初中生英语作文健康对我们来说是重要的(经典20篇)
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1000关于健康问题的中考英语作文
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+ 加入清单卫生健康饮食:健康一直是人们关注的问题我校要举行以“关爱健康”为题的主题班会,请根据下表内容谈谈你的看法,写一篇80字左右的演讲槁。 (1)保持健康的重要性;(2)保持健康的方法;(3)保持健康的结论;(4)你的看法。 (1)How tokeep healthy /fit?
All of us want to be healthy. First,we should get enough sleep during the night. We can go to bed early and get up early. Staying up late is bad for our health. Second,we must have the right kinds of food. We should eat more fruit and vegetables and less meat. We should drink a lot of water. We should have healthy eating habits. Third,we should do more exercise to build up our bodies. Finally,we should be happy everyday. Because smile will make us younger。
That is my advice.I hope you are healthy and enjoy your life。 (2)How to keep healthy /fit?
Here is my advice about how to keep healthy/fit. As a middle shool student. first youd better do more exercise such as playing ball games ,running, swimming and jumping ropes(绳子)。Then you should pay attention to your diet or meals. Dont eat too much meat or suger,but more vegetables and fruit.Third you need enough sleep or rest . Next keep yourself happy.As people often say smiling makes younger.Last you mustnt drink wine or smoke .They are bad for your health. That is my advice.I hope you are healthy and enjoy your life。
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篇1:寒假的美好生活英语初中作文
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+ 加入清单from the sixteenth of january to the seventh of february is our winter holiday。 i think everybody did a lot of things in the winter holiday。 but i didn’t。 let you to listen to my story of winter holiday。
i spend a lot of time on the homework。。 every day in my winter holiday, i always got up late。 then i listened to the tape, it was nine o’clock。 then i ate breakfast and then i did my homework during the daytime! i’m not very slow but the homework was too heavy!
i’m unlucky on the playing too。 i played firecracker but i hurt my finger with the fire。 i ‘m careless to kindle the firecracker, so i’m very unlucky。
i still unlucky on my friend’s party。 in the morning, i wanted to get up early but i woke up at 10:50。 after ten minutes, the party would start! so i only eat a piece of bread then i go to my friend’s home! and i stay at his home for a long time when i came home。 my mother and father were very angry and they scolded me!
i’m worried and feel unlucky on my weigh。 last term, i was 48 kilogram but now i am 51 kilogram! i must to do banting!
but most important, i have gone to shanghai ocean aquarium, i want to go there very much because i want to see the horse, the monkey……in the sea。 now i’ve done it 。 it is a bright dot in my winter holiday。
篇2:我的房间初中记叙英语作文
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+ 加入清单We all have our homes, some homes may be larger, probably smaller, and some at home, some of the possible ugly, probably prettier. My family is no exception Oh! Here, let me introduce yourself! My home, although small, very small, but my family is very nice, at first glance, neat, people look very comfortable.
Come into my house, first appeared in front of you is the living room, the living room is the center of a can pull shrink, brown table, at the table, three chairs, are Mom and Dad and my chair, and that in the southwest corner of a table, that is my position. In the living room wall, there is a very old painting, the painting is a bird on a branch of the scene. Left to go from the living room, is one of our room, where we usually watch TV, play computer ...... room northwest, is one of our computer, I find information tool. N the south, there is a TV, free when you can take a look at the news. Next to the TV is my homework place, where there is a multi—functional desk, you can put down a lot of books and stationery.
Go inside this room is our bedroom, with a bed, it was my mother just a place to sleep near the bed, there are a bed, it was my dad a place to sleep, the walls in the bedroom , he has painted a picture of my childhood, very beautiful. This is my home, you must feel it nice!
篇3:关于梦想英语作文初中
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+ 加入清单I am studying in a middle school now, it is my second year. If you ask me
what my occupation is, I will answer you that my occupation is student. I have
studied for many years, many students don’t like being a student, but I am not
of them, I enjoy being a student. For me, I don’t have to worry about the money
issue, I can go to play with my friends, the most important thing is, I like
reading all kinds of books. I especially like to read the books about travel. I
have a dream, when I earn enough money, I must travel around the world. So I
must work hard to realize my dream.
