给高中英语老师的一封信英文推荐20篇

Dear Jane,

Hello!I am sorry to hear that you think you own get fat.Dont worry,I will

gave you some advice,and I hope it can help you.

First,you need keep healthy eating.Such as eat enough vegetable and

fruit.And some apples and lemons can help you far away from fat.

Second,youd better do some exercise in your free time.Running is a good

choose that not only make you healthy,but also give you a good mood.

Last but not least,you should drink enough water.We often forget that it is

important in our busy live,but remember water is good for our health,and help

you protect get fat.

Best wishes to you.

Yours,

Li Hua

Dear Friends,

Please accept my sincere apology for the inconvenience that I caused you by

adding the extra visiting without your permission.

I had no intention of intruding on your personal life. In China, arranging

interesting leisure activities for visitors is a common way to show welcome.

However, as your receptionist, I should have realized that you are inclined to

regard your private time as an inviolable treasure and hate to be harassed by

unplanned matters.

Im really sorry that I didnt check with you before making such

incomsiderate arrangement .All I can say is that it wont happen again.

Sincerely,

LiLi

I have a baby sister.

She’s 2 ears old. She is very lovely. She has a short hair and small eyes.

There are two dimples near lip.

She is likes run and jump. She likes all the colors. She likes any animals.

She likes in the paper the graffiti. She likes cookies and oishi snacks. She

likes white teddy bear. She likes smiling. She likes to watch ads.

I likes baby sister.

Dear teacher:

Hello, time flies, time Rusuo, imperceptibly, and to welcome the new years day. Looking through the day, in your care and teaching, I grew up a one year old. The little things bit by bit, show in my mind. We have classes, read, do you always, always with us in the together. No matter what the weather is like, you are always early in the classroom waiting for us to go to class. How many day and night, you also for correcting our homework a light. Whenever I see a book on the red mark, you also gratified smile. I desperately germination, you have white hair. The teacher for we pay too much, saying good-bye to a batch after batch of students, his hair became infected with wind and frost. The new year is approaching, the students to give you deep blessing: I wish the teachers good health, good luck in everything.

Your students ---Wolverine

Hello , everybody! Do you know me ? My name is Liang Qikun. My English name

is Jenny. I am from China . I am ten years old . I am a clever girl . I have

short black hair , big black eyes , big ears , a small nose and a small mouth .

I am not very tall and not very thin . My hobby is reading books . My favourite

sport is adventuring. I can play the piano very well . This is me.

There is an old lady lives next to my house. Everyday I can see her

wandering around the main gate. My mother tells me that she is retired and has

nothing to do, so she likes to talk to others, or offers help. Once she helps me

to carry my luggage. I am so thankful to her. She is so kind and I like to talk

to her.

Nine nine Chongyang， as with the "long" is a homonym， in the nine figures is the largest number， the meaning of life for a long time。 In ， our country the annual September 9 set as a festival for the elderly， cleverly combining traditional and modern， become respect for the elderly， and love for the elderly， help the elderly Festival。

This year the festival is coming。 For you， Chung Yeung Festival plan how had it? If you are a young person and Chung Yeung Festival this day you may gave the mom and dad a gift， or to travel， relax mood; or make a phone call to the home， let the warm greetings， a heart warming gift。 If you are an old man， you may have been a group of sympathy， or be invited to participate in activities。 Then Festival ended， but we do not like meishiren as the how how lead， must continue to show respect for the elderly， care for the elderly， care for the elderly。

Countries of the provisions of the Chung Yeung Festival this day is a festival for the elderly， the purpose of which is to use this to carry out activities to allow people to set up the consciousness of respecting。 The country has established a general acceptance of the festival， the important purpose is to remind the whole society for a certain thing， and not the only thing to do is to do。

Any activity that wants to be able to get the effect to be able to maintain a long enough time to show its significance。

In fact， the elderly are very simple， the park for a walk with the company， the weekend to go home for dinner， the phone call， can make them feel very satisfied and happy。

Parents should not only on this day， but also to remind himself， usually elderly care enough。 It is a year the Double Ninth Festival， from now let us more to care for the elderly， it is meaningful to the festival。

九九重阳，因为与“久久”同音，九在数字中又是最大数，有长久长寿的含意。年，我国把每年的九月九日定为老人节，传统与现代巧妙地结合，成为尊老、敬老、爱老、助老的老年人的节日。

