写寒假英语日记带翻译（最新20篇）

I want to be ateacher in the future, because I think teacher is a good job.

My teachers arevery good. Some of them are gentle, but some of them are not. But

I think theyall care for students very much. I want to be a good teacher like

them. I thinkI will be strict to my students in the class. But after class, I

want to betheir friend and help them in study and life. Besides, it can help me

to keep ayoung heart to stay with young students. I must work hard for my

dream.

将来我想成为一名老师，因为我觉得老师是一份好工作。我的老师都很优秀，他们有的温柔，但有的不是这样。但是，我觉得他们都很关心学生。我想成为和他们一样的好老师。我认为在课堂上我会对学生严厉，但是课后我想成为他们的朋友，在生活和学习上帮助他们。除此之外，与年轻的学生呆在一起能够使我保持年轻的心态。我一定要努力实现我的梦想。

星期日，爸爸妈妈没上班，早上起床时，爸爸妈妈还在睡觉，可能是他们太辛苦了，所以我不叫醒他们，决定给他们做早餐，于是。我从冰箱里拿出牛奶和馒头，我先是把牛奶放入牛奶锅里煮，看着牛奶煮沸腾了，关上煤气，拿出三个杯子，把牛奶分别倒入杯子中，接着我又把馒头放入蒸锅里蒸，我看着锅上冒出烟了，便关上煤气，又拿出盆子，把馒头放在盘里。我又把碗筷拿到桌子上，这时，我便到爸爸妈妈门前敲门，他们出来看到桌上热气腾腾早点，妈妈高兴的抱着我亲了有亲。爸爸说：“我女儿长大了，懂事了。

谢谢你，女儿”。这可是爸爸第一次给我说谢谢。没想到我做了一顿早餐，他们就这样高兴。爸爸妈妈其实我想对你们是说：“你们太辛苦了，我是应该为你们做早饭的。我谢谢你们对我的关怀，以后我有时间还会为你们做事情的。

Dear John,

Long time no see, how is your summer vacation I’m really sorry for writing so late. I have been too busy at this moment. I am happy to hear that you have traveled to Tibet at this summer holiday. How I wish I could go there with you!

Let me tell you something about my summer holiday. My summer holiday is rich and colorful. My parents take me to Hong Kong. That’s a beautiful place. I buy a lot of funny things at there. Such as pretty dresses, cute dolls and the snacks I never eat before. I really want to stay there and never come back! In a word, I really appreciate the life there. I’m really looking forward to your reply!

亲爱的约翰：

好久不见，你的暑假过得还好吗很抱歉那么晚才写信给你。这段时间 我真的太忙了。我很高兴听说暑假你去了西藏旅游。我真希望我也和你一起去。

让我告诉你我的暑假趣事吧。我的暑假过得丰富多彩。我父母带我去 了香港。那是个美丽的地方。我在香港买了很多新奇的玩意。比如漂亮的裙子， 可爱的娃娃和一些从来没有吃过的零食。我真想待在那里再也不回来了。一句话， 我喜欢那里的生活。

友的

2022年的春节来到了，我非常高兴，想着能吃到美味的饭菜，香喷喷的点心，还能得到很多压岁钱，我越想越高兴，我兴奋得一夜都没睡，脑子里想的全是饭菜，点心、压岁钱，还有那漂亮的新衣服，可爱的玩具……

春节的早上，我第一个从床上跳起来，抖擞抖擞精神，活动活动筋骨，然后高高兴兴去叫爸妈，爸爸见我起得这么早，也不甘落后，从床上翻身便爬了起来了，妈也陆续地起床了，洗完脸刷完牙，一心想到的就是吃个痛快!一想到吃，我就来劲，忙向爸妈建议做这做那，妈妈是我家的主厨，因此做什么由她这位裁判来决定，妈妈说：“很久没吃过饺子了，包些饺子吃吧。”我们都非常赞同。

决定做什么以后，我们便分工进行了，爸爸做肉馅，妈妈揉面，我烧水。我们干起来都十分有劲，不到半个小时，肉馅弄好了，饺子也弄好了，水也快烧开了。妈妈便熟练地包起饺子来，我好不容易包了三个，累死了，还真难学啊!妈妈说：“不吃点苦，努力学，怎么能学得好呢?”我听了有点惭愧，便吸取教训，重新扬起风帆，认认真真地包了起来，这下做得更快了一些。这就使我明白了一个道理：学什么都应该刻苦。