篇4:初中生写春节的英语
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+ 加入清单Spring Festival is my favourite festival. This years Spring Festival is in February 8th.
On New Years Eve, everyone will wear new clothes. My parents and I will go to the Grandpa and grandmas home to eat Nian Yefan. This is the tradition of our family. At the dinner table, my grandmother will prepare a lot of dishes for us to cook hot pot.
These dishes are very delicious. Everyone ate very happy. We have forgotten the troubles of the past year, happy to greet the new year. After dinner, I will go back home with my parents. In eight, I will be fireworks at the
threshold of our home.
They are very beautiful. Doing this will make me feel very happy. After I put the fireworks, I will watch the Spring Festival Gala. The Gala adds a mood of celebration in the house as people laugh, discuss and enjoy the performance. At eleven, my parents gave me 200 yuan. This is my years new years money. 0 ocolck, the new years bell sounded, we have ushered in the new year. I made a wish. I hoped that that we could have a happy and healthy life next year and everyone in my family could be happy.
篇5:初中英语作文之我的五一计划
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+ 加入清单My plan for may day
On May 1sh, Im going to my grandmothers home.I think that must be very significative.Because she is too old to visit me and my parents, and she must be very have in mind our.
I will go for a walk with my grandmother and buy she some summer wears.they must fit her like best. Of course , I dont think that is a easy work! So it must takes me many time.
After shopping, we will have a good rest and have lunch in my grandmothers home.
And then, I will clean the home with my grandmother.
At last, I go home.
Of course, I must finish my homewolk.
篇6:初中英语
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+ 加入清单Since I go to school, my parents always tell me that I should study hard,
so that I can find a good job in the future and earn a lot of money. To most
people, the purpose of reading books is to make money. But as I study more, I
realize that making money and reading books don’t have the directly connection.
The children should know more about the world by reading more books, at the same
time, they need to sense the great joy of reading. When they are equipped with
knowledge, they can solve problems by the skills they learn, the most important
thing for them is to face difficulties with positive attitude.
篇7:初中英语满分
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+ 加入清单Last night, my parents told me that they would go to have dinner with
friends, so they wouldn’t stay at home and let me to buy something to eat by
myself. I played computer games for a long time and when I got tired, I found it
was almost eight o’clock. I didn’t want to go out, so I opened the fridge, there
were many stuffs for me to make dinner. I had never done it before, I only
watched my mother cook, but I still wanted to try. I made a fire and put the
meat in the pan, the flavors were also mixed in it. When the meat almost got
black, I finished. Whe I tasted, I realized the meat was over cooked. I must
learn to cook.
篇8:关于清明节的英语作文初中
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+ 加入清单Last Qingming Festival,i return home to worship my grandfather.Qingming
Festival is a folk Festival.In the past,the Qingming Festival was called "Arbor
Day". But Today, Chinese visit their family graves to tend to any underbrush
that has grown. Weeds are pulled, and dirt swept away, and the family will set
out offerings of food and spirit money. Unlike the sacrifices at a familys home
altar, the offerings at the tomb usually consist of dry, bland food. One theory
is that since any number of ghosts rome around a grave area, the less appealing
food will be consumed by the ancestors, and not be plundered by strangers.
With the passing of time, this celebration of life became a day to the
honor past ancestors. Following folk religion, the Chinese believed that the
spirits of deceased ancestors looked after the family. Sacrifices of food and
spirit money could keep them happy, and the family would prosper through good
harvests and more children.
