傲慢与偏见英语作文读后感汇编20篇

Pride and Prejudice is a chefdoeuvre. But my first impression of this story was from screen.

Its long long ago, maybe before I can read english books. I dont remember which movie edition I had seen. But I was impressed by the music, the scenery and the costume. I was very favor of a section of music in its balls. Its pretty brisk, liked a wonderful song of a bird. Regarding to the characters, I liked Elizabeth, the heroine,though I didnt think shes beautiful. But shes smart. However, I didnt pay much attention to the plot. I thought its so long that it made me impatient and bored. By now, I havent read the whole story in English or its Chinese version, either. I owe it to my prejudice.

In fact, I didnt understand the story at that time. I didnt know why it called Pride and Prejudice. Of course someone was pride, but I didnt find where s the prejudice. I thought its normal, the way people treated each other in that. I considered prejudice would be very disgusting. But to the movie everthing was OK in my minds, except its length. Now, I think I have understood more about it. Im a prejudiced person so I cant find wheres wrong. I merely like to do the things I like. Everytime I meet somebody or something,my thinking about he or it all depends on my foregone experience and my mood of the time. I like it so just like it, if not so just not. Im a person thinking by heart not by brain. What is worse, I actually didnt think its wrong. I thought everyone is all like that.Everyone has his special way to cognize the world. So its individuality, not prejudice. But I think something is wrong. Though everyone can judge in the way he likes, he cant ignore other ones. You can like what you like and hate what you hate, but you should be objective when you meet external world. I think it means that you should consider things roundly, not just partial. Individuality is different from prejudice. What is it? I need to think more.

Recently read "the great gatsby, a story of hegemony set up dawn. The north American continent, is hundred years ago, the economic development of the train sped forward; Friction machines roar, but also too much to hide a moment of the heart. The book, that history is a little mark.

Investigate its likelihood is a persons tragedy, is the tragedy of the society as a whole, may not be important. Wine party smallpox, extravagant luxury residence, colorful gorgeous clothes, just for the sake of his heart love Daisy. Think first, young and beautiful, sketched a period of time; Flies away and alternative fate lane person, in the heart of love is someone elses confidante. The deep love, the injury the farthest, cut; Not reality, immersed in the beautiful dream, but blurred the forward field of vision. Weakness of gunfire, all the dreams and beautiful, vulnerable to burst, scattered in the wind, without trace.

Gatsby, his great, because he was the degree of potential energy, but because of his pursuit of the good feelings. He hasnt done anything wrong, but also had to the empty rooms. A dream, how to do, easy, but also how to away, difficult to achieve. In an age of people pursuit of material, to be backed by real emotions. Buckish, stained with money, odour, lost a condition is a pure heart. Leave a piece of pure land, at that time, doomed to oblivion the audacity of commitments.

Finally wrote: "we continue to strive to move forward, stream, after being constantly push, until the return to the days of the old one."

Heart can not help a Chu. Accustomed to another potential, accustomed to the intrigue, people, really happy? Blundering world, difficult times, disguise the Buddhism, purports to recall the mood like that is like water. This, is the only thing we can do?

"Day after day, excitement consumed by gradually." Reality, kill too much like real unreal image. Those beautiful like a castle in the air, and hollow crowd away already. In between dreams and reality, we go from here?

Gatsby is the choice of the former. Even if the cruel reality, fate, his image is still great; Pure love is hard to stop, right and wrong about his, also make them in a glorious situation across the sphere of a bygone era. Quietly away, few people look at the light. Through one hundred, is the ray of light, to the left a dark era deserves stay have story.

Even if you, in the reality, still mark a dream back without regrets. That is worth pity era, these moving words, bring us infinite daydream.

最近在读《了不起的盖茨比》，一个霸权建立破晓时分的故事。那是百余年前的北美大陆，经济发展的火车疾驶向前;机器的摩擦轰鸣，却也过多地掩饰了一时的人心。这本书，便是那段历史点滴的印记。

究其然是一个人的悲剧，还是整个社会的悲剧，也许并不重要。酒天花地的派对，奢靡豪华的住处，五彩绚丽的衣衫，只是为了他心中挚爱的黛茜。回想初见之时，年轻美丽，一段草样的年华;荏苒而逝，奈何命运弄人，心中的挚爱已然他人的红颜知己。爱得愈深，伤得愈切;不干现实，沉浸于夙愿的美好，却模糊了前行的视野。无力的枪声，所有的梦想与美好，不堪一击地破灭，散于风中，了无踪迹。

盖茨比，他了不起，因为他因时度势的魄力，更因为他追寻美好的情愫。他没有做错什么，却也只得这人去楼空。一个梦想，如何极尽，唾手可得，却也如何之远，难以达到。在人人追求物质的时代，真实的情感那般一触即溃。浮华众生，沾染了铜臭气味，失却了是一颗至真纯净的内心。不留一片净土，那个时代，注定要湮没无畏的追梦者。

文中最后一句写道：“我们继续奋力前行，逆水行舟，被不断地后推，直至回到往昔的那段岁月。”

心中不禁一搐。习惯了争权夺势，习惯了勾心斗角，人们，究竟幸福吗?浮躁的世界，寸步难行的时代，掩饰了流俗，口口声声追忆似水般的年华。这，难道就是我们唯一可以做的吗?

“日复一日，兴奋之情被渐渐吞噬。”现实，抹杀了太多如真似幻的意象。那些似空中楼阁一般的美好，与空洞的人群已然渐行渐远。在梦想与现实之间，我们该何去何从?

盖茨比的选择是前者。纵然现实残酷，命运无常，他的形象依然伟大;单纯的难以阻挡的爱，左右了他的是是非非，也使之以一种壮美的势态划过一个过往时代的苍穹。悄然而逝，少有人注视其光芒。穿越了百年，正是这缕光，给那个昏暗的时代留下了一个值得留忆的故事。

即使逆水行舟，在现实的洪流中，依然印记一个追梦无悔的背影。那个值得悲悯的时代，这些动人的文字，带给我们无限的遐想。

The Old Man and the Sea is one of Hemingways most enduring works and may very well become one of the true classics of this generation. It played a great part in his winning the Pulizer Prize in 1953 and the 1954 Novel Prize for Literature and confirmed his power and presence in the literary world. Hemingway is also one of my favorite writers. Besides The Old Man And the Sea, I have read some of his other works, such as The Sun Also Rises, A Farewell to Arms and The Snow of Kilimanijaro. But The Old Man and the Sea is the one that left the deepest impression on me.

