关于孝道的英文作文【经典19篇】

20xx年秋季的一个星期二清晨，我和同学们正在做早操，吴老师急匆匆地跑过来，告诉我“你的爸爸病危了，快回去看看吧！”。 我大惊失色，差点儿昏了过去，一边跑一边想：这不是真的……不是真的……

生老病死，人间有之。这是真的，我疾步跑到爸爸的病床前，大声喊道：“爸，您不能丢下我呀！您一定要看到我努力学习金榜题名的那一刻。”这是我赤胆忠心的倾诉，爸爸却一声不吭。妈妈抱着我爸爸的头痛哭流涕，我也在旁边簌簌直哭。两膑斑白的奶奶嚷道：“你们就不能让我的儿子好好休息吗！”爸爸始终没能说出一句话。

爸爸似乎没有要“走”的意思，只是静静地躺着。我们全家人为之感到一点欣慰，正想着爸爸应该不会“走”了吧！没等我反过神来，爸爸却突然去了“鬼门关”。霎时间，一家人哭得天昏地转。奶奶抱头痛哭：“我的好儿子，我的靠背山，你就这么倒了，我怎么活下去呀！”再怎样哭喊都是没用的，爸爸他已经“走”了，也不再回头了。

爸爸“走”了，我家的顶梁柱倒了。生活的担子突然压到了妈妈的身上，供我上学、供我生活，这一切的一切，我怎么办？我只能努力学习，长大后， 以“孝”义为先，报答母亲的养育之恩。

我这一生最大的遗憾，就是没有好好的陪着爸爸，孝敬爸爸。爸爸呀！为何不让我孝敬您？从此，我便告戒自己：人生得来有几回，时需“孝道”且谨记。

专家点评:

用词不准确，选材欠妥

孝一直是个美德，那么什么是真正意义上的孝呢？

古人云‘百事孝为先’，可见在很久以前，人们就已经推行、重视孝道了。一个孝字，道出了多少历史的辛酸与沧桑，古代的贤德明君就推行以‘仁孝’治天下，由此可知，孝在人们心中的地位之大。自古以来，不孝之人必遭千古骂名。孝，乃一种人伦、道德之孝。看一个人是否孝顺父母，就大致可以看出这个人的本性善恶如何。如果连自己的父母都可以不顾，那跟动物有何分别？不管是出于什么方面的原因，父母毕竟是给我们生命的恩人，我们有责任义不容辞地照顾他们。如果不尽人情地去孝顺父母，那么我想还是那句话，这跟禽畜有什么区别呢？中国道路之发展，人类之诞生，历史之变迁。承接着层层血脉关系，谱写着人类点点滴滴的人性美，正是在这样进步和发展中，使人类认识到了，血脉亲情，血浓于水的关系孝义是不可抛的。

今天，我们是站在21世纪文明的脚下，我们以为不忠不义的事情也已经消失殆尽了，文明的观念，使得‘孝’这个文明传统已经倍加深入人心。可是我却要说‘NO，NO，NO。’其实，在我们的社会生活中，还存在着少部分不孝之人。父母辛辛苦苦把他们养大成人，可却落了个无人送终的下场。他们不顾亲情血脉，人情道义，不孝顺父母，不赡养父母，不关心父母，不给父母精神上的支持与安慰。这种人相对于孝顺的人而言，显得薄情寡义，是个泯灭人性的动物。‘孝’不管任何时候，任何缘由，都要抱以宽恕、理解的态度，因为作为子女，百事孝为先吗？相反，一个孝顺父母的人，他就会从心底上去用心回报父母对他的爱，懂得知恩图报，会为父母做一些力所能及的事，会给予父母精神上的物质财富，使得父母舒心、快乐。同时，作为一个孝顺的人，我认为他还应该懂得去克制自己，不去做违法违规的事，就是不让父母为他操心过度。今天站在自己的角度上，我也要提出自己一些看法，来对‘孝’这个字以透彻的理解。