今年的重阳节即将来临。对于你来说，重阳节计划怎么过呢?如果你是年轻人，重阳节这天你可能是送给了爸爸妈妈一份礼物，或者带他们出门旅游，放松心情;或者给家里打了一个的电话，让温馨的问候，成为暖心的礼物。如果你是老人，可能受到了一些组织的慰问，或者被邀请去参加活动。然后节日结束了，但是大家千万不要像没事人一样该怎么过就怎么过，一定还要继续尊敬老人，爱护老人、关心老人。

国家把重阳节这一天规定为敬老节，目的是用这种开展活动的方式来让人们树立尊老敬老的意识。国家设立一个社会普遍接受的节日，重要的目的在于提醒全社会对于某件事情的关注，而不是这件事情只有到了节日才想起来做。

任何一个希望能够获得效果的活动都要维持足够长的时间才能显示出它的意义来。

其实，老人们要求很简单，公园散步的陪伴、周末回家的晚餐、电话的问候，都能让他们感到无比的满足与幸福。

孝敬老人不仅仅要在重阳节这天，而且要时常提醒自己，平时对老人关心得够不够。又是一年重阳节，从现在开始就让我们更多地去关爱老人吧，那才是有意义的重阳节。

There was once a family, and they were all happy. Although they did not

have much money, the children still thought that working is the best!

In their country, lived a wise king, and you may guess, that this king was

proud and unkind; most people don’t like him, and so had driven him away through

the woods, and into a small boat, which they sent him away.

The king was not happy about this, and so went to see General Lord, to let

him help to win back his crown. And suppose, you may guess, that this proud king

had an evil Roman prince. It was already dawn and the sun was setting, General

Lord gave five horses to them; and told them to follow him. They galloped

further and further, until they came to a dark cave; curled with thick thorny

bushes, but this was no ordinary cave; oh no, this was a palace cave, which

lived the king of all animals.

And the king of all animals was nobody but the great tiger! Yikes! Most

people thought tigers weren’t very nice, but General Lord saw him years ago; and

they had been friends ever since. And so there was a pretty good chance General

Lord said, “Go in,” The proud king, and the selfish Queen; with their son, the

wicked Roman prince, entered the mouth of the cave. General Lord led them

inside, and there sat the big tiger. This tiger said, “Hello dear friends,”

“Ah!” cried the king, “A talking tiger!” “Of course,” said General Lord, “Kings

were supposed to learn everything.”

“Now,” said the tiger, “What can I do for you General Lord?” “I want a

party!” “A party?” asked the proud king, “I just want you to help me win back my

crown!” he shouted, “Yes,” said General Lord, “But a party could show your

people that you love them and care for them.”

The king accepted the offer of General Lord, and so took the party

decorations, and decorated the main hall, and then made the treats, and invited

all the people here, “What do you want proud king?” “I want to give you a party,

to say that I am sorry for all the bad deeds I have done.”

“It’s about time proud king. Ha!” and then the music began; they danced all

night, and sang. Everybody thought that the king just wanted them to give him

back; but they already realized that they had already made Milan the king. And

so they went to the palace, and told him that they wanted the old king back; and

that he should get off the throne.

Milan was very angry by these words, and so sent guards to arrest him. Just

then the old king approached, he knew that Milan loved to dance, and that he

couldn’t bear not to. He took the music box here, and began to dance. As he

said, Milan began to dance, and he pushed him aside; which allowed him to sit,

and that was how the old king became king again.”

Dear Wang Hua,

How are you going on recently? I’m glad to tell you that I have planned to go to Zunyi Teachers’ College to study Chinese soon.Could you please give me some advice on how to learn Chinese well?

Write back soon.