I first read this book when I was in my fifteens. And now I remember it just as well as if I had read it yesterday.

On summer vacation of this year, I studied in novel " old man and sea " of Hemingway , famous writer of U.S.A. ,. I admire the old fishermans will in the novel very much, he lets me understand that a person must have unremitting spirit, could succeed . What the novel is described is an old fisherman almost the sixty years old, when go to sea and fish alone once, have angled to a big fish, but can not draw. After tough fisherman and fish have socialized for a few days, just find this is a big Malins fish which exceeds several times of ones own fishing boat, though know perfectly well that it is very difficult to win , does not give up yet. Because big Malin fish fishlike smell of wound attract odd herds of shark vie for the food again later, but the old man is still unwilling to give up like this, stress the tight encirclement finally , take the large fish back to fishing port , let other fishmen admire it endlessly. The old fisherman thinks that as I read ": It is really too close from here to coast, perhaps there are bigger fish in the farther place ……" When,admire very much because this old fisherman in the persons, because play not for some fishing he already at this moment I, but he is not satisfied with the existing state of affairs , but advance towards greater goal. Seeing us again, meet some little difficulties at ordinary times , all of us complain bitterly. We are the future of the motherland, should be as ambitious as this old man, go to pursue well , greater goal. Read as me " big Malin fish is it enclose light fishing boat move about , is it get mast to twine cable fast to begin, old man right hand hold steel fork high , jump out in a flash , affording to try ones best above water in it, a sound of wail has finished the life of the loud fish, it floats on the surface of water silently ……"When,the I one heart is too fall like pieces of stone not big. I admire that kind of fearing of the old man at all , unremitting spirit very much, though know rivals strength is very strong , but he has not shrunk back at all , meets the difficulty. Just because there is this kind of spirit, the old fisherman has obtained the victory of the trial of strength of this life and death. We should study the old fishermans spirit too in life, do the thing and is not afraid of the difficulty , could achieve success . Read big blood offensive smell of fish smell one shark , fall over each other to visit to vie for the food, left hand of old man pull a muscle just, he can only use right hand, can weapon attacked to used for defend oneself with stick , mouth of swordfish that catch everything, and has driven away this herd of shark finally. But big meat of fish take into big half already, but old man criticize ones own left hand " when the work this when have a rest " humorously also, I am subdued by old mans optimistic spirit too. In life, some losses are unavoidable, we should treat the optimistic attitude , cant worry about petty gain or loss . Finally, the novel sees with a teenager that old fisherman has 18 feet of big long Malins fish totally in the tolerance , the ones that have described this fish are enormous again, prove that old fishermans difficulty overcome is big, than ordinary. Old fishermans spirit that makes great efforts to struggle fearless of danger and difficulty that the novel has been extolled, we should be like him too, can t be satisfied with the current situation , should be positive upwards, it should be unremitting to do anything, it must not give up halfway to meeting difficulty should meet the difficulty. Only in this way, we could obtain greater success and victory .

Watching the les miserables, jean valjean tall image always emerge in front of my eyes. He is ready to help others, honest is good, good character, although due to the forced by life, had made some mistake, but this does not affect his personality, because he spent a lifetime in continuously improve their difficulties and adversity.

Jean valjean was out of work, because life poverty, he stole a loaf of bread, was caught in prison, the evil old society! After prison, he was leader of bent on revenge influence restored confidence in life and aspire to from good, he came to monte, renamed Madeleine, set up factories, became a millionaire, has helped many people, as the mayor. Integrity, however, he didnt want to let others take the rap for him and was put into prison...

What kind of jean valjean, he good for bad, ready to help others, raising a baby, you planned to. In order to make cosette happiness, have the courage to admits his true identity, this need how much courage, how much love! Although repeatedly by the peoples misunderstanding and discrimination, but jean valjean always abide by the promise of the bishop, silently to do an honest, kind person.

I moved for jean valjean, if we can face up to its own like jean valjean error, can try their best to correct, look at the world with a heart of universal love, our world will become more beautiful. Im sad for jean valjean, for his newspaper, if jean valjean had life in socialist China, so his experience might not be so rough.

看完《悲惨世界》一书，冉阿让高大的形象始终浮现在我的眼前。他乐于助人，淳朴善良，品格高尚，虽然由于生活所迫，曾犯过一些错，但这并没有影响他的人格，因为他用了一生的时间在艰辛和逆境中不断地完善自己。

冉阿让失业了，因为生活贫因，他偷了一块面包，就被抓住关进监狱，万恶的旧社会!出狱后，一心想报复的他受教主的感化恢复了对生活的信心并立志从善，他来到蒙特亿，改名马德兰，开办工厂，成了富翁，帮助了许许多多的人，当上了市长。然而，为人正直的他由于不想让别人替他顶罪又被抓进监狱……

多么善良的冉阿让，他以德报怨，乐于助人，抚养孤女，不求回报。为了让珂赛特获得幸福，勇于坦言自己的真实身份，这需要多大的勇气，需要多大的爱心啊!虽然一再地受人们的误解和歧视，但冉阿让始终默默地遵守对主教的诺言，做一个正直，善良的人。

我为冉阿让而感动，如果我们都能像冉阿让那样勇敢面对自己的错误，尽自己所能去改正，以一颗博爱的心去看世界，那我们的世界将变得更美好。我为冉阿让而难过，为他报不平，如果冉阿让生活在社会主义的中国，那么他的经历也许就不会那么坎坷了。

在学习《英语课程改革》的时候我认识到，这是一次深刻的改革，新课改倡导全人教育，强调课程要促进每个学生身心健康的发展，培养学生良好的品质的终身学习的能力，新课改倡导建设性学习，注重科学探究的学习，关注体验性学习，提倡交流与合作、自主创新学习，课程改革的成败关键在于教师，教师是课程改革的实施者，作为教师的我必须做好充分的准备，学习新课程改革理论，更新教学观念，迎接新课改的挑战。下面简单地回顾一下开学以来所做的一些英语教学工作。

