傲慢与偏见英文读后感（合集20篇）

Let me tell what I feel after reading the great work Jane Erye.I was really move by Jane Erye after closing the book.What a kind and good woman!Mrs Eyre had a heart of gold.She really loved everyone around her,and gave others help sincerely.She respected herself and did her best to do everything.I really love her.She are both a great teacher and a good friend of mine.Sometimes when I am confuse,I will think of her.I will imagine what will she do if she is I.Why not read Jane Erye my friends!

《傲慢与偏见》故事围绕贝内特一家几个女儿的婚姻大事展开。从伦敦新搬来的单身汉阔少宾利先生爱上了温柔美貌的大女儿简，他的朋友达西则倾情于二女儿伊丽莎白。由于她听信了年轻军官韦恩的谗言而对达西产生了偏见致使这桩婚姻进行的十分缓慢。经过一连串有趣的周折后，误会终于得以消除。达西克服了傲气，伊丽莎白也克服了对他的偏见，最后两人终成眷属。合上书的那一刻，我对男主角达西和女主角伊丽莎白在追求各自幸福中所显露出来的执着的勇气敬佩不已。真的难以想像，如果聪明的达西在第一次求婚遭到拒绝后，没有勇气去面对并改正自己的性格缺陷，或者他俩谁都没有勇气去克服财产与门第的悬殊，他们还会幸福吗?

人生之旅中，我们每一个人都是寻梦者。梦是巫山峡壁上缀着的那团闲适的白雾，不知何时来，何时去，去向何方;梦是一条伸向河里的若隐若现的虹，现到最美的时候也是它即将消逝的时候。梦是何等神奇，令人魂牵梦绕!它引无数的追梦者背负着黄河的淤泥，手捧长江的清纯，迈着日月交替的脚步，追赶着问题的音符。这其间每一段艰辛的历程，无不饱含着奋斗的辛酸，无不需要我们以足够的勇气去面对，去承受，去拼搏。

事实上，像达西这样的人物有很多。四面楚歌中，项王仍悲歌慷慨：“力拔山兮气盖世，时不利兮骓不逝”;曹孟德更是在“对酒当歌”中，一边感叹“人生几何”，一边执着地吟出“青青子衿、悠悠我心”。此时的我们正值青春，就如绚丽的花朵在绽放，我们充满希望，渴望自由呼吸，自由飞翔。而这一切，都需要我们有勇气去争取。幸福那么近地悬着，亲爱的朋友，你还在犹豫什么呢?

勇者拾梦，相信破茧而出的，不再短暂，我们将拥有人生全程的美丽!

The world is what we see now this appearance? Plants are always silent, the animals dont have thoughts and feelings, food can fill our belly...

That may not be oh! As long as you are willing to, he may become another appearance: starlight shines through every corner of the small animals to play with you, sitting in my room, you can flying into the ground, in a twinkling, with roaming wanli... Want to go to the world for roaming, it is not difficult, just need some curiosity and some fantasy.

Alice has done this in the past, the story is like this: in a make you sleepy in the afternoon, Alice in the river the chasing a talking rabbit in vest and fell into the rabbit hole, which came to a wonderful world, in this wonderful world many strange things happened, until Alice clashed with the queen, just wake up, found himself still lay in the river.

When I finished reading the book, I realized the fun of reading and imagine happiness. The book brought me to a wonderful world to roaming, also left a deep impression on me.

Reading this book, like to set foot on a boat trip, can roam the world, you can look at flags, can feel happy. I also want to Alice, for life is full of beautiful yearning to do a good boy!

世界就是我们现在看到的这个样子吗?植物们永远默默无语，动物们没有思想和感情，食物只能填饱我们的肚子……

那可不一定哦!只要你愿意，他完全可能变成另外一种样子：星光洒满每一个角落，小动物们和你一起玩耍，坐在自己的房间里，就可以飞天入地，转瞬间，你以漫游万里……想到这个世界去漫游，一点也不难，只需要一些好奇心和一些幻想。

爱丽丝就做到了这一点，故事是这个样子的：在一个让人昏昏欲睡的下午，爱丽丝在河边追逐一只穿着背心的会说话的兔子而掉进了兔子洞，从而来到了一个奇妙的世界，在这个奇妙的世界里发生了许多奇怪的事情，直到爱丽丝与女王发生冲突，才醒过来，发现自己依然躺在河边。

当我阅读完这本书时，我体会到了读书的乐趣与想象的快乐。这本书把我带到了一个奇妙的世界里去漫游，同时也给我留下了深刻的印象。

阅读这本书，犹如踏上一只旅行的小艇，可以漫游世界，可以仰望旗帜，可以体会快乐。我也要向爱丽丝一样，做个对生活充满美好向往的好孩子!

lls us that the best people to increase the dignity of life is love. Novels by the end of the row that this is such a life. Although I think this kind of outcome is too perfect, so perfect a little superficial, but I still respect this author The ideal of a better kind of life. ------- Is to increase the dignity of love / In modern society, few people will like Jane Eyre, for the love for the character and abandon all, and without looking back.s Whole-hearted pursuit of pay, and pure like a glass of ice water ……

《傲慢与偏见》是简·奥斯汀的代表作。这部作品以日常生活为素材，一反当时社会上流行的感伤小说的资料和矫揉造作的写作方法，生动地反映了18世纪末到19世纪初处于保守和闭塞状态下的英国乡镇生活和世态人情。

《傲慢与偏见》在书中是男女主角感情上的障碍，但在现实社会中也是人们相互之间交流的障碍，更是在正确对待自己，对待事物上的绊脚石。人的缺陷太多，首先是心灵上的陷阱。要想在一生中成就一番事业，无论是知识、教养、还是感情、事业，都需要同自己心灵的种种浅浮的陷阱或阴影做斗争，经过各种误解和长时刻的反复的认识过程，慢慢由心灵克服各自弱点和毛病，而走向开放、洒脱、自由的必然结果。扰扰尘世，做人不易;茫茫人海，佳偶难见。然而没有感情不好勉强别人结婚，只要人品正直，追求美德，不放松向喜之心，不苟且、贪图一时之利欲，追求两心之和谐、相应，运用彼此的智慧，克服心灵上的缺点，终得如愿以偿。

人和人之间的相处总会有一些小小的摩擦，而这些摩擦，往往就是自己内心中所潜藏的弱点或毛病，要和别人能够更愉快的生活，就务必先了解到自己的缺点，并磨去他，其次是了解别人的内心，最后再互相深入彼此，如此一来，你会发现到社会上每一件人、事、物都是如此完美、光明，更进一步激发出你内心深处的感动，发挥出自己的专长去替这个社会、这个国家、这个世界服务，毕竟我门是万物之长，如果人们不再用心去关怀身边的人，不再去付出自己的一臂之力，那么还有谁要去完成这个任务呢?因此从此刻开始，我们就就应将自己原先所存有的毛病给除去，换上一个全新的自我，为崭新的未来打拼吧!

A simple story, an ordinary man, an ordinary big marlin, in the vast sea happened seemingly ordinary and extraordinary experience.

This book is about a Cuban old fisherman named diego, a man fishing alone, in the 84 days after nothing caught a big marlin. This is the old man never seen nor heard of than his boat two feet longer a big fish. Big fish strength is big, dragging the boat drifted for two days and two nights, the old man has experienced in the past two days and two nights have never suffered tough test, finally put the big shark fin die, tied to the bow. At this time, however, encountered a shark, the old man and the shark dogfight, result the big marlin was shark ate up, old man finally dragged home only a pair of bare fish skeleton.

