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给山区小朋友的一封信

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贫困山区的小朋友们:

你们好!

我是__学校7年级S班的一名学生。

今天,我在电视上看到了你们的情况,你们这么千辛万苦努力渴望着去上学。衣服都是破破烂烂的,教室都是用草席编成的,桌子脚都是用一块块石头堆成的,桌子板都是随随便便用一块木板做成的,平时连一顿饭都吃不饱,想上学的都交不起学费,只能坐在教室门外偷偷的听课,老师给你们上课还要带着孩子。教师没了,你们只能一个个都坐在石头上听课,老师只能靠着“墙”给你们上课,老师的一只胳膊没了,还要坚持给你们上课,老师还要在教室里给你们生火做饭,你们有时候还要几个人挤一张桌子听课,你们的“书包”都是用破破的塑料袋子,你们有些人还没有鞋子可以穿,还没有凳子坐,只能跪在地上听课,有些还要站着,因为桌子不够。墙没了,下雨的时候,教室都变成“一条河”了。家里的外墙都是用土筑成的,一个个的手没有一个是没有冻疮的,你们那一支支铅笔,都是那么短,你们的操场......

再看看我们吧,要什么有什么,上的都是名牌学校、国际学校、贵族学校。各种各样的笔、书包,穿的都是世界顶级、名牌的,而且样式都不一样,五彩缤纷的,就连鞋子,身体上戴的,穿的,都是名牌。

我们拥有的却比你们拥有的更多,但是我们却没你们那么用功、刻苦、认真,我们整天想着玩,从来就没想过要学习的像你们一样。所以,说到底还是一句话,生在福中不知福啊!

最后,祝你们:身体健康、天天开心快乐、学习每天更上一层楼、早日摆脱贫困!

____

年月日

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篇1:感谢信英语年级

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Dear Lucy,

I am writing to express my sincere thanks for your beautiful flowers. I?

like you to know how much your flowers meant to me. You have a positive genius

for selecting the right gift. I not only enjoyed your flowers, but also the

delicate vase. I shall ever remember this gift as one of the most precious

things in my life.

I will not be very busy the following days. I hope to have the opportunity

of reciprocating. Would you kindly let me know what time you are at

convenience?

I will feel very happy if you have time to make me a call. How nice it

would be to see you again and I am looking forward to seeing you next time!

I repeat my thanks again for your lovely flowers. Please give my kind

regards to your family.

Yours truly,

Huck

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篇2:英语封信

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I like to eat different kinds of delicious food , however, my favorite food

is dumplings. In my spare time , I like to make dumplings with my mother . I

think home-made dumplings are more delicious than those in supermarket .My

mother knows I love to eat them ,so she makes dumplings at every weekend . I

prefer eating dumplings . How about you ?

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篇3:英语封信

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My school is very beautiful. It is in Guicheng, near the Qiandeng Lake. Do

you know it? It is Nanhai Experimental Primary School. I like my school very

much.

There is a big playground in my school. We have P.E. class on the

playground and we often play sports on it , too. Our teaching building has five

floors. My classroom is on the fifth floor. It is big and clean. The computer

rooms are on the third floor. There is a library on the second floor. There are

many books in the library. I often read books here. There are some music rooms

and art rooms in the teaching building, too.

The teachers in my school are very kind . The students are very polite and

smart. I am happy in my school.

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篇4:给朋友的一封信

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亲爱的王建国:

你好!尽管我们远在天边,但仿佛近在咫尺,因为作为你的好朋友,我对你的思念也是一天比一天强烈。今天,我写是想告诉你,我们这周学校开展校运会时,让我印象最深刻的那场“8”字跳绳比赛。

我们学校举办第28届校运会的那天正下着绵绵细雨。我本以为校运会无法如期举行了。但是,随着广播中运动员进行曲响起,运动会拉开了帷幕。同学们迅速聚在操场参加开幕式,之后我们回到了各自的教室里。老师给同学们讲解比赛日程和注意事项,当得知第一场要举行三、四年级“8”字跳绳比赛时,大家都异常激动和兴奋。老师选好队员,大家来到操场开始了热身运动。

