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自信是人生之花,它让你平凡的人生绚丽多彩;自信是一种美,让你在人群中脱颖而出;自信是一种人生态度,它让你昂首挺胸,随风远航。接下来是小编给你们带来的一些关于感谢朋友的英语作文以信的方式优秀作文,供大家阅读参考,希望你认真看完,会对你有帮助的!

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给朋友的一封信

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我的好朋友郑__

您好:

曾经,我曾经是一个不爱说话,乏味,不活泼,容易生气,脾气暴躁的人。当我读二年级的时候,才进了这个学校,同学们每天看见我都是一张苦瓜脸,都远离我,不愿跟我玩,背地里还常常说我坏话。

但是,当我遇见你,我的性格特点就完全变了。记得,那时我刚遇见你的情景。我和你的家离得很近。有一次,。我一眼望去,就看见了你,你骑着自家的自行车在门口玩,你那滚实的腰上圆圆地凸起一块大肚皮。我觉得你是一个邋遢的人,心里就十分厌恶你。看你骑的那么开心,我心里想:如果我也能像他一样会骑自行车的话,那该多好啊!但是,你肯定不会教我骑自行车的,不过这时你停下车来,走到我跟前,温柔地对我说:“你会骑自行车吗?”我摇了摇头,“我教你吧!”虽然我很想学,但是我一般不和朋友一起玩,所有犹豫了一下。你像是我肚子里的蛔虫,二话不说,把我拉到车旁,叫我坐上去,教我骑车的方法。你扶稳了车头,我双手死死抓住车把,双脚麻木地踩在踏板上。此时我手掌里全是汗水,手腕儿不停地抖,心在怦怦地直跳。你一手帮我抓紧车架,一手扶着我,说:“向前看,全身放松,用力蹬踏板。好,走了!”你扶了一会儿,我看见你眉毛慢慢地变成了八字,我知道你的手已经很酸了,你却一声不吭。我一次又一次地失败,你一次又一次地鼓励我,使我心满满,最终学会了骑自行车……

你每天都故意来陪我玩,陪我说话,和我谈心。就这样,我的性格慢慢地变了。变得活泼,不爱生气,也爱讲话了。(班里有人甚至叫我“啰嗦老太婆”)同学们都走进我,牵起我的手,陪我玩游戏。在这里,我要真诚地对你说声:“谢谢,谢谢你走进我的内心世界,把活泼。可爱的郑情雪,给带出来。

祝您:事事如意,学习进步!

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篇1:写给朋友的一封信

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亲爱的台湾小朋友

你们好!

我是一名浙江金华的小学生,我知道你们台湾有风光秀丽的日月潭,有神奇迷人的阿里山,还有藏宝丰富的故宫博物院。那你们有听说过金华吗?现在就让我来介绍一下,使你们也能了解金华。

金华是个历史名城,名人辈出,有诗人李清照、张志和,画家黄宾虹,医学家朱丹溪,文学家宋濂等。

我们金华有许多名胜古迹,例如北山的双龙洞。进入景区,首先映入眼帘的是一个广场,广场边上竖着一块碑,上面写着“金华双龙洞风景区”。再走进里面一看,哇,有个大瀑布。走到双龙洞洞口,就能看见两条龙,好像在说:“欢迎你们来到双龙洞玩”。走进外洞,外洞很宽阔,在外洞深处看见了几条船,只有坐上船才可以进里洞。坐这些船可不能和平时一样坐,你得躺着,只有躺起来才能进去。如果你稍微抬点头,你就会嗷嗷大哭起来,因为你的鼻尖碰到了岩石了。进入里洞,里面有很多形态各异的钟乳石,那可都是经过几万年甚至更久时间积累的呀,再配上人们丰富的想象,赋予这些钟乳石以神秘的色彩。从双龙洞还可以直通冰壶洞,冰壶洞有两个大小不一的子母瀑,洞中之瀑声音震耳,气势更加雄壮。双龙洞附近,还有桃源洞,朝真洞等等,它们是洞连着洞的,很有意思,等你们来体验。

金华的景区除了双龙洞还有诸葛八卦村,地下长河,仙华山等等。现代崛起的还有义乌的国际商贸城,东阳的木雕城,横店的影视拍摄基地,等等。

除了玩的,我们金华还有丰富的地方特产呢,比如香气四溢的佛手,风味独特的火腿,香酥可口的酥饼,十里飘香的红糖等。

亲爱的台湾小朋友,听了我的介绍,你们对金华有些了解了吗?你们想了解得更多更深吗?那么就请你们到金华来吧!相金华不会让你失望,祖国不会让你失望,我在这里等着你哦,不见不散!

