给母亲的一封信英语作文50词【20篇】

Dear Ms. Fu,

亲爱的付老师，

I would like you to know that I appreciate the help and support you gave to

me when I was in junior high school. I enjoyed being taught by you immensely.

You are an excellent teacher and inspired me to continue learning with an open

and positive mind.

我想让您知道我非常感激在我上初中的时候你给予的帮助和支持。我非常喜欢你做我的老师。你是一个优秀的教师，鼓励我以开放和积极的态度继续学习。

I would like to convey my heartfelt gratitude to you for teaching me what

is responsibility. You helped me how to find the best place for myself and look

for the personal values. I remember you gave me a book as a present of the

Spring Festival. You are the first teacher who gave me a present which I was

moved for a long time.

我衷心的感谢你教会了我什么是责任。你帮我找到最适合自己的位置并和个人价值。我记得你曾给我一本书作为春节的礼物。你是第一个给我礼物的老师，这让我感动了很久。

I would further say that you gave me so good memories that I wish I could

go back to that time again. It was you who encouraged me to overcome obstacles.

It was you who cared about my emotions. I appreciate all you have done for me,

which meant so much to me. I hope that this letter brings my best wishes to you

and I once again thank you for giving me those precious memories of my life,

which I shall cherish forever.

我还想说你给了我这么美好的回忆，我希望我能再次回到那个时候。是你鼓励我克服困难。是你关心我的情绪。我很感激你为我所做的一切，这对我来说是很重要的。我希望这封信能给你带去我最好的祝福，我再次感谢你给我的生活带来那些珍贵的回忆，我会永远珍惜它的。

Sincerely yours,

Yang

杨

Dear teacher,

Hello!

On the occasion of Christmas is approaching, I would like to send you the

most sincere greetings!

I will all kinds of respect and deep wishes woven into the text, with my

piety - bow to you! I silently pray, pray that this thin piece of writing paper

is a boat, with affectionate eyes, sailing into your dream bay, guard your

fatigue, comfort you lend...

Teacher, your hard work! Whenever you figure flashing in the night under

the window lattice, I remember, remember the sacred and ancient division,

remember what an amazing ChengChu exclamation topic...

824. Teacher, I love you for you, for you are sharp in writing style in the

little room; In the quiet of night, with candle burning, you sit in the book

city; You too much hard work and grievance, you too little too little to obtain

and complain...

Ah, your cold and unrestrained, bearing the secular, bearing the

indifference, silently compose a high and vigorous life! Teacher, in your

students bid farewell to the campus that day, in your haoshoupaui that day, your

soul will be comforted, will laugh proud forever!

Teacher, I respect you! The ancients said, "The state will prosper, and

your teacher will be rewarded." China cant take off without you sowing fang Zhi

Xin, science and education to revitalize the country, cant leave you paving the

road and building stones! Look up todays Chinese, respect for teachers and

education, has become a trend. I am excited and excited! I wish every Chinese

respect teacher!

So dead! Several years of cold window, I cant remember how much I have

listened to your teachings! Often recall the old friendship between teachers and

students, often see the teacher todays face, I have a surge of excitement,

gratitude wanfen! "Who made the heart-inch grass, reported in the apartments?

Teacher, please once again accept my sincere blessing and infinite gratitude to

you! Best wishes to your teacher

Good health, happy holidays!

Your students:

敬爱的老师:

您好!

值此圣诞节翩然即至之际，谨向您致以无比诚挚的问候!

我将万般的敬意和深深的祝福编织成文字，带着我的虔诚——给您鞠躬!我默默祈望，祈望这张薄薄的信纸是只小船，载着深情的眼睛，驶进您的梦湾，守护您的劳累，给您慰藉藉……

老师，您辛苦了!每当您的身影在夜幕下的窗棂中闪动，我便记起，记起神圣而古老的师道，记起一个令人枨触感叹的话题……

老师，我热爱您——您，斗室中孜孜矻矻，励精笔耕;您，静夜中秉烛苦读，拥坐书城;您太多太多的辛劳与委屈，您太少太少的索取与抱怨……

啊，您的清寒与潇洒，背负着世俗，背负着冷漠，默默连缀励节高亢的人生!老师，在您的莘莘学子告别校园那天，在您皓首穷经那天，您心力交瘁的灵魂将获抚慰，将笑傲千古!