After reading this novel, I found that the old mans story is not only a symbol of the relationship between human and nature, and a symbol of the whole human spirit indestructible. In reality, though he failed, but in spirit, he is the winner. Here, the old man is not only represents a person, but to represent a force, a kind of spirit, that is to let a person admire perseverance, the spirit of never yielding. I also very admire the novel old fishermans will, he let me know how a man must be strong, cant meet the frustration is losing, that will never be a one thing.

一个简单的故事，一个平凡的老人，一条普通的大马林鱼，在茫茫大海上发生了看似平凡而又不平凡的经历。

这本书讲了古巴的一个名叫桑地亚哥的老渔夫，独自一个人出海打鱼，在一无所获的84天之后钓到了一条无比巨大的马林鱼。这是老人从来没见过也没听说过的比他的船还长两英尺的一条大鱼。鱼大劲也大，拖着小船漂流了整整两天两夜，老人在这两天两夜中经历了从未经受的艰难考验，终于把大鱼刺死，拴在船头。然而这时却遇上了鲨鱼，老人与鲨鱼进行了殊死搏斗，结果大马林鱼被鲨鱼吃光了，老人最后拖回家的只剩下一副光秃秃的鱼骨架。

读完这篇小说，我发现，老人的故事不仅象征着人与自然的关系，而且象征着整个人类坚不可摧的精神。在现实中，他虽然失败了，但在精神上，他却是胜利者。在这里，老人不仅仅是代表着一个人，而是代表了一股力量，一种精神，那是让人敬佩的坚韧不拔，永不服输的精神。我也十分佩服小说中老渔夫的意志,他让我懂得了一个人一定要坚强，不能遇到一点挫折就败退，这样永远也做不成一件事。

导语：《达·芬奇密码》小说集合了侦探，惊悚和阴谋论等多种风格，并激起了大众对某些宗教理论的普遍兴趣。下面是yuwenmi小编为大家整理的优秀英语读后感，欢迎阅读与借鉴，谢谢!

Informal feedbacks and opinions about “The Da Vinci Code”

Okay, at first I have to admit that “The Da Vinci Code” is an amazing book. When I read in mid-parts, sometimes I just wanna to ask, “Okay, okay, what is happening?” It is a horrible period to let an eastern person to understand western religions in sudden. And so, this book basically is in love with the western religion issues.

Honestly, the author is a genius that he organizes plots and conflicts so dramatically and delicately. It’s like a gift. Reading the book is taking a roller coaster, and even worse, your eyes are forced to be close, the world is full of empty black and you got no idea what the railway go next. Everybody seems like suspect. There is absolutely an organization that was killing people and tried to hide something, which is the secret truth. Langdon knows that. Langdon figured the secret organization--priory of Sion at last, and it shows everything is related, the death of Saunière led Langdon all the way to Rossiyn Chapel, with finding “the rose line” the first prime meridian (RGO) that located France, Paris, Louvre. Where the story ends.

I can not understand that why the followers of Christianity and Catholicism would ever think that pain is good for people and human kind is meant to be guilty because they make the “God” or “Guesses Christ” mad or hurt. Actually I am a real big fan of Christopher Hitches, so now you see. The keystones are in great demand. Everybody wants them, and the truth behind of the keystones. They are delish. Christianity and Catholicism want it because it tells where the secret documents that could destroy the religion is. Where the San-greal is. Dramatically, San-greal is not a real cup, but a woman. Mary Magdalene. Mary Magdalene was legend by the wife of Guesses, who born the true blood of royal (Guesses Christ). The conflict only have one aim that are the keystones and behind of them, which is the San-greal. The plot descripts different personality well, and discovers the characteristics behind different force that was struggling the San-greal distinctly. In order to understand what is happening, and what are the symbols, characters, numbers really mean, and understand why the followers of the religion will be so obsessed, the reader have to place himself in the version of a total western guy, or a follower. Because of the different believe probably, I could not comprehend some of the strange behaviors (I mean they are weirdoes) that author described in story, but as a horror plus suspense fiction, I think “The Da Vinci Code” is better then “Sherlock Homes”.

I quite enjoy the reading, and thanks for the ones that borrow the book to me.

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“达文西密码”的非正式反馈与意见

首先，我必须承认“达文西密码”是一本了不起的书。当我在中间阅读时，有时我只想问：“好吧，发生了什么事?“让东方人突然了解西方宗教是一段可怕的时期。所以，这本书基本上是爱上了西方宗教问题。

老实说，作者是一个天才，他组织情节和冲突如此戏剧性和微妙。这就像一个礼物。读这本书是坐过山车，更糟糕的是，你的眼睛被迫关闭，世界充满了空黑色，你不知道什么是铁路去下一步。每个人似乎都怀疑。绝对有一个组织在杀害人们，试图隐藏一些东西，这就是秘密的真相。兰登知道。兰登认为，秘密组织——锡安隐修会在最后，它表明一切都是相关的，对sauniè重新死亡导致兰登一直到Rossiyn Chapel，找到“玫瑰线”第一本初子午线(RGO)，位于法国，巴黎，Louvre。故事结束的地方。

我不明白为什么基督教和天主教的信徒会认为痛苦是对人有益的，而人类是注定有罪的，因为他们使“上帝”或“猜测基督”疯狂或伤害。其实我是一个真正的Christopher Hitches的球迷，所以现在你看到的。重点是需求量很大。每个人都希望他们背后的真相，并重点。他们是美味。基督教和天主教希望它，因为它告诉的秘密文件，可以破坏宗教是。在三真是。戏剧性的是，三大是不是一个真正的杯，但一个女人。Mary Magdalene。Mary Magdalene是传说的猜测妻子，谁出生的皇家皇家血(猜测基督)。冲突的目标只有一个，为重点，在他们的背后，是三大。剧情描述了不同的个性，不同的特点，找出背后的力量，挣扎着的三大明显。为了了解发生了什么，什么是符号，人物，数字真的意味着，并理解为什么信徒的宗教将如此痴迷，读者必须把自己在版本的总西方家伙，或追随者。因为不同的相信，我不能理解一些奇怪的行为(我的意思是他们是怪物)，作者描述的故事，但作为一个恐怖加悬疑小说，我认为“达文西密码”比“家园”。

我很喜欢阅读，感谢那些借我的书。

直到昨天，我才真正读完了这一整本书，这本书是上周日买的，看的速度似乎慢了点儿!

它是英国的简·奥斯丁的作品，这部小说的主题是爱与婚姻，全书或详或略涉及到了五门婚事：作者主要着墨于伊丽莎白和达西，这两人的性格大不相同，伊丽莎白外向，活泼可爱，达西内向给人的感觉是非常傲慢，他们第一次相逢在舞会，达西得罪了伊丽莎白，后来伊丽莎白又听信了别人对达西的中伤，觉得达西可恶极了，同时两人的门第与财产有别，达西大富大贵，伊丽莎白家只算中产阶级，由于父母膝下无儿，财产还得由一个远亲继承。最糟的就是伊丽莎白的母亲脑子笨，经常出洋相妹妹也行为不俭，都被达西瞧不起。然而达西喜欢伊丽莎白的聪明，渐渐喜欢上了她把门第抛之脑后，伊丽莎白了解到了事实的真相后，不但消除了误会，发现达西的心地善良、品德高贵，而且觉得他们俩不同的性格正好互补。这两人的婚姻是美好的婚姻。

伊丽莎白的姐姐简和宾利的婚姻与伊丽莎白的有共同之处，就是既有感情又有财产做基础。

伊丽莎白的妹妹莉迪亚是真心喜欢威克姆的，最后与威克姆结了婚，却不幸福。她单纯追求外在美不问其他，尽管如愿以偿得到了一个美男子却与幸福绝缘。威克姆金玉其外，败絮其中刚开始时迷惑了包括伊丽莎白在内的几乎所有姑娘，但最终上当的是莉迪亚，原因是莉迪亚虚荣心太重。

