孤独与成长英语作文【优秀20篇】

有一件事让我成长了不少：我有一个毛病，本子用了一大半，就不要了。上了四年学，不知不觉作业就用去了一大堆本子。对于一本本被淘汰的本子，我没有一丝可惜之情，新的代替旧的，这是理所当然的嘛。

One thing I grew up a lot: I have a problem, the book spent more than half of it. On four years of learning, unconsciously, used a lot of books. For a book out of the book, I have no trace of pity, the new instead of the old, this is a matter of course.

有一天，陈老师上我把上学期的作业本整理好全部交给她。没过几天，本子便还给了我。回到家里，我仔细翻阅着作业本，突然，我看见了几本空白的本子，莫非是我自己太慌，把新本子也放进去了吗?但是，我明明记得我没有放新本子呀!我真解不开这个谜。于是我把这件事情告诉了爸爸。爸爸看了这个不知从哪里来的本子。又看看被淘汰的本子，说：“这些新本子是老师用你没有用完的纸，给你订的。”我听了爸爸的话，我恍然大悟了。

One day, Chen put on my last semesters homework book and gave it to her. Not a few days later, the book was returned to me. When I got home, I looked through my homework book. Suddenly, I saw some blank books. Could it be that I was too scared and put my new book in? But I remember I didnt put my new book on! I cant puzzle out the mystery. So I told my dad about it. Dad looked at the book that I didnt know where to come from. Look at the books that have been knocked out, and say, "these new books are for you with the paper you havent used up."." When I heard what my father said, I suddenly realized.

老师的行动深深地教育了我，于是，我把过去用过的本子都找来，把后面没写完的纸撕了下来，订了好几十本本子，从此，我养成了节约本子的好习惯。就是这件事让我成长了不少。

The teachers action deeply my education, so I had been using the book to come back, did not finish the paper tore down, ordered dozens of book, from now on, I develop a good habit of saving. Thats what made me grow a lot.

Single from reading "one hundred years of solitude" intuitive feeling, is very subtle and interesting. Easily into the book into my different, the Maya angelou, ups and downs in the one hundred years of solitude and loss between seems to and I with a layer of glass wall in it. Whenever I seemed to experience personally, there is always a layer of XinYu glass back to blur. Perhaps because the authors playful tone which is used to describe a similar myths of various scenarios, perhaps because of the characters of wild lonely secular yourself too far away.

The whole book, everyone is a lonely individual. From the family, the first Mr Aqua dior, to the last family obvious characteristics of Mr LeiLiangNuo. From pride bold vigorous energetic Mr LeiLiangNuo admiral to ordinary but great Ursula old mother, from pure as an angel qiao girl lei Tess to enjoy crowds that married two wife of one of the twins.

A complex huge family history in one hundred, a clear thread of cycles. In the stream of time, people in the big background of the ups and downs seem so weak. Weak petite take away life, loneliness of fixation with the trace of sadness. Endless lei Tess girl died like be preserved as grandmother, to finally still bite fingers Rebecca persistent refused to die. Experience of the riots claimed 3000 lives aqua dior anyone to believe. They are all people of vision, extreme loneliness.

For me, the company already accustomed to loneliness, not necessarily happy, but is not sad. Loneliness is a person with a lifetime partner is an established fact, rather than deny, fight, rather than meaningless escape, be inferior to accept it, let it protect your home in the crowd, let it accompany you eat breakfast Saturday morning, sunshine, Sunday afternoon let it accompany you in the sun, in the exhausted body and mind.

If you and I, like most people, the periodic depression, might as well take a look at this book, let the lonely people in the book of the rash you fearless courage to struggle. Maybe, we can live more force to coax cattle, at least in the eyes of others. Mr LeiLiangNuo will die, my heart is a pain, is thinking.

I believe that this book can give me, far more than that.

单从读《百年孤独》的直观感觉来说，是非常的微妙且有意思的。与以往容易入书入戏的我不同，百年孤独里的悲欢离合、跌宕起伏、生离死别似乎和我之间隔了一层下雨中的玻璃墙。每当我似乎身临其境的时候，总有一层新雨将玻璃重新淋得模糊。也许是因为作者总以戏谑的口吻描述类似神话的种种场景，也许是因为书中人物狂野的孤独离世俗的自己太过遥远。

整本书中，每个人都是一个孤独的个体。从家族第一个霍赛阿卡迪奥，到最后一个具有家族明显特征的奥雷良诺。从高傲果敢轰轰烈烈的奥雷良诺上将到精力充沛平凡而伟大的乌苏拉老妈妈，从纯洁如天使的俏姑娘雷梅苔丝到喜欢热闹以至于娶了两个老婆的双胞胎之一。

一部繁杂庞大的百年家族史，一部脉络清晰的地方兴衰史。在时间的洪流中，个人在大背景的起伏中显得那样无力。羸弱娇小的被夺去生命，孤独执着着的留下悲伤的痕迹。无端去世的雷梅苔丝的萝莉像被作为祖母的形象保存，到最后仍然在咬手指的雷贝卡执着的不肯死去。经历夺走3000人生命骚乱的阿卡迪奥得不到任何人的相信。他们都是人群的异子，孤独的极端。

对于我，则早已习惯了与孤独为伴，未必开心，但也未必悲哀。孤独是一个陪伴人一生的伙伴是一个既定事实，与其否认，与其抗争，与其无谓的逃避，不如接受它，拥挤的人群里让它保护你回家，周六的上午让它陪你吃早餐，整理阳光，周日的下午让它陪你晒晒太阳，晒晒俱疲的身体与心灵。

如果你和我、和大多数人一样，周期性的抑郁，不妨看看这本书，让书中孤独人的鲁莽激起你无畏抗争的勇气。也许，我们可以活得更牛逼哄哄，至少在别人眼中。奥雷良诺上将死去的时候，我心中一阵痛楚，就是这么想的。

我相信，这本书能给我的，远远不止于此。

Since I went to middle school, I grew up very fast. On the one hand, I live

in school from Monday to Friday, so I need to learn to get along with roommates.

We share the cleaning work to make sure a good environment. It is everybodys

duty to sweep the floor on turn. On the other hand, I need to solve the problems

from life by myself. Without parents by my side all the time, I learn to face

troubles and figure out all the ways to solve them. I become much independent

and stronger. Now I can deal with my stuff alone.