此致

敬礼

金华的朋友:吴赛雅

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篇2:英语封信

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My friends and I have planned to do something interesting. We write down

our future wishes and put them in a bottle. Then we exchange the bottles, making

it as our secrets. We make a deal to take it out five years later and see if we

have realize our dreams. No one knows what will happen tomorrow, but we are so

looking forward to the moment when we open the bottles.

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篇3:英语封信

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Now I am ten years old, I always wish I can grow up soon, so that I can

make my own money. With the money, I can travel around the world and learn a lot

of culture. I want to know more about the world. So I have read many books about

travel. When I grow up, I can start my journey.

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篇4:给英语老师的一封信

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亲爱的邓老师

您好!

最近工作愉快吗?我很想您,我最喜欢英语了。自从您开始教英语时,我的成绩从来都是90分以上。有一次,我考了97分,您奖给了我一个本,当您说;“李佳仪,这次考的不错!”时,我非常高兴,我一定要继续努力!

邓老师,我最不喜欢星期三。因为,那天没有英语课。还有一次,您让我们给们您写纸条,……第二节下课你叫我到你办公室,抱着我笑着说:“这里的作业确实很好,我什么时候对你不理睬了?”我嘻嘻的笑了两声。您经常跟我拉手,您的手多么光滑,多么柔软。老师,您在我心中是最好的老师,我最喜欢您了!

祝您越来越年轻,越来越漂亮。

您的学生:李佳仪

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篇5:给感谢的人一封信英语

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Dear______,

I am writing to extend my sincere gratitude for _________ (感谢的原因). If it

had not been for your assistance in ___________ (对方给你的具体帮助), I fear that I would

have been_________(没有对方帮助时的后果).

Every one agrees that it was you who______________(给出细节).Again, I would

like to express my warm thanks to you! Please accept my gratitude. Yours

sincerely

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篇6:他写了一封信给我英语

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Dear Sir,

I was very interested in your advertisement in todays edition of The

Evening Post and I should like to apply to be a member of the Amazon Expedition

team.

I am twenty-three years old and have an honors degree in Botany from Bath

University. Since leaving university I have been working in a research

laboratory but my contract comes to an end in six weeks. I would particularly

like to join the expedition for the opportunity it would give me to study the

plant life of the area.

I enjoy several outdoor activities including rowing and rock climbing and I

consider myself to be both fit and healthy enough to undertake such an

expedition.

If you would like me to attend an interview, I would be able to come at any

time convenient to you, (J1) my employers have agreed to give me time off for

the purpose. I look forward to hearing from you.

Yours faithfully,

Lily Ma

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篇7:给好朋友的一封信

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亲爱的小铭:

光阴似箭,日月如梭。转眼间六年的小学生活就要过去了,而我们也即将分别,在这几天里,我的脑海中时时会映现出平日里我们快乐融洽地生活的情景。

在小时候,我不明白什么是真正的朋友,总会想“朋友是什么?”“谁是我最好的朋友?”百思不得其解。而就在我遇到你的那一天,我拥有了一个知心的朋友;在我们相处的六年中,我真正的体会到:朋友是在友谊中形成的。朋友是泥泞中一只扶持的手;朋友是岔道口一个引导的箭头;朋友是遇到挫折时一句温暖的话语;朋友是迷惑时一个肯定的回答;朋友是干渴时一杯清凉的水;朋友是疲倦时一声惊蛰的春雷。

友谊如一帆小舟,承载着我们遥远的梦想,“海内存知己,天涯若比邻”就算岁月在年轮上刻上了无情,印下了一道道的皱纹,我们依然追寻着那心中的海,直到到达那个向往的彼岸……

在我们共同奋斗的六年中,我们之间建立了纯真且没有玷污的真正的友情,它胜过一切,是任何东西都无法侵犯的。在这六年中,有困难,我们一起战胜;有任务,我们一起承担;有快乐,我们一起分享;有成绩,我们一起庆贺。我们为了共同的目标走到一起来,快乐地学习,快乐地生活。

听,秋正迈着轻盈的步子,走向了田野。秋天,比春天更富有欣欣向荣的景象;秋天,比春天更富有灿烂绚丽的色彩。瞧,麦穗在阳光下闪动着,秋风在稻海中打着滚儿。在秋天里大地变成了一望无际的金色海洋,空气里到处都弥漫着股股芳香。秋天,在这美丽的世界里微笑着,这微笑是收获的喜悦,是对未来的期望。亲爱的.朋友,你听到秋天的声音了吗?你看到秋天的微笑了吗?