伊丽莎白的好友夏洛特与牧师柯林斯的婚姻另属一种情况，夏洛特长得不算好看，又没啥财产难于出嫁，所求不在爱情，只在生活依靠，而柯林斯只要娶到女人就行，所以两人一拍即合，他们的婚姻远远比不上伊丽莎白和达西、简与宾利却胜过莉迪亚和威克姆，虽然谈不上爱情、幸福，却有满足、太平。

伊丽莎白的父母的婚姻又十分特殊，他们有财产，但没有爱情，伊丽莎白的父亲年轻时认为美貌女子能给他带来幸福，也如愿以偿，娶到了一位漂亮的姑娘，婚后却发现与美貌而不聪明的女人共度一生索然无味，他的生活宽裕，却情感空虚。

这五门亲事作者没有各表一端，而是通过主人公伊丽莎白很自然地联在一起。

我读完整本书后就觉得，自己以前做的事太愚蠢蠢了，比如我以前看见长得丑的、不好看的我都不会对他们产生好感，甚至讨厌他们。但是当我读完这本书时，我才明白，一个人如何，不是靠美丑来衡量的，那只是外在的，我们要用心去体会内在的。一个人的长相如何，不能代表他的内心如何。

这本书虽然在写婚姻，但其实揭示的都是这个道理。

读了奥斯汀的《傲慢与偏见》让我知道了原来在遥远的欧洲不仅有罗密欧与朱丽叶那样悲壮的爱情，像莎翁那样的古典哥特式的美，原来也有市井家，回归生活的美。简单，精致，如同“两寸牙雕”，却窥视出了整个社会。

弗兰克奥康纳说：“我认为简。奥斯汀是英国文学史上最伟大的技巧局将一样，她在文学方面炉火纯青，就像莫扎特在音乐方面的完美无缺一样。”《傲慢与偏见》的语言如同掠过竹林的风，带给我竹林般的清凉，泉水般的清澈，让人可以随时随地的沉浸其中。那细腻的语言，缜密的思维，为我拉开了英国田园风光的帷幕，不经意间勾勒出了一个浪漫纯美的童话，却又那么的贴近生活。

这是一部描写爱情与婚姻的小说。小说围绕班奈特太太如何把五个女儿嫁出去的主题展开。书中一共写了四队青年男女的结合，作者一一加以比较，批判，爱憎分明的阐述了自己的爱情与婚姻观。富有傲慢的达西和睿智具有反叛精神的伊丽莎白，温柔体贴的简和有权有势的宾利，以及莉迪亚和威克姆，夏洛蒂与柯林斯。

贝内特夫妇五个女儿待字闺中，没有子嗣，依照当时的法律，他们死后家产须由远房内侄柯林斯继承，因此把五个女儿嫁到有钱人家，成了贝内特太太最大的心愿。于是在这样的背景下展开了整个故事的架构。虽然作者在作品中没有重大的社会矛盾，但她以女性特有的细致入微的观察力，真实的描绘了她周围世界的小天地，尤其是绅士淑女间的婚姻和爱情

风波。其实小说中的班奈特太太是当时社会大多数人的缩影，爱情对她们来说是不可靠的奢侈品，她们只看重物质，看重权势。所以当富有单身的宾利来到内瑟菲尔德庄园，便成了众人注目的焦点和谈论的话题，以及小说中对军官们到来，小镇人民细微的表情和言语的描写，将当时社会风气展现的淋漓尽致。

然而作者奥斯汀是一个具有批判精神的女性，于是她塑造了一个追求纯粹的爱情，多少有些藐视权贵的伊丽莎白。虽然小说写于19世纪初叶，但是她所阐述的爱情观与婚姻观放在当下中国却也依旧是那么热点的问题。看到社会中充斥着的拜金主义，炫富事件，小三，包养等心中竟升起一种荒凉，但这也并非真爱的缺失，而是社会问题。我个人认为这种狂热的拜金主义是因为社会制度的不够完善，本来在一个市场经济国家，对金的崇拜，对物质的追求是很正常的事，然而在中国却显得有些病态了，因为在中国没钱你便无法在这个社会生存下去，在“生存”这把悬于头顶的大刀压迫下，拜金现象自然变得严重，人间的真善美也在死亡的威胁下大大贬值。而在国外，特别是欧洲，因为社会保障制度的完善，哪怕你没钱，你还可以生存，所以在国外对艺术，对学术的追求热情远高于中国，同样在那样一个安逸的社会里，爱情观也让现代中国青年向往。

在我看来婚姻的奠基本来就应该是爱情，如同伊丽莎白所追求的一样。面包与玫瑰的选择，若二者不可得兼，取玫瑰而舍面包也。这种选择或许是因为我还没有面临生活的压力，但是追求爱，追求美的确是发自内心的呼吁。

但这只是个人的做出的选择罢了，在经济学中的一个重要基本假设

那便是人的欲望是无限的，而资源是有限的，所以人们总是在不停的面临选择，而我只是出于个人偏好更侧重精神，愿意承受更大的机会成本而已。同样，有些人更侧重于物质，这只是一个选择，没有对错可言。然人毕竟是社会性动物，当大部分人做出了同样的选择，那这个选择便成了一种风气，久而久之，便成了一种习俗。之所以将题目设为“两寸牙雕”，不仅是因为《傲慢与偏见》的精巧细致，更是因为通过这个“牙雕”窥见了当时的风气，抛开爱情不谈，还有其他的一些感慨。

首先让我感慨的是当时人们对法律的敬畏和遵守因为整个故事的构架便是在依据当时法律贝内特夫妇死后财产由远房内侄继承这个源动力的作用下进行的，可见当时法治发展的水平。

其次是平等，“傲慢与偏见”这个书名便是在平等的观念下产生的，达西因为在交际舞会上不肯与他

人跳舞，让伊丽莎白认为他十分傲慢，以至于产生了偏见。要认识和结交朋友都必须与他人一同跳舞，随时更改舞伴，尽兴而为，虽然这个平等具有局限性，但这些应该便是现在欧洲国家自由，平等，法治等观念的雏形。这些从两寸牙雕中观察出的细末，让我回眼中国的当下，期待能发现更多的进步雏形。

Agam is a mentally retarded child. The first time to see Agam ，I was laughing.Agam has funny actions, funny look and he is too silly. But for the second time, I start think. Agam is so serious about every sentence of his mother ,he listens carefully and remember it. So serious and persistent, Agam eventually become a millionaire. Since a fool can be serious and successful, why cant we?

阿甘是个弱智儿童。第一次看这个电影的时候我一直都在笑，阿甘那些搞笑的动作、神情和他的傻让我捧腹大笑。但是第二次看的时候，我就开始思考了。阿甘是那么的认真，妈妈说的每一句话他都认真的记住并做到。凭着这种认真和执着，阿甘最终成为了百万富翁。既然一个傻子都凭着认真而成功，我们为什么不能呢?