老师，我尊敬您!古人云:“国将兴，必将贵师重傅。”中华腾飞，离不开您播芳植馨，科教兴国，离不开您铺路筑石!举目当今华夏，尊师重教，蔚然成风。我欣喜感奋!我祝愿每位国人都敬重人师!

逝者如斯!几载寒窗，记不清我聆听过您多少教诲!每每回忆旧日师生情谊，每每再睹老师今日面容，我都心潮激越，感念万端!“谁言寸草心，报得三春晖?”老师，请您再一次接受我对您的真诚祝福和无限感激!敬祝老师您——

身体健康，节日愉快!

您的学生：

Last week, when I passed a clothes shop, I was attracted by the

beautiful dress, so I asked my mother to give me money to buy one. But she

refused me and said that I could collect some money by helping her to do little

work. I agreed. So I started to clean the house and the dishes. Sometimes washed

my father’s car. Finally I got enough money.

It is time to go to school. He puts his books into his backpack. He puts

his arms through the straps. He puts his backpack on his back. He walks outside.

He goes to the bus stop. He stands at the bus stop. He waits for the bus. He

sees the bus.

Hello, everyone, my name is Yang she, this year Im nine years old, from

changzhi city XiangYuanXian, hope everyone support me a lot.

Every year on June 27 is my birthday, but before it is my birthday is June

26. Why say June 26 birthday? Because it is also in June 26 birthday of my

grandpa, so they add up to a day. Why how into June 27 birthday this year?

Because my grandpa just turned 60 to the life, so I no birthday on June 26. We

go home to my grandpa and my grandpas birthday.

The next day, my aunt, uncle and my dopted mother dry dad, grandma and

grandpa dad mom dad, aunt, etc... Have come to my birthday, I feel good my

birthday party.

Every parent wants their daughters to learn ballet and piano. My mother

finds me having no talent in ballet, so she chooses to send me to learn piano.

At first, I am not very interested in it, but soon I find practising it every

day makes me feel bored. I want to give up, but the girls around me keep coming

to the class, so I decide to hold on.

亲爱的妈妈：

您好!

妈妈，您天天都那么辛苦，该歇歇了。

每天看到您因为辛勤的劳动而把腰累弯，看到您因为在雪地里洗衣服而把手冻得皮开肉绽，我的心像被老虎狠狠的咬了一口那样痛。

有一次，我把您给我买的新衣服一不小心撕破了，心想：糟了，糟了，您一定会揍我的，还是把它藏起来吧。于是，我把它藏到了被子下面。到该睡觉的时候，我一掀被子——呀!衣服不见了!我心惊胆战的躺在床上，生怕您会突然出现并问我你的新衣服到哪去了?就在这时，我发现客厅有亮光，我慢慢的走过去。透过门缝，我看到您在微弱的烛光下给我缝补那撕破的新衣服，时不时的还扎了几下手，不一会儿手上就布满了针眼。我顿时留下了两行热泪，终于明白了原来您是那么辛苦!

妈妈，您才30多岁，可是劳累已经让丝丝银发悄悄地爬上了您乌黑的头发，让皱纹不知不觉地在您细嫩的脸上扎下了营。妈妈，我知道您很爱我，除了学习，您总是什么活都不让我做。但是你知道吗?我已经不是小孩子了，我想和您分担一些劳务活，我想让你有更多时间休息一下。

妈妈，歇歇吧，您实在是付出了太多太多。

___

20__年__月__日

尊敬的英语老师：

您好!

我的名字叫：林沁楠，是您的新学生。我的性格活泼、开朗，一闲下来，就会去看看课外书。小学的成绩还不错。不过我有一个坏习惯--粗心，您还别说，“粗心”它可淘气了，常常在我考试的时候，跳到我的笔尖旁，害我每次考试都与满分擦肩而过、、、、、、但我相信，我一定会改掉这个坏毛病的。

初中的学习生涯对我来说是陌生的，新的学习环境对我来说也是陌生的，您，对我老说当然也是陌生的、、、、、、

我希望您是一位诙谐幽默的老师，能让我们在开心、快乐的课堂里学到知识，提高我们的学习兴趣。这样，我们就能上好没一节课，成绩也会跑得飞快。您不只要注重我们的学习成绩的提高，而是让我们德、智、体、美、劳全面发展、、、、、、

我一定会认真对待你布置的作业，我要认认真真的写好每一个字，认真对待每一篇作文，扎扎实实地完成各课学习任务，我能行，请相信我。

相信我能成为你的一位好帮手!