有一种成就叫做孤独。

你或许有些不解，生活在这个喧嚣的世界里，你因无法摆脱，便逐渐的陷入喧闹，因为你的平凡，注定了你无法取得超越自己的成就。

人生注定了他无法政治上的成就，他寻求着他文学的成就，但大臣的进谏，妃子的缠绵，让他的生活太过热闹，其文学永远也离不开宫廷乏味的喧闹。囯破，他成为了阶下之囚，当他一人独处时，少了喧闹，多了一份孤独。因为孤独，才有了“剪不断，理还乱，是离愁”的佳句，帮有了“问君能有几多愁，恰似一江春水向东流”的绝唱。

孤独在常人看来，往往是因为人生的挫折所致，挫折给与打击，使人陷入孤独。正如苏轼的被贬黄州，因为被贬，他身陷孤独之中，这份孤独带给了他在独游赤壁时与精神的对话，成就了他文学上尊贵的地位，促使他实现了自己的突围。

孤独，这个被世人所拼弃的状态，却因为被动力的安装而成就。这份成就是与世不同的，因为他承受过了孤独的感觉。

在印象画派中，他唯我独尊，他的成就举世瞩目。每一幅画作价值千万，有谁曾想就是这样的一个人，一生都生活在无尽的孤独之中，过着乞丐般的生活，或许正是因为孤独，使他练就了世人所不具备的思维，正是因为一生的孤独，使他成就了万世的荣耀。

解说如此，想念你应该懂得，在那些超凡脱俗的身后，总是伴随着与世不同的孤独吧！

你应该看到，如今的世界正在逐渐缺少这些成就的存在了吧？科学技术的发展，将世界连整一个整体。人们被这个社会逐步融化，成为茫茫众生中的一员，我们少有孤独，困为世界总在喧闹。

你或许会问：“面对此情此景，你该何如呢？”

我答：瓮中保持内心的孤独，不随波逐流；坚持心中的信仰，努力做到倚世的独立。

曾几何时，对孤独有了一种渴望，促使着我想要感受一番那生活中的孤寂……

——题记

那天的阳光很灿烂，那天的天空很蔚蓝……

我，独自一个人，还有肩上的小提琴。我的心很是矛盾，很是复杂。

最后，我不再多想，径自走向售票点，掏出一张崭新的十元人民币，换来一张前往温州客车票。

踏进车门的一瞬间，我下意识地犹豫了一下，不由自主地向家的方向望了一眼，然后，把孤独与惆怅咽回肚子里，选了就近的位子坐下来。

是的，今天我将要去温州考级。

身边没有母亲，没有亲人陪我前去，只有那小提琴在身旁静悄悄地伴着我。

并非不是不让母亲陪我前去，也并非自个儿倔强想要独自而去，只是独身出行的愿望已在心中埋藏很久，一种想感受生活独立的念头终于在14岁那年爆发出来——第一次离开亲人的陪伴，离开瑞安，孤单一人出行在茫茫的旅途上。

我不愿意告诉母亲，我怕她担心。

于是客车就这样幽幽地开，天气实在好得不得了。可我却有一种莫名的情感，心中一阵空虚，一种莫名的悲哀与惆怅，难过与丝丝恐惧交错杂糅在一起，汇聚心头，仿佛一片树叶将要脱离大树时，可根却半松半紧地连着树枝，在风中无力地摇曳着，竭尽地想随风而去。

我想，我就是那片无助的树叶，而那棵大树就是母亲，就是家吧！

一阵感受后，我的心情渐渐平静，望着窗外的景色，人也慢慢舒缓过来。

我想，这也是一种感受生活的方式吧，毕竟在温暖与安全中长大的我们只感受过温馨与舒适，因为有父母，有家时刻在为我们营造美好的环境，有朋友，有老师时刻在为我们制造和谐的生活。没有在真正意义上体味和感受过孤独的包围与笼罩，所以，我们不愁什么，我们不曾孤独，不曾茫然，不曾迷失在自我的空间中，也不曾品尝到生活的另一面，那苦的滋味。

所以生活的另一面就是孤独与迷茫的体现，感受到了这些，便觉得生活对甜与苦的搭配是如此的完美与和谐……

下车后，我给母亲打了个电话，告诉她实情，并报了平安。母亲说了几句并不再多说。于是我在哽咽中放下话筒，好想大哭一场，不为难受，为我成功地体验了这一份孤独而庆祝。真的，在这次独有的体验生活中，我感受到了苦涩，同时，也感受到，我已经在不断成熟中长大了……

感谢生活，感谢孤独，它们让我寻觅到了一种坚强，于是在它的陪伴下，我寻觅到了一个自我的空间，也寻觅到了一个全新的自我……

[孤独中的成长优秀作文

Each and every one has his own troubles in the process of growth of I, is no exception.

My troubles and almost everyone. For example: the examination didnt test good and work a lot more like the wuzhishan was too pressure to lift my head... Sometimes I wish I never grow up, just like the wayward Peter pan. In the stream of time, or quietly grew up... Every time I look at wutong leaves pieces, has filled the whole earth. I always think the leaves fell down in a flurry of is to hide a big secret, and I sweep leaves open, see always black asphalt road. Every time the clouds pass by overhead, I always silly looking at the sky, what want to see after the clouds passed. But I know that, behind the clouds is still the sky, the same sky. Interrogation, one of the two is the most profound, I remember the first time I didnt write a composition, I dont know whats going on I just dont like to write a composition, one to write a composition my brain will explode, but cant write, had to save words scraps, the written word. BUT the teacher had to write six hundred words, in my this is a big discount, so we have to start up words, words enough statements not smooth again is flawed. Finally with the help of dad finished, another boy one day to see the time in the past. So I dont want to write so disgusted composition.

The second time I didnt write my homework at home because my parents in the east, "write better." West 1: "word and word alignment" is not willing to write to the school to write, but didnt finish writing by the teacher to the office again, this time I was fired, that is I never stopped writing homework this time.

In the process of growth of the trouble, just a small test of your life, after the small test you will growth step.