我不经意间看到《傲慢与偏见》的电影海报，就去下载下来看，看完电影之后，我感触很多。我就打算认真的阅读下这篇由简·奥斯丁所写的《傲慢与偏见》，这是简·奥斯丁的代表作。当我认真的阅读一遍之后，觉得自己应该更加细细品味书中主人公的感情，畅游于书中可以洗涤心灵的思想之泉。

《傲慢与偏见》的创作背景，它是简·奥斯汀最早完成的作品，她在1796年开始动笔，原本取名为《最初的印象》，1797年8月完成。她父亲看后很感动，特意拿给汤玛·卡士德尔，请他出版，但对方一口回绝，使得他们十分失望。后来，她重写了《最初的印象》并改名为“傲慢与偏见”于1813年1月出版。

《傲慢与偏见》可以说是英国著名女作家简·奥斯丁的代表作，作品描写傲慢的单身青年达西与偏见的二小姐伊丽莎白、富裕的单身贵族彬格莱与贤淑的大小姐简之间的感情纠葛为主线。以及穿插了在伊丽莎白身边缔结的多个幸福或不幸的婚姻，揭示了作者对那个时代妇女的理想和期望。也引出了另一群人的爱情和勇气的故事。

《傲慢与偏见》的开头是以这样一句话开头的，“凡是有财产的单身汉，必定需要娶位太太，这已经成了一条举世公认的真理。”简·奥斯丁将她的哲理通过爱情这个人人都知道的事物来表达。如果说这本书是讲爱情故事，可是我们看不到什么甜言蜜语的句子。我们看完《巴黎圣母院》，也许会被卡西莫多那种要于爱斯美拉达的那种生死相随的爱情所感动，但是我们看完《傲慢与偏见》，你会觉得简·奥斯丁把这边书写的很理智很贴近现实，简·奥斯丁写的不是爱情，而且婚姻。

在当时的那个年代，婚姻的先决条件是男方有可观的家产，女方则要有丰厚的嫁妆时，他们婚姻幸福也就被世人认为理所当然。这样可以看出婚姻要建立在物资基础上。在这种现象中，还有那么一些人勇敢的追求爱情，追求自己的幸福，这点令我很感动。

看完小说，我发现小说一直在传递三种观点。

一、美满的婚姻是要在爱情的基础上。

“没有爱情的婚姻是不会幸福的”，这是简·奥斯丁一直强调的重点。小说很多例子可以体现出这个重点。被母亲娇纵完全不知廉耻为何物的丽迪亚被风浪流子韦翰的外表所迷惑，不顾一切的与他私奔，虽勉强结了婚但婚后并不幸福；风流的韦翰对丽迪亚的爱情很快的淡了，常常跑到城里寻欢乐，两人挥霍无度，连生活都难以维持，可以看出这个婚姻只有一时的迷恋没有永久的爱情，结局自然不是很美好。

伊丽莎白的好友夏绿蒂从小受到的家庭教育是注重门第、讲究地位。在这样的熏陶下她与班纳特家的财产继承人柯林斯结了婚。柯林斯不仅为人做作、举止粗俗，唯一可取的便是溜须拍马之功。但他可以继承班纳特家的财产，且自己有一份田地和一份牧师的俸禄。仅仅为了这些，当柯林斯向伊丽莎白求婚失败后的三天中，夏绿蒂一直借看望好友伊丽莎白为由，与柯林斯朝夕相对，终于在第三天使柯林斯向她求婚。她成了柯太太，却不惜失掉伊丽莎白多年的友情。其实她也有不得已的地方，没有丰厚的嫁妆意味着没有幸福的婚姻，年龄颇大的夏绿蒂只有把握住这次对她而言难得的机会。起码，她将来的生活有了着落，可以成为班家大宅未来的女主人。于是，她与认识不到三天的柯林斯结了婚。婚后，她不断忍受着丈夫令人生厌的怪异行为，她唯一的安慰是使她的新家有条不紊，并在

世人面前构建一个美满的家庭。可见，纯粹建立在经济基础上的婚姻也毫无真正的幸福而言。

班纳特家的大女儿简美丽善良、温柔娴静、却性格拘谨，她爱宾利却不露痕迹；而宾利先生遇事缺乏主见，拿不准简究竟是否爱她，加上宾利的妹妹不想让没有什么财产和社会地位的简成为她们的嫂嫂，他们的婚姻受到很多面的阻碍，但是他们相互喜爱彼此，最后他们终于克服了障碍幸福的在一起了。但

伊丽莎白的婚姻更说明了这个观点。在《傲慢与偏见》中，伊丽莎白的两次拒绝别人的求婚充分地证明了她理性的婚姻态度：“没有爱情的婚姻是不行的”。首先她拒绝了未来庄园与财产的继承人和有一份牧师工作的柯林斯先生。让自己被母亲骂说是“固执的傻丫头，不知好歹”，而柯林斯先生认为伊丽莎白和那些高贵的女性一样，使用欲擒故纵的方式来获取他的爱慕。就是因为她知道自己需要的是什么，她追求的并不是财富，而是一个与自己能在心灵上相互慰藉的伴侣，这在当时得需要多大的勇气呵。第二次，她拒绝了年收入为一万英镑的绅士达西的第一次求婚。因为达西那时候求婚是非常傲慢。当伊丽莎白拒绝达西求婚时，达西说了一句话：“要是我耍一点手段，把我内心的矛盾掩饰起来，一味地恭维你，使你相信我无论在理智方面、思想方面以及其他各方面，都是对你怀着无条件的纯洁的爱，那么也许你就不会有这些苛刻的责骂了。可惜无论是什么样的伪装，我都痛恨。”对于这样子的表白，伊丽莎白自然是不能接受，并不客气的表示对这种傲慢的愤怒：“照人情事理说来，感激之心是应该有的，要是我果真觉得感激，我现在就得向你表示谢意；可惜我没有这种感觉我从不稀罕你的抬举，何况抬举我也十分勉强”。傲慢、孤傲的达西沒有为了讨好伊丽莎白，而改变他的性情。聪慧、善良的伊丽莎白也没有为了依附权贵而阿谀奉承，卖力讨好，双方都勇于表现了很真实的自己，表现出了最真实的一面。

在达西求婚被拒绝后的第二年，伊丽莎白随舅父母来到达西的庄园，与他再次相遇。她发现达西变了，不仅对人彬彬有礼，在当地很受人们尊敬，而且对他妹妹非常爱护。她对达西的偏见渐渐消除，却并不知这些改变都是为了她。就在这时发生的另外一件事情，使得伊利沙白对达西的认可更深了一步。达西得知伊利沙白的小妹莉迪亚随身负累累赌债的威克姆私奔了的消息以后，不仅替魏克翰还清赌债，还给了他一笔巨款，让他与莉迪亚完婚。自此以后，伊丽莎白往日对达西的种种偏见统统化为真诚之爱。

二、个性吸引成就美满婚姻

简·奥斯汀在强调婚姻的基础是爱情的同时，也强调了个性对婚姻的影响。个性上的偏见和个性上的缺点会影响着一个人对幸福的追求，这也行就是小说从《第一次印象》改为《傲慢与偏见》的原因。这点我们可以从班纳特夫妇以及伊丽莎白与达西的婚姻中看到。

班纳特夫妇是简·奥斯汀在《傲慢与偏见》中描述的唯一的一对老夫妇。“班纳特先生是个古怪的人，一方面乖觉诙谐、好挖苦人；另一方面又不苟言笑、变幻莫测，他太太积二三十年经验还摸不透他的性格”。而“这位太太的脑子就不那么难捉摸了，她是一个智力贫乏、孤陋寡闻、喜怒无常的女人，一碰到不称心的时候，就自以为神经架不住。她平生最大的心愿，就是把女儿们嫁出去；她平生最大的慰藉，是访亲拜友和打听消息”。夫妇两人不管在性格、品味、爱好都没有共同之处。班纳特先生当年因为贪恋美貌，娶了一个智力贫乏而又心胸狭窄的女人，婚后不久就终结了对她的一片真情，夫妇间的相互尊重和信任早已荡然无存，他对家庭幸福的期待已成为泡影，这是一个反面的例证。