篇9:关于初中生活的英语作文
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+ 加入清单Most people miss their grade school days and think they are the happiest time of their life, but whenever I recall them I cannot help feeling a little sad. In my young days I disliked any dismal atmosphere and could not bear the feeling of loneliness, yet the fact was that I often lived in a dismal home and frequently had the bitter taste of lonesomeness. I was not cheerful even in the company of my classmates at the grade school I attended. When I was alone at home the dismal atmosphere often filled me with fear even though thought here went to work in the morning but always came later than I did. For a young person like me t was too bad. Not until I was about sixteen years old had I outgrown t feeling of fear. Then there was that nagging feeling of loneliness either at home of at school. My father changed his job several times and with each change of his job we had to move and I had to attend a different grade school. Before I finished my elementary education I had attended three grade schools and thus it was difficult for me to cultivate enduring friendships. The feeling of being friendless was a constant source of pain to me. Those unhappy grade school days have of course long been over. I still have an abhorrence for any dismal atmosphere and lonesomeness, but hardened by experience I now find them less disturbing than they were.
篇10:初中英语励志名言
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+ 加入清单卓越的天才不屑走旁人走过的路。他寻找迄今未开拓的地区。小编收集了初中英语励志名言,欢迎阅读。
1、All things in their being are good for something.
天生我才必有用。
2、Difficult circumstances serve as a textbook of life for people.
困难坎坷是人们的生活教科书。
3、Failure is the mother of success.——Thomas Paine
失败乃成功之母。
4、For man is man and master of his fate.
人就是人,是自己命运的主人。
5、The unexamined life is not worth living.——Socrates
混混噩噩的生活不值得过。——苏格拉底
6、None is of freedom or of life deserving unless he daily conquers it anew.——Erasmus
只有每天再度战胜生活并夺取自由的人,才配享受生活的自由。
7、Our destiny offers not the cup of despair, but the chalice of opportunity. So let us seize it, not in fear, but in gladness.——R.M. Nixon
命运给予我们的不是失望之酒,而是机会之杯。因此,让我们毫无畏惧,满心愉 悦地把握命运。——尼克松
8、Living without an aim is like sailing without a compass.——John Ruskin
生活没有目标,犹如航海没有罗盘。-- 罗斯金
9、What makes life dreary is the want of motive.——George Eliot
没有了目的,生活便郁闷无光。——乔治·埃略特
10、Towering genius disdains a beaten path. It seeks regions hitherto unexplored.——Lincoln
卓越的天才不屑走旁人走过的路。他寻找迄今未开拓的地区。
11、There is no such thing as a great talent without great will - power.——Balzac
没有伟大的意志力,便没有雄才大略。——巴尔扎克
12、The good seaman is known in bad weather.
惊涛骇浪,方显英雄本色。(励志名言)
13、Fear not that the life shall come to an end, but rather fear that it shall never have a beginning.——J.H. Newman
不要害怕你的生活将要结束,应该担心你的生活永远不会真正开始。——纽曼
14、Gods determine what youre going to be.——Julius Erving
人生的奋斗目标决定你将成为怎样的人。——欧文
15、An aim in life is the only fortune worth finding.——Robert Louis Stevenson
生活的目标,是唯一值得寻找的财富。-- 史蒂文森
16、While there is life there is hope.
一息若存,希望不灭。——英国谚语
17、Try not to become a man of success but rather try to become a man of value.——A. Einstein
不要为成功而努力,要为做一个有价值的人而努力。——爱因斯坦
18、You have to believe in yourself. Thats the secret of success.——Charles Chaplin
人必须有自信,这是成功的秘密。——卓别林
19、Pursue your object, be it what it will, steadily and indefatigably.
不管追求什么目标,都应坚持不懈。
20、We must accept finite disappointment, but we must never lose infinite hope.——Mattin Luther King
我们必须接受失望,因为它是有限的,但千万不可失去希望,因为它是无穷的。——马丁·路德·金
21、Energy and persistence conquer all things.——Benjamin Franklin
能量加毅力可以征服一切。——富兰克林
22、Nothing seek, nothing find.
无所求则无所获。
23、Cease to struggle and you cease to live.——Thomas Carlyle
生命不止,奋斗不息。——卡莱尔
24、A thousand-li journey is started by taking the first step.