一、面向全体学生，为学生全面发展和终身发展奠定基础。

1、创设各种情景，鼓励学生大胆地使用英语，对他们在学习过程中的失误和错误采取宽容的态度。

2、为学生提供自主学习和直接交流的机会，以及充分表现和自我发展的一个空间。

3、鼓励学生通过体验、实践、合作、探索等方式，发展听、说、读、写的综合能力。

4、创造条件让学生能够探究他们自己的一些问题，并自主解决问题。

二、关注学生情感，创造民主、和谐的教学气氛。

学生只有对自己、对英语及其文化有积极的情态，才能保持英语学习的动力并取得成绩，刻板的情态，不仅会影响英语学习的效果，还会影响其它发展，情态是学好英语的重要因素，因此我努力创造宽松民主、和谐的教学空间，做到：

1、尊重每个学生，积极鼓励他们在学习中的尝试，保护他们的自尊心和积极性。

2、把英语教学与情态有机地结合起来，创造各种合作学习的活动，促进学生互相学习，互相帮助，体验成就感，发展合作精神。

3、关注学习有困难的或性格内向的学习，尽可能地为他们创造语言的机会。

4、建立融洽、民主的师生交流渠道，经常和学生一起反思学习过程和学习效果，互相鼓励和帮助，做到教学相关。

三、加强对学生学习策略的指导，让他们在学习和适用的过程中逐步学会如何学习做到：

1、积极创造条件，让学生参与到阶段性学习目标，以及实现目标的方法。

2、引导学生结合语境，采用推测、查阅和协调的方法进行学习。

3、引导学生在学习过程中，进行自我评价，并根据需要调整自己的学习目标和学习策略。

四、对学生进行有效的评价。

评价可以使学生认识自我，树立自信，有助于反思及调整自己的学习过程，评价或采用测验及非测验形式，平时重视形成性评价，对学生回答学习过程中的表现所改进的诚绩，及反映的情感、态度、策略某方面进行及时的评价，如有口头评价、等级评价、学生之间互相评价等方法，充分发觉学生的进步，鼓励学生自我反思，自我提高，测验以学生综合运用能力为目标，侧重于学生理解和获取信息，能力减少客观题，增加主观题，通过评价学生学会分析自己的成绩和不足，明确努力方向。

新课程改革不是纸上谈兵，后必须要与实践相结合，即将努力学习，积极进取，积极参与课程改革，在课改中不断学习，不断实践，不断反思，愿与新课程共同成长。

[英语教学读后感

新的英语课程标准引发了一系列变化，首先加强了指导性和可操作性；其次体现语言学习的规律和渐进性；再次体现了弹性和选择；第四有的地方降低了难度；第五有的地方提高了要求。对教学模式和教师本人提出了新的挑战,同时也提供了新的发展空间。

一、教师是活动的指导者，学生是活动的主体

《英语课程标准》的基本理念中提到“让学生在教师指导下，通过感知、体验、实践、参与和合作探究等活动方式，实现任务的目标，感受成功。学生在学习过程中进行情感态度和学习策略的调整，以形成积极的学习态度，促进语言实际运用能力的提高。”

这就要求我们英语老师要掌握一定的课堂和课外教学艺术，开展集趣味、知识、娱乐、教育于一体的英语活动，能为学生提供尽可能多的语言实践机会。教师要用直观形象的形体语言，丰富多彩的表情，幽默风趣的语言表达，使学生在轻松、愉快、和谐的氛围中复习旧知，学习新知，提高学习信心。

教学中教师要根据教学目标，学生的需要和客观条件，创造性地探索有效的教学方法，要学会活用教法突破难点。我们可以鼓励学生大胆地模仿，带表情说句子。如“I am hungry.”（可以作饥饿状）；“I am thirty.”（可以作口渴状）。在教单词或句子时，我们老师可以带领学生做动作，甚至做夸张的动作或用夸张的朗读语调，孩子们特别喜欢。“big”两手张开画个大圈，“small”用两手指做个特别小的小圈，“strong”出示手臂，并鼓起肌肉，“thin”做一个瘦的动作。学完单词后，老师做出动作，学生就会说出这个单词。

二、多用评价语，真诚激励。

《英语课程标准》的基本理念中对评价案例进行了重新整合和调整，补充了大量的可操作性比较强的评价方式和方法，提到“英语教学中提倡过程性评价方式，把对学生的评价贯穿到平常的学习过程之中。注重培养和激发学生学习的积极性和自信心。”

因为每个学生，都渴望得到老师的重视和肯定，渴望得到激励和赞许。让每个学生都能享受到鼓励、温暖的阳光，这样无论哪种知识水平、能力、层次的学生都能获得心理上的满足，从而使学生有一种积极向上的源动力。所以教师的评价语应丰富多彩，真诚激励。下面的句子应该多说：Good! Great! Wonderful! You are clever! Don’t worry!

三、面向全体学生、尊重学生的自主选择

《英语课程标准》的教学建议中提到“尊重每个学生，建立融洽、民主的师生交流渠道。”平时学生如果主动帮我拿教具，我会向他致谢“Thank you”，若不小心撞到了学生，我会很抱歉地道声“Sorry”……虽然是点点滴滴的小事情小细节，但我希望从中带给学生“师生平等”的观念。

老师因为尊重学生而更关注他们的个性发展，学生因为受到老师的尊重会更乐意亲近老师，也就更加尊敬老师，这种心灵上的沟通和交流，一旦形成健康的双向互动，正面效应就会成倍增长，师生关系也会更加和谐地向前发展。

总之，新课程下的课堂教学，应是通过师生互动、学生之间的互动，共同发展的课堂。它既注重了知识的生成过程，又注重了学生的情感体验和能力的培养。因此，我们在教学中对教材的处理、教学过程的设计以及评价的方式都要以学生的发展为中心，以提高学生的全面发展为宗旨，这才是课改的最终目标。

[英语课程标准的基本理念读后感

"Little Women" is an autobiographical nature of the family with a novel, the author is a U.S. Aoerkete.

This book will be the main Marchi is home to four different character of the girls through their own good and hard work to find their own well-being of the storys ups and downs of rock or no plot, no suspense spectacular, but by using plain language description of the Marchi home Tianlun love. Are good, the love of family love and loyalty to the desire deeply touched me. The author describes only a very ordinary life in the details, but it is always exposed to love the vision of a better life.

Marchi family home while the girls poor, but they have it has anything positive and optimistic attitude. Novels stressed their individuality and dignity, but they have shown self-restraint, self-reliance and independence are the four girls are the common characteristics they always keep to identify their weaknesses and efforts to correct. It is also worthy of everyones learning.