自从人类有了亲情开始，孝道便与我们好像永远脱不了关系了。小时候，我们从一个婴儿呱呱坠地的那一刻，我们的父母就要为我们操劳了，他们日夜不停，无时无刻地守护着我们，生怕我们生出一点毛病来。给我们喂奶，换尿布，一直呵护我们不停。有时候是夜以继日地操劳着，连个安稳觉都不能睡好。平时不管工作有多忙，有多苦，他们只是‘哑巴吃黄连’，默默地承受着这一切，连个怨言也没有。到了我们渐渐长大的年龄了，我们也许都应该学会懂事了。可是事实并不是这样，父母要为我们更加担心了，他们担心我们的学习，健康成长，为我们将来的出路而感到无比担忧。他们‘费尽心机’一切只为我们打算，为了让我们有更好的生活与未来，而奔波劳累。同学们，这就是我们的父母呀。他们的双鬓已经斑白，让我们从现在开始用心去关心、爱护，孝顺我们的父母吧。

父母的爱是这个世界上最伟大的爱他们的爱是不求回报的，是为了让子女的将来能过得好一点，那样他们就心满意足了。虽然父母的爱是无私的奉献，但是我们也要像甘露一样，奉献出那清澈甜美的可贵的那一面。虽然是微不足道的一面，但是我们也要尽心尽力。

让我们继承中华民族的传统美德，来发扬，弘扬‘孝’这个美德，让孝道永远驻足在我们心中吧。

1．Pain past is pleasure.

（过去的痛苦就是快乐。）

2． While there is life, there is hope.

（有生命就有希望/留得青山在，不怕没柴烧。）

3． Wisdom in the mind is better than money in the hand.

（脑中有知识，胜过手中有金钱。）

4． Storms make trees take deeper roots.

（风暴使树木深深扎根。）

5． Nothing is impossible for a willing heart.

（心之所愿，无所不成。）

6． The shortest answer is doing.

（最简单的回答就是干。）

7． All things are difficult before they are easy.

（凡事必先难后易。）

8． Great hopes make great man.

（伟大的理想造就伟大的人。）

9． God helps those who help themselves.

（天助自助者。）

Easter is celebrated by exchange of Easter Eggs and other nifty gifts.Gift range may vary from anything between money,clothes,chocolate or go on holidays together.Some people make Easter bonnets or baskets,which have things like daffodils in them or mini eggs.Children sometimes go to a local community center to enter an Easter bonnet competition to see whose bonnet is the best and the winner gets an Easter egg.

The Easter bunny is very much a part of the Easter tradition in British.The shops are filled with thousands which people buy to give to each other.The Easter bunny hides the eggs in the houses and children on Easter Sunday search to find these treats.

Hot-cross buns are popular foods on Good Friday.These are sweet fruit buns with crosses on top.Some people still make these with yeast,but shops now sell dozens in the week before Easter.

复活节的彩蛋和其他漂亮的礼物交换庆祝.礼物的范围可能会有所不同从任何钱,衣服,巧克力或一起去度假.有些人做复活节帽子或篮子,其中有像水仙花或小鸡蛋.孩子们有时会去当地的社区中心参加复活节帽比赛看谁的帽子是最好的,获胜者可以得到一个复活节彩蛋.

复活节兔子是英国的很大一部分,复活节的传统.商店挤满了成千上万的人买给对方.复活节兔子的皮的鸡蛋在房子和孩子们在复活节的星期日,搜索这些治疗.

十字面包是在星期五受欢迎的食物.这些都是甜的水果面包的十字架上.有些人仍然把这些酵母,但商店现在出售数十名在复活节前的一周.