我们在看伊丽莎白和达西先生的婚姻，达西先生的傲慢和伊丽莎白对他的偏见是小说的主干线，两个人性格上的冲突是小说的主要线路。伊丽莎白是全书中最出众的人物，与姊妹们相比，她最大方；与势利眼的宾利小姐们比，她又有人格的尊严、精神上的优越；在她所处的那个充满愚人的世界中，她是唯一有理性的人。她的理智、活泼、爱打趣，善于对人冷眼旁观并直看穿其心思，让达西先生不自主的爱上她。而达西先生的出场就引起全场人的注意，因为他身材魁伟，眉清目秀，举止高贵，同时年收入是一万英镑的绅士，但是因为达西先生趾高气昂、不苟言笑、爱挑剔人，虽然受过良好的教育，举止却不受人欢迎。两人初次见面，就以达西先生傲慢的拒绝与伊丽莎白共舞让伊丽莎白对他产生了偏见，在加上韦翰在从中造谣中伤达西先生，这让伊丽莎白对达西先生的偏见越来越深了。不过伊丽莎白的个性深深的吸引着达西先生，让达西先生不顾众人的反对向伊丽莎白求婚。在被伊丽莎白拒绝求婚之后，他仍然爱着这位女孩，为了她改掉自己的缺点。在一年后，伊丽莎白再次见到达西先生，发现他变了，伊丽莎白就消除了对达西先生的偏见，更情不自禁的爱上了达西先生，虽然他们的性格在外人看来是很难想象他们会结婚的，但是在伊丽莎白看来：“这样的结合对双方都有好处，她天性随和，活泼开朗，可以把他陶冶的性情温和，举止随和；而他断事精明，见多人广，阅历深厚，她一定能够在这方面获益匪浅”。故事的结局真是他们幸福的在一起了。

三、财产是婚姻的保障

《傲慢与偏见》中不免会体现出简·奥斯汀对婚姻的观念，她不回避的写出了金钱对婚姻的重要性，书中的夏绿蒂的婚姻就是典型的案例。在小说中，夏绿蒂是个受过良好教育、头脑聪明、处事得体，颇得女主伊丽莎白赞赏的女子。但是她经济非常的拮据，若不结婚，她就只能寄居在哥哥家中做个老处女姑娘。她明明知道柯林斯先生并不爱她，因为他刚刚向伊丽莎白求婚被拒绝；而她对这种为人作作的人没有什么感情，但是他家境殷实，而且马上就能等到班纳特家的财产，所以她就鼓励柯林斯先生接近并接受他的求婚。之后，她向伊丽莎白坦言：“你知道，我这个人不浪漫，我只求有个舒服的家；考虑到柯林斯先生的性格、社会关系和社会地位；我相信，跟他结婚我会获得幸福，也会享受到别的伴侣们所炫耀的那种幸福”。

简·奥斯丁没有让伊丽莎白与夏绿蒂决裂，尽管伊丽莎白认为夏绿蒂是一位丢了自己的脸，被人看轻的朋友。但是因为夏绿蒂的选择完全符合当时的婚姻道德和标准。

我们在看小说的女主人公伊丽莎白，她坚持要有爱情的婚姻才是幸福的，但是她没有说排斥富裕的物资生活。当她第一次看到彭伯里气象万千的美景时，她也满怀感触，不禁觉得：“在彭伯里当个主妇也不错”。当她参观达西先生的大厦时，她也会情不自禁的感慨：“我差一点就做了这儿的主妇呢！这些房间也许早就让我走熟了！我非但不必以一个陌生人的身份来参观，而且可以当作自己的住宅来享用”。如果不是后来她想到了达西先生的为人，伊丽莎白可是会真的要后悔当初拒绝达西先生的求婚了。当后来她接受了达西的求婚，姐姐简追问她是什么时候开始爱上达西时？她也老实说：“应该是从看到他那美丽的花园算起”。小说结局是伊丽莎白过上了舒舒服服、风雅有趣的生活。如若没有经济作后盾，可不容易办到。可见，财富成为了美满婚姻生活的重要保障。

可以这么说，在《傲慢与偏见》中，女主人公在获得爱情的同时也获得了财产这也就是简·奥斯丁心目中的美满婚姻。

既赢得爱情又赢得财产的婚姻在现实生活中是难得的，尤其对于那些家世并不显赫，没有财产继承权的女性。即便她们美丽聪慧，受过良好教育，但在选择婚姻上十分被动。在《傲慢与偏见》中，她赋予了女主角伊丽莎白美丽的外表，聪明的头脑以及圆满的婚姻不就是告诉世人：优秀的女子应该得到最美好的婚姻！

这是一本非常值得阅读的书籍，用最普通的生活，最普通的题材，来让这本小说变得丰富又有内涵，成为精典之作。简·奥斯丁的《傲慢与偏见》真实地反映了当时英国乡村的社会现状，又深刻地批判了中产阶级庸俗的婚姻观，同时也真切地展示了纯真爱情的曲折动人。

《 Float 》 , is my favorite book.Like the beauty of si brave strong, like the rui especially of tactful is resolute, like the outside of the meilanrui soft inside just.

For the beauty of si this person thing, my felling is self-contradict, is to dislike the but again and have to respect and admire her.She is a person for having the character very much, loving two men in her whole life, but she didnt an is an understanding of.If she understands the rare gift of a, that she will not love him;If she understands the rui especially, that she will not lose him.She always is to be ungrateful to the rui especially of, she is just not to stop the rare gift of prince- a who make track for oneselfs in a dream.She is just to think the characteristics that loves by herself that the rare gift of a have, she just does a gorgeous clothes, letting rare gift of a put on, being in love with him and then.But fact is, she love just that clothes.

For her, I am to have to admire of, admire her strong, admire her to the persist of land, admire her ability under the education that that in environment under let go of before be subjected to the farmland stem live, admiring the speech that she can neglect the society but founding own business.Her life contain a few souls, an is her mother.His mother is a madam with expensive very able and gentle and soft typical model, is the person who she respect and admire most .But, mother typhoid for saving the person but ising infect, die.Another, is her more than ten in the last years favourite of person- a rare gift.Her ability stands up in the adverse circumstances, have very greatly a part of reason is a rare gift of a .She the rare to a gift persists unusually.Still have a, is the meilanli .More than ten years that struggle together in, the meilanli has already become her life in the indispensability of a part.

I feel that the beauty of si is like a child, persisting to the thing that oneself want unusually, but to the thing that oneself own but disdain to on attend to.An at try very hard to make the oneself happy, a push the happiness to leave constantly again, push the lover toward abyss.

The beauty of si is loving is a rare gift of a , but,a rare gift but dont want her.Be like the rui to especially say of, the rare gift of a is a gentleman, just wasing born in an and he inharmonious ages.He still uses the rules of the game of the old world life, will bump only rejection.The beauty of si doeses not understand the a to hope the gift, so she loves him, think that exhausted whole wayses get him, but when she recognize pure he, she did not love him any further.

The beauty of si is a contradictory body, can have again who not is a contradictory body?She is in the life of road up all the way walk, be when she face the difficulty, she chooses the accolade, be when she face the responsibility, she chooses to carry, can be she face loving choice is, at first, he choose to hoodwink the oneself, being her to recognize finally pure, to face, but is already the hour already late.But she, at incapable is a dint, will tell the oneself, tomorrow is new day, everythings will like tomorrow, the Tomorrow is another day.She is all an in the whole story full of fire, be filled with the person of the will to fight.I enjoy most of, would be her this" Tomorrow is another day.".Was filled with the hope forever, be filled with the will to fight, can never give up, can never despair.This spirit, the most worthy of I study.So, whenever I meet the difficulty, mood not good, I will tell the oneself then:" Tomorrow is another day.".The another in book make the female that me admire very, would be the meilanli .She is an outside soft inside just of female, she almost owned the whole virtue that female can own.Positive if the rui especially says of, she is a that a handful of expensive madam that he saw win.She is strong, she is patriotic, she uses her heart love nearby all people.When her husband fight, she silent in the rear guard the hon, do the business of her what lies in ones power, be the north guy to beat in the city and she again soon about to deliver child, she still the town settle, being the next stem of the her body infirmity and nobodies to live soon didnt When the rice eat, she similar to beauty of si , let go of past education for be subjected to and sense of superiorities, trail weak of body next stem live, be she see the beauty of si kill a north guy, she did not be rattled, but help to bury the corpse, searching the money, wiping the blood stain, being the war finally end, north guy soldier whom she hate bitterly before arriving at her door request to look after and themselves also have no excessive food, she still fulfil her ability the ground helped them, because she hopes to also have the north guy woman of a good heart afar to her just at homing a rice of husband eat.