I like Meg, like her love to be willing to poverty, not by the temptation of money for the character of ladies like her style. I like Joe, like her freely, like her dream and work hard for the unwavering determination. I like Beisi, like her quiet, do anything Haowuyuanyan, for others like her always think of good moral character. I also like Amy like shes strong, pro-poor economic poverty as Jiren conviction. They were not ideal and the fate of the same, but they all found themselves the best destination.

In their view, the growth of their home is a place, but also a sacred place of refuge. To listen carefully to their mothers teachings, to use their dexterous hands intelligence of the brain invented one after another innovative at the same time beautify the soul of the game. The four sisters grew up is like the richest man in an interesting education poetry. With neither the author nor boring gorgeous language to show us great human family, friendship and love. It seems to me that in the eyes of four sisters, and they will always love and love of their life together is the most well-being of all things.

From them on, I learned how strong and learned to understand but can not meet the contentment I learned to always full of hope for the future and try to chase the dream of optimism. I also learned how to redouble our treasure owned by, do not die, and so lost only know their commendable. We should be careful that each persons strengths rather than put on a colored eyes only see other peoples shortcomings.

Meg, Joe, Beisi, Amy their four strong, optimistic spirit will always be stored in my mind. They smile back to exist forever in my mind, to remind me and to strong, have a pure heart

参考翻译

《小妇人》是一本带有自传性质的家庭小说，作者是美国的奥尔科特。

这本书主要将的是马奇家的四个不同性格的女孩通过自己的善良和勤劳找到了自己幸福的故事小说没有跌岩起伏的情节，没有引人入胜的悬念，但作者用朴实的语言描写了马奇家的天伦之爱。们的善良，对爱的忠诚及对亲情的渴望深深地感动了我。 作者只描写了生活中很平凡的细节，是但却处处显露出对爱对美好生活的憧憬。

马奇家的女孩虽然家里贫寒， 但她们却对任何事都有积极乐观的态度。 小说强调了她们的个性与尊严，但有表现出她们的自我表现约束， 而独立自强有是这四个女孩的共同特点她们总是在不停的找出自己的缺点并努力改正。 这也是值得每个人学习的。

我喜欢梅格， 喜欢她为爱情甘于贫困， 不为金钱所诱惑的性格喜欢她淑女风范。我喜欢乔， 喜欢她的无拘无束， 喜欢她为梦想而努力奋斗的坚定不移的决心。 我喜欢贝思，喜欢她的恬静，做任何事都毫无怨言，喜欢她总是为别人着想的善良品德。 我也喜欢艾米喜欢她的坚强， 把扶贫济穷当作己任的信念。 她们的理想与命运个不相同， 但她们都找到了自己最好的归宿。

在她们看来，家是她们的生长之地， 又是神圣的避难场所。们回仔细聆听母亲的教诲，回用自己灵巧的双手聪慧的大脑发明一个又一个富有创意同时又能美化心灵的游戏。四姐妹的成长历程仿佛是一首富有趣味的教育诗。 作者用既不华丽也不枯燥的语言想我们展示了人类伟大的亲情、 友情和爱情。 在我看来， 似乎在四姐妹的眼里， 永远和她们爱的人和爱她们的人生活在一起就是天下最幸福的事。

从她们身上， 我学会了坚强， 学会了要懂得知足但不能满足我学会了要对未来永远充满希望， 并努力追逐梦想的乐观精神。 我同样也学会了要加倍珍惜所拥有的，不要等死去失去了才知道它们的难能可贵。 我们应该细心发现每个人的优点而不是带上了有色眼睛只看到别人的缺点。

梅格、乔、贝思、艾米她们四个坚强、乐观的精神将永远贮存在我的心里。 她们的微笑回永存在我的脑海中， 提醒着我， 要坚强，要有一颗纯洁的心 "

This book is about the story--Bell Pavilion four (1) class of students, they adopted a variety of small animals in a zoo. Is a Taoist adoption "transfixed" OWL full of thoughts. Once camp, he discovered an OWL alive, came up with a daring idea-flying owls. He conspired with friends "rescue plan." They have overcome numerous difficulties, finally put the owls released into nature. These students pay particular care to animals, but I decided to let the animals return to nature. I want to learn their caring, protecting the environment, excellent qualities for nature lovers.

i first read this book when i was in my fifteens. and now i remember it just as well as if i had read it yesterday.

pride and prejudice is a chefdoeuvre.

my first impression of this story was from screen.

its long long ago, maybe before i can read english books. i dont remember which movie edition i had seen. but i was impressed by the music, the scenery and the costume. i was very favor of a section of music in its balls. its pretty brisk, liked a wonderful song of a bird. regarding to the characters, i liked elizabeth, the heroine,though i didnt think shes beautiful. but shes smart. however, i didnt pay much attention to the plot. i thought its so long that it made me impatient and bored. by now, i havent read the whole story in english or its chinese version, either. i owe it to my prejudice.

"Little Prince" is about to tell a story of alien children to live in a very small planet, that planet there is only one him, he has to take care of the planet, he is the planet the little prince, grown up, he went to other planets travel, has encountered all sorts of people (aliens)。 Finally he came to the author encountered on Earth, and then died here

Look at this book, adults should not ripe to look at the mentality, to the point of view of your heart to understand it. the Little Prince has a pure heart and a rich imagination.

When the little prince left his planet, on the road, when a king, and that King would just like to control all rational, this is not like us? Especially when the teacher, like to go to other people, because order that other people can find themselves high up above and become a king, others only obeys.

The second encounter is love are people who love to be admired him, praise him anything except hear, in fact, we ourselves do they not? Others as long as one to praise himself, we do not carried away on it? Through this we can easily become conceited person, but also easy for the offensive.

There drunkard, but also a businessman, even to light lamps and geographer, I think those people is equivalent to our portrayal of the real world, love the order, and love to be admired, I would like to re-occupy the possession, finally left with nothing … …

I think the Little Prince This book is a family book, in this book, I can feel that for whom fame for modern day busy round, but not know they have a deep impact on the younger generation, small Prince did not understand why adults want to do that? Like all children have the same do not know. So I felt, how many more to understand the needs of children, and is no longer a random perfunctory, more children to learn about the ideas, interests, rather than restraint.

I am prince from an early age I learned one thing, the really important things, the eyes are invisible. Really important things is to look at motives.