过了大概二十多分钟，揉的面已经全部做成了饺子，烧的水也已经在锅里翻江倒海了。妈妈便把饺子放进锅里，煮了起来。妈妈在中途还加了一些佐料，使饺子更加好吃，约摸过了十多分钟吧，妈妈便把饺子捞起来，分成了三碗，在每碗中还放了一些汤。我妈刚弄好汤，我便抢了一碗津津有味地吃个痛快!由于吃得太快，舌头都火辣辣的。

我们个个都吃得满嘴是油，便欢天喜地去看精彩电视节目了。

啊，真是一个快乐的春节啊!

This winter holiday I stayed at home. If you want to ask me why we should study English, my answer will be simple and clear. Now let me enumerate the reasons one by one in the following.In the first place, English has become an international language. If you know English, you van make a trip round the world without being misunderstood.In the second place, most valuable books, newspapers and magazines are written in English. If you wish (hope) to get knowledge, you must learn English.

转眼间，寒假就要过去了，回想下这个寒假收获还真不少。但是最大的收获要数我学会了蒸年糕。

年三十一大早，我看见奶奶正忙着买蜜枣，桂花，春糯米粉，准备蒸年糕呢!我长这么大，每年都能吃到奶奶从乡下寄来的美味年糕，但从没看到过奶奶是怎样蒸年糕的。今年正好回老家，我可要亲自“实践”一下。

总算等到吃好午饭，奶奶从橱里拿出蒸笼。于是我对奶奶说：“让我来当您的助手吧，我吃自己蒸的糕，心里会更甜!’’奶奶微笑着同意了。我挽起袖管，那股高兴劲可别提了。我仿佛已经闻到了年糕的阵阵香味。

只见奶奶先把糯米粉倒进竹匾里，在里面加上了白搪，蜜枣，桂花。再用勺子麻利地来回拌匀。奶奶告诉我：“这样蒸出来的糕既有蜜枣的甜味，又有桂花的香味，让人回味无穷。”我想：怪不得奶奶每年都寄好多年糕来，但我总觉得吃不够。想着，我就学奶奶的样子用筷子不停地搅拌着。

接着，奶奶在大锅里放了一锅水和几根筷子，把锅盖盖上，让爷爷烧火。过了一会儿，满屋水汽，水烧开了。这时，奶奶在蒸笼的内壁用纱布轻轻地抹上清油，放人已拌匀的米粉，双手在蒸笼的四周拍了几下，等米粉拍结实了，急忙把蒸笼放到锅上蒸。一会儿，米粉中就冒出了几个顽皮的小泡，小泡碎了，蒸汽就从米粉中冒出来。奶奶低下头，仔细观察蒸汽的出处，还不停地在出气处撒上米粉。奶奶一边忙着添加米粉，一边给我“面授机宜”：“这添加米粉很有讲究，不然的话，蒸出来的糕，有的地方生，有的地方熟，口味很不好。”奶奶还不停地关照爷爷把灶内的火烧得旺一点。不多久，一股年糕香扑鼻而来，一笼又糯又香的年糕就蒸好了。

奶奶乐滋滋地把冒着热气的年糕递到家人的手里，嘴里不停地说着：“吃了搪年糕，生活一年更比一年好。”

真开心，我终于学会了蒸年糕，怎么样我的收获是不是很少。

January 14 20xx

20xx年1月14日

It was the second day of our winter holiday. I felt good. I felt Im free. I had a lot of time to do things I like. My parents are in Beijing. So I live alone but I dont feel lonely. But I didnt do something special. I stayed at home and watched TV. Oh! I wrote an English daily composition. It was my homework. Today, I have slept for 14 hours. I thought I was very tired. It was time for dinner. I must go! I am very hungry.

这是我们的冬季假期的第二天。我感觉很好。我觉得我是自由的。我有很多时间,我喜欢做的事情。我的父母都是在北京举行。因此,我独自生活,但我不感到孤独。但我没有做一些特别的东西。我住在家里看电视。噢!我写了一份英文报章组成。这是我的功课。今天,我睡了14个小时。我想我是太累了。这是吃晚饭的时间。我必须去!我很饥饿。

Dear Friend,

亲爱的朋友，

How have you been recently? I miss you very much. Do you still remember me?