每一个人在成长的过程中都有自己的烦恼我也不例外。

我的烦恼和大家的差不多。比如说：考试没考好、作业一箩筐多得都像五指山把我压得抬不起头……有时候真希望自己永远也不要长大，就像那个任性的彼得潘一样。而在时光的洪流中，还是悄悄的渐渐长大……每次看着梧桐树叶一片片掉下来，一直掉满整个大地。我总觉得那些树叶慌慌张张的掉下来是为了遮住一个大秘密，而我扫开落叶，看到的总是黑色的柏油马路。每次云朵路过头顶，我总会傻傻望着天空，想看看云朵走过后露出的是什么。但我知道，云后面还是那个天空，一成不变的天空。审讯，其中有两次是我记得最深刻，第一次我没有写作文，不知道怎么回事我就是不喜欢写作文，一写作文我脑子就要爆炸，可又不能不写，只好搜肠刮肚攒词，词写好了。BUT老师让写六百字，在我这可就是大打折扣了，只好开始凑字，字数够了语句又不通顺了可谓是漏洞百出。最后还是在老爸的帮助下写完了，再一看时间好家伙一天过去了。因此我十分厌恶作文不愿意写。

我第二次不写作业是因为我在家里父母东一句：“字写好点。”西一句：“字和字要对齐”不愿意写就到学校写，可是没写完又被老师拎到办公室，这一次我差一点就被开除了，也就是这一回我再也不敢不写作业了。

在成长的过程中的那些烦恼，只是对你的一生的小考验，过了这些小考验你就会成长一步。

Now, because I grew up, is becoming an adult, so, in the eyes of parents, is no longer a kid, I have become conscious, have the courage, there is knowledge. Sometimes, they east 1 "you have grown up!" West 1 "you are no longer a child!" Listen to my head ache. Now I no matter what happens, I want to recognize good "compass", first is must have a principle, cannot careless, also cannot careless, if to juggle, provokes a blizzard at any time.

Recall myself when I was a child, life is so easy, carefree, free, side no trouble at all. But as the years went by, in front of the waves is bigger, the surface is more twists and turns, I became a pupil, former days that I have already gone. I am tall, to go to school after a long time, homework increases, the subjects of study, I the double shoulder heavier schoolbag, heart pressure is getting worse. If I was a child, no matter I do anything wrong, no one will blame me, plus there are parents for me when the "wizard". But now, I grow up, sensible, to adapt to the independent, all things to be careful, look before you leap. This compared with the laid-back days as a child also pulled open the distance gradually.

When I was a child, as a child I, although the life will be more comfortable, but I was all the elders and the constraints of others, when you walk, the parents have mixed; Fell and the parents have to hold the. But I know that, after their grow up, I became an adult, is different from when I was a child. Like now of I, is growing up gradually, I have been to all the mind of your own.

现在，因为我长大了，正在变成大人，所以在家长眼中，我已不再是小孩了，已变得有意识，有胆量，有知识了。有时，他们东一句“你已经长大了!”西一句“你不再是小孩了!” 听得我头都疼了。现在的我无论做什么事，自己都要先认好“罗盘针”，都必须要有原则在身，不能马虎完成，也不能粗心对待，如果稍有差池，随时都会招来暴风雪。

回想起自己小的时候，生活是多么轻松，无忧无虑，自由自在，身边根本就没什么烦恼。但是随着岁月的流逝，前方的海浪也更大了，海面也更波折了，我成为一个小学生了，往日那个我已经荡然无存了。我个子高了，上学时间长了，回家作业增了，学习科目多了，我的双肩背起了更重的书包，心中的压力也不断加重。如果是小时候，我无论做错什么事，没有人会来责怪我，再加上还有父母为我当“向导”。可现在的我，长大了，懂事了，要适应独立了，凡是做事都要小心翼翼，三思而后行。这与小时候那悠闲自在的日子相比也渐渐地拉开了距离。

小时候，身为小孩子的我，虽然生活地会自在些，可是我却处处受着长辈与他人的约束，走路时，有父母掺着;摔倒了，有父母扶着。但是我知道，在自己长大了后，我就变成大人了，与小时候不同了。就好比现在的我一样，正在渐渐地成长着，我对凡事都已经有了自己的主见。

起风时，她站在风口闭上眼睛，努力听清风里有没有父母回家的脚步。

——题记

春节将至，大街上热闹非凡。家家户户张灯结彩，连两旁的路灯上都挂起了灯笼。远方传来的鞭炮声，撩拨着我们的心弦。学校还未放假，我们便早已归心似箭。老师这些天也格外宽容，极少批评违纪的学生。神州大地处处洋溢着年的气息！

她很早就跟我说过，今年过年，她的父母总算有时间从外地赶回家了。那天我看见她捧着电话，笑的很甜。

她是个很乖巧的女孩，从小跟着奶奶生活，父母外出打工，这次已经有两三年没回来了。她想用优异的成绩留住她的父母，或是故意考差，换得他们的关心与问候，可惜都无济于事。她说今年他们回来后，她一定要拉住他们的手，绝对不让他们离开。

看着眼前这个坚强懂事的女孩，我由衷地祝愿她能在父母的陪伴下，茁壮成长。

过年的气息越来越浓，鞭炮声终日响个不停，打工的人们纷纷踏上回家的列车。临近放假，她却跑到我们班上来找我，眼里噙满了泪。

我急切地向她询问原因，她抽泣着说她妈妈打电话过来，今年她的父母可能又不能回来了。

寒风吹乱了她的短发，她眨着红肿的双眼，泪水早已夺眶而出，她说她只是想要一个完整的家，只是想一家人一起吃一顿年夜饭，只是想他们多陪陪她，不要让每个学期的家长会只有她一人，不要让成长手册的“家长意见”一栏一直空着……

我默默替她捋顺凌乱的发丝，想安慰些什么，却发现无从开口。一直以为留守儿童是个陌生而遥远的词，殊不知，原来它就在我身边。

有一种爱叫等待，有一种痛叫孤单。如果可以，我真想把我的父母借给她，让她的童年不再孤独！

想起这周返校前，我还和母亲吵了一架。原因十分可笑，不过是因为我拒绝洗碗……这个年纪的我们，总认为父母很烦，总想着闹“独立”，可是这世界上还有成千上万与我们年龄相仿的孩子，却多么奢望父母能多多陪伴他们……

托清风越过一座山的距离，就托夜，在枕头上编织团聚的美梦。

多少个不眠之夜，她是一个孤独的守望者。守着自己小小的心愿，在斑驳的泪眼中，南望父母又一年。

再不回来，她就长大了……

I curse god, and hates the creator, for I had long enough high body is covered with fat, dont care when you were a child, grown up is heart.