临别之际,我想对你说:“很感谢你给予我的无限快乐。虽然我们即将分别,告别多彩的小学生活,但我们将迈入一个崭新的天地,在那里我们将为下一个秋天的收获而努力!”

记住吧,记住自己该记的:那一段段朝夕相处的美好时光!

祝你

学习进步,天天开心

__

年月日

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篇8:写给朋友的一封信

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朋友

您好!

还记得我们是怎样相识的吗?那是一段很难忘的记忆啊!至少对我是这样的。

记得那段时间,我一直在网上找师父,遇到了一些网友,其中就有你,而和你之间的缘分应该是很深的吧。记得我们第一次在QQ上聊天,就是因为彼此的“愿力”相仿而让我差一点把你当成了“师父”的。记得当时我们说要一左一右把住地狱的门,不让众生进入地狱的!我当时好感动,好激动啊,因为这就是师父的愿啊:“为了不让如父如母的众生下地狱,卡萨情愿地狱属于我一个人!”这也是我的愿啊!就是因为有着这样的愿,因为被师父这样的愿所感动,这些年跟随师父修学,不敢有丝毫的怠慢,只是自己愚笨,差得太远啊!唯有低头紧跟,生生世世不敢掉队。。。。。。

时隔几年,再和你谈起修行,你似乎是那么的不屑,而我却越来越感到“如履薄冰”!你说你早就皈依了,已经不怎么去寺院了,也不谈什么修行了,你只要自由自在地过好自己的生活,其他人和你有何干?而我却越来越感到周围的一切都是和我们息息相关的,我们都是一体的,缺一不可的!是的,我几乎没有去过寺院,但是我所皈依的是那个真正清净无染的菩提心,我所证悟到的是匍匐在道路之上,与道的融合,任由后来人从我身上踏过去,继续前行!。。。。。。

虽然我知道人各有因缘,不能勉强,但是我多么希望你能和我们初相识时一样,以自己最初的愿力为动力,努力修正自己,早日识得自心,要知道觉悟之后,才是我们修行的开始啊!我多希望我们能肩并肩地一起走下去啊!师父所传的释迦正法就摆在那里,这么好的实相佛法,为什么你就不能静下心来好好体会一番呢?要知道人身难得,得闻正法更难,现在我们遇上了,这是多么殊胜的因缘啊,多希望大家都能来实证一把啊!要知道,有的时候,机会错过了,真的就没有了,到那时再后悔,是多么可怜,可惜,可悲的事情啊!

时间关系,我就先写这么多吧,希望你,也希望其他的有缘人,不要再错过得闻正法的机会了,大家赶快抓紧机遇,抓紧自己这一生的因缘,努力修正自己,争取早日解脱吧!

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篇9:英语封信

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On the top of the mountain hill there lived a little boy called Marlin. He

was a jolly fellow that helped people when they were in need.

The only problem was, whenever there was somebody in need, he would give

them something to eat and to solve their problem. The people in his country soon

became sick of this, and so wanted him to stop. But Marlin just won’t; and went

on helping and helping and helping… nobody knew when he was going to stop, or

when they were going to let him know that they didn’t want him to bother all

day. Ugh, but Marlin wouldn’t stop; all day long he helped this and that, the

problem was that people don’t want to mordacity him, and so said that he was

very kind.

One day, Marlin saw a boy crying, and said, “Hey there little one; don’t

cry, I, the super Marlin is here! And I am going to solve your problem!” “I want

a music box,” at these words, Marlin was astonished, “A-a music b-box?” “Yes,”

replied the boy jumping happily, “But my parents won’t buy me one. It is at the

shop near Sunshine school. I hope to get me one! Wahoo!” Marlin said, “I

couldn’t afford a music box! It is worth $100!”

Marlin was very sad, but also wanted to try, for he was the king of

everything, and helps save the day. He ran to his house, and counted his money,

but found out that he only had $10. He was now very, very angry. He had decided

to earn more and more money, and so to help that poor little boy. As he had

promised, he worked very hard to earn money. Although he was juts a little boy,

he ought to do what he had said; for those are the rules. And when he had enough

money, he would buy the music box, and hand it to that poor boy.