祝：

身体健康

尊敬的__x组织，

我们是__的爸爸妈妈，我们女儿__经过笔试和面试，很荣幸地被__x组织选中，于2015年8月中旬去了美国明尼苏达州，作为交流学生，进入到美国的高中二年级学习。

dear naclopendoor.org，

we are the parents of yan han. its a great honor for our daughter to be

chosen by your organization after the test and interviewing. in the middle of

august， 2015， yan han went to minnesota， usa， as an exchange student of 11th

grade.

到美国两个多月来，我们的女儿__受到了美国家庭无微不至的关怀。美国家庭的爸爸妈妈就像对待自己的亲生女儿一样照顾她。我的女儿就管他们叫美国的爸爸妈妈。在学习上，美国的爸爸妈妈帮她细心地选课，耐心地帮她提高英文的听说能力。

having been in america for more than two months， our daughter， yan han，

have gotten a good care from the sweetest families. the american familys father

james and mother karen treat her just like their own daughters. my daughter

calls james and karen “father” and “mother”. for studies， her american parents

choose the curriculum carefully and make every effort to help her improve her

english listening and speaking ability.

在生活方面，饮食上详细考虑她是否能吃习惯，并告诉她像在自己家里一样的生活。当我们在和女儿视屏聊天时，经常看到__的美国爸爸妈妈送夜宵来给她吃。

for her life aspect， they take her eating custom into consideration， and

tell her feel easy just like at her chinese home. when we chat with our daughter

through on-line video， we often see that her american parents send some midnight

snack for her.

为了尽快熟悉美国，融入美国，美国的爸爸妈妈还帮助孩子加入了篮球队和越野长跑队，并带__去游乐园和堪萨斯等地方游玩。美国爸爸妈妈还经常和我们女儿谈心，发现她有什么思想上、生活上、学习上的难题，及时帮她解决。

in order to be familiar with the us as soon as possible， yan han joins the

basketball team and the cross country long-distance running team under the help

of american parents. and they accompanied yan han to some interesting places

such as amusement park and kansas state， etc. american father and mother also

often talk openly with our daughter. when finding some difficulties in study and

life， they help her solve promptly.

__的美国妈妈甚至还专门将我们女儿在美国的各种活动情况用dv录了下来，她说等一年后我们再见到我们的女儿，一定会给我们一个大的惊喜，无论是在流利的英语方面还是在为人处世方面，都将有一个大的改变。我女儿说，她现在在的美国家庭，可以说是完美的了，她觉得非常幸福，也感到非常幸运。

american mother has also specially recorded our daughter’s active

situations in us with dv. she said that when we meet our daughter in china， we

certainly will receive a big surprise that yan han makes a great progress not

only in her english ability but also in socialist manner. my daughter said that

living in the american family is perfect and she feels happy and lucky.

__的美国妈妈，还经常给我们发email跟我们沟通__的生活和学习情况，每一封信都让我们很感动，让我们深切地感受到了美国人民博爱的胸怀。我们(__的爸爸妈妈)也在美国留学获得了mba，这期间我们也得到了美国人民无私的全力的帮助，现在我们的女儿也得到了美国人民的无私的帮助，这使我们感到欠了美国人民一份很重的情意，我们从心里愿意中美两国人民成为很好的朋友，一生都愿为维护中美人民的友好事业做出我们的贡献来。

american mother always send us e-mails to communicate with us about yan

han’s life and study situations. the every e-mail moves us and we deeply feel

the warm humanity from americans. we (yan han’s parents) also once studied in

america and got mba degree in usa. at that time， we received the generous help

from american people. and now， our daughter has gotten the same kind of help，

which make us full of gratitude. we heartily hope that the sino-us people can

become the very good friends， and we are willing to make our contribution to

maintaining the sino-us peoples friendly relationship.