最近过得怎么样?我很想你。你还记得我吗?

To be honest, Im honored to make friends with you. I still remember the days when we were together. As far as I know, you are the kindest person in the world. Once we were together, you always treated me as if I were your dear brother, so I was grateful to you in my heart. After you leaving, I always thought of you. Next time we have a chance to see each other, I will say "thank you" to you. Thank you for your kindness. Now I have got the meaning of my life.

老实说，我很荣幸成为你的朋友。我还记得我们在一起的日子。我觉得你是世界上最善良的人。我们在一起的时候，我们总是亲如兄弟，所以在我的心里我很感激你。你离开后，我总是想起你。下一次如果我们有机会见到对方，我会对你说“谢谢你”。谢谢你的善良。让我现在的人生有了意义。

Although we are in two different places now, we are still together, because we are always heart to heart. I believe we can see each other again. Since we are always close friends as well as dear brothers. Because of you, my life is always so significant. Wherever I am, I will pray good luck for you.

虽然现在我们在两个不同的地方，但我们依然在一起，因为我们总是心连心。我相信我们还能再次见面。 因为我们是亲密的朋友，亲爱的兄弟。因为你，我的人生总是那么的有意义。无论我在哪里，我都会为你祈祷好运。

Last but not the least, I hope you can make it and have a bright future.

最后但并非最不重要的是我希望你能有一个光明的未来。

Sincerely yours,

Jason

詹森

昨天妈妈说今天带我去滑雪，我兴奋了一晚上没睡好，第二天我起得很早，我们五点半出发，经过四个小时的车程，我们来到了老界岭滑雪场。

过了他们一会儿之后我们中国就进入了我国滑雪场，我飞快的穿上了发展滑雪教学用具进行然后我走出了服务大厅，我刚站好就差点摔跤，妈妈说要给我请一个国家滑雪作为老师，我很高兴，不一会儿音乐老师就来了，我看她不用学习滑雪棍就可以滑，老师可以告诉我，学滑雪活动不能因为害怕，害怕学生就学问题不会。老师倒着拉我，第一次世界滑雪的感觉生活真好，不一会儿，我就学与会了一些拐弯。刹车。减速。我滑了几遍，觉得学校没意思了，于是，我决定去教妈妈，我很得意的滑到妈妈也是跟前，对她说：“妈妈，我来教你吧!”妈妈工作有点惭愧的说：“不用了，我自己能学会!”最后就是妈妈教育还是需要靠自己学会了。一转眼的工夫就到了该吃中午饭的时候了。

晚饭后我们休息了一下就出发了，我和妈妈决定去中坡试试。我已经排队很久了，要上中间的斜坡。我好不容易上了中间的斜坡，我站在山坡上往下看，斜坡几乎是直的，我鼓起勇气往下滑，这个斜坡越来越低，我像风一样快，滑下斜坡时我努力，实际上停了下来，我回头看，妈妈走下来，我问我妈妈：“你为什么要下去?”妈妈说：“看到别人摔跤，我也有点害怕，再加上这坡这么陡我不敢滑。”我对妈妈说：“试试看!”妈妈只是不敢，我想玩一次，但我们得走了，我依依不舍地离开了。

今天的行程结束了，但我很高兴，因为我学会了滑雪，那将是我永远的记忆!

The end of the summer， should have a good rest! But my mother is very busy。

As the daughter of course I want to help my mother to do some。 Early in the

morning I got up， washed the dishes， sweep the floor， cooking and so on， at

noon， I tired， lying on the bed， fan fan， more fortable。

翻译：最后放暑假了，就应好好歇歇了!但是妈妈很忙。作为女儿的我当然要帮妈妈分担些了。一大清早的我就起来了，帮妈妈洗碗，扫地，做饭等等，到了中午，我快累死了，往床上一躺，扇扇电风扇，舒服多了。

This summer vacation, I took part in the English summer camp. I found many

interesting things here.

First, the children in the camp are very young and lovely. They taught me a

lot. We always paly together and study together. Everydaywe are very happy. It’s

a vew life to me. Because it is a good chance to know many good friends. It

brings me a colourful life.

Second, the teachers in the English summer camp are very kind, and some are

beautiful. For example, our headteacher Miss Zhu, and many foreign teachers.