【英文】 Sense and Sensibility was the first Jane Austen published. Though she initially called it Elinor and Marianne, Austen jettisoned both the title and the epistolary mode in which it was originally written, but kept the essential theme: the necessity of finding a workable middle ground between passion and reason. The story revolves around the Dashwood sisters, Elinor and Marianne. Whereas the former is a sensible, rational creature, her younger sister is wildly romantic--a characteristic that offers Austen plenty of scope for both satire and compassion. Commenting on Edward Ferrars, a potential suitor for Elinors hand, Marianne admits that while she "loves him tenderly," she finds him disappointing as a possible lover for her sister.

Soon however, Marianne meets a man who measures up to her ideal: Mr. Willoughby, a new neighbor. So swept away by passion is Marianne that her behavior begins to border on the scandalous. Then Willoughby abandons her; meanwhile, Elinors growing affection for Edward suffers a check when he admits he is secretly engaged to a childhood sweetheart. How each of the sisters reacts to their romantic misfortunes, and the lessons they draw before coming finally to the requisite happy ending forms the heart of the novel. Though Mariannes disregard for social conventions and willingness to consider the world well-lost for love may appeal to modern readers, it is Elinor whom Austen herself most evidently admired; a truly happy marriage, she shows us, exists only where sense and sensibility meet and mix in proper measure.

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理智与情感是第一次出版的简奥斯丁。虽然她最初称它为Elinor和玛丽安，但奥斯丁的标题和书信方式最初是，但保持了基本主题：激情和理性之间寻找一个可行的中间地带的必要性。故事围绕达什伍德姐妹，埃莉诺和玛丽安。前者是明智的，理性的人，她的妹妹是疯狂的浪漫——一个提供的特性为讽刺和同情的奥斯丁许多范围。评论爱德华Ferrars，为埃利诺的潜在的追求者，玛丽安承认，她“温柔地爱他，”她发现他令人失望的是他妹妹的一个可能的情人。

然而不久，玛丽安遇到一个人符合她的理想：威洛比先生，一个新邻居。所以激动地冲到玛丽安她的行为开始边境上的丑闻。然后威洛比抛弃了她;与此同时，埃利诺对爱德华日益增长的感情经受了考验，他承认他秘密与童年的心上人。两个姐妹反应他们的浪漫的不幸，他们画之前，最后皆大欢喜的核心形式的小说的教训。虽然玛丽安无视社会公约并愿意考虑失去爱情的世界可能会吸引现代的读者是谁，埃莉诺奥斯丁自己最显然对;一个真正幸福的婚姻，她告诉我们，只有理性与感性满足并以适当的方式混合。

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I was very favor of a section of music in its balls. It’s pretty brisk, liked a wonderful song of a bird. Regarding to the characters, I liked Elizabeth, the he-ro-in-e,though I didn’t think she’s beautiful. But she’s smart. However, I didn’t pay much attention to the plot. I thought it’s so long that it made me impatient and bored. By now, I haven’t read the whole story in English or its Chinese version, either. I owe it to my prejudice. In fact, I didn’t understand the story at that time. I didn’t know why it called Pride and Prejudice. Of course someone was pride, but I didn’t find where’ s the prejudice. I thought it’s normal, the way people treated each other in that. I considered prejudice would be very disgusting. But to the movie everthing was OK in my minds, except its length. Now, I think I have understood more about it. I’m a prejudiced person so I can’t find where’s wrong.

I merely like to do the things I like. Everytime I meet somebody or something,my thinking about he or it all depends on my foregone experience and my mood of the time.

在这次劳累而又难忘的英语节当中，我体会到了许多。

在英语课上的各种活动中，我感受到我们缺乏太多团结。一个活动中，是要“两人三足”的形式来拿东西的。这个形式，需要的就是配合，才能往返的快。可有些同学是连拖带拽的把另一个同学拉到终点再给他拽回来。这就说明我们不够团结一致。在跳蚤市场中，我发现我们的经商不是很强。有的东西太贵，没人买；有的东西太便宜，亏成本。在别人的铺子里，经常看到一些抢着买的人群。这是因为别人的价格恰到好处，有时还有赠品，别人看的上。由此可见我们的经商还是比别人差了那么一点。在寻宝活动中，我发现我们的词汇量太少，一些句子当中的单词我们根本见都没见过，可见还要多锻炼。还有一个小活动叫“连词成句”。我原本以为这些句子都会很简单的，加上我和赵君安的才华，一定能写出来。结果到我们的时候，我们拿到纸条，顿时傻了。我们竟然不会拼！无奈之下，纸条上怎么写我们就么写给它写下来。在这件事的从中我感受到了我的英语还缺乏应用，一个简单的“连词成句”给我就把我给难倒了，不过这会让我更加努力的学习英语。

在这次英语节中，我感受到了大家充分的热情和不来的经济头脑。部分收成不错，但还要继续磨练我们的英语水平。

That day, I go to the bookstore from a pile of world famous works of selected a very thin book called the catcher in the rye, I picked up the book, I didnt think so thin a book on my produce so much influence, make me deeply, I think this book form and the contents are quite good.

America is a fairly chaos in the 1950s, the period of the war has not been cleared the cold war, a cloud of smoke and rapid development of science and technology plays. On the one hand, and on the other hand, people lack of ideal, depression, oneself are faint change in the social background, the unexamined life. Then, "collapse generation" appeared, holden is one player, smoking, drinking too much, not aspirant, but he was still not reduced to drugs, social position, because in his heart, always have beautiful and distant ideal - do a "the catcher in the rye".

We live in a country, this era is in great reformation, everything in the process of changing development. In some sense, this with the 1950s American really some alike. Social progress, peoples thought also is in produce change, many people start confusion, depression, they gradually forgotten my ideals, no initial enthusiasm, began to yearn for mediocrity.

We are a group of life in the new era of children, nature has been used to confusion and annoyance, but we should concentrate on certain ahead of us, our road, we should be a group of ideal is ambitious. If holden without his pure ideal, that he might fall off the end, is his ideal let him survive. Ideal is the beacon, it takes people into the future, and into the light. Our life is just beginning, though life let our generation some confusion and uncertainty, but all but is temporary, not can be in the past, we now need most, it is our ideal.

Yes, there is an ideal there is hope, hope it is tomorrow, tomorrow will be more beautiful!