Marlin did anything he could to earn money: Sweep the floor, clean his

room; grow plants, water them, and cut flowers for the house. When he had

already $90, he had decided to help other people. When it was already winter, he

took a shovel and helped his neighbors, friends to shovel snow; and they paid

him a great deal of money.

At last, Marlin had got enough money; he was so excited that he hopped here

and there ten times! Finally, he went to the store near Sunshine school, and

bought the music box, and then handed it to the same boy at his home. Marlin

soon became famous, and he was called, ‘Marlin Blavatsky.’

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篇10:给朋友的一封信

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亲爱的__:

你好!

这个学期,你过得还好吗?学校环境有什幺变化吗?你的学习成绩怎幺样?身体还好吧?

我已经好久没有看到你了,好想你呀!我们什幺时候才能相见?记得在四年级与你们星子蓼花小学开展的“手拉手”活动中,我们曾经在一起快乐地玩耍过,开心地嬉戏过……我永远也不会忘记我们一起度过的美好时光。

亲爱的__,你还记得我们在一起的快乐情景吗?那时我们一起在鄱阳湖的沙子堆里踩沙子,一起在沙子上照相,一起在你们蓼花小学玩耍,一起互送礼物。现在回想起来,那段日子真是美好啊!真希望你还能和我一起玩耍,希望你能来我们家玩,希望能与你一起看一看甘棠湖,游一游八里湖……欣赏我们大九江的新风貌。

哦,对了!你们家有电视吗?能收看到九江叁套吗?我最近参加了“九江叁套”的“谁比谁聪明”,可能会在里面露一小脸哦。看到我了,你一定要为我加油哦!

__,我们第一单元的作文是给“手拉手”小伙伴写,正好借这次机会,希望我和你们多交流,了解你们有什幺需要的。你们的衣服够吗?被子暖吗?如果有困难的话,我会尽力帮助你的。

祝学习进步!

你的朋友:___

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篇11:英语封信

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Our school holds the sports meeting today.There are a lot of students and

they are very happy.The athletes are very nervous. They take part in the high

jump,long jump and so on. The competition begins.The students run very fast on

the playground.The others are saying come on to their classmates and couraging

them. We lost the game at last,but we are still very happy.

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篇12:英语封信

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Yesterday afternoon, the clear sky. Come straight home after school, I, on

the edge of a road, I saw a group of pretty much thing is slowly moving, curious

I went over to look, boom! Are a group of flies dispersed in a hubbub, odor, I

quickly cover your nose, hurriedly escape, only to hear the sound of a

squeaking, a big, fat rat quickly into odour plumes of garbage, suddenly, two or

three big black cat rushed out, to the mouse. I turned pale with fear, quickly

get out, I was happy mood was thrown to the outside of the nine days into the

sky, I hate people who litter, only now is, they put a good road. I went on

weakly, those people if one.

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篇13:给外国小朋友的一封信

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亲爱的外国朋友

你们好!你们肯定不认识我,不过没关系,当邮递员带着这封,飞过千山万水送到你手里时,你就会知道我是一个中国小女孩。

我是一名龙的传人,我的故乡在中国,中国是一个历史悠久的文明古国,在这里,人们过着幸福安康的生活,做着悠闲自在的工作,这里是一个没有战火的国家。我们国家人口众多,资源丰富,这里山清水秀,绿树成荫,真可谓是山美、水美、人更美。

我国的万里长城好像一条巨龙,蜿蜒在祖国辽阔的北方,它跨越浩瀚的沙漠,翻越巍峨的山群,穿越茫茫的草原,连绵起伏,雄伟壮观是世界上罕见的奇迹之一,它西起嘉峪关,东至山海关,全长6000多千米。

我国还有两条神奇的大河—长江、黄河。长江从沱沱河开始,经安徽、湖南、上海等省、市、自治区,最终注入东海,全长6300千米,是一条名副其实的“长河”;黄河是中国第二大河,是闻名世界的万里巨川,经甘肃、四川、山西等九个省区,全长5464千米。

亲爱的外国小朋友,我们国家的名胜古迹繁多、景色怡人、人们热情好客,几天几夜也介绍不完,有机会一定到中国来做客,看看我们伟大的祖国。

祝你们身体健康、学习进步

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篇14:英语封信

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I like reading books so much. My parents have bought me a lot of books when

I was three years old. They want me to be interested in reading. With my

parents’s education, I am very interested in novel books and I want to write

novels someday. I have come up with some idea, soon I can finish one.