Is a dumpy, always bring me lots of trouble. The most let a person so is being bullied, but dummy eat rhizoma coptidis, have bitterness could not say, when I was a child go out walking with his family relatives and friends, at the same time of get the reward, always let a person to knead a fat face.

After school, the class of tall men always fight with the advantage of high cut bluff me than I am, they often put my things in a place I cant reach, let me elongation hand, like the frog jump jump, but they in the proud to see me. Slowly grow up, always have a few friends, and they walk together, there is always someone very conveniently put one arm over my shoulder, their pressure I was stuffy and hot, straight... Stout is, but who call me?

Pudgy is to let a person tired, can short are short, fat is fat, how can you overcome? I had to look on the bright side: eat the same food, the somebody else is long not fat, I good to nutrition absorption function, because of short and heavy, centre of gravity is more stable, will not suffer from sitting will be overturned stool, others the giraffe so he can eat the leaves of the tree, but cant eat is enough small goat fence hole drilling and the tender grass.

Visible, in long, short, director also has, although stout worry still, but the important thing is how to let oneself do not "squat" on the road of life is growth.

我诅咒上帝，痛恨造物主，给我原本长得不够高的身躯上长满了肥肉，小时候不在意，长大了心就烦。

个子矮胖，总给我带来许许多多的烦恼。最让人恼的一点就是受人欺侮，却是哑巴吃黄连——有苦说不出，小时候随家人出门走亲朋好友，在得到赏赐的同时，总免不了让人捏一把脸上的肥肉。

上学后，班上个子高挑的男生总仗着比我高一截的优势唬弄我，他们常把我的东西放在一个我够不着的地方，让我伸长手，青蛙般地跳呀跳，而他们在旁得意地看我出洋相。慢慢长大了，总有几个要好朋友吧，和他们一起走路，总会有人很顺手地把一只胳膊搭在我肩上，压得我又闷又热，直翻白眼……，可谁叫我是矮胖呢?

身材矮胖是让人烦的，可矮都已经矮了，胖也已经胖了，还能咋样呢?我只得往好处想：吃同样的饭菜，人家就是长不胖，说明我对营养吸收的功能好，因为矮而胖，重心比较稳，就不会饱受坐着都会被他人掀翻凳子的滋味，长颈鹿果然能吃到大树的叶子，但吃不到才够小山羊钻进身去的篱笆洞里的嫩草。

可见，长有所长，短也有所长，虽然矮胖的烦恼仍在，但重要的是如何让自己不做人生成长道路上的“矮胖”。

一次假期后刚上班的第一天，我和雀子聊天。她说，我很不开心，感到前所未有的不安和孤独。我特别不喜欢这样的状态。

我问，你怎么啦，得了假期综合征了吗？

不是，老邓明天又要出海了，这次是太平洋航线，大约十个月的时间。她郁郁寡欢。

雀子是我的闺蜜，我俩可以分享各种小秘密。她是一个乐观、独立、果敢的姑娘。老邓是她的男朋友，理论上讲应该是未婚夫。老邓是一名海员，一年三百六十五天，差不多二百多天都漂在茫茫大海上。

去年夏天，老邓休了长假，说想休息一段时间，好好陪陪雀子。雀子开心了很多天。俩人在天气晴朗时去湖边晒太阳、钓鱼，然后喝野菊花冲的大杯水；手拉手看电影，去花卉市场买一盆一盆的绿萝、吊兰，摆在冬暖夏凉的阳台上；去超市买食材，做老邓喜欢吃的韭菜鸡蛋馅儿饼和栗子蛋挞……

老邓在的时候，雀子通常是不出来陪我喝茶聊天逛街的。她全心全意地陪着他。她习惯了他的存在，但是他又一次要离开了。人是群居动物，都会害怕突如其来的孤独。雀子说，等老邓走后，她要养一只小猫或小狗，陪着自己。

末了，雀子说，其实被留下来的人才是最孤独的，还要站在原地安静地等待。然后，硬生生地给我挤出了一枚笑容，那笑容像躲在寒冬雾霾里的那一抹朦胧的太阳。我突然很心疼眼前这个身形单薄的姑娘，是得有多大的勇气才可以一次又一次面对长久的别离，而且是连三天一通电话都没有保障的异国爱情。还要在等待的日子里，保持优雅向上的姿态。

有一个周末中午，我做了个梦，梦中妈妈在厨房做饭，妹妹在庭院里和爸爸聊着她期末考试的成绩，只听到有敲门的声音，妈妈喊我，墨儿，小王同志到了，赶紧起床吧。我寻索着浓浓的香甜味儿，在想我到底是该穿黑色的长裙子，还是穿米色的棉布衬衫和牛仔裤呢？然后就醒了。阳光穿过玻璃窗打在白色花朵的床单上，打在散落在床边的红色毛衣上。我呆呆地躺了好久，才恍然醒悟，哦，家里哪有人啊，在这个房子里，这个城市里，只有我自己。也许这就是孤独吧，突然惊醒的午后，发现身边连个说话的人都没有。

老实讲，每一年我最讨厌的，就是春节假期过完刚来上班的这段日子。因为我是一个长时间独处的人，除了上班时间，几乎都是一个人。但是一个人时，我会努力调整好自己的状态，我可以看电影、看书、写字、运动、画画……找各种事情去做。所以，孤独并不经常来我家串门儿。但春节假期打破了我的生活节奏，我每天跟家人、朋友在一起，热热闹闹的，不觉孤独。一到了上班时，我就开始感觉很失落，心里空荡荡的。

许久以来积攒的强大勇气，就像一只气球一样，经历了热闹喧哗的美丽时光后，砰地一声爆炸了。孤独无声无息地把我淹没，然后又需要吸气呼气，重新积攒力量去充满另一只气球。像我这种内向、慢热、不习惯用语言表达自己内心情感的人，往往需要躲在自己安全空间内调整几天，才能整理好心情再出发。