They teach us English and help us improve English. I think attending their

classes is very interesting and exceting.

In the class, we can play games, and learn more English words. They always

come up with many good ideas which let us feel happy. I get a new feeling and my

whole body feel refreshed.

Third, thescenery of Zhejiang University is so beautiful. There are many

trees, flowers and other plants. It’s a colourful school. There are also some

lakes and bridges. It is the paradise of my new life. I think it is a special

place. It makes me relaxed and happy.

So I think Zhejiang University is equal to giving me a new life.

I enjoy the vew life, enjoy the things and people here.

I like holidays because I have enough time to relax. Last year, my

father and I went to Singapore by plane, there is a beautiful place, the four

seasons pleasant climate, there are many Chinese immigrants in Singapore, and

there are lots of Chinese food, like noodles, dumplings, rice, very delicious,

we shopping there, watching the scenery, and taste a lot of delicious food. It

was a very enjoyable

holiday.

我喜欢假期，因为我有足够的时间去放松。去年，我和爸爸坐飞机去了新加坡，那儿是个美丽的地方，四季气候宜人，新加坡有许多中国移民，而且那里有许多中国食物，比如面条，饺子，米饭，非常美味，我们在那里购物，观赏了美景，并且品尝了许多美味的食物。这真是一个令人愉快的假期。

以前听别人说神仙居简直就是神仙下凡，把仙居变成了一幅美丽的图画。今天利用放寒假的时间，去游览了一下。

到了神仙居首先我看到了许多的奇石，比如：神仙下凡，远处高高的山峰云雾缭绕，挡住了整座山，只露出了像弥勒佛的山顶。还有鬼斧神工的将军岩，远远望去，一位威猛的将军头像展现在你眼前。看着看着，我发现了一条通往山顶的崎岖山路，便提议：“爸爸妈妈，我们不如去看一看山顶的景色吧。”“好啊!”爸爸妈妈异口同声地回答道，我们便踏上了通往山顶的艰难路程。

不知走了多长时间，我们终于到山顶了。从山顶往下看，白茫茫的一片雾，这样神仙居离人间仙境这个称号就更加接近了。这时爸爸说了：“既然到山顶了，那我们就去看一看全国第二长的吊桥吧。”不一会儿，我们就到了吊桥边，吊桥的尽头被雾挡住了，我想：这是不是通往天边的吊桥?在云雾的伴随下竟然能展现出这么奇妙景色。上吊桥的第一步，我觉得桥有些晃荡，便觉得十分害怕。但凭着小巧玲珑的身体，我一下子就跑到尽头了。而爸爸妈妈却悠闲地很，他们一边拍照一边说：“一定要把这个美丽的风景保留。”我想：这也太夸张了吧，新鲜的事物还多着呢!

神仙居是仙人居住的地方，奇形怪状的奇石，把树合二为一的情侣林，以及赫赫有名的吊桥就组成了神仙居。神仙居是带给我们快乐和温暖的地方!

Dear MrYang,

亲爱的杨老师，

How iseverything going! Tomorrw is Teachers’ Day.I would like to express my sincerely wishes to you. You taught me English inthe primary school. That is the time to lay our foundation. And you help me laymy interest on English, which make me feel learn English easily in middleschool. I’m very appreciated that. Thank you very much. If it is convenient foryou, I would like to visit you this National Day. Happy Teachers’ Day again.

一切可好!明天就是教师节了。 我相向你表达我衷心的祝福。你在我小学的时候教我英语。那是打基础的时候。 是你让我对英语感兴趣。这让我在初中学习英语变得容易多了。我很感激。非常感谢你。如果方便的话，我想在今年国庆节去拜访你。再次祝你教师节快乐。

Best wishes,

Lucy

露西

Dear Miss Zhu,

亲爱的周老师，

How time flies! It has been a few years since I left high school, but I still remember you in my heart, because you’re the best teacher in my mind. It’s not only because you taught me knowledge, but also you taught me how to study. I have really benefitted a lot from you. So I would like to express my great thanks to you, and share my life in college with you.