Today, I finished reading >the book is short of a fairy tale.Simple and plain language, and hidden behind the truth and wisdom are so profound.The little prince, that never answer other peoples problems, ask questions without the answer would continue to be asked the little prince, the * * has a gold hair, with an innocent smile of the little prince, that come from another planet, with a melancholy and clear pure eyes of the little prince, help us to understand our world and ourselves.

What to look at the world, with the theory of temporal power, money, and dogma, or use of pure childlike innocence and goodness of human nature, the little prince tells us the answer.Our busy day and night, we pursue fame and wealth, as we are in a hurry, we care about gain and loss, but we have more and more lonely, more and more lonely, like the article to the wind blow them away, they have no root, live very hard."We become like children, easy happy, satisfied, we use the desire to bury his childhood imagination and pure heart.

今天,我读完了>着本书很短的一个童话故事。语言朴素又平实，而背后隐含的道理和智慧却如此深刻。小王子，那个永远不回答别人的问题、自己所问的问题没有答案就会一直问下去的小王子，那个有着金**头发、面带无邪微笑的小王子，那个来自外星球、有着忧郁而明净纯洁眼神的小王子，帮助我们重新认识我们的世界和我们自己。

到底以什么样的眼光来看待世界呢，用世俗的权力、金钱、和理论教条，还是用纯真的童心和善良的人性，小王子告诉了我们答案。我们日夜忙碌，我们追逐名利，我们行色匆匆，我们关心得失，我们却越来越孤独，越来越寂寞，象文中所说得那样“风把他们吹散了，他们没有根，活得很辛苦。”我们很难再像孩子那样容易快乐、容易满足，我们用欲望埋葬了自己孩童时丰富的想象力和单纯的心地。

导语：《红与黑》是法国作家司汤达创作的长篇小说，也是其代表作。下面是yuwenmi小编为大家整理的优秀英语读后感，欢迎阅读与借鉴，谢谢!

作品讲述主人公于连是小业主的儿子，凭着聪明才智，在当地市长家当家庭教师时与市长夫人勾搭成奸，事情败露后逃离市长家，进了神学院。经神学院院长举荐，到巴黎给极端保王党中坚人物拉莫尔侯爵当私人秘书，很快得到侯爵的赏识和重用。与此同时，于连又与侯爵的女儿有了私情。最后在教会的策划下，市长夫人被逼写了一封告密信揭发他，使他的飞黄腾达毁于一旦。他在气愤之下，开枪击伤市长夫人，被判处死刑，上了断头台。

小说发表后，当时的社会流传“不读《红与黑》，就无法在政界混”的谚语，而该书则被许多国家列为禁书。《红与黑》在心理深度的挖掘上远远超出了同时代作家所能及的层次。它开创了后世“意识流小说”、“心理小说”的先河。后来者竞相仿效这种“司汤达文体”，使小说创作“向内转”，发展到重心理刻画、重情绪抒发的现代形态。人们因此称司汤达为"现代小说之父"。《红与黑》发表100多年来，被译成多种文字广为流传，并被多次改编为戏剧、电影。

The writer writing unfolds, first is entire French societys one typical window -----small city Varriales political pattern. The aristocrat is born German Switzerland that mayor is restores the dynasty in here highest representative, the maintenance restoration political power, prevents the bourgeoisie free party member is in power in politics regards as the inherent responsibilities. Poor collection post manager Valno the promise originally is the petty bourgeois, as a result of hires oneself the church secret organization saint can obtain the now the fat difference, thus oneself with restoration political power hitch in same place. Transcription hall Father Maslon is the spy which the church sends, all peoples words and deeds all under his surveillance, the time which mutually supports in this king place and the sacrificial altar, is person which wields great power with great arrogance. These three people constitute " Three heads Politic ", reflected the restoration influence the aspect which you the city arrogated all powers to oneself in Varriale.But their opposite, is a large number, has the huge economic potentiality aggressive bourgeoisie free party member. Stendhal describes to the people guarantees king party members be domineering and tyrannical, on the one hand again let the people draw such conclusion: Grasps has the economic potentiality the bourgeoisie, also will decide in politics is the final victor. 《 The Red and the Black 》 the book in circulation revolutionized in July, 1830 before, takes charge of soup reaches unexpectedly picture is understands clearly historical movement this one inevitably tends to.

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作者写作展开，首先是整个法国社会的一个典型的窗口-----小城市瓦里亚里的政治格局。贵族出生的德国瑞士市长是在这里恢复王朝的最高代表，维护复辟政权，防止资产阶级自由党员在政治上作为固有的责任。可怜的经理Valno收集后最初的承诺是小资产阶级，由于雇佣自己的教堂圣能够获得秘密组织现在的肥差，从而恢复自己与同一个地方的政治权力顺利。父亲Maslon是转录堂教会派间谍，所有人的言行都在他的监视，相互支持，在这个地方和国王的祭坛，是人炙手可热的。这三人构成“三头政治”，反映了恢复的影响方面，你的城市取一切权力对自己在瓦里亚里。但是他们的对面，是一个大数目，具有巨大的经济潜力咄咄逼人的资产阶级自由党成员。斯汤达向人们描述了保证国王党员的霸气，一方面又让人们得出这样的结论：掌握有经济实力的资产阶级，也会决定在政治上是最后的胜利者。《红与黑》书改变了七月1830之前，负责汤达竟像是洞悉历史运动的这一必然趋向。

导语：《穆斯林的葬礼》是由谢铁骊执导，盖丽丽等人主演的一部剧情片。批判的是宗教极端势力,歌颂的是人性,爱情! 下面是yuwenmi小编为大家整理的英语读后感，欢迎阅读与借鉴，谢谢!​

"Muslim funeral" is the hui female writer hoda novel, won the third maodun literature award. At this time because theres a general fuzzy impression so see more quickly. The author to set up a book with a mysterious religious background, the story took place in a Muslim family. Islam and his followers muslims for most of our readers is a mysterious thing, so it also attract me become a important factor. Saw one by one in the precise details of religious scenes, to understand the many customs about muslims. The author himself is a devout Muslim, but in the book, she did not deliberately deified religion, but with a kind of pure and fresh and smooth stroke slowly narrative, let the reader in the process of reading to produce a very pure feeling.