千里之行,始于足下。
25、Strength alone knows conflict, weakness is below even defeat, and is born vanquished.——Swetchine
只有强者才懂得斗争;弱者甚至失败都不够资格,而是生来就是被征服的。——斯威特切尼
26、The people who get on in this world are the people who get up and look for circumstances they want, and if they cannot find them, make them.——Bernara Shaw
在这个世界上取得成就的人,都努力去寻找他们想要的机会,如果找不到机会, 他们便自己创造机会。——萧伯纳
27、A strong man will struggle with the storms of fate.——Thomas Addison
强者能同命运的风暴抗争。——爱迪生
28、He who seize the right moment, is the right man.——Goethe
谁把握机遇,谁就心想事成。——歌德
29、Victory wont come to me unless I go to it.——M.Moore
胜利是不会向我们走来的,我必须自己走向胜利。——穆尔
30、Man struggles upwards; water flows downwards.
人往高处走,水往低处流。
31、Man errs as long as he strives.——Goethe
失误是进取的代价。——歌德
32、The failures and reverses which await men - and one after another sadden the brow of youth - add a dignity to the prospect of human life, which no Arcadian success would do.——Henry David Thoreau
尽管失败和挫折等待着人们,一次次地夺走青春的容颜,但却给人生的前景增添了一份尊严,这是任何顺利的成功都不能做到的。——梭罗
33、A man can fail many times, but he isnt a failure until he begins to blame somebody else.——J. Burroughs
一个人可以失败很多次,但是只要他没有开始责怪旁人,他还不是一个失败者。——巴勒斯
34、Getting out of bed in winter is one of life’s hardest mission.
冬天,将自己从被窝里掏出来,是人生最难的任务之一了。
35、The future is scary but you can’t just run to the past cause it’s familiar.
未来会让人心生畏惧,但是我们却不能因为习惯了过去,就逃回过去。
36、I love it when I catch you looking at me then you smile and look away.
我喜欢这样的时刻:我抓到你正在看我,你笑了,然后害羞地别过脸去。
37、Having a calm smile to face with being disdained indicates kind of confidence.
被轻蔑的时候能平静的一笑,这是一种自信。
38、Success is the ability to go from one failure to another with no loss of enthusiasm.
成功是,你即使跨过一个又一个失敗,但也沒有失去热情。
39、Not everything that is faced can be changed, but nothing can be changed until it is faced.
并不是你面对了,任何事情都能改变。(励志歌曲 www.lz13.cn)但是,如果你不肯面对,那什么也变不了。
40、A guy who whispers in your ears, saying ” It’s alright, I’m here.” Holds you when you’re sad, and treasures everything about you. That’s the guy I want to give my heart to.
那个人会在耳边轻声说:没事,我在这。在你悲伤时给你依靠,与你相关的,他都珍视。有这样的人,我爱定了。
41、Dream what you want to dream; go where you want to go; be what you want to be, because you have only one life and one chance to do all the things you want to do.
做你想做的梦吧,去你想去的地方吧,成为你想成为的人吧,因为你只有一次生命,一个机会去做所有那些你想做的事。
42、We all have moments of desperation. But if we can face them head on, that’s when we find out just how strong we really are.
我们都有绝望的时候,只有在勇敢面对时,我们才知道我们有多坚强。
43、If they throw stones at you, don’t throw back, use them to build your own foundation instead.
如果别人朝你扔石头,就不要扔回去了,留着作你建高楼的基石。
44、If your happiness depends on what somebody else does, I guess you do have a problem.
如果你的快乐与否取决于别人做了什么,我想,你真的有点问题。
45、When there’s no expectation, losing won’t bring hurt, gaining makes you surprised.
不去期望。失去了不会伤心,得到了便是惊喜。
46、Sometimes your plans don’t work out because God has better ones.
有时候,你的计划不奏效,是因为上天有更好的安排。
47、How much truth of heart in one’s life is told in a joke?
一辈子,有多少真心话,是以玩笑的方式说了出去?
48、A relationship should be between two people, not the whole world.
爱情是两个人的事,与旁人无关。
49、You can’t have a better tomorrow if you don’t stop thinking about yesterday.