时间飞逝!我高中毕业已经几年了，但我仍然把你记在我的心里，因为你是我心目中最好的老师。这不仅是因为你教与我知识，而且你还教我如何学习。从你身上我真的获益匪浅。所以我想向你表达我的感谢，并与你分享我的大学生活。

Now I’m studying in Hunan First Normal College, which is Chairman Mao’s former school. I major in English, because I find it so fun and interesting. As far as I’m concerned, our English Department is the best department in our college. The teachers in our department are knowledgeable, experienced, and warm-hearted. And my classmates are nice, friendly and helpful. Thus, I have a good atmosphere to study. When I have difficulties in study, I always ask my teachers for help or discuss with my classmates. Through their help, I have made great progress in my English study.

我现在在湖南第一师范学校学习，这是主席之前呆过的学校。我的专业是英语，因为我觉得它很有趣。我觉得我们英语系是我校最好的学部。我们系的老师知识渊博，经验丰富，热心肠。我的同学们也很和蔼，友好，乐于助人。因此，我拥有一个很好的学习氛围。当我在学习上遇到困难时，我总是向我的老师寻求帮助或与同学讨论。在他们的帮助下，我在英语学习上取得了很大的进步。

College life is much different from high school life. In college, we should acquire knowledge as well as improve our integrated abilities. There are a lot of English classes for us to learn, such as Basic English, Oral English, Listening, Reading, Writing, Translation, Grammar, English Literature, and so on. I enjoy these classes very much. Except English, we have many other subjects to learn. Life seems so busy here but it’s so fruitful for me.

大学生活与高中生活有很大的不同。在大学，我们要获取知识也要提高我们的综合能力。我们要上很多的英语课，比如，基础英语，英语口语，听力阅读，写作，翻译，语法，英语文学等。我非常喜欢这些课。除英语外，我们还要学习很多其他科目。在这里生活是如此的忙碌，但这对我来说是如此丰硕的收获。

After class, I usually go to the English Corner. There I can practice my oral English by talking with foreigners or chatting with my schoolmates. Now, I’m able to communicate with foreigners well. Sometimes I also take part in some social activities. For instance, last weekend I attended an interesting play. As it was my first performance, I felt a little nervous at the beginning. But when I appeared on the stage, I made every audience laugh happily. I was so proud of myself at that moment, because this was my first achievement.

下课后，我经常去英语角。在那里我可以通过与外国人或我的同学聊天来练习我的英语口语。现在我可以很好的和外国人交流了。有时候我也可以参加一些社交活动。例如，上周我参加了一个有趣的表演。因为是我第一次表演，所以一开始的时候我觉得有点紧张。但当我出现在舞台上时，我让每一个观众都开心的笑了。在那一刻，我为我自己感到骄傲，因为这是我的第一个收获。

What about your present life? I hope to hear from you soon.

你目前生活怎么样呢?希望很快能收到你的回信。

At last, I hope everything goes well with you. Please give my best regards to your family.

最后，我希望你一切顺利。请代我向你的家人问好。

Sincerely yours,

Jason

詹森

I like the Chinese new year better than any other festival。 This is a time

especially for rest and joy。 I need not study。 I wear good clothes and eat good

food。 I have a good time from morning till night。 I am as happy as a king。

翻译：我喜欢中国新年比喜欢其它任何节日更甚。这是一个专为休息和欢乐的时光。我不需要读书。我穿好衣服，吃好东西。我每一天从早到晚日子过得简单愉快。我和上帝一样快乐。

I have rested for 10 days. In these days, I felt very bored. I didn’t know

to do what. Although I had a lot of things to do, I felt uncomfortable. I was

ill because of the hot weather. I was tired, sleepy and had no strength. My

parents are worried about my health. in fact, it didn’t matter. I was always in

the room with air-conditioner and opened it in a low temperature. So when I went

out, the high temperature disagreed to me.At last, I was ill.

我已经休息了10天。在这些日子里，我觉得很无聊。我不知道做什么。虽然我有很多事情要做，我觉得不舒服。我是因为炎热的天气而生病。我累了，困了，没有实力。我的父母担心我的健康。事实上，这并不重要。我总是在房间里有空调，并在低温下打开了它。所以，当我走了出去，高温不给me.At最后，我病了。

正月初一那天，天气晴朗，万里无云，我和爸爸，妈妈，小表叔一起去公园划船，到了公园，人真多呀!连划船都要排成长长的队伍，爸爸去买了船票，我们在那里排队等了一个多小时，好不容易才等到了一个空船，我们赶快上了船。