At the same time another background of the book is the story took place in a family and jade. In traditional Chinese culture, jade is the symbol of elegant nobleness, more than the ancients to jade metaphor to describe his character, integrity. For example "than the gay coat that makes the gentleman in the jade". So full of faint reveals a kind of elegant quiet, laid-back atmosphere, but jade is also a kind of wealth, the gentlemans love of its quality, someone would, of course, also because of its value and make a disgusting thing. In this paper, the author respectively with "month" and "jade" as the clue, respectively describes the early of the republic of China before liberation and social recovery before the cultural revolution to the end of the cultural revolution across 60 years of history in the two periods. In the history of this period of complexity, whether its positive portrayal of the two kinds of character conflict or side describe, all reveal the authors own distinctive hate feeling, the mood also deeply affect the readers emotions. Turbulent society prone to tragedy, family rise and fall in 60 years change, three generations fate of ups and downs, finally is to be regretted love tragedy. Reflection can produce a kind of depressive mood, but hit the readers mind, was a resonant happy, at the same time, make the person produces the historical deep thinking to the society.

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《穆斯林的葬礼》是回族女作家霍达的长篇小说，曾获第三届茅盾文学奖。这一次看时因为有了大体模糊的印象所以看的比较快。作者给全书设置了一个带有神秘色彩的宗教背景，故事发生在一个穆斯林的家族中。伊斯兰教和他的信徒穆斯林对我们大多数的读者来说是一个神秘的事物，所以这也成为吸引我的一个重要因素。在文中看到了一个个描写细致的宗教场面，了解了有关穆斯林的许多风俗。作者本人是一个虔诚的穆斯林信徒，但在书中她并没有故意神化宗教，而是用一种清新流畅的笔触缓缓的记叙描绘，让读者在阅读的过程中产生一种十分纯净的感觉。

同时书中的另一个背景是故事发生在一个和玉器有关的家族中。在中国的传统文化中，玉是风雅高洁的象征，古人多以玉来形容比喻自己的品德、气节。例如有“君子比德于玉”。所以全文中隐隐流露出一种雅致宁静，与世无争的气息，但是玉同时也是一种财富，君子爱其品质，当然也会有人因为其价值而做出令人不齿的事情。文中作者分别用“月”“玉”为线索，分别描写了民国初期到解放前和文革前到文革结束社会复苏的两个时期跨越六十年的历史。在这段复杂纷乱的历史中，不管是对两类人物冲突的正面描写还是侧面描写，都流露出作者本人鲜明的爱憎之感，同时这种情绪也深深地影响着读者的情绪。动荡的社会中容易产生悲剧，六十年中家族兴衰变迁，三代人命运沉浮，最终是一个个令人痛惜的爱情悲剧。读后会产生一种压抑的情绪，但却触及读者的心灵，令人有荡气回肠的舒畅，同时使人产生对历史对社会深沉的思索。

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《儿子与情人》是英国作家戴维·赫伯特·劳伦斯创作的一部长篇小说。以下是小编带来的儿子与情人英语读后感，希望对你有帮助。

Sons and Lovers was D.H. Lawrences first major novel. His only major novel, some would say; but even readers who are out of sympathy with him, or who feel that his gifts were not really those of a novelist, have usually been happy to make a wholehearted exception in this one case.

It is a book that goes straight to the point, at the outset and at almost every subsequent stage. Between them his two methods leave us in no doubt where the heart of his story is to be located.

Gertrude Morel is a woman of high principle, of character and refinement. Her husband is a miner who can barely read and write. Marrying him for passion, she is bitterly disappointed by his rough manners, his drinking, what she can only see as his weakness and irresponsibility. When the book opens, the marriage has already turned into a battlefield, and the love she has withdrawn from Morel is being redirected toward the first of her children. In the previous chapters, Gertrude Morel is most devoted to her eldest son William. But after he dies of a skin disease, she plunges into grief. Seeing William is gone, she rededicates her life to Paul, and this revives her. She teaches her son art, education, and social advancement. She lives for her sons and will do anything to see them make their way in the world.

Mrs. Morel is terribly tired of her involvement in Paul and Miriams relationship and decides to stop intervening. She knows that Paul is an adult now and that there is nothing she can do to stop Paul from seeing Miriam. She feels that she can never forgive her son for sacrificing himself to love Miriam. As it mentions above, Paul has begun to realize how much his mother affects his life. Her deep love for him has made her a part of himself that when he wants to break free from his mother, he is unable to get away from her. His mother is ingrained into his very soul.

That’s to say, his mother influences Paul very much, and which proves to be for worse to him. When Paul finds girlfriend, he always find the girl who takes after his mother, not only the out look but also in mental. But in fact he could not find such girl. So it lead to that he never willing to be bound to Miriam in marriage or to Clara in physical love. At last Paul has begun to realize how much his mother affects his life. Her deep love for him has made her a part of himself that when he wants to break free from his mother, he is unable to get away from her. His mother is ingrained into his very soul.

To sum up, Paul’s mother has some bad influence on him and to a large extent changes his life.

Today, I went to the bookstore, took a bottle of mineral water to three layer directly, picked up a book to read with relish, suddenly, hand touched a book named "Sophies world", Im very interested in its name, then pick it up.

Story say is a 14-year-old girl Sophie discovered a letter when I come home in one day, the only brief three words: "who are you?" Envelope clearly written "three alfalfa road, Sophie", did not write the senders name above, also didnt stamp, this mysterious messenger Sophie fell into a meditation. In this way, in some mysterious mentor, under the guidance of Sophie began to think about, from ancient Greece to Kant, from kierkegaard to Freud, you master the fundamental problem thinking. At the same time, Sophie constantly hear from some of the unusual, the world like a mystery in her eyes. Sophie girl born savvy and nurture knowledge, attempt to unravel the mystery, however, the truth of the matter is far more weird than what she thought, more extraordinary.

"Sophies world, is not only the wisdom of the world, is also a dream world. It will awaken everyone heart to the praise of life and the ultimate meaning of life care and curiosity. World for us, it is the combination of many unknown mystery, is speculation, one end life all dont know what happened and the beginning, only free to live every day, is the life.