正当我们训练得热火朝天时,三年级比赛结束了,轮到我们进场了。老师急忙叫我们停下来,队员们就跟着老师进入了操场,找了个空旷的地带,摆开阵势。甩绳的同学握紧了手中的绳子,紧张地竖起耳朵,等候哨响。不一会儿,广播传来一声“准备”,甩绳的运动员转眼间不断摆动手臂,绳子就在他们的操纵下不断地在天空中划出一道道优美的弧线。其他的运动员也蓄势待发,好似即将捕食猎物的猛虎。我紧张极了,心脏都已经“扑通扑通”地乱跳,好像要蹦出来似的。这时随着一声巨大的哨声,参加比赛的同学立刻行动起来,只见领头的同学迅速跑到绳子中央,轻盈地一跳,像燕子一样掠过。其余的运动员在他的带领下秩序井然地一个个跳过去。轮到我了,我也纵身一跳,过去了。随着绳子啪啪作响,运动员灵巧地跳着、跃着……

三分钟的时间很快过去了,在这场“8”字跳绳比赛中,我们班取得了连跳251下的好成绩,获得了第二名。当全班同学获知这个消息时,都欢呼雀跃起来。这就是我印象最深的比赛了,你们学校举行了哪些有趣的活动,写信告诉我噢!

祝你生活愉快!

你的好朋友:陈泽林

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篇5:英语封信

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I like animals very much. I have a dog, it’s my favorite animal. It’s

white, it looks like a snow ball. It has two big eyes and ears. But its nose and

mouth are very small. It’s very naughty.

It often stares at my food when I have a meal. When I’m home it follows me

all the time.

When I do my homework, it often sits beside quietly, but sometimes runs

around me and shouts: wom wom.

I like my dog very much.

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篇6:给校长的一封建议信英语

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Dear principal: Hello!

Recently, you have been emphasizing safety education at morning meetings.

Various forms of education let us know the importance of safety, and let us know

some methods of self-protection. I keep these in mind. However, you seem to have

missed some details in your speech. Here I will give you some tips.

Last Thursday morning, there was a get out of class ending. A third-grade

classmate went downstairs to go to the toilet because the toilet on the third

floor was broken. He fell to the ground due to slippage. So I suggest that the

principal you should buy some non-slip carpets and spread them on the ground

when it rains to reduce unnecessary damage and make our campus more beautiful

and safer.

Maybe my proposal is naive, or it may not be realized for a while. As long

as it can be resolved in time, our campus will become more beautiful, and we

will grow happier.

Sincerely,

Your student:

敬爱的校长:您好!

最近,您一直在晨会上强调安全教育,形式多样的教育让我们知道安全的重要性,又让我们懂得一些自我保护的方法,这些我都牢记在心。可是您讲话时似乎漏了一些细节,在此我给您提一些小建议

上星期四的早上,有一节下课,一个三年级的同学因为三楼的厕所坏了,所以下楼上厕所。他由于地面滑而摔倒在地上。所以我提议校长您应当买一些防滑的地毯,在下雨天的时候把这些地毯铺在地上,减少不必要的伤害,让我们的校园更加美丽和安全。

也许我的提议很幼稚,也可能一时实现不了。只要能及时解决,我们的校园就会变得更加美丽,我们会更加快乐成长。

此致

敬礼!

你的学生:

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篇7:元旦一封信英语

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I havent been so moved for a long time. Just four or five hours before the party began, I was afraid that the program would not be good and the scene would be cold. However, this period of time really moved me a lot.

First of all, I would like to express my appreciation to the participants of tonights party for their outstanding performance, arranging the venue and tuning the sound equipment, although everything was prepared in a hurry. However, you gave the audience a perfect New Years Party.

Secondly, I would like to thank our host for his excellent performance, which made the atmosphere of the whole meeting very high.

Another is our tuner and cameraman, from the beginning to the end of the evening, kept busy, coordinating with the host, from the beginning to the end of the tension, there is no mistake.

I would also like to thank __, __ and others, who have been busy choosing programs, making procedures, planning games and buying gifts from the very beginning. I would like to express my thanks to you for your painstaking efforts for this party.

Thank you to the actors and actresses for the wonderful evening. I would like to express my deep appreciation for your efforts.

Thanks to all the staff, it is you that let me realize that our team is so excellent, and it is your every work that ensures the smooth running of the whole party.

Thank You to Hinoqin Group, Jinhai Support and Xinying Support group, Thank you to China Mobile, thank you to China Telecom, thank you to Mengsimei, thank you to bug image, thank you... Thank you so much. I would like to express my deep gratitude to you again for your efforts. Wish you all the best in 20__ and the spirit of Longma.