我们还要非常感谢__的中学的各位老师，他们对我们的女儿格外的关心和照顾。我们的女儿在课堂上听不懂而反复提问时，他们会不厌其烦耐心地给予回答和解释。我们特别感谢教他数学、美术、世界地理与文化、生物、希腊神话课的老师们，是他们巨大的耐心和帮助使我女儿度过了在美国最初阶段的，最难熬的适应期，现在她已[查看更多范文，请百度搜索]经基本上能适应和听懂美国课堂上的教学内容了。我的女儿对美国老师的教学方式和方法也极其推崇，对老师的教学态度和教学水平也感到非常满意。她说老师都很喜欢她，她也很喜欢给她讲课的每一位老师。

Dear John，

I am eagerly looking forward to your visit to our city。 After all these years of writing to each other， I can not wait to see you。 However， I regret to inform you that I will not be able to meet you at the airport on time。

The reason is that your flight will arrive early in the morning， and the earliest I can reach the airport will be about an hour after you land。 Will you please wait for me in the arrival lounge You can have breakfast while you wait。

By the way， as we have never met I must tell you home to identify me: I am of 165cm tall and have a long hair。 In addition， I will wear a white skirt and carry a China Daily at hand。

Hope we can meet soon。

Sincerely yours， Alice

what would you do if you failed? many people may choose to give up.

however, the surest way to success is to keep your direction and stick to your

goal.

on your way to success, you must keep your direction. it is just like a

lamp, guiding you in darkness and helping you overcome obstacles on your way.

otherwise, you will easily get lost or hesitate to go ahead.

direction means objectives. you can get nowhere without an objective in

life.

you can try to write your objective on paper and make some plans to achieve

it. in this way, you will know how to arrange your time and to spend your time

properly. and you should also have a belief that you are sure to succeed as long

as you keep your direction all the time.

如果失败了你会怎么做?很多人可能会选择放弃。然而，要想成功，最可靠的方法就是坚持你的方向和目标。

在通往成功的路上，你必须坚持你的方向。它就像一盏灯，在黑暗中为你指路，帮助你度过难关。否则，你很容易就会迷失方向或犹豫不前。

方向意味着目标。人生如果没有目标，将一事无成。

你可以试着把你的目标写在纸上，并制定实现目标的计划。这样，你就会懂得如何合理安排时间，如何正确地支配时间。而且你还要有这样的信念：只要你一直坚持自己的方向，你就一定可以成功。

The Mid-autumn Festival was gotten on for, house appoint can inform mom

goes attending a meeting, a moon cake was brought when coming back, the box of

moon cake is very elegant, it is gules, writing above " riches and honour fall "

4 words, extremely beautiful. Ground of my too impatient to wait opens a box to

see only inside have 8 small moon cake and knife and fork, look very delicious,

I am greedy dc saliva, open caddy rapidly, immediately, I was stupefied, the

moon cake inside is packed without polybag, smooth move puts moon cake in the

box. I think: Such moon cake affirmation is not wholesome, expire easily still!

Can you eat after all? I still ask mother! Mom says: "You eat first! If feel bad

to eat, after eating uncomfortable, that cannot eat. " I ate, smell is very

sweet still.

敬爱的英语老师：

您好!

不知不觉中，一年半的时间很快就过去了，和你分离的时间已经来了。教室里似乎仍回荡着她那清脆洪亮的声音，同学们似乎仍感受到他那严格中的慈爱。我们，在您的搀扶下，跨上了奔驰的骏马。

小小的粉笔就是你的双手，上课的铃声就是你征程上的冲锋号角。为了我们您废寝忘食，为了我们您鞠躬尽瘁，您无怨无悔，心甘情愿!多少个日日夜夜你无眠，多少回风风雨雨你闯过。一路的酸甜苦辣，一路的欢声笑语，您与我们一起渡过，我们的一声感激会让你甜蜜永久。您像蜡烛一样，燃烧自己，照亮别人。俗话说的好：“春蚕到死丝方尽，蜡炬成灰泪始干。老师是人类灵魂的工程师。”我喜欢看你为我们而高兴的样子，也喜欢看你为我们而激动的样子，个喜欢看你为我们而生气的样子，无论什么样子的你总是如此惹我喜爱。现在，我不仅会尊敬你，而且会把你看做我的好朋友，有福同享，有难同当。回想起以前：刚来这里，我们自我介绍，然后你上课使得喜怒哀乐我全都记得。虽然只有一年半，但我们相识相知，虽然只有一年半，但我们情深意长，我真有点舍不得。是您让我考100分，是您给我当英语科代表的机会，是您让我跨上了奔驰的骏马。您尽职尽责，铁面无私，作为组长也应该这样，我要向你学习。总之，千言万语道不尽，就让他化为一句话：“老师，我爱您;老师，您辛苦了!”希望你以后可以回来看看我们，我们班的活动也要来参加哦，同学们的精彩表演在等着你呢!