Tom

教师节，我给范老师写贺卡。贺卡上有花朵，有小草，有树……我在花朵旁边写上“感恩老师”。这一刻，我眼前仿佛又出现了范老师那张慈祥的脸，嘴角挂着微笑。

二年级刚开始接触作文的时候，妈妈对我的作文总是各种不满意，可她也不知道怎么教我，于是只得给范老师打微信视频，请教范老师。范老师很忙，在学校里要备课上课，在家要照看孩子，可她无论多么忙多么累，都会在微信视频里给我重新讲解作文的要点。在视频中，我清晰地看见范老师的脸上有疲惫的神色，可她还是耐心地帮我分析思路。我十分感动。

总是微信视频沟通显得太麻烦了，有时还会黑屏，范老师就想着换一种方式，每次我写作遇到困难时，她就会要求我到她的办公室里改作文。放学后的校园十分寂静，办公室里鸦雀无声。范老师在备课，我安静地改作文，每当遇到难题时，就可以随时请教她。范老师的办公桌上堆着许多作业本，她要做的事情太多太多了。可我一旦有问题要问，她就会停下耐心地教我写作文，耐心地跟我说话。“先把要写的事情从头到尾想一遍，做到心中有数……”简单的几句话，就如同一把钥匙，打开了我写作文的大门。

渐渐的，范老师发现我的作文写得杂乱的原因，竟然是因为我看了很多杂书。什么童话故事书，历史书，漫画书，科技书……稍微有趣点的书，我都会去看。虽然说“开卷有益”，可是我看的书太多太杂，作文的思路就容易乱。为了让我的作文能够做到思路清晰，范老师在期末休业式典礼之后，送我一套世界名著，对我说：“童话类的书你看了不少了，尝试着看看这套书吧，希望你喜欢。”自从有了这一套新书，我就一头扎进名著的海洋，学习了很多知识，作文水平也慢慢地提升了。

感恩范老师。感谢范老师对我付出了那么多，每当我提起笔写作文，我的耳朵边仿佛传来了范老师的说话声，我的心里就感到非常温暖。

I like to eat different kinds of delicious food , however, my favorite food

is dumplings. In my spare time , I like to make dumplings with my mother . I

think home-made dumplings are more delicious than those in supermarket .My

mother knows I love to eat them ,so she makes dumplings at every weekend . I

prefer eating dumplings . How about you ?

Santa Claus:

Hello!

I was a very bookish fourth grader, and Christmas was coming, so what I

wanted this time: a big pile of books.

I was a smart, reading kid who was consistently in the top ten of my class.

Books were my best friend. Remember once, I ordered the second class did not

carefully look, my mother asked me the content, ask three Do not know. Just for

that one time, my mother let me promise: after all bought a book, must carefully

read, or from now on do not buy a book, until finished reading. So, I look

carefully every time, also tell the content to my mother to listen. Now, I have

finished reading the book is a hill, mother ready to throw, But I think of one

thing: "the book is so good, we can donate to the poor mountain! As expected,

this year, we launched a book donation activity, I did not hesitate to donate 5

books!

Santa Claus, for I love such a book of children, you can send me a book? I

will watch it carefully. Thank you so much!

Wish you a long and healthy life!

Zhang Wan Ting loves reading

圣诞老爷爷：

您好!

我是个非常爱读书的四年级孩子，圣诞节来临，所以我这次想要的礼物：一堆厚厚的书。

我是个聪明的、会读书的小孩，成绩一直在班上前十名，书是我最好的朋友。记得有一次，我订的《第二课堂》没有认真仔细看，妈妈问我内容，一问三不知。就为了那一次，妈妈让我保证：以后凡是买了书，就一定要认真看完，不然从此以后都不买书，直到看完为止。于是，我每次都认真的看，还把内容讲给妈妈听。现在，我看完的书已经是一座小山了，妈妈准备扔时，我却想起一件事：“这书还这么好，我们可以捐给贫困山区呀!”果然不出我所料，这一年里，我们开展了捐书活动，我毫不犹豫地捐了5本!

圣诞老爷爷，对于我这么一个爱书的小朋友，您可以送我书吗?我一定会认真看的。谢谢您!

祝健康长寿!

爱读书的张琬婷

There was once a little girl named Anna, that wanted to have magic in this

world; but she knew that her mother would just only laugh at her if she had told

her. And so she decided to go on the adventure on her own.

She got everything that she needed to complete her mission, and then

started off without a word to say. She headed out to the woods, and found a

little tree house nearby; she climbed up there with a ladder, and found lots of

books and shelves there. She found a book about knights, and turned to a page of

pictures of knights long ago; and how they battle enemies such as that. Anna

wished so much that she could go there.

After that she fell asleep, and then she opened her eyes, and found her on

the ground; as if she were asleep… She thought it very weird, that she was here;

at first she was at the tree house, then she was at the grass plot.