昨天在QQ上，雀子跟我讲，她找了一份兼职。她有一个朋友去了佛罗伦萨，半工半读，没时间照看网店，于是她接手帮忙打理网店。那是一家布艺窗帘的网站。雀子说，店里有安装师傅，也有客服，她就负责平时主页面的更换、配色和设计排版。我说，你拍照技术很赞，但是网页设计你可以么？她说，没关系，Photoshop我还能做，一直以来，只要与设计相关的元素我都非常感兴趣，所以我已经决定跟着视频学习Dreamweave和Flash，我想让自己的生活多一些乐趣和色彩。

上一次老邓出海后，雀子跟着大卫学习摄影，她聪明好学，心思细腻，常常捕捉一些感人心扉的镜头，后来还参加了公司举行的摄影展。那次，她参赛的作品是《停留》，是她去海边写生拍下的照片。一望无际的大海与浅蓝的天空接连一片，海浪开心地拍打着沧桑的礁石，一枚红蓝条纹的小船系着岸边，小船静静地望着汹涌的大海，不知疲倦，船身上的漆脱落得斑斑驳驳。照片获得了二等奖。从这张照片里，我读出了小船的孤独和雀子的思念。

上上次老邓出海后，雀子报了舞蹈班，跟着老师学习恰恰和拉丁舞。半年下来，瘦了五公斤。看着她纤细的腰身，我又一次咬牙切齿地决心要减肥。期间，她还报了广告设计的成人选修课，熟悉掌握了PS和AI。并且从一家传媒公司的文员成功跳槽到一家上市房产公司做策划师，主要负责广告推广工作，年薪翻了两倍不止。

雀子说过，像我种不思进取的人，每次下决心改变自己时，总是在我最孤独的时候。我痛恨这种孤独的状态，孤独伴随着不安刺痛我的内心，所以就迫切地渴望通过自身的强大去改变这样的状态。老邓每一次出海后，没人陪我时，我就赶紧找点事情做，不至于太冷清。我想把自己的生活塞得满满当当的，这样每天都是多姿多彩的。

我呢，一个懒癌晚期患者。王先生陪着我时，我只需要每天上班，其他一切不用操心。我不学做菜，反正有人做；我不学开车，反正有人送；我不整理房间，反正有人整理；我不搬重物，反正有人来搬；我

不缴物业费、水费、电费，反正有人缴；我不去取快递，反正有人取……

可是，王先生在另一个城市工作，每年至少两百天的日子是属于我一个人的。日子嘛，总是得自己过。所以，每当下班后自己又不愿意在外边随便吃点晚饭时，那就自己做点吧，自己最了解自己的胃嘛。吃完饭，也没人跟我聊天儿贫嘴时，就找些自己喜欢的书读读。人丑要多读书，人笨要多读书，人懒要多读书。那么，我又丑又笨又懒，更没有理由不多读书。

我还有个兴趣，就是写字。从去年五月份在网上写文字以来，陆续收到一些好评和喜欢，我很快乐。我发现写字是一件快乐的事情，继而发现孤独感渐渐远去了，独处也可以是一件快乐的事情。

今年是王先生去另一个城市工作的第三年。渐渐地，我发现我学会了自己做菜、自己养植物、自己开车去陌生的地方度假，学会了管理时间，也在逐步治疗自己的懒癌。这样想想，我也是有收获和成长的。

有人说陪伴是最好的礼物，可是我们这些没有礼物的人，也得学着自己送给自己礼物。我感谢每一段孤独的时光，感谢在这些时光中蹒跚的自己。

孤独，是给我们思考自己的时间，在一个人的日子里，我们要做的只有一件事，让自己变得更优秀。

When I turn on the TV, I have heard the kitchen came the voice of nagging presence: "alas, the child is watching TV, you know every day watching TV, how big is not sensible, graduation will be over in a month..." Whenever at this time. My heart is pulled tightly, sick of it.

After school, I have no empty to play outside, like a happy bird was put into the cage. What I yearn for the nature, longing for a breath of fresh air outside! But mom is like a ruthless big lock tightly locked me, let me to breathe. I cant sing aloud, cant fly in the sky.

During the holiday, the students can be happy, free. They can go to the movies with my parents, to go to travel, also can go to an amusement park with elder brother elder sister... But I was learning to breath.

Trouble has been bothering me, I really want to tell all parents: our wings is still very young, dont be too much. Put pressure on us, the pressure become our growing annoyance is bad for our health, is disappointment may harvest more in the future......

每当我打开电视，就听见厨房里传来唠叨不休的声音：“唉，这孩子又看电视，每天就知道看电视，都怎么大了还不懂事，再过一个月就毕业了……”每当这时。我的心就揪得紧紧的，烦透了。

上学以后，我没有空到外边去玩，就像一只快乐的小鸟被关进鸟笼里。我多么渴望大自然，渴望呼吸一下外面的新鲜空气啊!可妈妈就像一把无情的大锁紧紧地把我锁住了，让我透不过气来。我不敢高声唱歌，不能在天空中自由飞翔。

每逢放假，同学们可开心，可自由啦。他们可以跟父母去看电影，去游山玩水，也可以跟哥哥姐姐去逛游乐园……可我却被学习压得喘不过气来。

烦恼一直困扰着我，我真想告诉所有父母：我们的翅膀还很稚嫩，不要过多地。给我们施加压力，这样的压力成为我们成长中的烦恼对我们的身体是不利的，也许将来收获的更多是是失望啊……

In our growth path, cant be smooth sailing, there will always be some troubles, as if the sky is dark clouds covered, I became enveloped in trouble

Remember when I was 6 years old, I was a carefree kid. Will only eat sleep and sleep after eat, is in addition to eat and sleep. But after I in the primary school, I have never had no trouble, but trouble is getting more

In school, the worry is to test and composition. Every time when I didnt get good grades, I will be unhappy. In the home, the worry is endorsed and assignments. With age growing up, back in the more and more, every time back, the language of words in the book is like moving elf, hovering around me, let me dizzy, homework is needless to say, have no more, more homework is like a mountain, pressed my breath, as if in the books, I cant escape out. But thats not all, every time I test is bad, because this home can I get the mother comfort, can backfire, mother was furious, also give me the sixth grade problem. Oh my god! In that way, I can quickly become a nerd!