我和小表叔坐在船的最前面，爸爸妈妈坐在后面。我和小表叔轮着掌握方向盘，爸爸妈妈在后面蹬着划船。我们在水里转来转去，玩的高兴极了。正在高兴时，忽然看见我们的船正直直往正前方的一条手划船上撞去，把划船的叔叔阿姨吓的赶紧转弯，把我们俩笑的肚子疼。妈妈说我没掌握好方向便让小表叔掌握方向，我想抵赖，于是就说：“还没到时间呢!”小表叔好象知道我在骗他，就说：“哥，时间是不是到了。”

我爸爸说：“时间到了，浩悦让你小表叔来掌握方向。”我极不情愿的让给了他。也不知道今天是怎么了，总有船和我们相撞，刚才我们撞人家的船，现在又有人家的船来撞我们，我们的船劲大，把它撞的转了个弯，又把我和小表叔乐得哈哈大笑。又有一条汽船朝我们驶过来了，爸爸叫我们赶快转弯，我们立刻就转弯躲了过去。

我们看到岸上有人在跳舞便把船划了过去看，看的正美时，岸上有人说我们的船时间到了，叫我们停船靠岸，我们很快把船划了过去，上了岸便回家了。

Since the first day of my winter vacation, I’ve decided to make it a

valuable and enjoyable one. I made a plan to finish my homework within the first

week, and after days of hard working, I actually got all my assignments done a

day earlier. I am pretty proud of myself for not —as usual —hang out with my

friends until the last few days of my vacation and rush through my homework.

In the rest of my winter vacation, I made up my mind to improve my reading

skills. I’ve had tons of books that I simply bought and put them on my shelf,

wishing some day they would be finished themselves. But this time, I realized I

was not trying my best last term and decided to make some change. I finished a

couple of novels and watched some classic movies, I also went to a library to

borrow some new books for next term. The more I read the more enthusiastic I

became, and now I’ve developed my reading skills a lot.

Another event in my winter vacation is that I went to hiking with my

parents. It was a warm, sunny day, which is pretty precious during winter time.

I can still remember the scene when we drove

After morning’s class, we couldn’t help rushing to the cafeteria. It always

brought us coolness. The food was so-so, but the home-cooking is much delicious.

When we almost finished eating, I suddenly saw a familiar face——our foreign

teacher Nick. A girl was sitting beside him. They were talking over lunch. I at

once told my friends Sandy and Jenny about it. We were so excited. I slowed my

speed of eating to wait for that girl. At the moment, they finished their lunch

and walked by us with the smile on their faces. Nick seemed so different from

how he looked in the class. I guess that is the power of love. Hope they will

enjoy everyday when they get together. So romantic!

I expect that Nick will tell his love story to us.

When asked about their opinion of career and family, people always respond differently. Some people deem it more important to pursue their career, while there are always other people who argue that family should be the number one in one’s life.

It goes without any question that career plays a key role in our life. In the very first place, career can give us an aim to live on. Without career, much of our living time will be certainly wasted. What’s more, career can provide us with a means to live on. Most of the people earn their income from a job. On the other hand, family is also an indispensable part of life, as many people will admit. Family is always regarded as a place where we can escape from troubles in life. In addition, we can obtain a sense of belonging to from family. Without it, anyone will feel lonely and desperate.

In my opinion, career and family are not in opposition to each other. Rather, they can enhance each other so that one’s life can become better and better. Therefore, it’s not a choice between right and wrong, but one between ideal and practical.

在谈到自己的事业和家庭的意见要求，人总是有不同的反应。有些人认为这更重要的是追求自己的事业，而总有那么谁认为家庭应该是一个人的生活的人数1人。

毫无疑问，任何事业在我们生活中起着关键作用。在第一个地方，可以给我们一个职业生涯的目标是生活。没有职业生涯中，大部分时间我们的生活一定会被浪费。更重要的是，职业生涯可以提供一种手段，对我们的生活。大多数人从工作中赚取的收入。另一方面，家庭也是生活中不可缺少的一部分，因为很多人会承认。家庭一直被认为是一个地方，我们可以摆脱生活中的麻烦。此外，我们可以得到一个属于家庭的感觉。没有它，人会感到孤独和绝望。

在我看来，职业和家庭是不反对对方。相反，它们可以加强彼此，使自己的生活能够越来越好。因此，它不是对与错之间的选择，但理想和现实之间的一个。