She got up, and walked through looking for an exit, then she found the book

that she was reading before; she knew that she must have gone into the knight’s

story because of her wish. She picked up the book, and looked around; The book

suddenly moved like magic, then, she found the books end; there were some words

written all over it.

She read in out loud, “If you want to escape this land you are in, all you

have to do is try and face all the knights, there are four of them; good luck!”

then she began searching for knights, but what she did before that was to think

about how to defeat them… She walked along the road, and finally saw a big tree

with a sharp branch; she had an idea of how she could face the knights; she

broke down the branch, and kept on searching. She was not quite ready for

beating them, for she just needed some other things in order to defeats them…

She kept on her journey, and suddenly realized a big rock; she was tired and so

lay on it. Then a crack came on her back, and the rock got up. Anna was

astonished, she stood up and said, “Who are you?” then the rock replied. “I am

the alive rock and I suppose you are Anna;” “How did you know my name?”

The rock took a breath and replied, “Because I heard your voice ever since,

I know you are looking for some new weapons to defeat knights…” “I most

certainly am alive rock,” and she bowed down. The rock then said, “I suppose I

can be of much use to you, I am going to come with you; and see whether there

are dangers…”

And so Anna and the alive rock moved along, suddenly they came to a big

giant tree; the tree said slowly, “Who are you that dare come to my place?”

“Ah!” shouted Anna, “Alive tree!” “How did you guess my name?” asked the talking

tree; “Because-because your, a-liv-e!” “Yep! And that’s my neighbor;” answered

alive rock. Anna then said; “OH, well I suppose you can be a lot of use to me

when I defeat knights!”

“Knight? Defeat? Ha! That is already the easiest sport I could think of! I

had defeated knights for like 2089 times!” “What?!” asked Anna rather surprised,

then she gulped and answered; “Then you must come with me!” answered Anna

proudly. And so the three of them marched down, until they came was a big knife;

the knife turned around and said, “Who are you little girl?” “Ah!” shouted Anna

again, “That’s our neighbor too!” replied alive tree and alive rock

together.

Anna then said, “Oh, then you must come with me; I have to defeat knights!”

“Oh,” answered the knife, “Then I suppose I could be a lot of use to you, now

all we are missing in the alive shield…” He didn’t even finish until, “What?!”

shouted Anna, “Don’t shout Anna!” replied alive tree, “This isn’t fake, it is

true; follow knife!”

Then knife led the group to where the big shield was, he was brushing his

face when they arrived, “Oh, hello everybody; and hello little girl named Anna!”

“How did you all know my name?” “No time for that!” shouted alive rock, “We have

knights to defeat!” “And you must come with us alive shield!” “No problem!”

shouted he, and then the group marched off.

They at last reached the knights hiding spot, the four knights answered;

“We shall destroy you!” speaking of which, the knights charged toward Anna’s

group; “Attack!” shouted Anna. Alive tree, alive rock, alive knife and mostly

alive shield charged toward the knights. Seeing such a fright, the knights said,

“You know what; maybe today is not the day boys…

Then the knights were destroyed by the alive group team.

Suddenly a flash came upon Anna, and she vanished out of sight; “Where did

she go?” asked the group. Then she shook their heads, and went back to their

homes…

And for Anna, she got back home; and she at last knew that magic is really

magic…

Dear staff and their families

hello everyone!

"Spring comes early again", the Spring Festival of the year of the sheep is

quietly coming to us. On the occasion of the Spring Festival, principal Chen of

Taishan junior high school, together with the school leadership, extended new

years blessing and festival greetings to the hard-working staff and their

families, and extended high respect and sincere thanks to the family members who

have been caring and supporting the work of the school for a long time!