In life growing up, there are a lot of joy, nor without trouble, with the passage of time, gradually also let me understand: but you have had a trouble of "attacks" that you are one step closer to success!

在我们成长的道路上，不可能一帆风顺，总会有一些烦恼，就好像天空被乌云罩住，我也被烦恼笼罩住了

记得在我6岁时，我还是一个无忧无虑的小屁孩。只会吃完睡，睡完吃，除了吃就是睡。可是我上了小学之后，我再也没有小时候那样没有烦恼，反而烦恼渐渐变多

在学校，烦恼就是考试和作文。每当我没有得到好成绩时，我就会闷闷不乐。在家里，烦恼就是背书和作业。随着年龄的长大，背的也越来越多，每当背的时候，语文书里的字就像会动的小精灵，在我四周转来转去，让我头晕眼花，作业就不用说了，已经多的不能再多了，作业就像一座山，把我压得喘不过气，好像在书堆里，使我逃不出去。可这还没完，每当我靠试考不好时，我本因为回家可以得到妈妈的安慰，可事与愿违，妈妈却大发雷霆，还把六年级的题给我做。天哪!在这样下去，我简直快变成书呆子了!

在人生成长的过程中，有许多欢乐，但也少不了烦恼，随着时光的流逝，渐渐也让我明白了：但你经历了一次烦恼的“袭击”那你离成功也更近一步!

成长是向一个方向靠近，下面是关于成长的英语句子，欢迎大家阅读。

一】at the touch of love everyone becomes a poet.每一个沐浴在爱河中的人都是诗人。

二】Good name in man and woman, dear my lord, is the immediate jewel of their souls: Who steals my purse steals trash; ’tis something, nothing. (Othello )无论男人女人，名誉是他们灵魂中最贴心的珍宝，如果有人偷走了我的钱袋，他不过偷走了一些废物，那不过是些毫无价值的东西罢了。——《奥赛罗》

三】We all are wishing especially for you the nicest birthday. May all the beautiful things in life will come to you.大伙儿都祝福你度过一个最美好的生日，愿你拥有生活中的一切美丽!

四】the sandflass remembers the time we lost沙漏记得`我们遗忘的时光

五】、Love, and the same charcoal, burning, need to find ways to ask cooling. Allow an arbitrary, it is necessary to heart charred爱，和炭相同，烧起来，得想办法叫它冷却。让它任意着，那就要把一颗心烧焦

六】don’t forget the things you once you owned. treasure the things you can’t get. don’t give up the things that belong to you and keep those lost things in memory.

七】我需要他，正如我需要呼吸空气。look into my eyes - you will see what you mean to me.

八】gaps are left in life through which comes the sad music of death. 生命中留下许多间隙,从中传来死亡的伤感乐曲.

九】to keep someone around you is not love; love is to let the one you love go freely.不是把对方留在自己身边才叫爱，能放手让所爱的人离开，也是爱的一种。

十】a thousand-li journey is started by taking the first step. 千里之行，始于足下。

十一】words can not express true love, loyalty behavior is the best explanation 真正的爱情是不能用言语表达的，行为才是忠心的最好说明。

十二】idon’t think that when people grow up, they will become morebroad-minded and can accept everything. conversely, i think it’s aselecting process, knowing what’s the most important and what’s theleast. and then be a simple man.我不觉得人的心智成熟是越来越宽容涵盖，什么都可以接受。相反，我觉得那应该是一个逐渐剔除的过程，知道自己最重要的是什么，知道不重要的东西是什么。而后，做一个纯简的人。

十三】the road of life is a spiral path, only swagger, flexible turning, can rise to the ideal.人生道路是一条螺旋上升的路径，只有昂首阔步，灵活弯转，才能上升至理想的峰顶。

十四】to keep someone around you is not love; love is to let the one you love go freely.不是把对方留在自己身边才叫爱，能放手让所爱的人离开，也是爱的一种。

十五】why is it that i have to climb , mountains to get to you and all you have to do is smile to get to me 为什么我要翻山越岭才能靠近你，而你，则只需一个微笑?

十六】even next second we didn’t meet, on one second we will meet.即使下一秒我们没有相遇，上一秒我们也会相见。

十七】love is not a matter of counting the days. it’s making the days count. 爱情不是数着日子过去，它让每个日子都变得有意义。

十八】if you leave me, please don’t comfort me because each sewing has to meet stinging pain.

十九】active long will be very tired, care about for a long time will crash! 主动久了会很累， 在乎久了会崩溃!

二十】an aim in life is the only fortune worth finding.生活的目标，是唯一值得寻找的财富。

二十一】eternity is not a distance but a decision. 永远不是一种距离，而是一种决定。

二十二】in love’s bumpy road, we’d better not say love.在爱情的坎坷路上，我们最好别说爱。

二十三】andyoudon’tknowifitwillbeyourlast.你无从知道这是否最后刻。

二十四】put my broken heart together again把我破碎的心再拼凑起来

二十五】i feel happy at times we have had angry words but these have been kissed away.我们生气争执时，爱的双唇把它们吻得无影无踪，我的心也顿觉甜蜜。

二十六】to the world you may be one person, but to one person you may be the world. 对于世界而言，你是一个人;但对于某个人，你是他的整个世界。

二十七】don’t try so hard, the best things come when you least expect them to. 不要着急，最好的总会在最不经意的时候出现。

二十八】why is it that i have to climb , mountains to get to you and all you have to do is smile to get to me 为什么我要翻山越岭才能靠近你，而你，则只需一个微笑?

二十九】：no man or woman is worth your tears, and the one who is, won‘t make you cry.没有人值得你流泪，值得让你这么做的人不会让你哭泣。

三十】Warm wishes on your birthday. I send along my love and affection for you as well as a small gift. Take care!热烈祝贺你的生日，捎给你我对你的爱，也寄去一件小礼物，多保重!