Dear Prof Herthwell，

亲爱的Herthwell教授：

Many thanks for your kind hospitality and the honor you showed me during

our delegation’s recent visit to your university。 It was nice of you to

introduce me to so many famous professors and celebrated scholars at your

university。 We had a safe and sound trip home。 Now we have resumed our work。

十分感谢你的盛情款待，以及在你在我们的代表团最近访问你的大学时对我们的尊敬。多谢你把我介绍给那么多您大学里的知名教授和著名的学者。我们已经平安愉悦得回到家了。此刻，我们继续我们的工作了。

Meanwhile， I hope you will someday pay a short visit to our university and

give us some lectures on “Modern Western Economics”。

同时，我期望有一天你能够对我校进行一个短暂的访问并给我们开一些关于“现代西方经济学”的讲座。

Please have no hesitation in writing to me if you want me to do something

for you in China。

如果你要我为你在中国做些事情，请不要犹豫，写信给我。

Best wishes，

Li Dong

最好的祝愿

李东

英文名称是Application letter。它通常分为几种类型，包括索取公司应聘申请表及详细资料的不带的求职信，附简历的应征求职信，试探性的求职信等等。 那么，英文有哪些呢？

递交求职信的目的是用求职信来吸引阅读者，而不是一种形式或习惯。打开装有求职信的信封，首先看到的就是求职信，它是表现应聘者个性的工具，想象一下，如果对方看到的是连折叠都不齐整的信纸，还有好心情看下去吗？而结构松散的信会让人觉得写信者条理不清晰。语法拼写或标点的错误太多，则会让人觉得此人办事容易出错，对工作不负责任，公司是不会聘用这样的人的。通常一封求职信的阅读时间是30秒，在这30秒内能体现的实际上是你的风格。而每一个公司都喜欢聘用专业作风很强的有能力的员工。

在招聘广告中，常要求有意申请者可致电或致函索取公司的申请表格。索取这类申请表格的求职信一般都比较简短，格式参照范例。 得到申请表格后，仔细填写后一般与简历一起交给公司。申请表格的填写。

附简历的应征求职信具有向招聘者说明简历和具体求职内容的作用。简历中你已经将自己的职业经历或教育情况列表说明了，在求职信里就应着重表达自己的意见。在求职信里要简短地对简历中提到的与应聘职位有关的职业经历和技能加以说明。但是，只是简单的重复简历里的内容是不够的。要把简历里没有的内容充分添加进去，显示出与其他应聘者的差别。你需要表达的观点是：渴望、确信、真诚（I am keen, I am clear and I am sincere)。在第一段里，陈述你渴望得到这个空缺职位，第二段说明你已了解这项工作和公司的要求，说明你为什么认为你符合它们的招聘条件。第三段讲清你本人希望在何时面试，何时可以上班。第四段采用能使公司相信你对这项工作真正有兴趣的语句结束这封信。

典型的求职信格式是：你的地址写在信纸的右上方，地址下面是写信日期。信纸左上角要写上接受你求职信的人的姓名和尊称其下面是该公司的名称和地址。再下面就是招聘广告中给出的其他相关代码。

试探性的求职信是你主动发给你感兴趣的公司的，这类希望渺茫的却经常能出人意料的取得成功，因为这种申请求职的方法表现出了申请人本身的能力、勇气和激情。

试探性求职申请信应该简洁，讲清楚你对该公司感兴趣的原因，写明你具备的资格以及你认为会引起该公司注意的任何品德。邮寄申请信时，要把也一起寄去。你还需要知道公司里人事经理或部门经理的名字，把直接信寄给他会更有效一些。

可能在很长的一段时间里，你收不到任何回音，那么可以断定该公司目前没有你申请的空缺职位。

征文的英文：

solicit articles

solicit是什么意思：

v. 请求，恳求，乞求；征求；拉客

She was fined for soliciting.

她因拉客而被罚款。I solicit the favor of interview.

本人恳请惠予面试机会。Both the candidates solicited my vote.

两位候选人都向我拉票。They were very solicitous and attentive to detail.

他们非常细心，十分注意细节。Our hero was very solicitous about his descendants.

们的主人公是非常关心他的子孙后代的。articles是什么意思：

n. 文章；论文；条款；物品；冠词

v. 进行控告，提出罪状；签订协议；订约将…收为学徒或见习生

carry an article

刊登一篇文章 It is a serious article.

这是一篇发人深省的文章。A Class III article if it is of the opinion that the article is obscene

如认为该物品为色情物品，可评定为第Ⅲ类物品(grammar)either of the determiners `a/an(the indefinite article)or `the(the definite article)

冠词(不定冠词a/an或定冠词the)The article is too long, it has to be cut.