The past 2014 has been an extraordinary year. It has been a year when we

have worked hand in hand, overcome difficulties and forge ahead in unity. It has

also been a year of fruitful achievements and good news. Under the correct

leadership of the superior competent department, all the staff of our school are

in the same boat through ups and downs, unite as one, work hard and forge ahead

with determination, overcome many difficulties and strive for first-class

achievements. The school was rated as a modern school in Jiangsu Province; in

the assessment of the school by the Education Bureau, the school won the second

prize; more than 20 students entered Baoying county middle school, and a large

number of students were admitted to other senior high schools free of charge; in

the provincial supervision, the school scored high and passed the supervision of

experts, leading experts listened to 24 classes, and 23 courses were awarded

excellent grades; In the national middle school students composition contest,

Yang Yichen, a student from class 6 of junior high school, participated in the

provincial final and won the first prize. In the final examination just

finished, each grade reached or exceeded the assessment index issued by the

school at the beginning of the school year. When we are immersed in these

achievements bring us joy and joy, we will think that these gains come from the

hard work of teachers. It is you who guide students to constantly improve their

moral quality; it is you who work hard to let students broaden their horizons

and appreciate the brilliant scenery of scientific and cultural knowledge. Of

course, the achievement of these achievements is inseparable from the support of

the family members of the staff. There are also sweat and effort of the family

members in these achievements. Here we would like to sincerely say "thank you

for your hard work". Winter vacation is a holiday full of festivities, and the

Spring Festival is an auspicious and happy festival. In order to have a full and

civilized Festival, the school puts forward the following suggestions.

Give yourself more reminders. We should always pay attention to the safety

of fire, electricity and gas during the holidays. When visiting relatives and

friends, we must pay attention to guard against theft, close the doors and

windows, lock the door, and do not drive after drinking to ensure the safety of

yourself and your family. We should consciously avoid gambling, drinking, feudal

superstitious activities and indulging in the Internet. We should do more

physical exercise every day and take part in healthy and beneficial cultural and

recreational activities. Pay attention to scientific diet, dont overeat and

take good care of your body.

Give more time to study. Winter vacation has a relatively concentrated time

to be at your disposal. It is suggested that you should arrange a little time

for self "charging". On the one hand, we should sum up the experience and

lessons in the work of this semester and formulate the work plan and objectives

for the next semester; on the other hand, we can calm down to get familiar with

the curriculum standards of teaching subjects and read the textbooks for the

next semester in advance. Read one or two good books, study some education and

teaching theory, constantly enrich, enrich, improve themselves. Let thinking and

practice walk together, let oneself better adapt to the needs of classroom

teaching reform.

Give your family more care. Enjoy the family, our life journey is not

lonely, spread the family, can win the respect of others. During the Spring

Festival, lets be filial to our elders, take care of our younger ones, and keep

in touch with our friends. In particular, we should take care of our bodies,

experience the beauty of human nature and feel a better life in dedication and

care.

Finally, once again, I wish you all a safe, happy, peaceful and meaningful

festival. I wish all staff and their families a happy Spring Festival, all the

best of luck, good health and a happy family!

What is the most important thing in the world? I think it is health.You can

take away our money, house, car, or even our clothes and we can survive. But if

our health was taken away, we would surely die. That is why we always try to eat

in a healthy way and exercise regularly.

什么是世界上最重要的事情?我想，答案应该是健康。我们可以在没有钱、房子、车子，甚至衣服的情况下，活着。但是如果我们的健康被带走了，我们肯定就活不下去了。这就是为什么我们总是努力以一种健康的方式吃东西和规律地运动。

In order to eat healthily, I usually avoid eating food high in fat, like

french fries or cookies. I also eat little meat. I eat a lot of vegetables and

fresh fruit which are full of vitamins. Taking exercise every day helps us build

a strong body. Regular exercise is an important part of keeping me healthy.

为了能吃得健康，我常常避免吃高脂肪的食物，比如炸薯条或甜点。我也很少吃肉。我会吃很多的蔬菜和富含维他命的新鲜水果。每天做运动有助于我们拥有强健的身体。有规律的运动是我们保持身体健康的一个重要部分。

Whats more, I think friends are an important part of ones health. Many

studies show that people with a wide range of social contacts get sick less than

those who dont. I always feel better when I am with friends than when I am

alone. When I am with my friends, I always laugh. Laughing is also an important

part of health. I like to laugh with my friends.

还有，我认为，朋友也是让我们保持健康的重要部分。许多研究显示，有复杂人际关系的人比较不容易得病。当我与朋友一起时，我总是感觉比单独一个人好。当我与朋友一起时，我总是笑声不断。欢笑也是健康的重要组成部分。我喜欢和朋友一起大笑。

By eating properly and exercising regularly, I can keep my body at a proper

weight and keep healthy. By spending time with my friends, I can keep my mind as

well as my body happy. These things sound easy to do, but not many people can

manage them. I think a strong will is necessary if we want to keep healthy.