三十一】even next second we didn’t meet, on one second we will meet.即使下一秒我们没有相遇，上一秒我们也会相见。

三十二】he who has ability to be such a naughty guy and can be stronger more as well. 有本事任性的人，也会有本事坚强

现在的我整天嘻嘻哈哈，是个活泼开朗的女孩。可你们不知道，小时候的我不是这样的，而是孤独的一个人。我喜欢一个人坐在角落里，喜欢一个人唱歌，一个人微笑，一个人躲在被子里哭泣……

因为这份孤独，我和别人有了一层厚厚的隔膜，导致我一个朋友也没有。一看到别人在我背后指指点点，我的心又黑暗几分。“哎哎，你看她，整天都一个人，还摆出一副清高的样子，都没人跟她玩，可怜兮兮的。”这样的我遭到了别人的讨厌，就连老师也不怎么喜欢我，因为我在班级中默默无闻。

直到上了四年级，一个叫陈静的同学改变了我。有一天，她突然走到我的面前，对我说：“你好，我叫陈静，我们交个朋友，好吗？”我抬头一看，她面带微笑，等我的答案呢。我犹豫了片刻，然后大声地说：“好！”她原以为我不会答应的，没想到我居然同意了。她惊讶之余，随即伸出了手：“我们拉钩。”“好。”我也立即伸出手。“拉钩上吊，一百年不许变！好了，我们以后就是好朋友了。”

从那以后，我开始让别人走进我的世界。我也试着主动与别人说话，主动与别人交往。有朋友的感觉真爽！烦恼时，我会跟她们述说；高兴时，我会跟她们分享；有疑问时，我会向她们请教；犹豫不决时，我会跟她们商量……因为友谊的滋润，我的生活充满了阳光。

从此，我不再孤独！

In the process of growth, we are happy, also worry, want happiness is very easy, trouble is only between a read, can we still find it hard to get rid of trouble. Our life is full of the seven colors, however, even when the sun shines, also hard to avoid appear short of clouds.

The hour hou, spring, summer, autumn and winter have lasting appeal. Spring flowers, can see when I fly kites in the square shed happy perspiration; Xia Lichan song, when I can see on the swimming colorful spray splashing around; Autumn maple, flying can path that was covered in red maple saw me jumping figure; When the wind howling winter, can see happy smile on my face in the garden. With the warm winter sun all around.

As time flies, I gradually grew up, the four seasons is still the same color, but not the past, as are all the same, as if every day doing the same thing - get up, go to school, go to sleep.

Weekend, no longer belongs to yourself, all kinds of cram school behind. Life, the less laughter, less happy, the more trouble, the more disappointed.

When the spring flowers, no more time to enjoy, see the kite, there is a puzzling of sadness, I carry a heavy bag on my way to school; In Xia Lichan wong, hot air was full of the whole sky, sweat instead of the tears shed, in the hot summer season, Im suffocating, laugh as if in the swimming pool is only a dream, sometimes find cicadas scream is also a kind of ridicule; Autumn maple flying, did not have the foot on the maple leaf is ringing sound, road is quiet, occasionally wind help, let me think maybe ringing sound just fantastical imagination; The wind howling winter, did not have the warm sunshine, only the gloomy sky and bone-chilling winds, bare branches like old witch long hands outside the window, I can only put down the bag, struggling in the crowd, its raining, who is crying?

在成长的过程中，我们快乐过，也烦恼过，想快乐很容易，烦恼只不过是一念之间，可我们仍然很难摆脱烦恼的纠葛。我们的生活确实充满了七色阳光，然而，即便是在阳光普照的时候，也难免出现短暂的阴云。

小时侯，春夏秋冬各有韵味。春暖花开时，能看见我在广场上放风筝时流下的快乐的汗水;夏立蝉鸣时，能看见我在游泳时身旁溅起的缤纷的水花;秋枫飞落时，能在铺满红枫的小路上瞧见我蹦跳的身影;冬风呼啸时，能在花园里瞧见我脸上愉快的微笑。四周都洒下了冬日暖暖的阳光。

随着时间的飞逝，我渐渐长大了，四季还是一样的颜色，却没有了昔日的韵味，好像都是一个样，每天仿佛都在做同一件事——起床、上学、睡觉。

周末，不再属于自己，各类补习班紧跟在后面。生活中，少了一些欢笑，少了一些快乐，多了一些烦恼，多了一些惆怅。

当春暖花开时，不再有时间去欣赏，看到满天的风筝，有种莫名其妙的悲伤，我背着沉甸甸的书包走在上学的路上;在夏立蝉鸣时，闷热的空气布满了整个天空，汗水代替眼泪不断流下，在炎热的夏日季，我快要窒息，游泳池里的欢笑仿佛只是一个梦境，有时觉得蝉的嘶鸣也是一种嘲笑;秋枫飞落时，没有了脚踩在枫叶上清脆的声响，小路上静静的，偶尔风扶过，让我觉得也许清脆的声响只是天马行空的想象;冬风呼啸时，没有了暖暖的阳光，只有阴沉的天空和刺骨的寒风，窗外光秃秃的树枝像老巫婆长长的手，我只能放下书包，在题海中苦苦挣扎，下雨了，是谁在哭泣呢?

Man’s life is a process of growing up, actually I’m standing here is a

growth. If a person’s life must constituted by various choices, then I grow up

along with these choices. Once I hope I can study in a college in future,

however that’s passed, as you know I come here, now I wonder what the future

holds for me.

When I come to this school, I told to myself: this my near future, all

starts here. Following I will learn to become a man, a integrated man, who has a

fine body, can take on important task, has independent thought, an open mind,

intensive thought, has the ability to judge right and wrong, has a perfect

job.

Once my teacher said :” you are not sewing, you are stylist; never forget

which you should lay out to people is your thought, not craft.” I will put my

personality with my interest and ability into my study, during these process I

will combine learning with doing. If I can achieve this “future”, I think that I

really grow up. And I deeply believe kindred, good-fellowship and love will

perfection and happy in the future.

I remember that day when I watch the cartoon, there is a scene, the girl helps her mother to wash clothes, the mother is so happy and moved. It makes me want to help my mother wash clothes, so she will be happy, too. This is my first time to wash clothes, I put all the clothes together and wash it again and again. I think I do a good job.