这篇文章太长了，要删减。

I like to watch movies so much. Since I was very small, I have watched a

lot of movies. Some people think that it is a waste of time on this amusement,

then I can tell them they think in the wrong way. Watching movies is a good way

to learn things. When I finish watching the movie, I will scan the comments on

the Internet, then the analysis of the movie helps me understand the movie

better. Whats more, I also learn the culture. Like the movie Mummy, I learn the

Egypt culture. When I search more information, I feel like reading a history

book. Watching movie is a funny way to learn knowledge.

What a great forest! Today is the Spring Festival party in the forest, on the ground, flying in the sky all go to see the Spring Festival Gala.

The host is the thrush bird and the canary, which first speaks fluently about some blessings, and then please go to the singer &mdash in the forest; — the puppy.

When the puppy came to power, he said, “ what song do you love to hear me most? ” the animals say in a different voice: “ spring ”. The puppy sang, &ldquo, Wangwang, spring sprouts, spring flowers opened … … ” after listening to the puppy song, the animals applauded the puppy singer down.

The second play is the fox, the fox came on, he sang the song of the fox fox: “ squeak, our mouth is so sharp, so big eyes … … “, listening to the fox singing, we laugh together not so please clap down the fox mouth side. The third is the peacock. When the peacock comes to the stage, she starts to jump up &ldquo. The dance of Spring Festival &rdquo, her head is wearing gold crown, wearing bright clothes and graceful dancing. Animals cant help saying, &ldquo, they jump too well, &rdquo.

Two kids came, they came to power, to everyone bowed, then bleating for everyone to ask a good start to drop, some ball in their hands is very obedient, look at the dazzling animal.

Nbsp; after the end of the spring party, the animals walked out of the studio.

Yesterday was Sunday ,the weather was sunny.And my friends asked me to go to the park with them.We went to the park by bike,and brought some foods and fruits with us .

The park was very quiet ,and we saw many old persons sang songs or dance in it.We looked for a long time .Then we went to see the beautiful flowers and also took some photoes .

At last ,we sat down on the glasses and had a picnic.

We all had a good time yesterday.

School is our home，we are  all  live and study here.  In order to make ourselves safe，as  a student，we should obey the school rules，we should go to school on time and be never late . We must obey the traffic rulers, mustn’t go swimming alone.we shouldn’ t  chase（追） each other in the hallway and in the school yard；we should get on well with others  and should not fight with others；we should not eat the food that goes bad and some junk food；we  do not drink；we mustn’t be allowed to smoke, must  keep  away from cigarettes/smoking/drugs ;when you have questions to ask .you may ask the teachers  for  help.especially，when you meet someone asks for money，you needn‘t be afraid .you report  to the teacher or call 110/120 . We are required that students break away from these bad habits and be polite to others. We must obey  the traffic rulers, mustn’t go swimming alone.I hope we have a good time everyday.

学校是我们的家,我们都在这里学习和生活。为了使自己安全,作为学生,我们应该遵守学校的规定,我们应该准时上学,从不迟到。我们必须遵守交通规则,不能单独去游泳。我们不应该老是互相追逐(追)在走廊里,在学校里,我们应该和别人相处得很好,不应该和别人打架;我们不应该吃这个食物,坏账和一些垃圾食品;我们不喝,我们不能抽烟,必须远离香烟/吸烟/药物;当你有问题要问。你可以向老师寻求帮助。特别是,当你遇到某人问你要钱,你不必害怕。你的报告给老师或者叫110/120。我们要求学生摆脱这些坏习惯,礼貌待人。我们必须遵守交通规则,不能单独去游泳。

I think smiling is as important as sunshine. Smiling is like sunshine

because it can make people happy and have a good day. If you aren’t happy, you

can smile, and then you will feel happy. Someone may say, “But I don’t feel

happy.” Then I would say, “Please smile as you do when you are happy or play

with your friends happily. You will really be happy again.”