通过合理的饮食和规律性的运动，我可以保持身体健康和体重适中。与朋友一起的时光，可以让我的思想和身体一样开心。这些事情听起来很容易去做，但没有很多人能成功做到。我想，我们如果想要健康，那强大的意愿是需要的。

My teacher is very strict, also is very nice. Because of the strict teacher, let we learned to strict with myself. Because of the teachers kindness, let us feel warm, let the knowledge we learned several not over.

My teacher looks very strict, but very kind at heart, she kind of eternity like waves, will not change. As bright as the sun, her eyes filled with wisdom, laugh very natural, very nice. Her mind is the source of wisdom, ask the teacher shell answer out wonderful answer, led we came to the sea of knowledge, with the wisdom of key to open the doors of magic, share knowledge, discuss problems together.

The majority Han Chinese have long followed the tradition of eating laba

rice porridge on the eighth day of the twelfth lunar month. The date usually

falls in min-January and is a traditional Chinese festival.

Legend about the origin of this festivity abounds One maintains that over

3，000 years ago sacrificial rites were held in the twelfth lunar month when

people offered up their prey to the gods of heaven and earth. The Chinese

characters for the hunt and the twelfth month (lie and la) were interchangeable

then， and ever since la has been used to refer to both. Since the festival was

held on the eighth day of the last month， people later appended the number

eighth (ba in Chinese)， giving us the current laba.

Hi Yanglang!

I’m really miss you , we can’t see about three months . Are you OK? I hope you happy everyday.

We have eight classes everyday , and only two classes are not English , another classes is listening , reading , speaking and writing English . Some people think it is boring in the classes , but I think this is very enjoyable .

I love my life now . because I always feel fulfilled all day . I am so busy that I can’t play ping-pong . I think it is my desire to enjoy life.

I want to travel to Mountain Hua . Three years ago I went there , but don’t go to the top , so I must go there when I have free time. Take care yourself

Love Young!

Dear Mother,

Hello, I am the daughter who loves to make you angry. Now I am writing to

apologize to you:

Mom, Im sorry. When I was a child, I did not know the hard-won grain and

always wasted some food. You told me "Who knows the food on the plate, every

grain is hard", but I did not listen. Mother, please forgive my ignorance.

Mom, Im sorry. When I was a boy, I didnt know how hard it was to earn

money. If you are satisfied, I will be happy, if you are not satisfied; I cried

and shouted to you for, but never said a simple "thank you". Mother, please

forgive me for my willfulness.

Mom, Im sorry. Now I know that all this is hard won. But I began to rebel

at that time of adolescence, and I began to quarrel with you and talk back to

you... I still remember that time, I went to the store with my classmates. I

fell in love with a pair of low-waist pants that are popular now. When I came

back home, I asked for money from you, but you didnt give me any. How ugly!

Besides, you are still a student now, you should not wear too fashionable,

simple more good!" I just blew up and said, "I want that low-rise pair. I love

that pair. Its not your generation anymore. Ill take!" Say that finish, a palm

slapped come over, you really angry. Crying, I rushed to my room, locked the

door, and cried myself out in my room, crying my grievance. Thought: is not a

pair of pants? Not much money! What a cheapskate not to buy it! At this time, a

small note from the crack in the door came out: baby, dont cry, mother was not

intentional, forgive mother just wrong? Slowly, I began to reflect: I should not

have contradicted you, should not have said sad things to you. I quietly opened

the door, found you are sitting on the chair with paper wiping tears, see me out

and said: "Tomorrow mother to buy you good?" I shook my head vigorously and

said: "Mom, no. Now I am still a student, when I grow up, there are more clothes

for me to choose. Mom just really sorry ~ "said that I cried, you and I hugged

together. That time, I learned a lot...

Mom, if love is as sweet as a flower, then you are the sweet flower of

love. Mom, please forgive me for the mistakes I made before, I will correct

them.

Zhu: Good health

Business is booming

Your daughter: Chen Ting

Since I go to middle school, I have to learn many subjects. Though I am not

the best student in class, but I won’t give up. I always tell myself to work

hard, because if I want to compete with other students, I need to make great

effort. People are easy to deny themselves when they face difficulty. If they

fail one time, then they will doubt the effort they have made. Actually, we are

not studying in vain. What we learn will be a great help to improve ourselves.