如果你无法忘掉昨天,就不会有一个更好的明天。
50、Today, give a stranger one of your smiles. It might be the only sunshine he sees all day.
今天,给一个陌生人送上你的微笑吧。很可能,这是他一天中见到的唯一的阳光。
篇11:初中英语作文之等待
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+ 加入清单We were sitting in the classroom quietly, waiting for the invigilator. We were anxious to get the examination paper and see whether it was easy or difficult.
The invigilator came into the classroom. He first looked around. Then he counted the papers. We could only hear the papersfricative. I had a look at my watch. We would be examined in eight minutes. I felt a bit nervous. I thought to myself,"Will the exam be easy or difficult? Will the last question be very hard for me to work out?"The invigilator began to deliver us the papers. I had been ready. As soon as I got the paper, I began to write quickly. At this, the invigilator said loudly,"You cant write until the bell rings".I felt sorry for that. I watched the hands of the clock and thought hard. I counted quietly,"four minutes, three minutes, two minutes,thirty seconds, twenty-five seconds""Ding" The bell rang. We picked up our pens and began to write quietly.
What a long time we had been waiting!
篇12:初中英语作文大全
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+ 加入清单There was a basketball match between class 3 and class 4 yesterday
afternoon. before the match, all the students thought class 3 would win the
match because some good players were in the class.
The match began, And all the players played very well.other students
watched and shouted for their teams. It was an exciting match. When the first
half of the match ended, class 4 fell behind class 3. The players in class 4
tried their best to catch up with them in the second half. With the shouts "come
on", the players in class 4 won the match.
The match was over. How wonderful the match was!
篇13:为父母做过的事初中英语作文
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+ 加入清单Be Grateful to Our Parents
I consider my parents as the most important people in my life. This is not because they re wealthy or famous. Rather, what I value about most is the care and love they show to me.
我认为我的父母是我生命中最重要的人.这并不是因为他们有钱或有名的.相反,我最珍惜的是他们给我的关心和爱..
My parents might work hard, but they re always there for me. Whenever I get into trouble and desperately need a hand, they come over first to support me and encourage me. I grew up with their constant care and love. While they re getting older with grey hair and wrinkles, they never lose dignity in both life and jobs.
我父母虽然努力工作,但他们总是陪在我身边.每当我陷入困境,迫切需要帮助时.他们是第一个支持我、鼓励我的人.我在他们不断的爱和照顾中长大.当他们变老而且出现白发和皱纹时,他们也永远不会失去生活和工作的尊严.
From my parents, I have learned that one person can really make a difference. I ll never forget their care and love. Gratefulness brings a great fullness to life. I wish they could always be happy and healthy. It is high time we expressed our gratitude to people we cherish!
你从我的父母身上,我知道一个人真的可以有所作为.我永远也不会忘记他们的关怀和爱.感恩使生活带来了的充实.我希望他们能永远幸福和健康.是时候我们要向我们珍惜的人表达我们的谢意了!
篇14:关于网购英语作文初中
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+ 加入清单When it comes to online shopping, different people holds different ideas
towards it. Some people seem extremely enjoy the way of buying things online
because they feel online shopping is so convenient. Some just don’t believe that
they can buy good quality commodities from Internet. As far as I’m concerned, I
think online shopping creates lots of benefits to people.
Firstly, buying things online is a way of saving time. Compared with the
traditional way of shopping, we have no need to go out to pick up our favorite
goods from store to store. Just a click, we can have things in our shopping cart
and just wait for the goods to be delivered to us. To this extent, not only we
can save the time of finding things from store to store but we don’t need to
spend time on transportation. Thus, we can save lots of time to enjoy fun.
Secondly, buying things online can save our money. People buy commodities
by Internet not only because it saves us time, but also, we can save lots of
money. It is often seen that some people just go to the physical store to check
out the commodities they want to buy and then they would search for their
favorite commodities online and take the order. People do this just because they
know that online goods are usually cheaper than the goods displayed in shop
window because online shop have no need to pay the rent. So, people are more
inclined to buying things from online store.