You don’t like crying, right? So you must prefer smiling, because you know

smiling will let people forget everything unhappy. Every day, we see teachers or

students and say, “Hi/Hello! How are you?” At the same time, you are smiling,

right?

Smiling can let you have more friends. With a smile, people will know

you’re a kind person. They will talk with you, so you will have more and more

friends.

So I say, smiling is like a flower, the sunshine, warmth. It will give you

happiness.

1.   《Cannot help falling in love》——Elvis Presley：猫王的老歌，歌词并不重要，轻松而充满爱意的旋律已经表达了一切。优美的旋律用在浪漫的氛围中最合适不过，作为进场的音乐背景很别致。

2.   《Always you》——Sophie Zelmain：以这样的音乐迎接新娘的出场，浪漫感十足。

3.   《Little drummer boy》——Charlotte Church：女歌手宛如天籁的悠扬旋律，高贵而典雅，适合用于说话时的背景音乐。

4.   《Nothing can change my love》——歌词意境悠扬，副歌部分精彩，裁剪出来，将更能表现出饱满的情绪。

5.   《Love never end》——Sweety：在温馨浪漫的环境下，这样的出场音乐，使新娘就像天使来到人间。

6.   《Truly madly deeply》——Savage garden：适合年轻而时髦的婚礼，可以用作播放FLASH等环节的背景音乐。

7.   《A twist of marley》——还原派对婚礼的本色，让来宾不再拘谨，畅所欲言，尽情舞动。

8.   《Air on the G string》——耳熟能详的经典歌曲，庄重不失优雅，若《婚礼进行曲》听腻了，不妨考虑这首音乐。、《This I promise you》——舒缓而优美的旋律，沙哑的男生，充满磁性，告诉你，我为你一生承诺。虽然是流行音乐，如果能有屏幕同时打出歌词，效果会更好，或者用在正式仪式前播放两人婚纱照的时分。

9.   《I will always love you》——Whitney Houston：该曲一开始即是高潮，可以直接运用在交换戒指或者亲吻新娘之时，震撼力十足。

10.   《BELLE》——Jack Johnson：用在新郎表白时的背景音乐，能营造出一种复古又低调的感觉。

11.   《Save the best to last》——Vanessa Williams：煽情的音乐，让你怀着一颗感恩的心，配合音乐的节奏，缓缓导出你的感谢之情。

12.   《Cannot help fall in love》——Elvis Presley：表白心迹最适宜的曲目，用作说话时的背景音乐不错。

13.   《Amelie from Montmartre》——Boyzone：比较适合时髦又活泼的新人，充分表达出年轻的活力。

14.   《Everyday I loved you》——Boyzone：大男孩的歌声，还带着一点腼腆，可以用作表白时的背景。

15.   《Perfect moment》——Martin McCutcheon：最完美的时刻，成就人生的完美，适合用在表白与亲吻的时候用。

Euston UK LTD

81?85 BARNLEY ROAD

DUNDEE

28th September, 1996

Ref: PVH/ltj

Jason & Son Ltd.

Parkside Manor

Burnside

Dumfries

Dear sir：

Thank you for your letter of 20 September, requesting a reference for Clairish Computers Ltd. The answers to your questions are as follows:

1. We have employed Clairish Computers Ltd. since January 1995.

2. Clairish Computers has helped our company rectify a new computer system that had been badly installed by another firm of consultants. It has drawn up a system specification for a replacement system and has chosen appropriate hardware.

3. We did not select Clairish Computers from several candidates.

4. We were not first time computer users.

5. Our first system is working satisfactorily. The replacement system is still too new to comment on.

6. We are satisfied with the work of Clairish Computers. The various stages were completed on time, and the charges agreed with the quotes.

7. There was continuity of staff at Clairish Computers. Ian Baird managed the work, which was carried out by Alex Johnston and James MacReady.

8. The staff training was effectively carried out.

Yours faithfully,

Peter Haddon, Director

Friends are indispensable in life, with friends, you will feel more happy!

I have many friends, but my best friends and only one, she is taller than me, there is a cherry mouth, speak closely reasoned and well argued.