Such strong female, the but again is a such gentleness kind and considerate.She persists the ground to believe the rare gift of beauty of si and as, even someone see with own eyes they hug together, also persisting the ground to believe them, protection si beauty.She knows perfectly well pain and sufferings that own body cant bear again to grow, but persist the ground to want to hope the gift to give birth to a child for the a again, end leave she loved the close relatives of the lifetime.

Is really too great, looking at themeilanli, make me thought of much more Chinese ancient times females of, they are also such dociles, work hard in spite of criticism, assist husband and bring up children, then silent unknownly old go to and depart from this life.

In the whole book, I is a rui for the person that like most especially.He is brave and persists, he can love the beauty of si so and deeply for more than ten years constant.He wants to protect the beauty of si , the doter si beauty, look after the beauty of si, let her everything feel happy, but the beauty of si refused.He says, again the time that eternal love also will dub out, but his love, drive beauty of si, drive rare gift of a , was dub out by the adherence that the si beauty is stupid of.His heart, die.When his daughter leaves him, his heart, return any further not to come.He says, he has always been to have no that patience shear the ground pants and sew and like, then tells the oneself this is similar to lately, just deceive yourself as well as others.Ground is ground, return and dont go to any further, even make allies, the top still stays the crack, is not originally any further that.

爱情是建立在两性之间平等的基础上，这是每个现代人的共识，这却不是古往今来的共识。这个共识是经过很长历史的进化，很多人的勇敢争取来的。在男女不平等的年代，有一个女性站出来争取自由而平等的婚姻，这份勇敢就值得我们敬佩和谨记。17世纪，在英国的小镇上有一位不俗的女子，她用她的笔，为世间所有的女子指明一条爱情的正途：在相互了解，相互尊重的男女间才会有真正的爱情。

我最喜欢的《傲慢与偏见》就讲述了这样一个故事：地方土乡绅的二女儿伊丽莎白是个聪慧敏捷思想前卫的女孩子，得到了大庄园主达西先生的爱慕，达西很快求婚，但是遭到了伊丽莎白的拒绝，伊丽莎白在不明就里的情况下听信了别人的谣言，认为达西是破坏自己姐姐的爱情的罪魁祸首，她认为，达西人格很缺陷，配不上自己。可是后来，随着俩人的进一步接触，伊丽莎白发现达西并非人们传说的那样不堪，相反，他是一个正人君子，帮助别人，也帮助自己解决了很多的事情。在误会一点点解除后，有情人终成眷属。

爱情有一个过程，这个过程在于两个人的人格的是不是能走到一起，伊丽莎白和达西是两个处于不同阶级，不同环境的两个人，之间有不可避免的有隔阂，而在相处中他们渐渐的消除了这个隔阂，同时发现了对方的闪光点，互相赢得了理解，赢得了尊重，也赢得了爱情。

爱情就该是如此的：我理解你，所以我尊重你;我爱你，所以我愿意理解你。

This is a story about a special and ueserved woman who has been exposed to a hostile environment but continuously and fearlessly struggling for her ideal life. The story can be interpreted as a symbol of the independent spirit.

It seems to me that many readers’ English reading experience starts with Jane Eyer. I am of no exception. As we refer to the movie “Jane Eyer”, it is not surprising to find some differences because of its being filmized and retold in a new way, but the spirit of the novel remains----to be an independent person, both physically and mentally.

Jane Eyer was a born resister, whose parents went off when she was very young, and her aunt，the only relative she had，treated her as badly as a ragtag. Since Jane’s education in Lomon person, just the same as any other girl around. The suffers from being humiliated and devastated teach Jane to be persevering and prize dignity over anything else.As a reward of revolting the ruthless oppression, Jane got a chance to be a tutor in Thornfield Garden. There she made the acquaintance of lovely Adele and that garden’s owner, Rochester, a man with warm heart despite a cold face outside. Jane expected to change the life from then on, but fate had decided otherwise: After Jane and Rochester fell in love with each other and got down to get marry, she unfortunately came to know in fact Rochester had got a legal wife, who seemed to be the shadow following

Rochester and led to his moodiness all the time ----Rochester was also a despairing person in need of salvation. Jane did want to give him a hand, however, she made up her mind to leave, because she didn’t want to betray her own principles, because she was Jane Eyer. The film has finally got a symbolist end: Jane inherited a large number of legacies and finally returned. After finding Rochester’s misfortune brought by his original mad wife, Jane chose to stay with him forever.

I don’t know what others feel, but frankly speaking, I would rather regard the section that Jane began her teaching job in Thornfield as the film’s end----especially when I heard Jane’s words “Never in my life have I been awaken so happily.” For one thing, this ideal and brand-new beginning of life was what Jane had been imagining for long as a suffering person; for another, this should be what the audiences with my views hoped her to get. But the professional judgment of producing films reminded me to wait for a totally different result: There must be something wrong coming with the excellence----perhaps not only should another section be added to eich the story, but also we may see from the next transition of Jane’s life that “Life is like a box of chocolates, you never know what you would get.” (By Forrest Gump’s mother, in the film “Forrest Gump”)

What’s more, this film didn’t end when Jane left Thornfield. For Jane Eyer herself, there should always be somewhere to realize her great ideal of being independent considering her fortitude, but for Rochester, how he can get salvation?

The film gives the answer tentatively: Jane eventually got back to Rochester. In fact, when Jane

met Rochester for the first time, she scared his horse and made his heel strained, to a certain extent, which meant Rochester would get retrieval because of Jane. We can consider Rochester’s experiences as that of religion meaning. The fire by his frantic wife was the punishment for the cynicism early in his life. After it, Rochester got the mercy of the God and the love of the woman whom he loved. Here we can say: human nature and divinity get united perfectly in order to let such a story accord with the requirements of both two sides. The value of this film may be due to its efforts to explore a new way for the development of humanism under the faith of religion.

Life is ceaselessly changing, but our living principles remain. Firmly persisting for the rights of being independent gives us enough confidence and courage, which is like the beacon over the capriccioso sea of life. In the world of the film, we have found the stories of ourselves, which makes us so concerned about the fate of the dramatis personae.

In this era of rapid social and technological change leading to increasing life complexity and psychological displacement, both physical and mental effects on us call for a balance. We are likely to find ourselves bogged down in the Sargasso Sea of information overload and living unconsciousness. It’s our spirit that makes the life meaningful.

Heart is the engine of body, brain is the resource of thought, and great films are the mirrors of life. In

dubitably, “Jane Eyer” is one of them.

If a woman has even a tiny sense of dignity, she must shoulder any number of sacrifices rather than have her love varnished with venal character by asking for money from her lover. Extravagances, luxury as well as all other empery pleasures are valuelein front of love. As long as you love me, I ask for nothing else.

-------Marguerite(La Dame Aux Camellias)

Whenever I lingered over the magnificant story, I cannot help deeply touched by the bitterly sweet love, which struck the world as gentle as an April shower, as pure as a blowing snow, as heady as an old wine. It condensed a paradise into a kept woman’s heart, which caught and held us transfixed against prejudice in mind and greed in nature, , and provided a journey that brought home to us a comprehensive understanding of love.