Thank you to all the audience for your participation and support. Thank you for your interest and support in our activities.

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篇8:新年给老师的一封信英语

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Mr. Zeng

Hello! Winter vacation for a long time, did not see you, so want to write a

letter to you, talk about my new years interesting events.

On the second day of the first month, my parents and I went to visit aunt

mans house for new years greetings. We met four cousins and cousins. Mother

saw that our children had no fun staying in the yard, so she proposed to climb

the mountain. We were overjoyed and rushed to say yes. It should not be too

late. Mother and aunt Jingjing set out with five children. The road up the

mountain is extremely rugged, and to the back is almost full of dense jungle. I

led two cousins to rush forward through all kinds of difficulties to open up a

passage for my mother and two sisters. Later, I felt that I was the biggest boy

and should not not take care of my sister, so I went back to the back to protect

my sisters. For a moment, I plucked the trees for Kiki, and then led Xi Xi Xi

across the pit. We took care of each other, and finally climbed to the top of

the mountain. My mother took some pictures for us as a souvenir. It began to go

down the mountain again. We ran into a house with dogs. We three "little men"

came back home to protect our two cousins and two mothers.

My aunt and grandmothers house is backed by green hills and facing the

fields. After dinner, we happily went to the fields to play! As soon as we saw

the haystack, we would sleep, roll and play on it. We had a lot of fun. The

lovely smiling faces on the haystack entered the mothers camera. The haystack

that others have painstakingly piled up has been broken up. We feel sorry for it

and try to pile it up again.

On the fourth day of junior high school, we went to my uncles house to pay

New Years greetings. His family has a unicycle, usually used to carry grain or

farm tools. Seeing this special "rustic" car, I was very happy and invited

brother hang and brother Yi, who came to pay New Years greetings, to play with

me. Yi Di and I were sitting on the wheelbarrow, and brother hang came to push

the wheelbarrow, which was much more fun than riding in the car! However,

brother Hangs strength was too strong, the speed was too fast, and there was no

safety guarantee, so we screamed nervously!

Mr. Zeng, you see, in such a vast country, we have spent a healthy, happy

and beautiful spring festival in the city for a long time. Did you have a

colorful spring festival?

Best wishes

Everything is as good as you wish!

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篇9:写一封信的英语句话

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Dear Andy lewis,

hello. how have you been?

I have read magazine advertisement knowing you are hunting for some people who can be your pen-friends firstly,please allow me to introduce myself.

I am Li Ping and I have a happy life with my parents in Shanghai,my father who is working for a big company is a legal adviser and my mother has retired. I study in a middle school.

My hobby is sports such as playing basketball, football,swimming and so on. I think that sports can not only lose your weight but also give you a good shape.

As far as i know one of your hobby is learning foreign languages.I could teach you to learn chinese if you will. If only I could be accepted and be good friends with you.good luck to you.

Yours sincerely

Li Ping

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篇10:给朋友的一封信

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亲爱的黄俊煌:

你好!

去年寒假,我们在一个补习班认识了,并成为了好朋友。后来我们分开了,今年暑假,我想请你来我家做客。

我所在的地方是福建省南安市,我的家乡还有一个别名,叫做武荣。我现在给你说说我的家乡吧。

这里风景如画,比如武荣公园。武荣公园很长很长,比一般的公园长好几倍。那里的树木郁郁葱葱,有时还可以在树的周围找到一只可爱的小蛐蛐。这里的花格外的香,轻轻地摘下一片花瓣,就可以闻到那阵清香味。那里的亭子,就像一把雨伞,始终守护站在那里。要是下雨了,就可以躲在里面避避雨。这里还有小溪,在没下雨之前,小溪是清澈的,经常有青年人在赛船比赛。

我们这里的美食也格外的鲜美。比如红濑鸡爪,闻一下香气扑鼻,再吃一口,口感Q弹,美味极了。整根吃完,回味无穷。

我的家乡就是这样,你想过来玩吗?

祝你生活愉快!

你的朋友:郑培鑫

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篇11:英语封信

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Our school will hold the sports meeting every year. I am so excited about

it. I will take part in a lot of programs, such as running and basketball

matches. When everybody is yelling for the teams, the atmosphere is so lively. I

can feel the vitality. We are young and full of energy. It is so amazing to be

part of it.