Thirdly, convenience is the last but not least thing of shopping online.
Since we can buy things online, there is no need to go out to look for things we
want to buy. What we need to do is to simply sit before our computer, search for
things we want to buy, click our favorite thing and then pay our order by our
bank card. And then, you just need to wait for your goods to be delivered to
your home.
In conclusion, shopping online is a convenient, time-saving and money
saving way of buying things. Therefore, we can benefit a lot from shopping
online. That’s the reason of why shopping online has developed faster and faster
in recent years.
篇15:有关公园的初中英语作文
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+ 加入清单In haimen there is a park. it’s a big and beautiful park. it has two gates. they are the north gate and the west gate. many people park their bikes in front of the gates.
There is a shop at the north gate. when you go into the park through the north gate, you will find a large square on your right and you will see lots of trees and flowers around you. in the west of the park, there is a playground.
Sometimes some children fly kites on it and some people sit on the grass and chat. in the middle of the park, there is a lake. there are many boats on it. there is a hill in the east of the park.
The park is very beautiful. i love it very much. will you come to visit it some day?
篇16:以不断尝试为话题的初中英语作文
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+ 加入清单“Try and try until you succeed.” This saying shows the importance of perseverance, I have found in my experience that only through hard work can we succeed. Many people have failed in their work or studies, precisely because they had no perseverance Life, in general, as in many things we do has never been easy. No one promised us what it would be.
So, if we want to succeed in life, we must be brave to win. The standard that differentiates people who succeed in life and those who dont is perseverance.
篇17:积极面对挫折初中英语
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+ 加入清单As we all know, "Failure is the mother of success." But few people can really understand what the saying means.
In the world, I am sure that no one dare say he hasnt met any trouble all his life. So we must face failure. In fact, failure is not fearful, but important thing is how to face it correctly. Facing failure, people will never take their fate lying down.They will try their best to work harder and harder until at last they succeed.
Not being courageous to face setbacks, people have no chance to enjoy the pleasure of success. So they have nothing to do but feel sad and empty all day and all night. In fact, they lose the chance of success themselves.
My friend, whenever in trouble, please remember, "Failure is the mother of success."
我们都知道,“失败是成功之母。“但真正理解这句话的人却不多。
在世界上,我相信没有人敢说他一生没有遇到任何麻烦。所以我们必须面对失败。事实上,失败并不可怕,但重要的是如何正确地面对它。面对失败,人们将不再由命运摆布。他们会尽最大努力辛勤工作,直到最后他们成功。
不勇敢面对挫折,人就没有机会享受成功的快乐。所以他们无关但感到悲伤和空日夜兼程。事实上,他们失去了成功的机会。
我的朋友,每当遇到了麻烦,请记住,“失败是成功之母。”
篇18:初中关于保护环境的英语作文
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+ 加入清单Now, "environmental protection" has become a global focus. But to truly protect the environment, we must start from ourselves and start with the small things around us.
One day, I went to play in the small river in the park. A little boy wanted to throw a fresh bottle into the river. I looked at it and said, "no matter what, Im going to play. If I take care of him, I wont be able to play." But at this time, one is old man on a fishing trip saw the little boys behavior quickly held out his hand to stop a small boy, and said to the boy: "child, dont throw rubbish into the river." The little boy listened and put down the bottle and said to the old man, "whats the big deal? Besides, this is a bottle, not a garbage." The old man listened and was not angry. Smiled and said to the boy, "son, you dont understand. You dont see it as a bottle, but it will also be like other garbage pollution water. We cant drink clean water. Moreover, the trash can is over there, a few steps away." The little boy was speechless to the old man. He said "thank you" to the old man and ran to the trash can.
I listened to that thought, "thats right. When we want to throw fruit peel, tend to throw the rubbish casually into the trash can outside, and ignored. In fact, as long as you stretch out his hand, will be thrown into the trash can. Sometimes, you can throw some wrapping paper with a, then a walk it. Later, you said cant find the trash can. In fact, trash can in a few steps away." These little things can reflect a persons moral character and whether he loves the environment around him.