此致

敬礼!

您的学生：李雪梅

my father is a nice man. he likes to play computer games. he is

an owner of a factory which produces many things .he is good at designing. he

works very hard. i love him very much because, sometimes, i can help him to do

something in his factory .he is always on business trips because he has his

business everywhere so it takes up too much of his time .therefore, he doesn’t

have any time to play with me but i don’t blame him for that. i often spend a

lot of my time on the computer, so i have something to do. my mother is usually

on the phone and tells my father to get home early but my father doesn’t listen

to her. so my mother and i sometimes are upset and i don’t like my father in a

sense that he always gets home late.i love my father but not his

job!

Orginate in America in the Mothers Festival. May 9,1906, American consuming

city Jia-Wei the mother misfortune of silk dies , her grief extremely. Avoid

Japan in annual mother death anniversary, Miss An Na organizes catch up the

campaign of Sai mother, encourage other person to also express the gratitude for

own loving mother with similar way.

Hereafter, she convinces people everywhere and establishes the Mothers

Festival to the appeal of all sectors of society and call. Her appeal gets warm

response.

Through draft resolution, on May 10,1913, American Senate and House of

Representatives signs by president Wilson second that announces and decides each

years May for Sunday, is the Mothers Festival.

This measure arouses world countries, is imitated one after another,

install to 1948 Na pass away , 43 countries have established the Mothers

Festival.

Dear Li Hua,

I had a birthday party at my home last month .I invited some of my

classmates to the party . The party began at 8a.m .on Sunday . All my classmates

were not be late. I was very happy. We ate some western food.They were very

nice.Some of my classmates brought their own food. They shared their food with

us. Because they are very friendly.

We also played games. It was very interesting. All my classmates were very

happy. I danced with my best friends. And all my classmates danced very

beautifully! They sang a song Happy Birthday to me. And then they gave me a

lot of presents. I was very thankful. All of us had a good time on that day!

Do you have free time? I want to visit you next year?

There was once a little girl that wanted to live in peace, but she couldn’t

since her house or should I say family is very, very poor.

One day the little girl called Anna went to pick mushrooms in the forest

with her friends. She picked plenty of mushrooms and walked deep into the

forest. It gradually became dark, and Anna wanted to go home, she called her

friends; but they were nowhere to be found. She wanted to go home on her own,

she walked and walked into the forest; it seemed as if it had no end. At last,

she found a tiny little house, Anna walked close to it.

She knocked at the door but there was no answer, she knocked again, but

there was still no answer; at last she quietly opened the door, and inside she

found a warm fire place. She walked to the fire place, and sat there. Before one

minute, a bear walked in, he saw Anna; and said, “What are you doing in my

house?” “My name is Anna, and I am lost…” “Oh,” said the bear, “In that case you

can stay here; but you must prepare the food and dust the house in return…”

One day Anna baked a tray of apple tarts, she put them in a big basket and

said to the bear; “Oh bear, could you deliver these apple tarts to my parents?”

“You have done a great job so I will agree: I shall send these apple tarts to

your parents. I’ll just fetch my walking stick and head out immediately…”

“Remember bear, if you eat one tart, I shall know immediately;” the bear went to

fetch his walking stick, in the meantime;Anna hid herself in the basket, and the

bear set off from home.

He walked a distance and said to himself, “I shall eat one apple tart;”

suddenly he heard Anna’s voice saying, “Big bear I’ve caught you!” “Oh my, oh

my!” cried the bear, “I had better walk a while before eating any of the tarts…”

As he said that, the bear started off again. After he was far from home, he

said; “I shall rest here, and in the meantime eat one apple tart…” Suddenly he

heard Anna’s voice saying again, “Big bear; I’ve caught you again!” “Oh my, oh

my!” cried the bear, “That girl must have magic eyes!” then he started off once

again.

When he at last reached his journeys end, he placed the basket in front of

Anna’s front door, and walked away from home. When Anna’s mom and dad opened the

door, they saw Anna jump out from the basket and running to them. There was no

chance of saying how happy they were!

Miss xiang is my einglish teacher,She has a good teacher,she has to eyes on

glasses ,A long hair,She has to tall.

She has very busy,Look! Einglish teacher is office coorrecting and tidy

einglish steamed roll.