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篇12:英语封信

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I have watched a lot of cartoons. They are part of my life. Every day, I

will wait for the cartoon time and discuss with my friends. We share our

opinions after we watch the cartoons. I like the classic cartoons that show our

traditional culture, and I learn a lot. Though I grow up, I will never forget

the childhood memory.

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篇13:英语封信

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I like to watch Disney films very much. Mickey Mouse is my favorite cartoon

image. I find Mickey Mouse and giant panda look so much alike. Both of them have

round faces and two lovely ears. I can’t help myself watching giant panda on the

Internet every day. They attract so many visitors to look at them. I love

panda.

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篇14:我的好朋友英语

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My good friends name is LV Junru. He is tall, has a pair of big, bright

eyes, curved eyebrows like a sickle, short hair, sharp chin, round face, and

smiles like a ripe red apple.

We often play and do homework together. After school, we went home happily

together. When we do our homework, we take out our Chinese and math homework

first, and then take out our pencils and sharpen them. Then we did our homework

quietly and seriously. Suddenly, I encountered a problem that I couldnt do.

Just when I was sweating, he came to me and taught me detailed problem-solving

methods and steps. With his help, I finally fully understood.

We help and learn from each other every day, and slowly we become good

friends.

我的好朋友叫吕俊儒。他个子高高的,有一双大大的、炯炯有神的眼睛,弯弯的眉毛像镰刀,头发短短的,下巴尖尖的,圆圆的脸蛋笑起来就像一个熟透了的红苹果。

我们常常一起做作业、玩耍。放学后,我们一起开开心心地回家去。写作业时我们像在学校里一样,我们先把语文和数学作业拿出来,再把铅笔拿出来削好。接着我们安安静静、认认真真地做作业。突然,我遇到了一个不会做的题目,正当我急得满头大汗的时候,他来到我身旁教我详细的解题方法和步骤。在他的帮助下,我终于完全理解了。

我们每天互相帮助、互相学习,慢慢地我们成了好朋友。

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篇15:给远方朋友的一封信

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亲爱的远方朋友

你好!

你近日还好吗?在学校的学习还顺利吗?过的生活还好吗?你看到这封的时候应该很惊讶吧!虽然我们素不相识,可我非常想和你做朋友。

我叫张淳稀,来自美丽的山海关,这里有文明的天下第一关,有长城的起点老龙头,要是你有时间,希望你能到这里来玩儿。我在兴华小学上学,已经读五年级啦。现在也不知道你身在何处,住在哪里,过得好不好,我想你在山区里的日子肯定很苦吧!你要是在学习上有什么困难,我可以第一时间帮助你。现在我节约每一滴水,节约每一分钱,拿这些钱来给你们买学习用具和生活用品。

我爱我的学校,我有三十八位好朋友,两位亲爱的老师。我们就像一个大家庭一样,幸福和谐的在一起。

你还不知道,我为什么要给你写信吧?我们学校召开了“手拉手、心连心”希望能和你建起友谊的桥梁。

我有时间会去看你的。和你还有那里的小朋友一起玩儿!也希望你能来到这里,如果你没有交通工具,我会去接你。

如果你收到了我的信,请赶快联系我。

祝你:

学业有成,身体健康!

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篇16:给山区小朋友的一封信

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亲爱的山区朋友

你们好

我叫__,是__学校五一班的学生。你可能会感到惊讶,怎么会有一个素不相识的小孩给你来呢?虽然你们生活在大城市的千里之外,但“千里送鹅毛——礼轻情意重”我这封信件是用来表达我们之间的那浓厚的感情。

现在,我要向你们介绍我居住的地方,我居住在广州,在我们这,有各式各样的小吃,可以让你吃得油光满面。我们有各式的游乐设施,可以让你玩的流连忘返。当然我们这还有良好的学习环境,有大屏幕、有电脑、有宽敞的教室、有崭新的教材、桌椅,如果你想来,随时欢迎你们来我们这里拜访

听说,在你们那边,房子都由简易的泥土和砖头做成的,经不住风吹雨打,四点就要起床上学,而上学路上要从悬崖上爬上去,要从小桥渡过滔滔不绝的河水,一不留神,就会出现致命的结果。读到这里我想起了你们对金钱是多么需要,所以我们要少买奢侈品,把省下来的钱捐给你们,让你们住的安心,让你们的房子更加坚固。

真希望你们能来到广州,参观我们的城市,和我们一起玩耍,一起读书。不过这些几乎不可能完成,但我们都是中国人,体内都流着中国人民的鲜血,我们的心是在一起的。

我想通过“手拉手,心连心”这一个活动来成为你们最好的朋友,在今后的日子里,我们共创美好的未来!