Whenever I encounter difficulties, she will help me solve the problem; whenever I am in a bad mood, she would tell jokes to amuse me; when I test the errors and sad, she will comfort me, encourage me, let me back up.

She is my best friend my mother.

Dear teachers and dear friends,

Everybody is good!

My name is Lin junhao. Today, I was standing on the platform for the first time, and the first speech was for the class monitor. At this moment, I am very excited and nervous. The class leader is a job that many students yearn for. I need someone who is capable and caring. I believe I have this ability. I have not been a monitor in the second and fourth grade. Do you continue to give me this opportunity? Let my childhood diary to leave the wonderful memory for the whole class to serve. I am enthusiastic and cheerful, love the collective, unite the classmate, have the love. My weakness is that I love playing games and not listening to other peoples advice to me. In the days to come, I will get rid of these problems.

If I succeed as the monitor, I will do the job well with vigorous energy and clear mind. I will hold a series of activities such as recitation, and of course, I will not say much more. I think we should all be doers, not those beautiful words. If I lose the election, I still have many shortcomings, I will continue to improve myself.

Work has trained me, and life has made me. Dale Carnegie said: Dont be afraid to sell yourself. If you think you are talented, you should think you are qualified to take on this or that position. .

Students, trust me, support me, please vote for me, thank you!

Fifth grade: I love games.

1.There are still many problems of environmental protection in recent years. One of the most serious problems is the serious pollution of air, water and soil. the polluted air does great harm to people’s health. The polluted water causes diseases and death. What is more, vegetation had been greatly reduced with the rapid growth of modern cities.

To protect the environment, governments of many countries have done a lot. Legislative steps have been introduced to control air pollution, to protect the forest and sea resources and to stop any environmental pollution. Therefore, governments are playing the most important role in the environmental protection today.

In my opinion, to protect environment, the government must take even more concrete measures. First, it should let people fully realize the importance of environmental protection through education. Second, much more efforts should be made to put the population planning policy into practice, because more people means more people means more pollution. Finally, those who destroy the environment intentionally should be severely punished. We should let them know that destroying environment means destroying mankind themselves.

2.We can’t live without water, but now the water was polluted. It is the biggest problem. It influences our daily life. So we should find a way to solve this problem. Water is important resources. In our daily life, we often leave the tap on after cleaning hands. Sometimes we often drop litter in the river. So the water was polluted by us. I think we could use a bottle of water two or three times. We have to turn off the tap after cleaning hands.

Let’s try to form a good habit and save things around us. Let’s do it from now on!

Fish can’t live without water. Plants can’t live without water. People can’t live without water, either. As you can see, the water is very important to us. But now drinking water is leand less. The water was polluted seriously.

So we would act quickly in order to save the water, But what must we do nowI think we can plant trees, clean the banks of the river, water the plants by using used water. Turn off the shower while we are washing hair. And we shouldn’t drop litter into the river and so on.

It’s our duty to try our best to protect and save water. And don’t forget that if we don’t save water, the last drop of water will be our tear

Water is very important to us. We can’t live without water. But the drinking water is leand less. Because we waste a lot of water in our daily life. And some of us often throw rubbish into the rivers. So the rivers are polluted seriously.

It’s our duty to save water, we must do something to save water. For example, we shouldn’t pour waste water into the rivers and we should pick up litter around us.