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篇15:向朋友表示感谢英语作文

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假设你叫Liu Yan,初中三年,你与同学们在一起学习、参加各种活动,相互帮助,彼此之间建立了深厚的友谊.校园网的英语论坛开辟了 “Thank you letter” 专栏.请按下面的要求给你的同学Ling Feng写一封感谢信.注意:1.这封信要表达你对Ling Feng的感谢;2.信中要简述感谢Ling Feng的原因,适当举例,并谈谈自己的感受。

提示词语:thank you, at the end of , kind, forget, help… with, stay in touch

范文:

Dear Ling Feng,

I would like to thank you at the end of our middle school education. You have been very kind and helpful since we knew each other.

You have given me so much help that I will never forget. Last term, I caught a bad cold and had to stay at home for a week. When I was worrying about the lessons, you came to my home after school and helped me with every subject. With your help, I didn’t fall behind others. Since then, we have become very close friends. I think I’ll try to help others just like you.

Thank you again. Even though we may go to different schools, I’ll always stay in touch with you. I wish you success for the future.

Yours,

Liu Yan

[向朋友表示感谢英语作文

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篇16:英语封信

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Animals are our friends, they live together with us on the same planet, we

should take care and protect them, and they let us know we do not know many of

the knowledge.

When we want to animal fur and all the time, until you want to protect you

when they have been cruel extinction, and animal protection is to protect

ourselves.

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篇17:英语封信

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l am a pupil,l usually get up at six oclock.Then l wash my hands and my

face,clean my teeth. My mother has cooked A meal by seven oclock. After having

my breakfast,l must go to school. We do morning exercises at ten oclock. we

close school at half past eleven. We have luch at home. At two, we begin our

classes again. We all finish our lessons at half past four. We have to leave our

school. This is my day.

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篇18:写给英语老师的一封信圣诞节

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Dear teacher,

Hello!

It is also a harvest season and a safe season. On this special holiday, On behalf of all the students in the Class of Business School x, I would like to extend my most sincere holiday wishes to the teachers!

Time travel, the passage of time, in the blink of an eye we from a naughty child to sensible youth. Two years ago, it was the teacher who brought us to the university gate. In the past two years, we have felt the care of the teachers relatives.

As a Chinese saying goes, "teachers are teachers, so they impart knowledge and solve doubts". In the classroom, I can still see the busy figure of teachers. They impart their lifes knowledge to us without reservation and patiently teach us. I remember that one of our international trade professional teachers often give us lessons in sickness, listening to her hoarse voice so far I can not imagine; We did not have water to drink in the training room. She brought us water to drink by boiling it herself and took care of us like a kind mother.

"A day as a teacher, a lifetime as a mother," in the life of the teacher meticulous care to take care of us. Just entered the university we are not used to the university life, teachers often come to our dormitory to visit us and chat with us. I remember one time when a student in our dormitory got sick at 2 o clock in the evening. After dialing the teacher, the teacher immediately came to accompany him to the hospital. He didnt come back to school until 7 o clock in the morning. When we thank, the teacher said such a situation often happen, you do not need to thank, this is what we should do.

"Happy to go home, safe return to school" every holiday home, business school will be under the leadership of Secretary Xu visited each dormitory, exhort ten thousand safety first.

Out of the school, review the reading career bit by bit, campus events in mind. The heart of gratitude, the presence of exhibitors: do not forget the hard work of teachers, teachers do not respect the teachings. According to the preliminary understanding of the X class of business school internship situation is optimistic. Ask 13 classes of students, most of the number has been in the unit internship. There are internship in foreign trade companies, logistics companies internship also some in the factory tracking orders, like a large number of students chain classes are in the supermarket internship...... Different students are distributed across different industries. They are conscientious in their posts and study hard to live up to their teachers expectations.

Remember that President Wang once said to us: even if you go out of the school but the teachers and students love continuous, always depend on; On campus, you are proud of your school. On campus, the school is proud of you. We will return the teacher with excellent results, live up to the teachers expectations of us.

"Spring silkworm to the death of silk, wax torch ashes tears before dry", looking back yesterday, looking forward to the Ming Dynasty, we thank the teacher for our dedication. Finally to all the teacher sincere tunnel 1: "hard work, teacher!" And I would like to express my highest respect to you! May teachers flourish and peaches and plums fragrance all over the world!

advance

Salute!

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篇19:给朋友的一封信

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亲爱的__:

你好!