最后祝你们身体健康、学习进步。

你们素不相识的朋友:__

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篇17:封信英语翻译

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Dear Xiao Wang,

I am very glad to learn that you are going to visit me during the week-long holiday.

[我很高兴得知你要在我为期一周的假期里来看我。]My parents will also be happy to see you again.[我的父母也很高兴再次见到你。]I am sure you will enjoy every minute here. [

我相你会喜欢这里的每一分钟。]

I have arranged our schedule for the holiday as follows.[我已经安排好我们的日程安排的假期如下.]On the first day you arrive, I will show you around our campus. [在你来着的第一天,我会带你参观我的校园。]On the second day, we will visit the art gallery and the music hall.[第二天,我们去参观艺术馆和音乐厅。]Next day,we will climb a hill in the northeastern part of the city.[第三天,我们去攀爬城市东北部的山峰。]On the top of the hill, we can have a wonderful bird’s eye view of the city.[在山顶上,我们可以鸟瞰这个美丽的城市。]During the next three days, we’ll make some short trips to some places of interest nearby,such as the Swan Cave, the Golden Lake, etc.[接下来的三天,我们去附近的名胜古迹来些短途旅行,例如天鹅洞,金色湖。]On the last day, I’ll see you off at the railway station.[最后一天,我会到火车站送你。]

Please remember to call and tell me your train number and time of arrival so that I can meet you at the railway station. [请记得打电话告诉我你的火车号和抵达时间以便我去火车站接你。]By the way, it is very hot here and we have a lot of sunshine, so don’t forget to wear

you sunglasses. [顺便提一下,这里天气很热阳光强烈,所以不要忘了戴太阳镜。]

I’m looking forward to seeing you soon.[我期待很快见到你。]

Sincerely yours,

Zhang Ying

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篇18:给英语老师的一封信

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敬爱的老师:

您好!

老师,您曾在那神圣的七尺讲台,洒下您的汗水滴滴;老师,您曾亲切的教育我们;老师,您曾送过多少界届毕业班啊!老师,您把您的一生都用在学生身上,您就像一只蜡烛一样,永不停息的绽放着光和热;老师……

老师,在您接这个班以前,说实话,我的作文并不是很好,可是就是您的一句话,改变了我对作文无趣的想法:

您说过:“作文一定要真,真的事情就是从生活中积累来的。”从此,我便观察起生活,我发现了生活其实也很有趣。比如,听完同学讲的一个小笑话后有什么想法;逛街时看见有人买衣服在讲价;考试前后的心情。还有我不停的看作文书,有时觉得看没有读记得快,便一个人躲在厕所高声朗读。再加上我学了一年的作文,作文水平有了明显的提高。老师,我的点滴进步也有您的一份功劳,是您为我打下了一定的基础。

老师,9月10日那天,有好多同学都送了礼物表示感谢,我却没有送,那是因为我知道您不是希望每年都得到学生的礼物,而是每年都希望得到学生最好的成绩,因为那是学生的改变,也是对您工作的肯定。

老师,您的爱,像一股暖流,永远温暖着学生的心;老师,您的爱,又像一把熊熊燃烧的火焰,照亮我学习的前程,我将终生难忘!

老师,您辛苦了!

祝:

一帆风顺 工作顺利!

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篇19:给好朋友的一封信

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亲爱的小铭:

光阴似箭,日月如梭。转眼间六年的小学生活就要过去了,而我们也即将分别,在这几天里,我的脑海中时时会映现出平日里我们快乐融洽地生活的情景。

在小时候,我不明白什么是真正的朋友,总会想“朋友是什么?”“谁是我最好的朋友?”百思不得其解。而就在我遇到你的那一天,我拥有了一个知心的朋友;在我们相处的六年中,我真正的体会到:朋友是在友谊中形成的。朋友是泥泞中一只扶持的手;朋友是岔道口一个引导的箭头;朋友是遇到挫折时一句温暖的话语;朋友是迷惑时一个肯定的回答;朋友是干渴时一杯清凉的水;朋友是疲倦时一声惊蛰的春雷。