If we don’t save water, the last drop of water will be our tear

家风如一杯酒，清香甘冽；家风像一壶茶，醇厚芬芳；家风似一朵花，芳香扑鼻。我家的家风是：“百善孝为先”。

从我记事那天起，爸爸妈妈对爷爷奶奶的孝顺就刻在我脑海里。他们从不和爷爷奶奶顶嘴，家里的大小事情，爸爸妈妈都会听取爷爷奶奶的意见。有时奶奶发脾气，爸爸总是陪着笑脸。事后还不忘教育我：“奶奶年纪大了，有时事情做得多，就会有脾气，我们要让着她。”前年暑假，爷爷生了一场大病。一个暑假，爸爸在县城和龙田之间穿梭。后来爷爷到县中医院住院，妈妈每天照顾病重的爷爷，并给他做他最喜欢吃的甲鱼汤和鳝鱼汤，这些我都看在眼里。后来，爷爷去世了，只剩下奶奶一个人在农村老家，非常孤单。爸爸每个周末开车200多里回去陪她。有一次，爸爸听姑姑说奶奶在家摔了一跤，很着急，急忙赶回去给她买药。平时只要有时间，爸爸妈妈就带我一起回去看奶奶，我看着他们陪奶奶说话、下棋，给她剪指甲、盛饭，帮她洗碗筷。就在这一刻，我暗暗下定决心，以后也一定会像爸爸妈妈一样，做孝顺的女儿。

家风如春雨，润物细无声，随风潜入我的心灵，给我的人生留下了丰厚的精神财富，无论何时，我都会铭记：“百善孝为先。”

What is the taste of home? Before I lodge in school dormitory, I never think of this question. But, now I know what the taste of home is as I have lived in school for a month. I miss the delicious food cooked by my mother and her endless chatter. My father sits in the middle of the hall watching TV. The fight between my two younger brothers and the ice cream in the refrigerator make me feel warm. All these make a house a family. And it is the taste of home in my mind.

什么是家的味道?在我住校前，我从来没有想过这个问题。但是，如今在我已经住校一个月后我知道什么是家的味道了。我想念我妈妈做的美味食物了，还有她喋喋不休的唠叨声。爸爸坐在客厅中间看电视。两个弟弟的打闹声还有冰箱里的冰淇淋都让我觉得很温暖。所有这些都使得一个房子成为一个家。这些就是我心目中家的味道。

今天，百忙之中得来闲暇，陪母亲出门走走，这是她叨念了很久的心愿，只是，我却一直都未能做到！想要躲避良心的责备，于是，我告诉自己，也告诉她：我一直奔忙努力，只是希望有能力让她过得更好一点！

然而，我一直忘了问她，什么样的生活对于她来说，算是更好一点？

一辆豪华的轿车停在我们身边，车门开处，走下一个珠光宝气的老太太，年纪与母亲相仿，气势却截然不同，她带着随从，一脸冷漠地走进这五星级宾馆。目送她离去，回头看见身边的母亲，雪染双鬂，斑驳凝聚出银丝；身上的衣服依旧简朴。

蓦然间，心里一阵刺痛，一直想要让母亲过得更好，可是，怎样才叫好？像刚才那位老太太的生活吗？或许，那是我终其一生都难以企及的高度！

母亲拍拍我的手，笑容依旧是我熟悉的和气，她说：“不必艳羡她，因为，我拥有的比她更多！”

拥有的比她更多？我看着母亲，一脸疑惑！

母亲依旧微笑，言语间却透着难得的自豪：“我散步经过这里，经常看见她，每一次，她都这样来去匆匆，陪着她的，除了那个随从，就只剩下她一脸的冷漠！我比她幸福，至少，我还有女儿陪我出来散步！”

心再一次刺痛，努力了这么多年，奔忙了这么多年，冷落了父母这么多年，想要改善他们的生活一直是我前进的动力，今天才明白，原来，我努力追求的，从来都不是他们想要的！

他们要的，真的不多！他们要的无非是儿女们那少得可怜的陪伴！闲暇时分，能花上三四分钟听他们拉拉家常；下班回家，情愿喝上一碗妈妈递上的银耳莲子羹，他们已然满足，别无他求，幸福的笑容就会在他们脸上荡漾开来，一直带进梦里，依旧那样甜甜地笑着！

做为儿女，我们不应该觉得惭愧吗？终日为生活奔忙，追名逐利！淡漠了心境，冷落了双亲！间或承受良心的责备，我们还要为自己带上一顶高帽子：我们这样辛苦只是为了让他们过上好日子！

好日子？有没有人问过一声，对于他们而言什么样的日子叫做好日子？

我们一直以为，能让父母吃得好，穿得好，有能力让他们拿着某件价格不菲的商品出门炫耀一番，让别人知道他们有个有出息的儿子（女儿）就是孝顺！可是，我们却不知道，老人们的炫耀，比的不是价格，而是价值！