The thing we learn decides what kinds of person we are. So don’t deny yourself,

as you will see the value you have stored before in the future.

尊敬的陈老师：

您好！

我是您学生的家长，我儿子休学已经三周了，一个十三、四岁的孩子，不明白在家能做什么，我不明白该怎样办。思考再三，觉得有必要和您交流沟通一下，和您说说心里话，谈谈一个为人之父的亲身感受。再者，因为我不善言辞，个性是在老师您的面前（在您面前，您是原告，我是被告，自觉低人一等，更没法分辨）就语无论次，怕辜负了您的一片好心，因此斗胆给您写这封信，万望您能心平气和的看下去。

首先，我代表我们全家，向您及儿子的全体任课老师致以真诚的道歉：对不起！由于我们家长没有尽到应有的职责，对家庭教育的失误，致使孩子在学校出现了不少问题，给您及其他老师们带来很大的麻烦，向您们表示由衷的歉意。我向来都是很尊敬老师的，您们被誉为“人类灵魂的工程师”是当之无愧的，能够把博大深厚的爱，无私的奉献给那些与自我毫不相干的孩子们。因此，对于孩子的错误，我是深深到痛心，深感对不起老师们对孩子的厚爱，没有尽到家长的职责，孩子此刻发展到这一步，我们做为家长是难辞其咎的。

自从孩子第一次出现逃学的现象后，我就开始反思我自我在家庭教育上的问题，从那时到此刻我一向在UC网站上的家庭教育方面的聊天室听家庭教育专家的讲座，基本上把业余时间都放在这方面的学习上了，从“关爱孩子”、“成长教育乐园”、到“中华家庭教育网”每个房间都有许多专家、老师专门讲解先进的家庭教育理念及目前普遍存在的家庭教育误区。虽然房间众多，专家不一样，但家庭教育理念基本上都是相同或相近的，“关爱孩子”房间的主题就是“用真情和挚爱关心培植我们民族的根！要求我们用挚爱而不是溺爱，用真情而不是带功利之心的虚情来关爱孩子。我诚恳地请教讲课的专家老师，开诚布公地剖析自我在家庭教育方面的无知，也交了好多朋友，他们有的是家教专家，有的是优秀的在职老师，有的是家庭教育很成功的家长，他们对我的困惑和迷茫给予了极大的帮忙，都给我提出了好多很好的、可操作性的推荐，十分关心孩子的成长，经常询问我孩子此刻的状况。我也让孩子和他们进行过交流，吐出了心声。透过这些时间的听课学习，使我感到受益匪浅，专家老师的讲解，使我明白“只有有问题的家长，没有有问题的孩子”孩子的问题大多都是来自于家长的问题，孩子是没有错的，错的只是我们做父母的，我们的家庭教育存在

很大误区。对此，我深有体会，深深地感到由于自我忙于工作，有时也是为了上网玩，对孩子关心不够，没有尽到做父亲的义务，没把孩子当做一个平等的人对待，非训即斥，深深地伤害了他的自尊，总是把一个成人的观点、意见强加给他，我确实就应好好反思自我了。因此我要痛下决心，努力改变自我，也得自我约束，改变这种传统的思想观念。我相信，随着家庭环境的改变，孩子在温馨的家庭环境中会慢慢被感化，但这需要时间，十几年养成的坏毛病也不是一时半会就能解决的，“放下屠刀，立地成佛”是做不到的，但只要我们观念改变，首先改变自我，相信他也会有所改变的。我曾真诚地给孩子写过一封信，坦诚地承认自我以前教育的失误，对孩子心灵造成的伤害，深感

内疚，真诚地表示以后要改变自我粗暴的作风，和他多进行沟通，推荐平等、温馨的容许家庭环境，同时帮忙他找到适合自我的，把基础知识用劲补上，与他一齐成长进步，同时鼓励他，相信他，能够做到这些。孩子看过信后也是很有感触，当晚就自我做好了作业，拿给我看，并写下了一个初步给我，（可见他并不是木头脑袋，还是有感觉的）虽然这个不是很完善，但也足见孩子的变化，我当时就给孩子以鼓励，鼓励他要一向坚持下去。不料想去学仅一天时间，孩子就恢复到以前的状态，孩子刚刚建立的自信在学校被无情地击得粉碎，而我想与您进行沟通的想法，也被您说成是我在姣惯、纵容孩子。