友谊如一帆小舟,承载着我们遥远的梦想,“海内存知己,天涯若比邻”就算岁月在年轮上刻上了无情,印下了一道道的皱纹,我们依然追寻着那心中的海,直到到达那个向往的彼岸……

在我们共同奋斗的六年中,我们之间建立了纯真且没有玷污的真正的友情,它胜过一切,是任何东西都无法侵犯的。在这六年中,有困难,我们一起战胜;有任务,我们一起承担;有快乐,我们一起分享;有成绩,我们一起庆贺。我们为了共同的目标走到一起来,快乐地学习,快乐地生活。

听,秋正迈着轻盈的步子,走向了田野。秋天,比春天更富有欣欣向荣的景象;秋天,比春天更富有灿烂绚丽的色彩。瞧,麦穗在阳光下闪动着,秋风在稻海中打着滚儿。在秋天里大地变成了一望无际的金色海洋,空气里到处都弥漫着股股芳香。秋天,在这美丽的世界里微笑着,这微笑是收获的喜悦,是对未来的期望。亲爱的.朋友,你听到秋天的声音了吗?你看到秋天的微笑了吗?

临别之际,我想对你说:“很感谢你给予我的无限快乐。虽然我们即将分别,告别多彩的小学生活,但我们将迈入一个崭新的天地,在那里我们将为下一个秋天的收获而努力!”

记住吧,记住自己该记的:那一段段朝夕相处的美好时光!

祝你

学习进步,天天开心

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篇20:给朋友的一封信

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卫东:

发生这样的事情,是你我都不愿意看到的事情,那天从裴寓所回来的路上,我的心里很复杂,我说抽空给你写点东西说明一下,一直没有抽出时间。至到今天你给我打电话,才使我有精力集中半个小时时间把自己心里的话倒出来。我与你的想法一样,觉得没有必要去给一个立场和观点有很大差别的人解释什么。上帝把她给了我,我更多的是一种责任。我是一个很自责的人,凡事总爱检讨自己,这样的事情也不例外。我越来越觉得,从咱们两人认识的第一天起,我就认为我们之间的关系不是利益关系,而是纯粹的朋友关系。说一句你可能认为很不舒服的话:我根本就没想从你哪里得到什么实际的物质利益,因为你所给予我精神上的支持远远大过物质利益,这些精神利益是远远不能用物质的东西来衡量得了的。这是我的真心话。基于以上想法,也就决定了我们之间的友谊只要与物质利益掺和在一起,必然造成损失,最终两败俱伤。作为我在地方最重要的也是最真诚的朋友(我原来曾不至一次地说过此话),我想给你说明一下你可能认为不合适的问题。如果你认为我与你的关系没有达到可以毫不顾忌地批评对方的程度,或者说有为自己辩护之嫌。你全当我以下的字是胡言乱语。我宁愿就这样淡淡的了结,在内心痛苦地消化,也不愿失去你这样的朋友。朋友以诚为,承诺意味着一种责任。也许你是随口而出,不认为是什么承诺,但对于我来说,我是认真的。承诺并非一定能够做到,即使是亲人你也没有理由要求对方不顾一切条件履行承诺,作为朋友这是完全可以理解,但必要的解释是可以化解所有的变故,必要的解释胜过无可奈何的推拖,甚至连放弃承诺都能得到理解。何乐而不为呢?也许你不愿让我失望,也许你即使受委屈也要诚心帮助于我,但我觉得这大可不必。我要是眼睁睁地看着朋友为解已难而难时,我的心里是非常不舒服的,正如那天我从你手中接过(或者叫要过)那个信封,并听你说这几天把余下的钱补齐时,我的心隐隐作痛。以你我这么多年的交情,你又何苦呢?你连承认自己的困难,没有这个支付能力的勇气都没有吗?说到底,你应该对我有所了解。对于这场插曲,我有四点认识:一是事情的本身给我们的友谊造成了一定的损失,我们应该面对,而不应谦谦君子似地回避。二是你我之间业已形成的共识并非这样一场小插曲就能改变得了的。如果是这样,今生今世我不会再有象你这样的朋友。三是朋友之间应以互相促进弥补为最大之益,而不是互相利用。四是朋友之间还是应以诚信为基,面子只能破坏友谊,而不能增进友谊。如果我说错了,我愿意商榷,但不是争吵。

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