doubt that phubbing is a false behavior .While others think

the opposite,they agree that there is no way but have to do it .because the time

is limited.

As far as I am concerned ,every coin has two sides .while most people

prefer it,the phubbing is a bad habit .As a matter of fact ,a few person mostly

do a good deed.

Weve all heard the quote, Be Kind, for everyone you meet is fighting a hard battle.

My husband and son died within two years of each other. From my personal experience, I believe that if we arent careful, grief can become a rather self-involved process in which we can become so focused on our own suffering that we miss the opportunity to connect with, and possibly bring comfort to, someone else who may be going through a similar experience.

Six months after my husband died, I was sinking in the quicksand of grief. I could not pull myself out of the misery.

In that moment, I actually believed that my life was more difficult than anyone else around me. Life handed me a perfectly wrapped lesson that opened my eyes to the fact that through my suffering I had allowed myself to become blinded by my self-pity.

The lesson presented itself in a health crisis. I had complications from a surgical procedure and ended up being hospitalized for four days. I was in an extreme amount of pain during this time. Between the physical pain and the emotional pain of grief, I was an absolute mess.

I should also tell you that I am a Registered Nurse. As a nurse, it is hard to be on the receiving end of medicine as the patient.

The first three nights that I was in the hospital, the same nurse took care of me. She was young, maybe in her mid to late 20s, and she hardly interacted with me at all the first two nights, other than to give my medications as scheduled. She obviously had no idea how much emotional pain I was in. How hard is it to ask your patient how shes feeling? I wrote her off as a bad nurse who had little empathy, and remained absorbed in my own emotional and physical pain.

The third night the young nurse was a little more talkative. She asked me how I was feeling (finally!). I told her that I was struggling with depression and grief because my husband had died in an airplane accident.

She looked at me and told me that her husband had died too, just two months earlier. I was stunned. Speechless. Shocked.

Never, in any of the possibilities that my mind entertained of why this nurse was so stand-offish with me, did I even consider that she might be in the same pain I was. Not only was she grieving as I was, but she was having to take care of me, instead of caring for herself and her family.

We went on to talk and share our stories about our late husbands and children. I like to think that we helped each other a bit that night.

We had much more in common than I would have believed. We were both widowed single moms with young children, and nurses. But, that was where the similarities ended. Her husband had no insurance policy. She had very little family support. She was working paycheck to paycheck to support her boys. I was humbled. I realized how much I had to be grateful for. And, frankly, I never saw life the same way after this experience.

This experience was a life-changing event for me. I had always prided myself on being an empathetic person, but I realize now that I had not really understood what being empathetic meant.

To truly be empathetic, you must be able to see beyond your own pain to be witness to the pain. I never looked at another person in the same way after this experience.

The cashier checking me out at the grocery store who seemed rude and in a hurry? Who knows what was going on in his day, week, life? Maybe he recently lost a spouse or a child. Maybe he has experienced compounded losses. I had no way of knowing what this man was going through. Who was I to judge him?

I thank death for very few things. The gift of empathy for my fellow man, and understanding that we all suffer in ways that arent always visible, are presents from death that I will always be grateful for.

Always take the time to be kind. Even when youre suffering with your own pain. And dont assume that someone else has it easier than you. You never know the battles someone else is fighting.