我记得那天我看到一部卡通片，里面有一个场景，女孩帮助她的妈妈洗衣服，妈妈又高兴又感动。这让我也想帮助妈妈洗衣服，这样她也会很开心。这是我第一次洗衣服，我把所有的衣服放在一起，一遍又一遍的洗。我觉得我做得还不错。

Not since when, growing pains, in combination with many complaints to let out of me, this topic good kind. Xin qiji once said: "young not sorrow taste". Perhaps his boyhood carefree, along with the continuous development of history, the more trouble, all left us.

As I grew up, there are a lot of troubles around me. In school, most of things to talk about with parents, not only because they will talk a long, not I say one word, and my ears also cant stand so many words and so I dont want to let ears with parents that he didnt want to suffer said! However, I want to say, all every day to write in a book, and also is a diary. After writing, let oneself enjoy myself, to solve their things. Start going well, but I think my parents look very uncomfortable, I have a few things to deceive the (indeed, some of them are clearly dont want them.

That day, I come home from school, after finishing the homework, according to the conventional, get diary, suddenly, I discovered diary was moved, I suddenly fire emit three zhangs, want to know is they. I got out of the bedroom, loudly asked them whether seen my diary? They say that the legitimate instead of all know me, is their obligations.

I cant take any more, I just want to own a piece of blue sky, why are you so selfish take it, is want to know me? I returned to the room, feel oneself have nothing, alas! Why parents in total want to know when we grow up, we dont want to let us have his own ideas, alas! So cruel!

Our lives are filled with seven colors sunlight, but even in the sunshine, also appears unavoidably short clouds. The young, there will be some lingering worries. These troubles from life, from study, the communication with students from... However, there is worry is not terrible, the key is to correct it. From now on, let us together, eliminate worries, clean with colorful dream maturity.

自从时,成长的烦恼,结合许多投诉,让我这个话题好善良。辛弃疾曾经说过:“年轻不愁滋味”。也许他孩提时代无忧无虑,随着历史的不断发展,更多的麻烦,所有离开了我们。

当我长大时,我周围有很多的麻烦。在学校里,大多数的事情与父母谈论,不仅因为它们会说话,不是我说一个字,我的耳朵也受不了那么多话,所以我不想让耳朵与父母,他不想说!然而,我想说,每天写一本书,也是一个日记。写完,让自己享受自己,解决他们的事情。开始好了,但我认为我的父母看起来很不舒服,我有一些事情要欺骗(事实上,他们中的一些人显然不想让他们。

那一天,我放学回家,写完作业后,按照常规,日记,忽然,我发现日记本被移动,我突然火冒三丈,想知道的是他们。我走出卧室,大声问他们是否看到我的日记吗?他们说都知道的合法而不是我,是他们的义务。

我不能采取任何更多的,我只是想自己的一片蓝天,你们为什么这样自私的把它,是想知道我吗?我回到房间里,觉得自己没有什么,唉!为什么父母总想知道当我们长大了,我们不想让我们都有自己的想法,唉!太残忍了!

我们的生活充满了七色阳光,但即使在阳光下,也难免出现短暂的云。年轻,会有一些挥之不去的担忧。这些烦恼来自生活,来自学习,与学生沟通…然而,有担心并不可怕,关键是要正确的。从现在开始,让我们一起,消除忧虑,干净的成熟度有丰富多彩的梦想。

人活在这世上，最受不了的便是孤独。孤独，在落花时节，好似你是落花，我是新芽；孤独，在游泳之际，好似你是顺流而下可我逆流而上；孤独，在奔跑之时，好似你想夺冠，我只是重在参与。

我曾经也享受过孤独。童年的直爽个性，使我总会在交明友时遇到坎坷。从小，我不善于与别人交流。

我渴望遇到知心朋友。终于，我遇到了也结识了！我们相伴走过夕阳，迎来日出，踏遍千山为一地落红。

可世事也不尽人意，就在我从小学升往初中的前几个星期，我们便不在一块玩了。也许是因为我的原因，个性要强；也许，我们并不是一条船上的，总是要各自追寻远方。

那段时间，我几乎没有朋友。因为之前她们的朋友也是我的明友，她们在班上形成小团体，而我恰恰是那个分离出来的。我又内向，也不跟其他的男生说话。

那时，我便学会了享受孤独。我慢慢知道了教室到学校门口要一百零五步，从座位到讲台需要十二步，窗外的叶子落下要五秒……我便独自沉醉在自己的世界。她们不与我谈话，我便也不语。可我的成绩班上由中等水平直升班上的一二名。所有人都对我刮目相看。在小升初的时候，我考到了第一名，和她们便不在一个学校了，我走上了新的求学之路。

如果你问我会不会怪她们不与我玩，我曾思量：我也许应该谢谢她们，谢谢她们让我享受了孤独，享受了童年馈赠与我的唯一值得纪念的时光。我现在已经是一名初二的学生，曾经的伤疤早已愈合，也有了新的朋友，但我永远都不想再次享受那份孤独。人生有时候便是这样，当你丢失了一串佩戴已久的项链，或许之后你会得到更精美的替代品，但你却记住了失去那一刻的痛苦。

也许，是孤独的力量让我走到今天，但永远也不会再思量。

How times flies! Now I am a student in Grade Nine and facing the first turning point in my school life. This title “Growing pains and gains” reminds me of the meaningful school life. The colourful life is full of my happineand sorrows.

In school, I have to take a lot of lessons. Some are interesting while some are boring. But it’s the responsibility of the students to learn them all well. I have to try my best. During my growing time, a lot of trouble worried me. That’s awful and makes me blue.

Although I met with a lot of failure, I still have a lot of gains. I can make a pricelefriendship. I can learn a large number of useful things---to be kind, friendly to others, to be confident and independent and so on.

In the matter of courage we all have our limits. There never was a hero who did not have his bounds. I suppose it may be said of Nelson and all the others whose courage has been advertised that there came times in their lives when their bravery knew it had come to its limit.

I have found mine a good many times. Sometimes this was expected--often it was unexpected. I know a man who is not afraid to sleep with a rattle-snake, but you could not get him to sleep with a safety-razor.

I never had the courage to talk across a long, narrow room. I should be at the end of the room facing all the audience. If I attempt to talk across a room I find myself turning this way and that, and thus at alternate periods I have part of the audience behind me. You ought never to have any part of the audience behind you; you never can tell what they are going to do.