公园里，一位老人拿着一部外国原装的数码相机向同伴们炫耀：“这是我儿子从国外寄回来的。”看着那部没有一个中国字的机器，围观的人群没有意料中的艳羡，反而有些轻视：“这玩意一个中国字都没有，你会玩吗？”

不远处的另一堆人，同样的在攀比，一位妇人正在向她的同伴们展示身上那一件并不高档的新衣服：“这是前几天我女儿陪我买的！”一瞬间，多少人眼中漾出艳羡，赞美声此起彼伏，她们赞的是衣服，眼中看的却是衣服以外的某种东西！我知道，旁人的艳羡不是来自于那件衣服，而是仅仅源于那个“陪”字！

陪！对于我们年青人来说再一般不过，工作要陪客户，生活要陪**，难得的休息还要陪朋友；有没有人算过，一天24小时里，有几个小时是留给父母的？他们孤独一天，翘首盼望，等的或许只是为了跟孩子吃一顿晚饭！

曾经不明白，为什么退了休的老人喜欢扎堆在公园里，直到吃饭了也不回家。如今，父亲也退休了，也跟所有的老人一样，我方才明白，他们不是不回家，而是在等待儿女们来“接”他们回家！有时，只需简单的一句：“爸，回家吃饭了！”就足以赢得别人的艳羡，满足他们的“虚荣心”，让他们高兴得好像得到了心爱玩具的孩子！

犹如儿时的我们对父母的依赖一样，如今，儿女是老人唯一的依赖！富贵名利对于已近暮年的老人还有多大意义？儿女的亲近与关怀才是他们唯一的财富！古训有言：“家有一老，如获一宝！”宝的宝贵要多少财富方可匹敌？我不知道，我只知道，千金散去，终有复来之日，只是这稀世珍宝，若是失了，还有什么能填补此生遗憾？

名利浮华？富贵压身？那些不过是瞬间烟云，灯灭处，烟消云散！

遗憾？何为遗憾？丢了工作，失了价值，那叫历练，不是遗憾！劳燕分飞，同林异向？那是悲寂，不叫遗憾！辛苦创业，倾覆商海，那是老天给你的机会：待从头，收拾旧山河！

轰轰烈烈之后，回归平平淡淡，不知道有没有人曾注意到：世上有种遗憾，叫做：子欲养而亲不待！不是他们不情愿等待，而是，这个世界有着太多的变数和意外！容不得我们悔恨，也不同意他们等待！

待到失去了，你可会悔恨？你可懂留恋？你会不会在午夜梦回时流着泪惊醒，轻轻唤上一声双亲？你是不是在下班回家时，推开家门的瞬间，想念起那一碗甜甜的银耳莲子羹？

如果你会，为什么不懂得珍惜现在？为什么不让现有的温暖去填补那未来的遗憾？

其实，这稀世珍宝的价格并不昂贵，只是每天那仅仅几元的车费钱，抑或是那少得可怜的电话费！电话的彼端，你不要不耐烦，他们不需要你对客户般的小心翼翼，也不需要你作报告似的长篇大论，只是想要听听你的声音，想听到你亲口告诉他们：“今天，我很平安，也很快乐！”

天下父母皆牵挂，仅此而已！

做为儿女，忙不是借口，那几个倒背如流的数字，孝顺，只在手指跳跃间！不需要组织繁琐的语言，有时只要简单的一句：“天凉了，多加件衣服，爸妈要保重身体！”就已足矣！

前几天，在朋友那里学到一句话，出自**之口，虽然简洁，却是很美的人生格言，她说：“孝先行，事必成！”相信所有人都懂得他的意义，只是，能做到的，又能有几人？

百善孝为先！愿天下所有已经成功或是正在努力追求成功的朋友，不要忘了，我们“成事”的根本；更别忘了，在这冷漠的人世间还有最能温暖我们的生命源泉！

他们的付出，不是天经地义，而是，值得珍惜！