Marguerite, as a kept woman,did not undergo the usual penalty of confronting wrinkles appeared under her eyes, the first death of a courtesans, but was endowed enough fortune to enjoy an unselfish and gorgeous love during her ephemeral life, witch came as a wonderful oasis to lead supply a new prospect in a disparate desert, appeared as a miracle medication to heal her wound in the sinful life, figured as a brisk spring to refresh and revitalize her lonely heart, and emerged as a great beacon of courage to kill all her bad habits in the past and make a firm determination to seek for a peaceful but fantastic life with her loved one.

Lingering between the words, we could completely feel how kind and dignified she was. She refused Armond although she knew he was really loved her with his soul. because of her gloomy despair of life, she did not turn up in his life as a figure who was sad, ill, gay with a giant sadder than grief, besides witch, who spit blood and spent a hundred thousand francs in a year. Touching this words, how can we avoid our zealous sympathy for her? She bickered with the marquis and drove him away from her family, because she hated and refused to be treated as merchandise. Touching her deeds, how could we deny our high respect for her? At last, she renounced all her hope and life just because another woman’s name. What she e although you may get hurt, but it is the only way you can live absolutely. But what she experienced, what she faced and what she did made her a real sublime angle and an eternal ideal woman in people’ heart.

However, no matter what devout wish, no matter what gorgeous love, or no matter what strong struggle, the society was so stone stubborn that it would never show any mercy for a kept woman. Just as Armond said, when God allow a kept woman to accept a real love, it is indeed a grant comfort, but also remorselepunishment, for the man holds the cruel authority to say to his lover, “ Your love is just a kind of commodity”, though the woman had devoted all her heart and spirits to her loves. It cannot denied that it was Marguerite’s joyous fortune to have Armond in her poor destiny, but at the same time, it is also have to be admitted that what a hopeletorture she tolerated and what a disappointed suffering she endured at the last part of her life. It was really too much to her. We even cannot tell what kind our feeling soared inside our bosom, but just happy with her, sad with her, waiting with her, wishing with her, and disappointed with her……

shall we criticize Armond for his foolish and brute deed to Marguerite as he got the same hurt by his horrible vengeance? Shall we condemn Armond, father for his selfish monologue which destroys the kind woman’s dream? Shall we judge the motionlemerchant and policemen’s actions before the dying woman?

简.奥古斯丁的力作《傲慢与偏见》在将近2020年的历史中，折服过众多的善男信女，通过解除傲慢与偏见给正常沟通造成的障碍，最终演绎出有情人终成眷属，在世上传为佳话。

起初读《傲慢与偏见》是为了消除人们对我的偏见，尤其是剩女们对我的偏见。

昔日的堂堂清华博士后怎么做起剩女的文章?沦落到这地步?鄙视之意溢于言表。

曾经我从事水资源项目的时候也有不少人疑惑，为什么不为诺贝尔努力，做没有技术含量的水?我当时回答是解决我国水资源问题能给国家和社会带来多大的效益?我就算获得诺贝尔奖能够创造这么大的效益?

知识的价值在于它能够给社会带来多大的益处，而不在于荣誉、科技水平等，虽然也有这种因素，但毕竟不是核心的价值。那么给国家带来1-2万亿直接经济价值的水问题的解决应该远远超过获得诺贝尔奖的价值了!如果考虑间接价值恐怕怎么也有5-6万亿吧。所以，我当时就能够义无反顾的执着地追求。

对剩女的问题而言，虽然时代的进步和社会的发展，也许妇女的婚恋早已经不是唯一的生活目的。但是在任何社会，尤其在现在的我国，婚恋仍然是大多数女人的生活最主要的部分，甚至是全部。最少是生活不可或缺的重要部分。如果在很多方面很出色的女孩因为各种原因一时嫁不出去甚至终身嫁不出去，那么可以肯定的说耽误她的终身。如果我能够帮助找到意中人，过着美满的婚恋生活，那么在某种程度上说挽救了她的一生。因为婚恋问题的解决不仅可以使她享受天伦之乐，也可以帮助她在事业上更有信心。如果我解决一群人甚至一个群体的问题，那么这一事情的社会价值将是不可估量的。

当然，我相信绝大多数剩女是最后不会选择嫁不出去甚至终身嫁不出去的!那么在大多数剩女认识到婚恋在她人生中的价值的一天，客观的经济效益也是可以预期的。这样通过产生巨大的社会效益的同时不仅可以挽救我，也许还能够挽救我的事业。

在《傲慢与偏见》文中，我没有想到自己也受到很好的教育，原来我自己的傲慢也是沟通的主要障碍之一。虽然我也是时常告诫自己尽量避免无谓的错误，消除不该有的误解和损失，但是毕竟江山易改本性难移呀!最要命的是我自己有足够的理由并且确信我的观点的时候就是很难做到给人不“傲慢”的印象。我只好更努力学会倾听的艺术消减不良后果了。

序言如是说：“这本书描写的是一个傲慢的单身青年达西和偏见的二小姐伊丽莎白……的感情纠葛。”初次认识，感觉是讲述一个凄美的爱情故事，想着正好可以改变我以往阅读小说的风格。

在书本内容的第一句话中作者就写到：“有钱的单身汉总要娶位太太，这已经成了一条举世公认的真理。”这就好像给整本书中的人物婚姻标上了有目的和利益的标签。果不其然，在我看来，作者奥斯丁以四桩利益不同的婚姻，让我对婚姻有了更深层次的了解。

第一桩婚事是关于伊丽莎白的好友夏洛特与被伊丽莎白拒绝过表白的柯斯林的故事。柯斯林自私有野心，他本就想着在班勒特家中的四姐妹中娶上一位，好合理的让他继承班纳特家的财产。夏洛特虽然了解，但她已经成为了一个二十七岁的“老姑娘”，现如今有一个家庭经济富裕且愿意和她结婚的人，她也不会在意别人的想法。这就好像一场利益的交易，也许不久就会出现感情的裂缝。

另一桩婚事简直就是场悲剧，从书里一步一步揭露魏克翰的恶劣行迹，我就隐隐觉得肯定会有大事发生。没过多久，伊丽莎白的妹妹莉迪亚，在魏克翰的花言巧语下竟然和他私奔了。在达西的金钱帮助下，两人结婚，但是没过多久，却过上了颠沛流离的生活。

书中最为精彩的部分，也就是男女主角之间发生的故事。达西对伊丽莎白一见钟情，但是伊丽莎白在此之前一直对于他表面举止傲慢，行为自大，产生一种偏见。奈何达西却是一个举止有礼，仪表堂堂的绅士。最后俩人的感情经历了时间和困难的磨炼在一起了。奥斯丁说过，为了财产金钱和地位而结婚是错误的，而结婚不考虑上述原因，也是愚蠢的。那么两人的婚姻也是作者所理想的了。

其中在书中我最喜欢的内容还是伊丽莎白与达西在凯瑟琳家的一场争吵，达西向她告白，但伊丽莎白拒绝了他，还控告他所做的“坏事”。在我意料之外却又在意料之中的是达西并没有着急的反驳，而是在第二天写了一封长长的信解释原委，从而化解了与她之间的误会。和别人发生争执时，我们生活中再正常不过的事情,也因此我们失去了本可以挽回的友谊……有时候冲动会使我们失去理智，但是要静下来几秒做反思用可以接受的方式说出真相，表达歉意，就可以冲破傲慢与偏见的界限理解对方，才能解决问题。

所以尽管男女主角结局有多完美，我还是最喜欢简与彬格莱之间的故事。简美丽善良，彬格莱为人真诚，家庭富裕，两人情投意合。正如他俩的性格一样，他们的爱情可以单纯，简单，真实，就像童话世界里的故事。