首先,做个自我介绍。我呢叫__,家乡在遂宁市,现在在高升实验小学就读。我呢,是一个活泼开朗的女孩子,特点呢,就是爱笑,笑起来脸上就会若隐若现地出现两个小酒窝。我爱看书,书中的每一个文字都像会说话似的。我也喜欢写作,一支笔,唰唰地挥写出我最真实的心灵。我最爱的那就是交朋友了,我的身边有许多的朋友,希望你成为其中一个哦!

我住在遂宁,她虽然小,但我却深深爱着她。一草一木都蕴含着我的情感。这里有观音湖,观音湖看上去很静,可它却在缓缓地流淌着;还有中央商务区,中央商务区中样样都有,你想要什么,那么就有什么,在河东还有湿地公园呢,那儿有树,有草坪,有湖泊,美不胜收。欢迎你到我的家乡做客,如果你来了,我就带你参观完遂宁所有的景点,尝遍所有美食。

你的家乡又有怎样迷人的风光呢?给我介绍一下,让我大开眼界。

你又是一个怎样的女孩子呢?你是否也与我一样有着一双大眼睛呢?听我以前的同学——范__说,你是一个成绩不错的女孩子,也有点儿像我,十分活泼开朗。还了解到呀,你有一个平凡而伟大的梦想——好好读书,将来考上大学,挣了钱之后就好好地孝敬父母。是呀,这何尝不是每一个做儿女应当做的呢,也就是有了这,我就想和你交朋友了。你或许会奇怪,为什么我俩又不认识就要交朋友呢?我呀就是这样一个热情的人。你愿意和我交朋友吗?

如果咱俩交上了朋友,一起在外面玩耍,是多么美好的事呀!最后请你一定要给我回,一定!

祝你:

天天开心!

你的朋友:__

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篇20:给朋友的一封信

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卫东:

发生这样的事情,是你我都不愿意看到的事情,那天从裴寓所回来的路上,我的心里很复杂,我说抽空给你写点东西说明一下,一直没有抽出时间。至到今天你给我打电话,才使我有精力集中半个小时时间把自己心里的话倒出来。我与你的想法一样,觉得没有必要去给一个立场和观点有很大差别的人解释什么。上帝把她给了我,我更多的是一种责任。我是一个很自责的人,凡事总爱检讨自己,这样的事情也不例外。我越来越觉得,从咱们两人认识的第一天起,我就认为我们之间的关系不是利益关系,而是纯粹的朋友关系。说一句你可能认为很不舒服的话:我根本就没想从你哪里得到什么实际的物质利益,因为你所给予我精神上的支持远远大过物质利益,这些精神利益是远远不能用物质的东西来衡量得了的。这是我的真心话。基于以上想法,也就决定了我们之间的友谊只要与物质利益掺和在一起,必然造成损失,最终两败俱伤。作为我在地方最重要的也是最真诚的朋友(我原来曾不至一次地说过此话),我想给你说明一下你可能认为不合适的问题。如果你认为我与你的关系没有达到可以毫不顾忌地批评对方的程度,或者说有为自己辩护之嫌。你全当我以下的字是胡言乱语。我宁愿就这样淡淡的了结,在内心痛苦地消化,也不愿失去你这样的朋友。朋友以诚为,承诺意味着一种责任。也许你是随口而出,不认为是什么承诺,但对于我来说,我是认真的。承诺并非一定能够做到,即使是亲人你也没有理由要求对方不顾一切条件履行承诺,作为朋友这是完全可以理解,但必要的解释是可以化解所有的变故,必要的解释胜过无可奈何的推拖,甚至连放弃承诺都能得到理解。何乐而不为呢?也许你不愿让我失望,也许你即使受委屈也要诚心帮助于我,但我觉得这大可不必。我要是眼睁睁地看着朋友为解已难而难时,我的心里是非常不舒服的,正如那天我从你手中接过(或者叫要过)那个信封,并听你说这几天把余下的钱补齐时,我的心隐隐作痛。以你我这么多年的交情,你又何苦呢?你连承认自己的困难,没有这个支付能力的勇气都没有吗?说到底,你应该对我有所了解。对于这场插曲,我有四点认识:一是事情的本身给我们的友谊造成了一定的损失,我们应该面对,而不应谦谦君子似地回避。二是你我之间业已形成的共识并非这样一场小插曲就能改变得了的。如果是这样,今生今世我不会再有象你这样的朋友。三是朋友之间应以互相促进弥补为最大之益,而不是互相利用。四是朋友之间还是应以诚信为基,面子只能破坏友谊,而不能增进友谊。如果我说错了,我愿意商榷,但不是争吵。

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