今天，我来到了书城，拿着一瓶矿泉水就直奔向三层，拿起书来就津津有味的读着，忽然，手碰到了一本书，名叫《苏菲的世界》，我对它的名字很感兴趣，便拿起来看了。

故事中说的是一个14岁的少女苏菲在某天回家时发现了一封信，上面只有简短的三个字："你是谁?"信封上清楚地写上了"苜蓿路三号，苏菲收",上面并没有写上寄信人的名字，也没贴邮票，这个神秘的信使苏菲陷入了一阵沉思。就这样，在某个神秘导师的指引下，苏菲开始思索，从古希腊到康德，从祁克果到佛洛伊德等，各位大师所思考的根本问题。与此同时，苏菲不断接到一些极不寻常的来信，世界像谜团一般在她眼底展开。苏菲运用少女天生的悟性与后天知识，企图解开这些谜团然而，事情的真相远比她所想的更加怪异、更加离奇。

《苏菲的世界》，既是智慧的世界，也是梦的世界。它将会唤醒每个人内心深处对生命的赞叹与对人生终极意义的关怀和好奇。世界对于我们来说，是许多未知之谜的组合，是各种猜测的集结，人穷尽一生也不会知道全部事情的经过和开头，只有无忧无虑地过上每一天，才算是人生。

The first impression that the boy Tom gave me was a naughty, mischievous boy, just as what Aunt Polly said. He never lacked the curiosity to explore new places, sometimes even risking his life, which I did not dare to! There were some great adventures of him with Huck or Joe. Huck was an orphan, and Joe was Tom’s classmate. Everybody in the small village knew Tom, mainly for Tom’s—you know kind of gallantry!

I should tell you the adventures. The origin of the attempt was that Tom and Huck was getting curious to the world of outside, and they made an effort to run-away. However, when they were in the graveyard, some people appeared. They were Injun Joe, Huck’s father, named Potter, and a doctor. Tom and Huck quickly hid behind the bush, and they saw them digging the coffins out, probably finding something valuable. They did not realize that what they witnessed was a murder! Tom and Huck were extremely afraid, and they ran away rapidly. On the court, Potter was being accused of the murderer; however, Tom declared that it was Injun Joe who used Potter’s knife to kill the young doctor. On hearing this, Injun Joe broke the glass and ran away! This scared everybody, and Tom’s brother, Sid, said that he always heard Tom mumbling something when he was asleep, and sometimes even shouting. Indeed, the accident was fluttering everybody in the town with fear.

Before, Tom once fell in love with a girl called Lawrence. And he showed off in front of the girl, trying to win the girl’s heart, but Lawrence ignored Tom’s appearance, and it made Tom sad. At present, Tom went for another girl for Becky. Yet, when Becky knew that Tom once loved Lawrence (it was probably childish thoughts), she refused Tom. Tom got so depressed that he resolutely committed the second escape.

He made contact with Huck and Joe that afternoon, about where to meet, the code words of meeting, and the route, and so on and so forth. Each of them brought some food, and Huck brought some pipes (remind that Huck had no real home, and I had no ideas where he got the things). At midnight, they met at the place, and they took a raft down the river. After drifting for about several hours, they finally reached the destiny. There they lived for about several weeks, and while everybody thought they were drowned, they had a great time. They were no problems of food or water shortages. They promised to be a pirate, and would live there forever.

If you were out from your relatives for a long time, wouldn’t you miss home? It was the same for those children. After several weeks, Joe felt that he missed home very much, and Tom could not seem to stop him. On this, Tom brought Joe and Huck his secret—

On one night, when the rest of the boys fell asleep (of course they slept outside), Tom crept from the camp, and headed toward the town. He sneaked to his aunt’s room, and hid under the bed, while everybody- Mary (Tom’s sister), Sid, Aunt Polly and Joe Harper’s mother were having a meeting. There were a lot of tears, about how the boys were killed, and how they would treat the boys if they ever lived again, such things. Tom almost wanted to get out of the bed and hug Aunt Polly, but he couldn’t. At last, everybody went to sleep. Tom went out from the bed, and flew to the camp. That was the secret— that the boys will go to their own funeral!

While the boys were outside, all of the people in the town were discussing about the accidents. The town was immediately covered with a sense of doom. So the funeral was raised. Everybody wore a black suit, and they prayed something along with the priest. Just then, they saw somebody entering the gate, and what they saw was unbelievable. Three young souls came out from their coffins and showed up in front of everybody! The change of the atmosphere was imaginable. Aunt Polly, Joe Harper’s mother, Mary and Sid were astounded to find that Tom came so vivid in front of them, and so Tom and Joe became a hero in the school, even in the town.

The real adventures of Tom were finding the treasures. However, I felt that I had no energy to write more…

《山丘上的约会》这个故事中最奇妙的部分，在于两们“笔友”彼此间从未见过面，单单只靠书信文字所产生的美好想象来塑造彼此的形象，而且在无形中不断地增强彼此的美好印象。相信很多人都有这样的经验：只听到某人或某篇文章的形容，就对没见过的人、事、物产生好奇，进而想象，总是越想越美好。

《山丘上的约会》故事最精彩的部分在于两个素未谋面的人终于决定要见面了，让人紧张心跳的也正是这一刻，两人都从对方最高的期望出发，结局如何呢？作者采用了卡通化的造型，夸张地强化了故事中两个主角的差异，不论在身高或体态上都不同。很戏剧化的是，正当玲玲抬头猛往高处寻找将会从天而降的偶像时，男主角瓜瓜也正奋力地跳上山丘去赴约呢！作者运用书本竖立时的直式版面，营造出男女主角见面时的“震憾”画面，令人拍案叫绝！故事中的主角虽然都是田墅里常见的动物，但两者的外形、习性截然不同，所以见面的过程充满了曲折、趣味。孩子在阅读时因为是旁观者，一定会觉得他们好笑，从而在轻松的气氛中理解故事的发展进程。

哇！会面的结果真是令人有些失望，书信中的印象明明不是这样的埃当满怀期盼，终于可以一睹真面目时，才发现事实和想象差了一大截。这是一个有趣又常会发生的事情。其实呢，“人生不如意事十常八九”，生活中经常会有许多的遗憾和委屈。正因为如此我们常常很努力地去避免这样的事情发生，让一切都如意顺心。结果期望越高往往失望越大，以至迷失了对事物本质的认识，我们就越来越不快乐了。试问朋友的真正意义是什么？不就是无邪的友谊分享吗，至于表面的东西也就不值得计较了。

因为人生很少能够真正地心想事成，所以我们会寄望于故事最后的美好结局，至少希望它是正面的、光明的。笔者很欣赏本书的结局。当玲玲和瓜瓜确信彼此的真正友谊存在时，决定继续山丘上的约会，再为彼此美好的友谊努力下去。真好，友谊可以不用猜疑和负担，只要彼此接纳和分享，或许这正是现代人该好好想想的课题。