She has likes rice and vegetables. She has like vegetables is taomato and

aubergine.

This is my einglish teacher!

亲爱的妈妈：

当我写这封信的时候，我的心情是非常激动的。这几十年的酸甜苦辣清晰如昨，从前那个满世界疯跑的小丫头，转眼间已经能沉稳的工作了，时间过得真快啊!今天是母亲节，妈妈，我想和您说几句心里话。

10岁那年，爸爸因病去世，您便独自扛起了家庭的重担。您既当妈，又当爹，白天下地干活，晚上缝缝补补，还要照顾生病在床的爷爷，每天按时喂饭、擦拭、洗衣，直到去世。尽管日子过得苦，过得累，却从不抱怨。您用自己勤劳的双手和坚强的毅力，将我们兄妹五人抚养成人，其中的心酸与不易，岂是能用辛苦二字所形容的?写到这，我的眼眶湿润了。妈妈，您总是力所能及地让我们兄妹五个生活的更好，您的付出凝聚了世间最美的亲情，向我们传递着满满的正能量。现在回想起来，那些记忆里发苦的日子，因为有您的努力而透了一丝丝甜，成为了人生的一部分。

还记得1996年的春节，也是爸爸刚走的那一年，您毅然选择把哥哥送到部队，您说：“吃的苦中苦，方为人上人，部队能更好的锻炼一个人。”没有了哥哥的帮助，您肩上得担子更加重了，一个人拉扯四个孩子和生病在床的爷爷，靠的仅仅是自己的双手。那年春节，邻居家的奶奶给咱家送来二十个鸡蛋，我现在依然清晰的记得，您接过鸡蛋时眼中的那份感激与感动。几十年过去了，您从未忘记当年老人家对您的那份情，只要有时间就去帮她做一些家务活，直到后来，咱们搬到了城里，您还是一如既往的牵挂着她，只要有人回老家就给她捎回去一些吃的用的，逢年过节，便会亲自回家看望，宛如自己的亲生母亲。

妈妈，感谢您!是您让我们学会了坚强，学会勤劳，学会了感恩，懂得了孝顺，懂得了付出。几十年来，您任劳任怨，无怨无悔

，用您柔弱的肩膀撑起了整个家，那时候，也时常有人对您说：“你一个人太累了，何苦呢?”可您总是笑着说：“娃娃们，总会一天比一天大，总会熬出头”。写到这，我的眼眶又湿润了。妈妈，您不是雨露，却带给了我们新生的希望;您不是泉水，却带给了我们生命的甘甜;您不是太阳，却带给了我们人间的温暖。

还记得前两天上班走时，我让您帮我扎马尾辫吗?起先我十分开心，因为我真的很怀念小时候您给我扎马尾辫的时光。但梳着梳着，我发现您的双手抬高十分吃力，透过玻璃我发现您的头顶又多了一些白发，心中不禁一阵酸涩。

岁月匆匆，很多事情会随着时间的流逝而淡去，但是您给我们的爱，是永远不会消失的!您的爱，就像天边的太阳，时刻温暖我心;您的爱，犹如大海，无边无际;您的爱，就像万年冰山，晶莹剔透。在这里我要祝您身体健康，愿你万事无忧!母亲节快乐，妈妈!

爱你的女儿

张宁宁

16 May 2006

Dear Mr. Williams,

Thank you for your letter of congratulation on my exam results. I was very pleased to hear from you. The results were a great relief. I did much better than I thought I would.

We are having a celebration party on Saturday 22 May and we shall be pleased if you can come. It is a party for me, but my parents and some of their old friends are joining in, so you will find

The party starts at half past six- drinks, and a buffet supper later. You said in your letter that youve given up driving, so my father will meet you with the car at San Mateo station. Please let me know what time your train arrives.

There is a good train back to San Palo at 10:30 and well arrange transport for you to catch that. I hope that wont be too late for you. It would be a pity if you had to leave while the party was still in full swing.I do hope that you will be able to come.