您以前曾提醒我说孩子心理有问题，得动大手术，这次我听从了您的推荐，带他到了北京，找到一个很有名的青少年问题专家，进行了心理咨询。透过老师富的人情味的循循善诱，孩子最后打开了心菲，向老师倾诉了在学校受老师心理上的歧视和被同学对身体上的伤害的感受，当心理老师问他怎样不告诉老师同学欺负你呢，他说老师管不了。他还说妈妈要去找那个同学的妈，他不让，说如果找了同学他妈回来后他会变本加利，欺负他更狠，当时都痛哭失声。当心理老师告诉我孩子被人家用刀子在胳膊上划的一道道血印也不敢吭声时，当着老师的面，我流泪了，我深深的自责：只明白孩子厌学，却从来不明白厌学的原因，不能在孩子需要帮忙的时候给孩子以帮忙，反而道一味地指责孩子，要求孩子回到那个令他望而生畏的地方。心理老师告诉孩子：我们不能改变环境和别人，咱只能改变自我，咱能够换位思考一下，要把挫折当做自我进步的机会，如果没有挫折就没有压力，没有压力就不会有动力，没有动力就不会成长，因此你要感谢那些给你挫折的人，他们给了你成长的动力。从老师房间出来，我看到孩子久违的笑脸，笑得是那么的灿烂，老师的心理疏通，使他又找回了自信，看到了期望。临离开的时候，老师避开孩子对我说，孩子此刻的学习环

境对他十分的不利，加之自我基础差，学习吃力，对学习不感兴趣，失去学习的信心，为了孩子，做为家长，要勇于负责，想办法把以前的功课补上来，要看到孩子的进步，那怕是一丁点的进步都要给予鼓励，使孩子找回自信。老师和同学对他的歧视和欺侮也是他厌学一个重要原因，回去要多和老师沟通，使老师看到孩子的期望而理解和关爱他。老师给我打了个比方：如果一个人在单位工作，上至领导，下至同事，没有一个喜欢他的，领导见了就批评，同事在背后指指点点，说些捕风捉影的事，或者天天说你有病了，不正常什么的，那么他能在这个单位待下去吗？不辞职也得被逼疯。成人尚且如此，何况是一个心理尚不健全的孩子？不会有那么稳定的心态。这虽然是个比方，可见外部环境对人健康成长的重要。

做为家长，我们要勇于承担相应教育职责，然而，做为一个老师，应对一个学习有困难的学生，您都做了些什么？当第一次逃学时，您不是耐心教育，而是您们百般羞辱，唯恐怕伤不了他的自尊，致其自动退学、转学，并且“每个老师无不拍手称快，恨不得立刻开个欢送会了”难道赶走一个学习不好的学生对您们就那么重要？难道一个所谓的差生在您们眼里就是那么恨之入骨，不致于死地而后快吗？您说您“是来教书的，不是来教育人的”我没学过《教师法》不明白《教师法》中规定的老师的职责是什么，只明白历来就有“教书育人”的说法，难道老师的职责就是教几个字，做几道题吗？老师就没有教育学生的职责吗？

陈老师：感谢您为我儿子付出的心血，我也十分地理解您为了维护大多数学生的利益，对我儿子采取的处理方法，但您就应明白，好学生是人，差学生也是人。我还是要告诉您，天下没有不爱自我孩子的父母，纵然是天下所有人都认为我的孩子无可救药，所有人都放下他，但我依然不会放下，就象您说的，您不是他的父母，不需要对他的错误承担职责，但我是他的父亲，我无论如何也要承担这一切，决不会放下他，任他这样自暴自弃下去的。

今晚我浏览咱们一中的网站，我觉得这个网站办得十分好。个性是校长寄语使我感动：“在这个世界上没有落后的学生，只有落后的教育方法;没有不适合学习的学生，只有失去信心或没有找到适合自我学习方法的学生。”这是比较先进的教学理念，尤其是在豫西煤城这片小地方，但愿这不是只停留在口号上的空谈。

陈老师，六一节到了，您会真诚地对所有您的学生（无论好生差生）说一声“六一节到了，你们开心吗？”？

别不多说，如果有言语失当之处，敬请原谅并指出，我当虚心理解。

祝您工作生活一帆风顺！

一个学生家长

XX年XX月XX日