Protect the environment. Its all about us. Everyone has to do their part. This will make our home more colorful!
篇19:初中英语学校生活作文
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+ 加入清单My name is Lily, a Grade eight student。 I like my school life very much because it’s really enjoyable。 In school, I spent the time with my lovely classmates and teachers。 They all help me a lot with my study and life。
I have six courses each day from Monday to Friday and forty minutes each。 The courses I learn in school are Chinese, mathematics, English, geography, sports and so on。 I like Englishmost because it’s very interesting and my teacher is so lovely and kind。 In one word, my school life makes me happy and I learn a lot in school。
篇20:成长比成功更重要初中
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+ 加入清单我非常喜欢“成长”这个词。一个人的生命要成长,两个人的爱情要成长,一个群体的建设、一个社会的发展,都要成长。从一个人到一个国家,“成长”是最健康的力量,也是最恒久的力量,它不依附于外在,而是你自己内心的一种状态。俗话说“人过三十不学艺,人过四十天过午”。但在今天这样知识快速更新的时代,人到六七十,难道就不要学习新的生活方式吗?如果一位80岁的老奶奶能够跟孙子学着玩游戏,能够试试孙女的新裙子,能够跟孩子出去郊游,这个老人一定是幸福、快乐的,因为她仍然保持着成长的力量。
成长有两个特别重要的指标,就是尊严和自由。其实人这一辈子,一切努力都是为了提升尊严、延展自由。无论多好的职业和感情,一旦侵犯到尊严和自由,就会产生冲突,甚至出现新的选择。
我相信尊严与生俱来。女儿5个多月的时候,周围堆着各种玩具,但是她爱玩的只有一样——空药瓶子,她喜欢“咔啦咔啦”起劲地拧瓶盖。从她小手里抢过瓶子跟她说“这个不好玩,你还是玩电动娃娃吧”!可是我女儿把电动娃娃推到一边,顽强地去抓那个瓶子,继续痴迷地拧瓶盖。我后来去咨询儿童心理学专家,他说那个阶段正是孩子的手指开始学习精细化动作的时候,拧瓶盖这个动作对孩子小肌肉的发育大有益处,可比玩电动娃娃好多了。所以,我们认为昂贵的电动娃娃更好,这只是成年人的标准。
除了尊严,还有一个成长指标是“自由”。很多人问我,你这么主张自由,那你教你的孩子背诗词吗?我说我当然教。可我不是让她手放在背后一本正经地背诵,而是她在踩着滑板车跑时,我们俩大声地背诵;是她在浴缸里泡着、打着水花时,突然饶有兴趣地提议说:“妈妈,我们背首诗吧!”
她背诗,我从不限制她如何使用和想象。我清楚地记得,她第一次使用诗词是在两岁多的时候,有一次我出差回来,问她:“你想妈妈吗?”她冷不丁地说了句:“路上行人欲断魂。”她背诗居然能“活学活用”!她喜欢把我们的大床当蹦床,有一回她爸爸说:“你别蹦了,都把我们的床单蹦破四条了!”谁知她一边蹦,一边高声说:“人生得意须尽欢!”把她爸爸噎得瞠目结舌。
女儿从小就在解构经典。但是我从来没有纠正过她一次,因为我觉得,她可以胡说八道的年华还有多少呢?
让一个人能有尊严、自由地成长,这是我们的一种期许。
“山坡上开满了鲜花,但在牛羊的眼里,那只是饲料。”我们今天并不是鲜花少了,而是牛羊的眼光多了。我们越来越失去了一种审美的眼光,而把这个世界看成是同一种功利标准的筛选。我们越来越成功了,但是我们失去了成长的力量,失去了那种在漫山遍野的鲜花中漫步时心灵上的愉悦。
“成功”,或许是一个评判人的标准,但只是成长中的一部分标准。成长的过程中,有一套综合、多元的标准体系。一个人,只要生命能成长,就一定有未来。所有时间中,最重要的就是当下;所有权利中,最重要的就是成长。