Yours sincerely,

Lily Chen

亲爱的女儿：

昨日你们领孩子回来，午饭时因看电视发生孩子不听话，而俩大人在教育孩子的问题上发生争吵，不仅饭没吃或没吃好，而且弄得全家人都不愉快，象这种事情以前也有过。往往和谐的氛围一瞬间被孩子闹腾得荡然无存!究其原因大人应该很好反思，如何在教育孩子问题上下下功夫。不然后续的问题还会很多，孩子教育不可不提高到一个高度来认识!两天过去了，我俩老人心情始终不能释怀，孩子成长几年来，但凡出现不听话或闹腾时，当面你俩大人的意见老是不统一不一致。不能共同对孩子进行教育，而是你俩往往不冷静，意见分歧，争执不休，或一个人在教育孩子另个人总不能不管或管帮倒忙。我们的心情也随之而波动，说也不是不说也不是，久久不能平静，心里不好受。孩子从小就倔强，我们承认有天性，但后天教育不可或缺，要用适合他的办法进行加倍努力教育才是。

平时无论咋说咋好，偶遇有些事孩子就会犯浑，执拗任性。已经六岁半多一个月了，暑假后就要上小学了，说闹腾起来谁说都不听，而且正所谓头脑一热不顾一切，这跟平时娇惯溺爱分不开。遇事大人要理智和睿智，处事不惊。当一方正在教育批评孩子时，另一方决不能袒护，更不能有一点怜悯之心，要么不说话，要么一致对孩子。而你们俩在处理孩子无理取闹的问题上，给我们的印象觉得总是一个人在打一个在护，生怕孩子吃亏似的。孩子他也在观察你俩的行为和态度，心里觉得总有一方要向着或护着我，我可随意闹腾，最终能达到我的要求和满足，下次何不再闹呢?最终导致他固执不听话，受害的是孩子。孩子的坏毛病养成某种程度上都与大人不当的教育有关，那怎么能行啊?

当孩子出现倔强、反抗的行为时，父母应避免使用权威的口语或方式来教训孩子，而应拿出一点“办法”来。有时不仿“冷”处理。首先深呼吸，不要让自己跟随着孩子的生气情绪，然后试着和他讲道理，教他学会尊重别人，并学会控制自己的情绪。父母的干预越多，孩子倔强的脾气可能越强烈。当孩子在闹脾气时，有时是带点试探的性质，父母表现得越在乎，他可能越过分、越哭闹。所以在不会影响到其他的情况下，有时哭的时候就试试让他哭个够，等他安静下来后，再去处理。大人意见要保持高度一致，决不要给孩子留下任何一点依靠的空间或留有错误不改的余地。

当一个人教育的时候，即便是大人错了也不能当孩子面去说另个大人。更不能当着孩子面俩大人去吵。拿昨天来说，即是他爸爸打孩子两下，孩子的妈妈也不可当面去说孩子的爸爸：什么我说他时你说他干吗之类的话。无形在孩子幼小心目中就是怂恿了孩子，让小孩认为妈妈是向着我的，爸爸是不好的，不听爸爸的，要相信父母任何一方教育孩子都是为他好。遇到有些事不但要给小孩讲明害处的道理，而且必须有些强制措施，辟如昨天孩子看电视，到点了必须关，而且吃了饭他又再次打开电视，还是不对的，这时无论如何大人必须让他关机。结果当孩子看了播过去的节目后又哭了一场。合理要求可以满足，也不能时时满足，将来在社会上经不起打击。

另外有些话不能当着孩子说，辟如他爸爸说我可以买电视我还能给砸了，你不是刺激孩子听了后会学吗?不行我也会去砸东西的。昨天就是很好的例子当姥姥在小屋单独教育他时也不听，最后把床头灯拨倒、把中厅坐镦拨倒、把床凉席掀折。他再长大会不会做出更过分出格的事呢?昨天就看到你吵孩子时，孩子就伸手去打你，这还了得，完全不知哪些应该做哪些不能做或坚决不能做!在教育孩子问题上，由一两岁至六岁多，每每我们回想起来总是五味杂陈、百思不得其解。现在的孩子成长中有些过极举动总让我们老一辈感到不可思义，难以理解。三岁看大七岁看老，势必有些行为会影响孩子一生。我们可能是把问题看的太严重了，但要反思在教育孩子问题上存在的不足。曾思考过：孩子有先天性的、独生子女的弊端、后天的教育问题、加上现在受电视电脑手机影响、另外人类的进化孩子都有与生俱来的倔犟，但不管怎样找到最好的办法把孩子养育好、教育好这才是最大的成功。

以上是我们一点看法，可能有些偏面，与你们商榷，目标只有一个希望孩子能够很好地成长，因为他的路还很长。

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