读完这本书，我最大的感触不是作者的婚姻观，而是当时社会普遍的男女不平等现象，由于班纳特先生家的财产只能是男子继承，班纳太太他才着急将女儿嫁出去。所以我们应该庆幸自己生活在一个自由幸福的国度，可以寻找自己想要拥有的爱情。

“傲慢让别人无法来爱我，偏见让我无法去爱别人。”

——摘自《傲慢与偏见》

因为班主任布置的经典小说的任务，我拿起了一直放在书架上的那本“外国名著”。——但是我并不喜欢。

对于我来说，那些枯燥的名著里并不会有现在言情小说里的轰轰烈烈，所以我一直对于名著有些抵抗。我也不知是不是先入为主的观念，所以让我觉得其他小说也理应如此。

但是当我翻开第一页的时候，我就有些惊讶，它并不像是其他小说一样开头就开始叙述感情线——也许是现在感情线主流小说的原因吧。

简·奥斯汀的《傲慢与偏见》语言非常精练，在故事方面有很大的空间，给人一个无限的遐想空间。若真用漂亮的词语来形容，我便要说：作者深厚的文字功底让我感觉像是做了一场梦，梦里如同掠过竹林的风，带给我竹林般的清凉，泉水般的清澈，让人随时随地沉迷于其中。

我能选择这本小说，应当是因为里面的爱情故事。当今的社会，有太多美好、不美好的故事了，所以当我每次觉得社会冷漠，并没有我想的那么温暖的时候，我就会寄情与网络上的言情小说，便一发不可收拾。

可是当我看完了这本书，我真心觉得——当初的想法错了。

这个世上的事情，总要是看自己用什么角度去看的。在这部描写爱情与婚姻的小说里，和我当初看的文章大相径庭。小说围绕班奈特太太如何把五个女儿嫁出去的主题展开。书中一共写了四队青年男女的结合，作者一一加以比较，批判，爱憎分明的阐述了自己的爱情与婚姻观。富有傲慢的达西和睿智具有反叛精神的伊丽莎白，温柔体贴的简和有权有势的宾利，以及莉迪亚和威克姆，夏洛蒂与柯林斯。

不同的文体风格让我感受了不同的样子，如同一位叫做伊丽莎白的女孩所追求的一样——面包、玫瑰。若两者不可得兼，舍玫瑰而取面包者也。

有的时候，这才是现实，即使我们还不能理解，但是终有一天会面临压力。可是心中追求爱、追求美的欲望却不会停滞。

书中的平等。《傲慢与偏见》，这个书名便是在平等的观念下产生的。

取其精华去其糟粕，让我们回归眼下，期待能看到更多发展的雏鹰。

“根据我的书本知识，我坚信傲慢是一种流弊，人性在这一方面极为脆弱，因为我们很少有人不因为自己的某种品质或者其它什么而沾沾自喜、洋洋自得，不管这种品质是存在于真实中，还是仅仅存在于想象中。虚荣和傲慢尽管常被用作同义词，实际上却是两回事。一个人可能傲慢但不虚荣，傲慢是我们对自己的评价，虚荣则是我们希望别人如何评价我们自己。”

In the sun, I read this thick, childhood, heart suddenly a strange shame and remorse, think of themselves and the lives of a great disparity in Gorky.

Year-old death of his father, to follow the kind of grandmother came to the grandfather"s home. Here, he knows many things, but also see a lot of things, he see the selfish, greedy, brutish, two uncles; simple friend Little Gypsy; mean, stingy, greedy, tyrannical, brutal grandfather; every day life in the cruel, stupid, infighting among family members and arguments, and from between good and evil, Alesha ignorant to understand that a number of reasons.

Compared with him together, our childhood is bright and happy; no pain and struggle, has been a carefree life. From this point on it seems we already have far cry on with Alesha, we have a lot, but we still do not know enough I just want luxury this world a better and more want.

Yes ah, we often parents do not cook, mouth open for food, only to parents for their shelter Guzhao, not herself from the world battles. Now we have to expect should repent, should not waste anything, and learn to cherish everything we have now will suffice.

From now on test, we must stand up and do not just want to experience difficulties with such a withdrawal, escape, or take a shortcut, should have confidence in ourselves, life always something or someone will give you pain and even despair, but we should be like what how the kind of insisted. In this way, you can again find joy in pain, in despair to find hope. Yes, dark past, the dawn will always come, as long as you still maintain the confidence that something is immortal, has all the treasure, then your light will come, because you know how to cherish.

傲慢与偏见，是我们很常见的弱点和毛病。每一个人其实都很轻易被自己的主观印象所驱使，因而轻易对别的人下不正确的注解，进而造成了彼此之间的误会。、

《傲慢与偏见》故事主要说的是十八世纪在英国发生的四门婚姻。其中最主要的，自然是发生在女主角伊丽莎白·班纳特与男主角费茨威廉·达西之间的爱恨情仇。伊丽莎白是个勇于追求爱情、漂亮聪明、坚强可爱的中产阶级女子。故事主要以她对达西先生从一开始的厌恶到尊敬，再到爱慕为线索，也穿插了在几个发生在她身边的幸福或不幸的婚姻，揭示了作者对那个时代女人生活与爱情的理想和期望。

故事中女主角伊丽莎白第一眼看到男主角达西就是不顺眼的，加上男主角个性的傲慢，继而对他有了偏见。而男主角达西，是个不受人欢迎的傲慢男子，也不屑于周遭冷淡的人际关系，对他来说，傲慢也许是有理的，偏见却很无情，这两者产生的冲击是免不了的。两个人之间也因此而常有针锋相对的言辞，彼此之间的傲慢和偏见就造成了一开始的不愉快与误解，但是经过种种事件的澄清，彼此又渐渐产生一点点的感情。

达西代表着“傲慢”，伊丽莎白代表着“偏见”，他们一开始都被自己的情绪所牵引。接着一连串对达西不利的流言，更让伊丽莎白对达西反感。当达西向伊丽莎白求婚而遭到拒绝时，他说了一句话：“要是我耍一点手段，把我内心的矛盾掩饰起来，一味地恭维你，使你相信我无论在理智方面、思想方面以及其他各方面，都是对你怀着无条件的纯洁的爱，那么也许你就不会有这些苛刻的责骂了。可惜无论是什么样的伪装，我都痛恨。”达西沒有为了讨好伊丽莎白，而改变他的傲慢性情。伊丽莎白也表现了很真实的自己，彼此都不刻意去营造给人的印象，表现出了最真实的一面。而开始的时候，伊丽莎白一直活在自己的偏见之下，而忽略思考事实的真相，经过达西的解释和自己的判定，才最终找到幸福的归宿。

从中 我们可以知道一个人所给予的第一印象固然可以影响到很多事，但并非一定不会改变，要有更加深入的了解，才能有更客观一点的论点，就似乎故事中女主角对达西的看法，就是因为了解才有所改变.所以学会理解他人。

Jane. Love living in a parents, sponsor, grew up under the environment of treatment with peers, aunt abandon, cousin contempt, cousin insults and beating of a child… this is the dignity of the ruthletrample, but perhaps because it all, Jane. Love and faith of infinite indomitable spirit, a kind of inner personality can win.

In rochester, she never because he is a teacher and the family status meanness, but that they feel inferior is equal. Should not because she is a servant, but not respected by others. Also because of her integrity, noble and pure heart, no pollution, secular society for the shock, and rochester her as a spiritual and equality in the conversation, and slowly and deeply in love with her.

Jane eyre itself to us is a kind of simplified, is a fanpiaoguizhen, is a kind of pursuit of whole heart feeling, is a kind of simplified feelings and neglected, it is like a cup of water, purify every readers heart, also cause readers, especially female readers